I want only you F4M

[F4M] I Want Only You [GFE] [Reassurance] [Loving] [Lusting] [Porn-Detox?] [Cuddles] [Insecurities] [Safe] [No Sex] [A lot of Sex-Talk] [L-bombs]

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Please feel free to add your personal touch to this script and to modify it however you like. Also the pronouns can be changed to whatever gender and sexual preference, to make it suitable for everyone. I am not a native english speaker so if there is wording, that feels weird or unnatural to you, that's probably why. For the tone I pictured a soft pillowtalk vibe, with a pinch of realness.

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This is a request-fill, I would highly advise you to read it if you want to fill this script. You'll find the link in the script-post. I felt very inspired by that request, which also gave me a lot of material to work with and I tried to write something, that would give comfort. At the same time I wanted it to be honest and depict a realistic conversation between a commited couple. The elements, that contain opinions, likings and perceptions are my personal take on some topics, or they are inspired by the request, or they just make sense in that specific context. They won't be reflective of everyone's reality.
So if you want to change the script, please go ahead and put your own words into it, make it authentic. Improvise the hell out of it. It will most likely make it so much better.


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(You and your partner are just finishing with sex)
[moan/heavy breathing]
Baby? Hey are you crying?
Not look at you?
But baby I…..
You know what… we’ll just do this…
I’ll snuggle up on you and crawl into your arms
and you can just lay your head on me.
Cry it out, in my neck and on my shoulder,
I won’t look I promise.
I am just here and hold everything I can grab of you,
as tight as possible OK?
[deep breathing]

Babe it felt like you didn’t enjoy the sex as much.
Don’t get me wrong, you were getting me off pretty intensely [giggle]
but… I don’t know, did we do something that you didn’t like?
You were also much more quiet than usual.
Hmm, now you are being very quiet, too.
That’s ok baby, you don’t need to talk about it,
if you don’t feel like it.
You can also just lie here like this, I'm here.
I just want to tell you,
that I’ll always want to know, how you feel.
It’s so important to me and sorry,
that I wasn't picking up on this earlier.
You are *always* taking such good care of me.
So if I can make you feel any better,
in some way or another,
then please let me be there for you, baby.

I am aware that you opening up to me,
is pretty much the same, as taking a gun
and handing it to another person.
I know this fear of getting hurt.
We give each other the power to hurt us deeply.
Listen, I can’t promise you that I’ll never hurt you.
But I’ll always do everything I can,
to not let that happen.
You are doing the same for me baby,
you would never willfully hurt me,
Actually you helped me out in so many situations.

I said that I’ll be here for you, remember?
And I meant that, baby.
I can not imagine a situation, that would cause me
to stop loving you.
And I’ll always be there for you, no matter what.
Is there something, that will help you to feel safer?

[small Pause]
You want to talk about what’s going on?
Of course, hun I’m here and ready, take your time.
You are worried about me enjoying our sex life?
Why, how do you come up with that baby?
You’re afraid to not be enough of a man for me?
That I’ll find someone better, someone more attractive?

Baby don’t get me wrong, I take you very seriously.
And I know these feelings of not being enough,
they are dreadful.
But you are the only one I want to
have sex with, the only one I want to hold in my arms.
You are the one I love, so deeply.
I don’t feel a lack of anything.
Nevertheless, if that was the case, I would talk to you
and not try to fulfill my needs with somebody else.
So far, we managed to overcome every issue
that occurred, didn’t we?

You seem doubtful.
[small Pause]
Well I know that you are not doing that well lately.
That doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t tell you, though.
I am sure, that you can take it.
And you know me, right? I am a very practical girl.
I want to be with you and in order to have a healthy relationship,
we need to talk about stuff.
So, if I got a problem, I will tell you,
and I expect the same of you.
I am all yours, I *only* want to be yours, baby.

[Maybe some improvisation like cuddles?
It feels so nice being close to you etc.]

Something about this feels weird to me, though.
Where is all this coming from?
You watched too much porn recently.
Okay but what does that mean? What about it?
They all have huge dicks, women cheat,
the guys are ripped and always dominant.
OK I think now I am getting a bit better,
where you are coming from.

