Earning Indicators of Interest (IOIs)

Earning Indicators of Interest (IOIs): A practical guide to getting sexual attention from women without saying a word.

Ever wanted random women to lick their lips while staring at your crotch?

RedPill is focused on maximizing your mating chances through self-improvement, so let's get back to basics. Provoking female desire by being awesome.

What is most attractive to women on a biological (sexual) level? Let's look at what cuts across all ethnic, economic, generational, and cultural lines. Before you say one word of your semi-clever pickup line, or profound deep thought, or mention your cool risky high paid job, you have already been evaluated as a potential breeding partner.

Some of the characteristics draw the eye in, other traits hold the attention. Oh what a thrill to make women want you just by walking around. I compiled a list of what lubricates. It's all based on how healthy, dominant, and how MALE you look. The advice is a combination of actual body improvement with visual tricks, basically optical illusions.

If you're old enough to plow, you should know what a secondary sexual characteristic is. The more prominent the SSC, the more masculine you look. Masculine = fuckable despite what many women claim. The list is roughly in order of importance, informed by mainstream science reporting. I have my comments on why it matters, then practical tips. Reading the tips does jack shit, you actually have to implement them. I

**Height**

(separates the men from the boys, visually. Requires looking up to meet eye contact, like a child to adult. Better visibility, reach, and mass, which are all vital in a fight. All desirable genes)

How to improve height and posture: Good sleep! Healthy diet with all the vitamins and nutrients! That can maybe put an inch on if you're lucky. It's okay to cheat with tall shoes, within reason. Tall hair is not cheating. Go high, not big or out to the sides. A long beard and a tall haircut without going out to the sides gives a linear look, fooling the eye.

**Shoulder width to hip ratio / big muscles**

(Broad shoulders are physical power. The shoulders being wider than the hips shows you are male, a SSC.)

*How to improve shoulders and arms: Covered in depth throughout the RedPill as well as personal fitness books and sites, gyms, etc. Technique matters, go slow and steady like a robot... but you won't get real results without willpower and discipline. Wait 30 seconds between sets and do it again, over and over, till arms are jelly, OMG. Lift heavy things whether you want to or not. Join a class, preferably a combat sport, so you have to go at specific times. Helps build a routine. Learn the difference between pain, strain, and injury. Eat animal protein 30 to 60 minutes after an intense workout, especially fortified protein shakes.

**Package** (Dick and balls are a PRIMARY sexual characteristic.)

How to improve the bulge: Penis enlargement actually works. But don't start ordering pills and gadgets. To do it safely is cheap but takes a long time. Look up jelqing and kegels to get started. Also belly shrinks = more usable dick. Also the way you dress is huge. Average dick (5”) and above show that shit off, USE A FUCKING BELT because it will get the pants snug around the crotch and looking defined.* No more swimming around in shorts and fat pants that are like skirts. Freeballing or some more hygenic variation says this is my penis, I'm not afraid of it, take a good long look if you want. You only need one layer. Kinky kilt-fuckers will want to fuck you real bad but most everyone else will steer clear of the weirdo.

**Fitness**

(Speed, agility, endurance. Helps you prosper in the wild.)

How to improve fitness: See above on lifting. Combine with regular walking and cardio activities that get your heart rate up for a long time. Stop eating like shit. Your body needs natural simple food like (preferably organic and humane) like unprocessed meat, fruits and vegetables. Don't be afraid of animal whole fats anymore, except stuff like cheese, cream cheese, and ice cream. If you're lactose intolerant like most of the world that's okay. Addictive shitty carbs backed by government subsidies like wheat, corn, potatoes, cane sugar and soy will bloat you the fuck up, make you look pregnant. I'm serious. Muscularity and fitness are the categories you can change the most dramatically. No one said it would be easy, but it works.* Mindset matters a lot, you can think yourself sick or healthy to an extent.

