Ross - Today at 2:04 PM
I hve a question
smallprincee - Today at 2:04 PM
yes??
Ross - Today at 2:07 PM
I noticed you identify as "transgender" but at the same time, you use she pronouns for yourself and your transgender character, while at the same time mention that you have breasts and a vagina, and is very open about being transgender to begin with
Idk it kind of upsets me because in order to be transgender you need to be medically diagnoised with gender dysphoria, and someone who has that does not typically do these types of things. It just gives of a false definition of the word transgender. People who are trans have a literal medically diagnosible mental disorder, that hurts people, and often even leads to suicide
smallprincee - Today at 2:07 PM
woah
Ross - Today at 2:07 PM
I'm not attacking you or anything I'm just expressing my concern
smallprincee - Today at 2:07 PM
no no its fine
ok one, you do not need to be diagnosed with anything to be 'transgender'
Ross - Today at 2:08 PM
I'm just so sick of seeing people all over the internet using this disorder as a cool add on, fad, or accessory to a character
smallprincee - Today at 2:08 PM
it is a pesonal choice for most, not really something NEEDED to be gone to a doctor
i cant speak for most people on suicide but i have had no issue on that matter
me, personally, im starting to go with genderfluid because i do not wish to change my body completely
and my oc, YES SHE IS TRANSGENDER, but me i am forgetful and bad with it
Ross - Today at 2:11 PM
No, it is not. If you are transgender you are born with it, it is embedded in the brain as your sexuality. It is not something you can choose. To be considered truly transgender, and get OKd for Testosterone/Estrogen you need to talk with a therapist for at least 6 months, be diagnoised with gender dysphoria, and then you are truly seen as "transgender" and can then move forward with your transition. This is what the internet thinks it is, a choice. Gender is not a choice. Sexuality is not a choice. You are born with these things. Male, Female, Transgender. Those are the only three in my eyes. It is because of people who like to identify as trans, while not knowing the true definition of it, people will often believe that being trans is just another Tumblr term, not backed up my science, and is not something to believe, when in fact it is the opposite
smallprincee - Today at 2:11 PM
transgender IS NOT a mental disorder, it is a personal choice but it can be one but itsnot
no
its not
its a personal choice most people would not classify it as a disorder
a disorder is sth LITERALLY wrong with your brain
you have a very narrow mind set, no offense
Ross - Today at 2:12 PM
It is a mental disorder, you have to be medically diagnoised with it to continue wirth treatment. It is not a choice, and it is because of people like you genuine transgenders cannot get the help and treatment they need
It is an issue with the brain, it reacts more similarily to the opposite sex
smallprincee - Today at 2:12 PM
but many things are a choice
theres a thing called free will
Ross - Today at 2:13 PM
I only believe things backed up by science, not whatever Tumblr says you can and cannot have
smallprincee - Today at 2:13 PM
im not saying shit from tumblr im saying it from personal exprience and people ive known
and resaerch IVE done myself
Ross - Today at 2:13 PM
You cannot choose gender or sexuality. You are born with it. Although some factors may influence it, it is literally backed up by science that some of these things are true
smallprincee - Today at 2:13 PM
you are not correct there buddy but alright
Ross - Today at 2:13 PM
That you've done, not what literal doctors and scientists believe
smallprincee - Today at 2:13 PM
im not gonna bother with it
Ross - Today at 2:13 PM
You are the definition of tumblr
smallprincee - Today at 2:14 PM
oh mygod