I’m so sorry babe, I didn’t mean to get so quiet on you.
I am just thinking, it all makes me furious.
Well, the image they are portraying of men in porn is so destructive.
That is the same for women but let’s focus on just men right now.
We need to get some things straight here,
because it’s such bullshit,
and I don’t want that to influence our relationship.
Baby please listen to me: The image that you have in your head,
it doesn’t have anything to do with me,
or with you or with us.

In media they are creating this illusion of what a man allegedly needs to be.
Please, don’t believe in these pictures.
The last fucking thing I want,
is you trying to be something for me,
which you are not.
I am into you baby, just as you are.
You are making me so so happy,
even when you can hardly believe that.
Come here, be close to me. Relax, my love.


[small pause]
Can I adress some of it? It's bothering me.
This image created of femininity and masculinity,
it hurts us all.
I think it’s courageous that you are
not giving into it, and that it is more important for you,
to be yourself than to conform to it.

And in reality, can't you see how much I love your body?
How I am aching to have your cock in my mouth?
To have it inside of me and to be all over you?
I always loved it.
There is no reason to worry about that. [chuckle]
Nothing is more sexy to me,
than doing things that make you feel lustful and good.
On top of that, you just know exactly how to push my buttons
and make me so horny and so insatiable for you. Mhhh

Also seeking for yourself, for your own true self,
is a treasure, that you carry in our relationship.
Even with all the pain it sometimes comes with.
I hope that you can validate yourself for it,
instead of seeing yourself as weak.

[Pause]
Yes you are right, I do like when you are dominant in bed.
But I also like when you can let go of control,
and let me live my wildness and fierceness.
The same way I love it, when we are both just in the moment.
When we lose ourselves in each other, so intimately,
so lovingly.
Then I always feel like there isn’t such thing,
as a dominant and a submissive anymore.
Power isn’t important in that moment.

You know I’m not against porn. I even like it sometimes.
Let me give you my take on it though,
because I believe that we should see it for what it is.
Most of it is made to make us get off, make us watch more of it,
and to sell.
So it will appeal to this common image of
masculinity and of femininity and to everything,
labeled as taboo right?
It is not showing real sex though,
let alone real relationships.
I know that is hard to believe sometimes,
because we just saw too much of it.
Baby look at me, please.
The image we are talking about,
is *not* what is getting *me* worked up.

There are so many things, that turn me on.
But above all what I enjoy, is having sex with *you*.
Every time I can enjoy you in a new way.
And it’s the best when I don’t have too many expectations about it.
Because then I really get to indulge in the moment, in *all of you*.
And there’s nothing that turns me on more than that.
Making you feel good…you making me feel so lustful…
Mhh even talking about that excites me.
We can have sex, that they don’t even show in porn, baby.
[kissing sounds]

I have a question for you.
What do you love about me, and what do you find sexy about me?
[small Pause] [Kissing sounds]
Thank you, baby. [chuckle]
See, you find my body so hot,
although I'm not what is considered a perfect woman.
And to you, our sexlife is about so much more,
than how submissive or dominant I am, right?
So why should it be like that the other way around?
We can have sex the way we want it, loving, kinky, playful, rough,
whatever we want it to be.
I will always help and enourage you to do what feels right *for you*, and for me, too.
It doesn’t need to look like the pictures implanted in our heads.

[more sexy voice]
Okay but now I am getting quite bit worked up already.
Tell me, what do you want baby?
What are you fantasizing about?
[small Pause]
Mhhh, oh my now you are making me wet.
That is so hot.
I love how intense you can be, baby.
It’s so sexy when you just show me that lust,
and those fantasies. [light moan]
When you are just your gorgeous self.


Let’s explore baby, but safely ok?
You always make me feel so good and desired and protected,
and I want you to feel the same way.
Take the pressure off your shoulders,
breathe and just be with me.
You deserve to feel good.
You are safe with me.
And most importantly,
you don’t need to go through everything alone.
Not any of that makes you less of a man.
I am so thrilled and so grateful that you are mine, baby.
That you are my, sexy, man.
I love you. Everything about you.