**Symmetry**

(Don't believe me, how many lopsided women have you hit on? Indicates health and good genes.)

How to improve symmetry: Since you can't change much physically with this one, hair and beard styling tricks work to draw the eye and balance out the face. Makeup should only be used in extreme cases, not recommended in the US for cultural reasons. You may have body asymmetry like one limb longer than the other, this can be corrected to an extent with fitness or special garments and shoes.

**Swagger and presence** (Shows that you're the fucking man. That you would wrestle a wild pig or barbarian invader and not run off like a screaming bitch. That you will do what is necessary without asking permission.)

How to improve swagger: As Rudy Ray Moore says, “put some cut in your strut, some dip in your hip, and some glide in your stride.” Confidence, fitness. Commit to a martial arts, gymnastics or dance class for 3 months or more. Learn new walking techniques. Get that good posture and frame going as covered elsewhere on the RedPill. Move like you know how to fight. Move like you know how to fuck. Because you went out and learned those things, right?

**Face / Hair / Beard**

(If you are rocking the other categories like Symmetry, Fitness, Muscularity, and use a trimmed beard to hide your weak glass fuckin' chin, you are rocking the face category about as much as you can. The face shows genes but also your frame, mindset, and social position. Facial expressions is a whole separate complex topic. A beard is an SSC, shows maleness. Go for it. If it's patchy, work with it and realize you don't have the full range of possibilities. Just like kilt-fuckers, beard-fuckers are obsessed with huge lumberjack fuck-off beards, but most prefer something trimmed and neat. Difference being a beard is socially acceptable, easy to modify, and being the kilt guy is a commitment. I know kilt guys that fuck hot women all the time, but only in certain circles. They have natural charisma, making people feel good around them. Especially the rare chicks with a kilt fetish. Big dick fish in a small pussy pond, gets eaten outside the pond. There's always a bigger dick.)

How to improve face, hair, and beard: Clean, groomed, some kind of “product” gently making it stay in place without being a sticky helmet. Covered elsewhere on RedPill and style guides. Or just ask a good barber not from a corporate chain. Tall hair, beard with length. Now it gets weird(er). Desmond Morris in 'The Naked Ape' proposes the male nose is similar in look to a penis, with the chin and beard forming faux testicles. Can't get that subtle sexual look dick 'n' balls shaving your face to look like an inoffensive women or androgyne.

**Fashion and style**

(Economic and cultural indicator. Masculine clothes emphasize angular features and can fool the eye into thinking you look good in other categories. Clothes appeal is not universal in the way body ratios and muscularity are. We're moving away from biological attraction and out of my expertise at this point.)

How to improve style: There's a bajillion forums and subreddits to help you find clothes that fit well, are decent quality and are current. A younger guy that dresses older or an older guy that dresses a little younger can give a nice combination of status and energy. Like you can mix and match nice button up shirts with jeans, maybe even pull off a blazer or some shit, lol but that's going bit far.

**Skin / Ethnicity** (Overestimated as a factor IMO. Worrying about it takes you off your game and out of the flow. Depends on the area, the person, etc. Pale skin indicates indoors, dark skin outdoors, even though the melanin genes were based on different climates. Some people just have a type or a fetish or a prejudice. Move on, let it be what it is, plenty of colorful fish out there.)

How to improve skin: Don't get too pale or have crazy ass tan lines I guess? Get outdoors, fuck paying to lay around in artificial UV radiation. Moisturize. Don't get shitty tattoos that will blow out or fade in a couple years.

**All the other shit you think matters**

How to improve worrying about pointless shit and impressing people: Forget about it. Chuck it in the recycle bin for your energy to be repurposed. Focus on your mission and fitness, then you can be fit'n'diss--- ok you got it.

