hoge hoge 7 hours ago mmmmmm.

hoge hoge 7 hours ago i don't know what i do that makes people i don't know dislike me so much.

hoge hoge 7 hours ago and i'm really tired of it. do i really come off as that bad?

KING STALFOS 7 hours ago What happened?

hoge hoge 7 hours ago nonfiltered: apparently the way i act on plurk and discord caused some problems??

KING STALFOS 7 hours ago That seems very odd.

excellent stabs 7 hours ago I... whuh? Where? Who?

goatforsaken 7 hours ago ?

goatforsaken 7 hours ago What's going on hon?

hoge hoge 7 hours ago rp drama. i think i've figured things out now but i'm just. i keep finding myself getting blocked and told that people are 'uncomfortable with my behavior on plurk/disco' and it's like.

hoge hoge 7 hours ago wow this isn't even the first time.

Goody Puff 7 hours ago I've given you my two cents on this, hon, but it still sucks massively and I'm sorry.  :-(

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 7 hours ago popular ppl get disliked by ppl due to jealousy

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 7 hours ago that's the only thing I can think of

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 7 hours ago Which isn't your fault. you just have a lot of ppl who DO like you

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 7 hours ago if you need someone to talk to tho, I'm always on gchat or disco

goatforsaken 7 hours ago Your NSFW plurks are marked and you don't ship push nsfw stuff in discord afaik?

hoge hoge 7 hours ago dear god no i do not

hoge hoge 7 hours ago thank you guys

trash king 7 hours ago ... was this for the vidya game Discord or RP? Did a mod type person say something?

ɪɴyan₂вreakғree 7 hours ago yeah this is pretty weird to me

hoge hoge 6 hours ago it was a mod thing yeah i'm just

hoge hoge 6 hours ago boy i sure am tired of being told 'btw people have a problem with you' and then no one telling me what that problem is because privacy

trash king 6 hours ago Tbh, I kind of have a pet peeve about people who approach others on behalf of others to just be like

trash king 6 hours ago yo you make people Uncomfotable but I won't say why

trash king 6 hours ago if this was a mod thing you're well within rights to ask... why... lmao

trash king 6 hours ago Otherwise what good is it of them to say a thing

ɪɴyan₂вreakғree 6 hours ago yeah that's not a good way to mod? if there's an issue they should tell you what the problem is so you can fix it

goatforsaken 6 hours ago Ask the mod for an actual outline of behaviour without naming names? You can't fix what you don't know

trash king 6 hours ago Yeah, I am just like, trying to imagine how this went, a mod pulls someone aside in a Discord and doesn't say why

trash king 6 hours ago that's Shady

trash king 6 hours ago I try to be fair-minded about this sort of thing. Even if someone is my friend, they might do something that makes someone else uncomfortable because people are people are rub each other weirdly. I've discovered total strangers I've never spoken to had me Plurk-blocked. That said

hoge hoge 6 hours ago it's basically just 'hey don't interact with these people' so. i'm ok. i'm pretty much calm now, just tired.

trash king 6 hours ago This is all shittily handled

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago Tbh if they're going to go about not talking things out with you and instead having the mods be like: yo don't interact with these ppl bc etc and etc, then you don't need them in your life

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago  Last edited @ 6 hours ago it's better to surround yourself with ppl who can be straightforward with you

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago esp bc sometimes it's hard for you to understand things if ppl aren't clear with you

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago so like good riddance to them bc you have the ppl who matter still in your life

trash king 6 hours ago I think also the more high profile you are, the more some will like and some will dislike you

trash king 6 hours ago You have a very big Plurk list and idk about Discord

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago ^^

Goody Puff 6 hours ago like I said in pms

Goody Puff 6 hours ago nothing of value was lost.

thunderchucker 6 hours ago i'm gonna say the thing you might not want to hear which is everyone isn't going to like you and it legit could be for some silly, trivial thing from they're having a bad day, you say literally one thing they don't like, or maybe they don't like your icons. but the good news is that that's just how it is, you know? it sucks and hobbies can suck for that-

thunderchucker 6 hours ago -reason but there's no need to well, assume it's any of the above which is a little extreme

thunderchucker 6 hours ago it's a big hobby even if people claim it's dying and for the most minor reaesons people will decide they dislike you or you're "annoying"

thunderchucker 6 hours ago yall got good friends here so it's nbd. i know it's easier to say "don't worry about it" or "move on" than it is because it can be frustrating!!! but yall know it's shrugs you got good rp, good vidya, and good dog. you'll be fine :>

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago honestly like

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago i'm not in the same circles as you so on discord i could not possibly say but i do think that like, on plurk you are pretty open and personal - which is not a criticism by any means at all

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago this is your plurk and you're allowed to say whatever the fuck you want

thunderchucker 6 hours ago ^ everyone says that all the time, for that matter. but in reality it boils down to: hmds exist. if someone can't talk to you about it then that's on them, especially if they're going to start trouble without being specific and direct. ain't got time for that

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago but i do think that like, you are not particularly discerning about who is on your TL and people can be like, "oh i don't really care to see a lot of personal shit so hannah's TL makes me uncomfortable" which u kno one would think u could just unfollow someone then but

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago not everyone will and instead just like, sit there and boil over it as if there are not just easy solutions to that

hoge hoge 6 hours ago that is a good point

hoge hoge 6 hours ago i am in fact not particularly discerning. i like having open communication lines with everyone.

