How do I(21M) deal with not being super attracted to my girlfriend(22F)?

My and Tracy have been together for 8 months now. She’s such a great person and partner, she the most caring and kind than person I’ve met. On paper we should be a great couple, she and I have similar interests, we have great conversations, and I love being around her.

The only thing is that I have never been physically or sexually attracted to her at all. I have been attracted to other girls and have wanted to sleep with a lot of women but I just don’t feel those feelings towards Tracy. I don’t think that I ever have. This is the first relationship I’ve been in and I thought that when I got a better emotional connection with her, I’d be attracted to her but no, I love hers, but I’m still not physically into her.

I try to make sure she doesn’t know how I feel about this. I compliment her, always look at her, and ask her for risqué pictures and rave over those. It’s kinda hard to do with sex, I typically don’t initiate, but she does a lot, it kinda feels like a job. Usually I think about something or someone who does turn me so I can get hard then just, do what I need to do to get her off. Then I have to think about that something or someone else to be able to finish.

This is getting exhausting. Like I said I love Trace and don’t want to break up with her. How do I deal with this?