All women will respond differently to G spot stimulation. Some may find it hard to get past the feeling of urinating while others go into ecstasy immediately upon touching the spot. It may be easier for a woman to get past the feeling of urination after she has had at least a small orgasm. As she is lying on her back, insert one or two fingers, preferably the middle finger for length, into the vagina with your palm up. Curl the finger(s) upward until a lumpy or slightly protruding area is felt. Massage both sides of the area while communicating with your partner what feels best. You may find that significant pressure is needed, to the point of stretching the walls of the vagina up until the pubic bone is felt. You may also find that a constant, motionless touch to the G spot is all it takes to bring a woman to orgasm.