To connect, go into your Spocean instalation directory with cmd.exe (or powershell if you have it, IDGAF)
In Binaries\Win32 there should be UDK.exe, run it like this:
UDK.exe 168.62.161.87

This can also be made into a shortcut. Just add 168.62.161.87 as a parameter.

NOOBPROOF GUIDE for WINDOWS:
Find UDK.exe most likely under DRIVE:\UDK\SpoceanBeta1.00\Binaries\Win32

Right click, click shortcut to desktop.

Right click desktop UDK.exe shortcut.

Under Target after UDK.exe add 168.62.161.87

Looks like this in the end under Target: DIR:\UDK\SpoceanBeta1.00\Binaries\Win32\UDK.exe 168.62.161.87