Upset at girlfriends excuses, when I am driving 2 hours to see her and she doesn't drive to me ever.

My GF and I were dating for about a year when she moved 2 hours away for her job. Since than I am the only one who ever drives to see her because she doesn't like driving. She recently drove 6 hours by herself to go to NYC to visit a friend. I confronted her and she refused to discuss it. I was supposed to visit her this weekend and was halfway there when she texted me that she had to grocery shopping and do other personal things tommorow so I should turn around.

Frustrated I broke up with her over text in response to that text and she immediately called and started begging for me to come and she was actually free and was just depressed at the moment. I told her I was going to have to think about it but i was really frustrated and if she wants to see me she can drive her ass to my place cuz im done wasting my time. She said she hates driving when i reminded her that she was more than willing to drive to new york city. I told her if she doesn't come see me this weekend our relationship is over and my venmo payments to her will cease immediately.

Help please