DB4

Love and relationships. - Daily Bread 4

Quests for Higher Light proceed in fullness.

Standards of humanity endeavors are raised and recognized.

Morillizations carry the weights, until they are released.

Heavenly Fires begin.

If you're at least visualizing enough to wonder whether or not you're doing it right, Manuel, you're doing it right, and you're way, way ahead of the game.

Yeee-haaaa!
   The Universe

Subject: “Love and relationships.”

Thought Adjuster: “The relationship of friendship and trust among the members of a human group always depends on the degree of love existing among the personalities that belong to the group. In a family, the love of the parents for their children and each other is what ensures and makes the relationship possible.

“Many families on your world have established a model of conditional love. As long as others meet their expectations love is given, but as soon as there is a misunderstanding or an imaginary aggresion is perceived, love is witheld. Then the relationship is practically interrupted until both parties decide to resolve the situation.

“This type of human relationship is the reason why so many of you have a hard time with the idea of unconditional love and to imagine how the Father can love all His children equally. Many of you don’t have an intellectual framework or a similar experience in your life which could serve as a starting point to be able to imagine a love truly unconditional, even divine.

“For this reason, the main mission of responsible parents who have awakened to the realities of spirit should be to become a revelation of the Father to their children and their families, in such a way that their children can early start to know about the goodness of God. The higher purpose of the human family is to be a representation of the eternal family, the Father and the Son working in complete harmony to the benefit and growth of their progenie.

“Those who have experienced a high quality love in their lives will be better able to understand their Father in heaven. Human beings do often come to understand the way in which their Father loves them when they themselves become fathers and mothers. Love for a mortal being will manifest in expanding revelations throughout their eternal career, but a deeper understanding while in this life will provide a great advantage for the adventures beyond this world.”

God said:
Beloved, who is to say that you are to be other than I made you? Who is it that dares to say you are to re-sort yourself or to be restarted? Who has the God-given right to decide for you? You are responsible for yourself. You are not at the will of everyone who believes he or she knows better. I made you. You and I, as One, made you.

Beloveds, I give you Free Will over yourself. You are not free game.

In a marriage ceremony, it is said: "Let no man take asunder."

Who is there to decide you are to change into someone else? Alas, often in the so-called world, for one reason or another or for no reason at all, you may decide you are supposed to be made in another's image.

Beloved, you have your identity that belongs to you. It is yours, not anyone else's. I say to everyone: "I made you in My Image. No one is to rewrite what I have written. Know every child of Mine as I set him forth. Let him be."

I never gave permission to anyone to take you over to be remodeled according to however he or she may deem to construe you.

Look, when you are in school, there are others whose ideas are forcibly set before you.

Of course, be courteous without giving your will away. Others are to give you free governance as well.

It is perfectly fine for you to be as you are instead of the way someone else wants to decide for you.

My Will be done.

It isn't My Will that you be taken over by anyone, no matter how well intentioned they may be. The most learn-ed person of personality on Earth isn't to juxtapose you according to his will.

Who in the world is to say that you are to be different according to his or her standards? Let not might be right. You are not to be subjoined.

Each soul has his sacred rights. At the same time, dear freedom-lovers, this isn't to say that you are sacrosanct. Yes, of course, you are free to take yourself into account. This isn't to say that you have the liberty to impinge on others at your will either.

Everyone is to be granted mercy and goodness. Freedom belongs to all.

Is there any argument here?

I repeat this theme of life to all: There is room at the Inn for all. No one is to be force-fed.

No one has the right to impugn on another what religion he must believe in. Why would someone cramp how someone else feels in his heart when there is room for all at the Inn? Beloveds, I do not cavort with ego. I say there is room for all. Is this not clear?

By what right does any other on land deign to take over another's heart of hearts? Who can assert over another what he ought to feel or think or believe? Where does this idea come from? Where does this idea come from as if it were a divine right? This is not a
consideration.

This looks a lot like bullying. To no other have I assigned the right to take over your mind and heart. I say no. I say you are to decide for yourself. No one is to decide that you are to be remade in his image. What moxie is this? I do not concede this right to anyone.

Dear, no one is to make up such decisions as if in My Name. All My Children are holy, including yourself, yes or no?

Not one of My Children is authorized to take over for even one of My other Children. Hands off. No one is authorized to take over for Me. You are each My Beloved. Be My Beloved. No one is to deem to take you over in My Name.

Subject: “About the Labor of Tough Love.”


“…the apparent cruelty of a perverse fate that heaps tribulation upon some suffering mortal may in reality be the tempering fire that is transmuting the soft iron of immature personality into the tempered steel of real character.” [UB, 1305:04].

Thought Adjuster: “It is said that truth hurts. Where does such a hurt come from? As one of its side effects, truth may initially bruise the prideful side of the small ego. It is not easy to be told about one’s shortcomings and weaknesses, as many of you are already acutely aware of the areas of your being that are lacking and tend to overlook them in a self- protection mode.

“Indeed, it serves you well to take seasonal stock of the pros and cons of your evolving immature persona. It is important to objectively look at both sides of the balance sheet — the credit and the debit columns, as it is the only productive way to devise a doable strategy to tackle the ‘red areas’.

“The underlying intention should ALWAYS be remedial — rather than instilling in you a sense of hopelessness for a task that seems way out of the league of your current abilities. Shame and guilt should not be allowed to squat in your mind for extended periods, even though they can be the harsh catalysts for positive initiatives that will instantly evict them to make room for more upbeat emotions with which they are incompatible.

“The Father understands you better than you understand yourself. He has in mind the glorious picture of our fully balanced personality. He knows where He is taking you. He knows that ‘what does not kill you makes you stronger.’

“Dear ones, it is unavoidable that there will be growing pains. They are not pleasant and cause you to shed tears. Yet, what a wonderful sense of pride will come over you once you can measure your character growth by carving a higher notch on the rim of your door! Indeed, by acting upon the truth as it is revealed to you, you are refining your being and, by Divine Alchemy; the Father strips you from unrighteous pride to bless you with its righteous counterpart, thus prompting you to keep collaborating in this labor of tough love.”