My [26M] fiancée [26F] ghosted me a month ago. I’m posting this with a throwaway account because I don’t want this mess and baggage on my main, because I do know people who know my reddit account in real life. As I said, my fiancée ghosted me a month ago. We were together for just over 2 years and we had been engaged for a month. We had also lived together for 6 months. The lease for her apartment ran out at the end of December last year, so she moved in with me because my lease isn’t up until the end of July and we planned after that to move into a bigger place together after that.
My sister [29F] got married a month ago at the end of June. My fiancée and me attended the wedding. It was kind of out in the country in the middle of nowhere at an old farm and outdoor garden with cabins to stay in like hotels. The wedding was on a Saturday but we decided to go up Friday and come home Monday night and make a long weekend out of it since all my family and cousins were going to be there and it would be a chance for us all to catch up after the wedding. The wedding was nice and the reception was great. But my fiancée left during the reception. I wasn’t sure where she was but she wasn’t back at our cabin. I had accidentally left my phone at home so I couldn’t get in touch with her. A couple of people told me she said she was taking a cab home (which would have been hours and hundreds of dollars). When I got back to our place the following Monday she was gone. Her stuff was gone and she had left behind the ring and her wiped cell phone (I paid for her phone on my plan). I had no way to call or text her because she left her phone and her email account was also deactivated. I tried contacting her family or friends that I know but they either wouldn’t tell me or said they didn’t know. I found out afterward that she had paid the last month of rent on our place and given the super back her key. She had him do a walk-through of our place to show that nothing was broken or wrecked and told him she was moving out and wouldn’t be renewing the lease and I could keep the deposit. It’s been a rough road. I still miss her and sometimes I forgot she is gone when I first get home. I haven’t seen or talked to her since the reception. I have no idea where she is living or working (she had just finished college a couple of months before the wedding, and she’s no longer at her part time job and I don’t know if she’s working somewhere else) so I can’t even talk to her or try to get closure. I have had breakups before but they were never bad and I’ve never been ghosted before.
EDIT: (We did have a fight at the reception. My fiancée was upset because all the food had almonds…almond bread, beef or chicken with almond sauce, almond mashed potatoes, green beans with almond sauce, almond chef salad, and almond and whipped cream cake for dessert…and she is allergic to almonds. She got upset because none of the food was almond free. She wanted me to confront my sister and parents [57M/51F] over the menu because it was a different menu before they knew about her allergy but didn’t give her an option for dinner and changed all the food to stuff with almonds after she told them. I didn’t want to confront my sister at her own wedding and it was a ridiculous claim that my sister and parents would make a whole menu just to exclude my fiancée. When I asked them later on they said they made the changes because they thought the guests would like those things better and they never meant to exclude my fiancée. The last text she sent me was how I didn't care about her and I had just proved it)
tl;dr My [26M] fiancée [26F] ghosted me. She left in the middle of my sister’s wedding reception and when I got home after the wedding she and her stuff was gone. I don’t know where she is and haven’t seen or talked to her in a month. I’m not over her and I’m hurt and I miss her.