You might be surprised on what can actually be fixed when you stop focusing on what's supposedly. The more you believe it will work, the more it will. Build momentum. Many of these factors are roughly as important to one another so don't get too hung up on the order. And if you are lacking in a category in a major way, that could be a deal breaker. Turn that weakness into a strength if possible. The fat guy is now the fit guy. The thin guy is now packing muscle. Etc. Obviously some factors are easier to improve than others. The point is all can be worked on.

Attractiveness, well now each person is different with different preferences, but there are some incredibly strong commonalities you would be foolish to ignore. This list of traits, is based on simple research into studies and many years of observation. If you find scientific literature that contradicts this please comment. These are the things women will notice first and what will register most on an animal level. The basic test is, "how male is this hominid before me? How healthy? This appraisal happens within seconds. They are either biting their lips or moving on.

The loudmouths on the internet do not speak for the majority, possibly not even themselves. They are parroting a cultural meme under cover of plausible deniability, feigning female innocence in all things. It's not the greatest mystery on earth to solve. Upwards of 90% of women want to get fucked hard by a big strong leader whether they are partnered or not.

If you accept Darwinian "survival of the fittest" as the sole or primary mechanism of evolution, you should understand it applies to hominids as well. Us. Evolutionary psychology, what motivates us despite culture, and what we build culture around, is based successful reproduction chances. Keep in mind it is generally accepted only about half of children survived to adults before modern times.

We are genetically programmed based on the life and death consequences of our ancestors. Who lived past puberty and could nurture young past puberty and so on are the only genes that survived. Bring home the hunt (bacon) and don't let dangerous stuff into the nest. In other words, get an income (not necessarily a job) and learn to fight. If you can't do that, your kids are less likely to survive. Sickly and frail, can't keep up, not doing your share = less likely to survive.So if you want to reproduce, or just "practice," indicate that your children will be strong, and also that they will be fed and defended when young. The ultimate LTR “catch” excels at all roles, but not every woman wants a picket fence around the hard banging fucknest. For casual hedonistic screwing, the compassionate provisioner shtick may as well be a paper bag on your head. Keep that love in your heart, bring your cock and balls to the dance floor. Enter the room DICK FIRST. Eventually enter vaginas.

I'm going to skip the sob stories, transformation journey, heretical gender philosophy, and criticism I was planning for a long time. Here's me giving back to The RedPill in the original spirit of the place. Ben lurking a long time now. 6 years on reddit as of today, holy fuck. Despite my unorthodox purple viewpoint or any ideological disagreements, this subreddit is the most useful source of information I found on this godforskan shilled out site. My tales of struggle and heartbreak, which seemed so tragic and original, are of the same basic outline as the 1,000s of other "she cheated / dumped me" stories from other men. Generally the men either didn't maintain strong frame, were or chose partners with such incompatibility or bad character they were going to explode no matter what*. Frame is not the topic of the day, but fitness and frame support one another. An obese slovenly appearance is direct evidence that there is a loss of personal frame. As Arnie says, "you lack discipline!"

After I got my SMV shit together, with the help of RP and dating guru techniques, I found a whole new abundance. I realized that now I had worked to establish my value on the inside, and outside, and not care so much about judgements, I was suddenly sexy. Not trying to out-Chad or out-incel anyone here. Pointless. I can harvest IOIs as a game, some other guy is master of the cold approach. Another is starting their own business without being the little rich boy. Yet another is the fittest guy in their town. So what? Each man with their own goals and projects has their own values. Their successes and failures and opinions are IRRELEVANT to your own journey. Just take the lessons I learned the hard way before the internet grew wings. Online status is piss in the wind for ladies unless there are social network profiles with pictures. If you want to make the same mistakes I made go ahead. A rage phase won't save shit, just use it as fuel to lift very heavy things until you can master your own feelings. Slow and steady... no jerking those weights! Lift with purpose. LIVE with purpose. Not a porpoise.

Don't put the blame on anyone else, it's a waste of time and energy. Get going on that fucking list! Off the computer.

Choose pussy or being a pussy.

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