I (22m) was worried GF (22f) was cheating so I hid in her closet during girls night.

I guess like this is all in the title and I have a feeling Reddit isn’t going to be too kind to me but I really screwed up and don’t know where else to turn.

I got some weird vibes from my girlfriend this week and when she said she didn’t want me to come over last night I was really concerned my worst fears were coming true. I was so panicked I decided to hide in a coat closet she never uses to see what was up.

It turns out she was just having a girls night and my girlfriend basically told her friends all the same issues she’s talked to me about (work, failing LSAT, gyno problems, etc…) and was even very complimentary of me. I felt super guilty so i figured i would just stay put until she went to bed then I would quietly leave.

Shit hit the fan when a friend spilled something and girlfriend told her to get the vacuum out of the hall closet (I was in the coat closet in the entry way). To my absolute horror the door opened and the friend screamed when seeing me.

My girlfriend was furious and I didn’t even try to lie. I said I was worried she was acting weird and I decided to spy on her. I sat there in an apartment of four women more humiliated than I ever have been. It’s a shame like I’ve never felt. My girlfriend just said fo Get out and never call her again. This morning she texted me that her dad and brother will be at her apartment from 3-5 and I need fo come get my stuff and bring hers over. That was all she said.

Is there any way I can recover this relationship ?