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago and personally i do think that you're likely to cut down on [ ppl blocking you because of behaviors on plurk ] if you are more discerning of who is on your TL, to like, people who you are more trusting of

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago for personal shit

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago yeah, open communication lines is definitely legit! like keep in mind i'm not criticizing you for that either, i get it and i deffo used to be way less discerning abt my TL bc i wanted to have open communication

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago but nowadays i am like, far grosser than i am willing to be in public and plurk is a pretty semi-public place so i got more discerning about keeping actual friends who i trust on plurk and leaving open communication to like, journals and discord

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago idk if this might help you, but having a secondary plurk might help. i have two. my rp/random/shitposting one and a personal one that ppl can opt into being on so that way I know for sure they want to know if I'm going through a hard time or I need to talk about sth super personal

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago  Last edited @ 6 hours ago it helps me keep shit organized and it allows for boundaries for myself and others

trash king 6 hours ago Honestly, that's why I keep my Plurk pretty low profile, because I do like to be very personal. Back when I had a big list, I felt near constant anxiety when Plurking. Sometimes I still do. But like, there's a cost to that, which is I don't exactly drum up a lot of pings for things on some days. So it's YMMV. It's your Plurk

trash king 6 hours ago And I think like, that gets complicated because

trash king 6 hours ago If you find yourself self-censoring that is often even more anxiety-inducing I feel for a neurodivergent person

trash king 6 hours ago Since ND people need Some Space they can completely be themselves on

trash king 6 hours ago And I am aware you ALREADY self-censor on this Plurk to a significant degree about some things wrt RP

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago in general it's entirely possible that the whole uncomfortable behavior shit is straight up just "well i don't 100% believe exactly in hannah's beliefs" [which is reasonable] "and she is entirely too public about it in her own space"

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago [which is not so reasonable but also people view plurk in very different ways and have different comfort levels for how much they personally want to talk about their lives on plurk + find it to be a social decency for other people to match their level of engagement and personal openness

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago although this is not something that is actually by any means standardized]

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago and that's not like, really bad, that just means that they aren't that willing to be that close to you and being privy to that degree of knowledge shortens the distance in a way they're not really keen on, but prolonged exposure to that can just result in bad blood

trash king 6 hours ago It sounds like it's more of a Discord than a Plurk issue though

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago which peaks into like, blocking

trash king 6 hours ago Discord to me is a bit more messy because your space is shared and it's more IRC-like

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago yeah like i said i have no idea what the discord thing could be since i'm not in the same circles but plurk had been mentioned earlier so i was thinking that it might be more evenly weighted

trash king 6 hours ago It's easy to accidentally dominate the chat when you get on an ND monofocus thing for a lot of people. I do this all the time in my own server because I use it for my stream-of-consciousness since it's the one place I feel comfortable to do so. But I doubt Hannah does that because I have seen how she behaves in Discord

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago there's also the fact that even if you put up tw cw and filters, ppl are still going to click on them and read despite the warnings, which is not your fault. but some ppl do not know how to step away from things they don't want to read/see

holy on main ✝ 6 hours ago and if absolutely nothing else it doesn't hurt to more thoroughly claim your own space bc if absolutely nothing else it's like "well i can definitely trust these people to like me and not feel uncomfortable with me"

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 6 hours ago and then bc they didn't heed the warnings, they develop resentment. which, again, is not your fault

goatforsaken 5 hours ago Honestly i support an rp plurk and a personal plurk especially since you want to become more famous/popular as a streamer and there's 200+ people here to yknow read about your porn tastes

goatforsaken 5 hours ago I'm in and out for reasons you know but a more discerning plurk separation would help and lower the potential for toxic "I'm here for rp not personal/I'm here for stream not rp/,etc."

•ᴋᴀɪᴛᴏ• 5 hours ago ^^

trash king 4 hours ago I would agree with a non-personal Plurk SINCe you are aiming to be a public figure, and being a public figure is its own ball game for these things

trash king 4 hours ago that said, again, this sounds like a Discord thing too and again that's kinda a diff. ball game because some of Hannah's Discords are probably stream-related/full of streamers?

trash king 4 hours ago and it sounds like she was spoken to on Discord, not Plurk?

trash king 4 hours ago I need to go back and read but

Echo 2 hours ago If it helps, I think you're a sweetheart and I enjoy talking to and RPing with you.