F4M I Accept Your Anxiety and Still Love You PTA

I Accept Your Anxiety and Still Love You
by Eric the Dreamer
inspired by MoirasFate

Tags: [first][ASMR][GFE][love][romance][wholesome][sweet][serious][performance anxiety][positive masculinity][cuddles][hugs][kisses][appreciation][reassurance][aftercare]

Synopsis: A caring girlfriend reassures her man she accepts his performance anxiety with love.

Visual inspiration: https://media.giphy.com/media/h8zgMx71gvP0c/source.gif

Suggested minimum time division: 2 minutes for intro + 8 minutes for cuddles = 10 minutes total

Please feel free to adjust diction and endearment to create your desired rendition.

There is space for optional but encouraged improv. Feel free to extend the audio length or make minor tweaks wherever.

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2.  [SFX]
3.  <Tone of voice>
4.  (Hints & notes)

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<somewhat anxious and concerned> [quick kiss]

Hey honey, I've been stroking you for a long time. The lube's gone dry. Are you getting close?

My wrists are pretty tired, but I'll keep going if you're nearing a climax. [pause]

Oh you're not close at all and maybe getting soft? [pause]

Yeah, you think you have performance anxiety? No worries, we can stop for now.

[rising and footsteps][tight hug]

<caring and uplifting>

Hey, sweetie. No please, don't turn away from me. [forehead kiss]

Look at my eyes and listen to me. You have nothing to apologize or feel ashamed for.

I accept your anxiety and still love you, as always.

Now come here. Let's get in bed. I want to hold you.

[shuffling and crawling into bed]

Hey please let me comfort you. Let's face each other and intertwine our legs. I want to hold you close.

[forehead kiss][tight hug]

Alright, where to start. Hey, I'm completely serious. Again, you do not need to feel sorry or ashamed for performance anxiety.

First off, you were amazing earlier when you fingered me for the first time. Remember, I showed you just how I like it and helped guide you into giving me a really satisfying orgasm. You're so sweet with me.

Second, I actually truly appreciate that we met as friends and then mutually liked each other. And that you want to take things slow and let us explore each other's bodies while we also get to know each other better as people.

Third, it is totally fine to not be able to come during your first time. Or anytime you try something new sexually.

People can get nervous during a new experience. Anxiety is totally normal. And you know I'm here for you, to give you all the support you want.

Alright, the last thing I'm going to say about sex is that tomorrow we can try again. My wrists will feel better, and you know I'll be extra eager because I want us to reach that milestone. [giggle]

(optional) Maybe I'll try using my mouth on you.

And seriously, I need you to know that what happened does not diminish you as a man or a person in any way.

I still love you, my sweet, amazing boyfriend. I've loved you ever since we became a couple.

So what do you say? [45-50 seconds of improv ASMR activities, featuring hair playing, face touching, gentle kisses, etc]

Yes, thank you for being transparent and sharing your feelings, truly.

Nowadays the media, radical ideologues, even people you know, sometimes dish out toxic sentiments on masculinity.

But I'm telling you, my man is way more than just a machine or bag of chemicals governed by if-then rules and hormones.

You don't need to be ready for sex at the drop of a hat, and you don't need to come on cue either.

If anything, showing your fears and vulnerability out in the open with me makes you an even better man and partner.

As if that's even possible, since you're already perfect for me. [giggle]

Seriously though, you know I always try to foster positive masculinity in your life and our relationship, so we can help each other grow and improve as individuals and soulmates.

I hope you feel reassured. Listen, I'm glad we got to level up our relationship today. And I love you so much.

Hmm you don't seem fully convinced. [laugh] No, I'm partly kidding. Regardless, I do want to reiterate how much I appreciate you.

[deep kiss] Let's start with your body. From your cute feet to your handsome face, I appreciate every part of you.

I like your legs, especially when we curl up together. And you even let me warm up my feet on them, you're so sweet. [giggle]

I like your tummy, it's so fuzzy and lovable. It's fun to run my hands over it and feel an intimate part of you.

I love your arms and chest, and how you always give me the warmest, coziest hugs ever.

I'm so lucky I can melt away all my worries and find relaxing peace in your embrace.

I love your eyes and the way you look at me with admiration and sweetness. Like now, our faces are so close, we're staring into each other's souls. [giggle][forehead kiss]

And of course I love your mind. It's what attracted me to you in the first place.

You're not only bright, caring, and kind, but also headstrong, determined to express your feelings and opinions.

And we're such a perfect couple mentally. We can talk about anything throughout the day. Our minds complement each other completely.

I hope you understand how much I appreciate and treasure you. You mean the world to me.

Now let me caress your face and give you sweet little kisses for a bit.

[~1 minute of improv ASMR activities and pillow talk]

Lovey, want to bond over some fun, thoughtful YouTube videos? I'll bring us lots of chocolate and wine to share.

And then we can cuddle some more and sleep together tonight. Another meaningful first. [laugh]

Remember, I'm happy we tried sexy time and talked today. And I look forward to falling asleep with you, in your arms.

I love you so much. [deep kiss][tight hug]