Me [34M] and my boyfriend [21M] have sex 3 - 5 times a day and he's just quit his job.

So I'm 34M and my boyfriend is 21M. We met about 18 months ago on that Seeking Arrangement website. After a few months chatting, he finally built up the courage to meet me. We did, and I instantly fell for him because he's quiet, shy and introverted (my three favourite traits). He's also the hottest / sexiest guy I've probably ever laid my eyes on. There's just something about his look combined with the shyness that makes me go wild.

The first time we had sex, it was like nothing else I'd ever experienced. We 'transcended space and time' you could say, and the feeling of those first few times are so etched in my mind - I doubt I'll ever experience such a thing with anyone else.  I'm top and naturally he's bottom.

Fast forward 18 or so months and the situation is somewhat unique. We're madly in love and we have sex 3 - 5 times a day, every day, without fail. Morning, sometimes twice, then after I finish work, and then before sleep - once or twice more. Needless to say we both sleep well after all that!

I'm in a very high paying job, so we decided he would quit his part time gig at a bakery so he can always be 'ready' for me (M on M sex requires a bit of prep for those who don't know). This way we never have scheduling issues any more because he doesn't have any shifts. It was his idea and I supported it because he loves being a stay at home partner and he also loves knowing that any time I want it, he can provide me what I want / need.

Few questions though. Firstly, is this all sustainable? We've kept up the pace of 3 - 5x a day for 18 months - with absolutely no sign of it fizzling out... but does anyone else have experience with such an intense (and long) honeymoon period? What might happen 5 - 10 years down the line?

And is this all fair on him? He gets to chill all day (which he loves and I'm fine with), but he's sacrificing work and / or building a career - for the sake of sex. And that's the most amazing thing ever and I love him for it... but should we really just tone it down a little and make space for him to work, socialize, etc so he's not missing out?

I'm 13 years older than him, he's just getting started out in life really... am I holding him back by being on board with the way we've structured our relationship?

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TLDR: BF quit his job so we can keep having sex 3 - 5 times a day, every day. We're both happy with this for now, but is it sustainable and healthy long term?