Here comes a long list. I'm lazy and this is copy pasted from modlist.txt:

Harmony | https://github.com/pardeike/HarmonyRimWorld
BetterLoading |
Wall Light |
Interaction Bubbles |
[WD] Realistic Darkness |
HugsLib | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=28066.0
Humanoid Alien Races 2.0 | https://github.com/erdelf/AlienRaces/wiki
Androids | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=35663.0
JecsTools (Unofficial) | https://discord.gg/AaVFA7V
Combat Extended | https://github.com/CombatExtended-Continued/CombatExtended
SF Grim Reality |
Dubs Bad Hygiene | https://github.com/Dubwise56/Dubs-Bad-Hygiene/wiki
Common Sense | none
Dubs Mint Minimap | https://github.com/Dubwise56/Dubs-Mint-Minimap
More Vanilla Turrets 1.1 |
Psychology (unofficial 1.1/1.2)  | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=34112.0
Two's Miniaturization |
Rational Romance 2 | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=51104.0
Simple Slavery [1.2] | https://github.com/MarkSill/Simple-Slavery
Androids Expanded |
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[O21] Seamless Embrasures |
[BLD] Quantum Cooling Redux | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=26590
Glitter Tech | >http://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=5509.0
Realistic Rooms | https://discord.gg/YhWA6uZ
Allow Tool | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=17218.0
Alpha Animals |
Animal Tab | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Area Unlocker | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
A Dog Said... Animal Prosthetics | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=46210.0
Blueprints | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Command Palette | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
[KV] Consolidated Traits | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=44577.0
Defensive Machine Gun Turret Pack | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=45727.0
Early Times | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=50374.0
[KV] Faction Control | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?board=15.0
Fluffy Breakdowns | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Follow Me | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Shield Generators by Frontier Developments | https://github.com/rimworld-frontierdevelopment/Shields/
Heat Map |
Medical Dissection |
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Medical Tab | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Mod Manager | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Moody | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=28690.0
Pharmacist | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
Rah's Bionics and Surgery Expansion | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=28731.0
Relations Tab | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
[KV] RimFridge | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=32980.0
RimHUD |
RimStory | https://github.com/m1st4x/RimStory/releases
[KV] Save Storage, Outfit, Crafting, Drug, & Operation Settings | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=34075.msg
Search and Destroy |
Spoons Hair Mod | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=46210.0
[KV] Weapon Storage | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=35503.0
Work Tab | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=16120
[1.1, 1.2] Holy Washer (Continued) | https://github.com/daffodilistic/HolyWasher
Combat Extended Guns | https://github.com/CombatExtended-Continued/CombatExtendedGuns
QualitySurgeon | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=28678.msg289089#msg289089
ResearchPal - Forked | https://github.com/VinaLx/RimWorld-ResearchPal
[KV] Adjustable Trade Ships | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=41309.0
Cold Desert Nights (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/ColdDesertNights
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Expanded Incidents (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/ExpandedIncidents
Faction Raid Cooldown |
Gun Nut - Community Pack | https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2268285121
[KYD] Igor Raid Mechanics for All Storytellers |
Quality And Durability |
RimBeast (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/RimBeast
Doors Expanded (Dev) | https://discord.gg/AaVFA7V
Dubs Performance Analyzer |
Replace Stuff | https://steamcommunity.com/id/Uuugggg/myworkshopfiles/?appid=294100
RuntimeGC | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=46581.0
Camera+ |
Subsurface Conduit |
Expanded Prosthetics and Organ Engineering | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=10571.0
Incident Person Stat |
More Than Capable | https://github.com/notfood/RimWorld-MoreThanCapable
[KV] More Trait Slots | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=45488.msg432745
Numbers | https://github.com/Mehni/kNumbers
RT Solar Flare Shield | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=11272
RunAndGun |
Show Draftees Weapon | https://github.com/duhranged/ShowDrafteesWeapon
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[KV] Show Hair With Hats or Hide All Hats | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=33575.msg342365#msg342365
Tech Advancing | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=22598.0
Trade Ships Drop Spot |
Damage Indicators [1.2] |
Level This! (Version 1.4: Plasmatic Configuloo) |
Turn It On and Off |
Snap Out! | https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1319782555
[KV] Trading Spot | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=33669.msg343859#msg343859
Ugh You Got Me | http://marvinkosh.omniloth.net
Export Agency |
Character Editor |
Elite Bionics Framework | https://github.com/Vectorial1024/EliteBionicsFramework
LWM's Deep Storage | https://github.com/lilwhitemouse/RimWorld-LWM.DeepStorage
Little Storage 2 |
[JDS] Simple Storage |
Netrve's DeepStorage GUI |
[JDS] Simple Storage - Refrigeration |
Cut plants before building |
Dubs Mint Menus | https://github.com/Dubwise56/Dubs-Mint-Menus
[FSF] Filth Vanishes With Rain And Time |
[FSF] Growable Grass |
Keep Bed Ownership |
Simple Search Bar |


