What about men who marry for money and women who marry for beauty?
Can we stop thinking in these categories?
The problem is deeper than it may seem.
We are told about some kind of love that must necessarily end in marriage.
Everyone condemns people who pursue their own benefits in marriage
What is marriage in history?
Correctly. This is the usual deal.
Do you have to run religion and/or government into your personal life to love a person?
The institution of marriage is the main problem of the modern family.
This does not provide guarantees but only obligations.
And only the strong benefit from marriage and who is strong depends on society where it is a woman where it is a man.
My advice to you.
Think first of all about your health, financial situation, happiness and only then about who to pay alimony or from whom to expect a legal beating.