> Races and Factions
[Pratt] WWII Weapons Pack (Vanilla) |
WWII German Uniforms - V's Edit |
WWII Soviet Faction |
WWII Soviet Faction - V's Edit |
WWII German Faction |
WWII Soviet Faction Tweaks | > Unreleased
Bun Race | https://github.com/Spanky-H/BunRace
Callistans(1.2) |
Lizardmen |
[Ry]Rimcraft Animals | https://discord.gg/9BJmqvX
[Ry]Rimcraft | https://discord.gg/9BJmqvX
[Ry]Rimcraft Allied Races | https://discord.gg/9BJmqvX
[Ry]Rimcraft Factions | https://discord.gg/9BJmqvX
Nyaron race |
Hisa Faction |
Trench Cats |
Astoriel |
Napoleonic Age (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/NapoleonicAge
DOOM - Factions (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/DoomFactions


> not essential but still good
Megafauna | http://megafaunarimworld.wikia.com
Mechanoids Extraordinaire | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=35058.0
Dinosauria | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=35678.0
Science Never Stops: Ambition of the Cosmic | public.FutureGadgetLab.net
Magical Menagerie |
Everybody Gets One | https://steamcommunity.com/id/Uuugggg/myworkshopfiles/?appid=294100
Mad Skills | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=11148
Vanilla Traits Expanded |
More Predators |
Endless Rimworld | https://github.com/jaschaephraim/endless-rimworld
Galaxy Life | https://ludeon.com/forums/index.php?topic=46210.0
[CP] Rimmu-Nation - Clothing | > tacticool ftw



> Hairs
Ameiro anime hairs |
[FGO]Fate Grand Order - Styles Apparel Pack |
FE3H Black Eagles Hair |
FE3H Golden Deer Hair |
FE3H Misc Hair |
Gloomy Hair mk2 | https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1870678335
Gw hair mod [hair only] |
Kan Colle hair style (Female)(continued) |
Lolidrop's hairshop |
[SS]Lovely Hair Style |
Ponytail is Kawaii (Continued) | https://github.com/emipa606/PonytailIsKawaii
[Uru] Rim Seraph hair |
Roo's Royalty Hairstyles |
Roppoi hair | https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1100547661
Won hair_women  |
Rimsenal - Rimhair |
Vanilla Hair Expanded |
Erin's Hairstyles - Redux |
[Ods] Mens Hair  |
[Ods] Womens Hair  |



> Coom
RimJobWorld | https://gitgud.io/Ed86/rjw
RimNudeWorld |
Rimworld-Animations | https://gitgud.io/c0ffeeeeeeee/rimworld-animations
RJW - RaceSupport |
RJWAnimAddons-XtraAnims | https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/13979-anim-addons/
Romance Tweaks More Options | https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/8731-romance-tweaks-more-options/
I Want Incest | https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/8731-romance-tweaks-more-options/
RimJobWorld - Licentia Labs | https://gitgud.io/John-the-Anabaptist/licentia-labs
OTY RJW Symbols |
Polyamory Beds (Vanilla Edition) |
Simple Polygamy |
OTY Sized Apparel/Chaeren's Female Apparel Hybrid |   RJW Discord


> good ideas but don't work in v1.2
SmeltDesignation |
Conduit Deconstruct | https://github.com/TheWireLord/ConduitDeconstruct


> useless and i will remove when this save is done
Vanilla Weapons Expanded - Heavy Weapons |
Vanilla Apparel Expanded | https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=1814987817
Vanilla Armour Expanded |
Vanilla Cooking Expanded |
Vault - LWM's Deep Storage Extension |