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  31. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:27:25 No.7606062
  32. Replies: >>7606065 >>7606348 >>7606429 >>7606824
  33.  
  34.     >tfw like a girl
  35.     >I definitely feel like she likes me too
  36.     >crushing fear of messing it up
  37.     >begin to recede inwards
  38.     >she thinks I don't like her and moves on
  39.  
  40.     every time. What do I do?
  41.  
  42. >>
  43. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:27:58 No.7606065
  44.  
  45.     >>7606062 (OP)
  46.     Don't recede inwards. Sounds pretty simple to me.
  47.  
  48. >>
  49. noko 07/04/13(Thu)11:28:39 No.7606073
  50.  
  51.     just be alpha op
  52.  
  53. >>
  54. Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)11:31:00 No.7606089
  55. Replies: >>7606103 >>7606576
  56.  
  57.     >putting girls on a pedestal
  58.  
  59.     Stop it, they are sub-human
  60.  
  61. >>
  62. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:32:29 No.7606103
  63.  
  64.     >>7606089
  65.     I don't. I just enjoy her company and think she's pretty, I'm not thinking of her as some "perfect goddess".
  66.  
  67. >>
  68. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:03:16 No.7606348
  69. Replies: >>7606385
  70.  
  71.     >>7606062 (OP)
  72.     I believe I'm in the process of doing this with a particularly cute girl. I probably will not "recede inwards," if anything, I'll do something drastic and embarrassing if she begins to think I don'y like her.
  73.  
  74. >>
  75. MJ Mage !!+bLaz0hgurU 07/04/13(Thu)12:08:24 No.7606385
  76.  
  77.     >>7606348
  78.     I think that is still better than sitting thereand letting it slip right past you
  79.  
  80. >>
  81. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:13:43 No.7606429
  82. Replies: >>7606543
  83.  
  84.     >>7606062 (OP)
  85.     make a move, idiot. nothing ventured, nothing gained.
  86.  
  87.     the saying has merit. people don't just use it because it looks nice.
  88.  
  89.     DO SOMETHING or learn to live with failure.
  90.  
  91. >>
  92. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:19:10 No.7606472
  93. Replies: >>7606504
  94.  
  95.     I just found out the girl I was crushing on and was giving me the eyes is married and has a kid.
  96.  
  97.     So there.
  98.  
  99.     OP, as soon as you start liking the girl, ask her out. Like a bandaid. You gotta just go for it. Make sure she knows it's a date too.
  100.  
  101. >>
  102. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:23:27 No.7606504
  103. Replies: >>7606543 >>7606552
  104.  
  105.     >>7606472
  106.     >as you start liking the girl
  107.     Just remember:
  108.  
  109.     Act aloof but still interested
  110.     Be confident, but not too confident
  111.     Be attractive, but not more attractive than she is
  112.  
  113. >>
  114. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:29:40 No.7606543
  115. Replies: >>7606579 >>7606598 >>7606599 >>7606612
  116.  
  117.     >>7606429
  118.     would it be too much to just be direct? Honestly I just want to cut all the awkward tension and just be like "hey, I really like you, wanna go on a date this Saturday?"
  119.     I'm afraid that will come off WAY too strong and pathetic considering I just met her two weeks ago
  120.  
  121.     >>7606504
  122.     this kind of stuff bothers me, I just want to be myself and express myself but I'm afraid that might end poorly and seem overly desperate. Why can't it just be simple without all the bullshit?
  123.  
  124. >>
  125. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:30:40 No.7606552
  126.  
  127.     >>7606504
  128.     Nah. Don't worry about all this shit. You'll start over thinking. Just do your thing and you'll be fine.
  129.  
  130.     Godspeed, padawan
  131.  
  132. >>
  133. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:33:46 No.7606576
  134. Replies: >>7606731
  135.  
  136.     >>7606089
  137.     You're subhuman, you troglodyte. You don't have the right to judge a pile of shit on the side of the road, much less a human being.
  138.  
  139. >>
  140. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:34:01 No.7606579
  141. Replies: >>7606613
  142.  
  143.     >>7606543
  144.     No, that's perfect. Two weeks is plenty of time for her to figure out if she's interested or not. That line is not pathetic at all, and the directness is good. Though I'd say something like "you seem pretty cool" over "I really like you. Don't need to say you really like her before you've even gone out with her.
  145.  
  146. >>
  147. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:35:58 No.7606598
  148.  
  149.     >>7606543
  150.     Not so much "want to go on a date" as something less direct but more specific.
  151.  
  152.     "Want to get drinks sometime," "Are you free the weekend to get coffee" etc.
  153.  
  154.     90% of girls know that you mean a date.
  155.  
  156. >>
  157. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:36:07 No.7606599
  158.  
  159.     >>7606543
  160.     >I just want to be myself
  161.  
  162.     Everyone does.
  163.  
  164.     But I've learned that you can't really do that until the relationship has gotten rolling.
  165.  
  166.     I really, REALLY hate to say this, but a lot of the times you're better off hiding a lot of stuff about yourself at first. Not only does the "mystery" aspect keep women interested, but it also keeps things from getting stale right off the bat.
  167.  
  168.     Women know this almost instinctively - they only tell certain things to certain guys depending on their intentions.
  169.  
  170.     The first few months of a relationship is all about acting.
  171.  
  172. >>
  173. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:37:08 No.7606612
  174.  
  175.     >>7606543
  176.     this might work if you are alpha about it... totally dependant on her perception of you.. if you do this make sure to look her in the eyes.
  177.  
  178. >>
  179. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:37:17 No.7606613
  180.  
  181.     >>7606579
  182.     Seconding this. That kind of falls into the whole "saying I love you before I know you thing" but not as severe. You can show interest, but don't overdo it.
  183.  
  184. >>
  185. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:41:54 No.7606653
  186. Replies: >>7606805
  187.  
  188.     You answered the question to your problem by stating your problem.
  189.  
  190.     Stop receding inwards and start telling them how you feel.
  191.     That's it, girls like to know you care about them. When they don't think you do, they get frustrated and just move on to find someone else who does.
  192.  
  193.     Bottom line. It's not about being "alpha" or any of that shit. You can still be shy little awkward you, just you need to say something or do things that show you care.
  194.  
  195.     I mean what's worse? Taking the chance of things working out or sitting back knowing she'll eventually leave you because you can't take the chance.
  196.  
  197. >>
  198. Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)12:52:51 No.7606731
  199. Replies: >>7606749
  200.  
  201.     >>7606576
  202.     I'm sub-human, but I'm just glad not as much so as a woman
  203.  
  204. >>
  205. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:54:49 No.7606743
  206.  
  207.     You know what they call a guy whose never been rejected by a girl?
  208.     >an internet porn connoisseur.
  209.  
  210.     If you ask her out and she says no, thats still a positive move in the right direction & it will be easier to do next time. Stop trying to protect your own ego and do something to try and improve your life. GET HER OP
  211.  
  212. >>
  213. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:55:21 No.7606749
  214. Replies: >>7606772
  215.  
  216.     >>7606731
  217.     ricky why wont u make an appearence in the r9k tinychat
  218.  
  219. >>
  220. Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)12:58:01 No.7606772
  221.  
  222.     >>7606749
  223.     I'm on my phone for the rest of the week.
  224.  
  225. >>
  226. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:02:53 No.7606805
  227. Replies: >>7606813 >>7606875 >>7606881
  228.  
  229.     >>7606653
  230.     I am really bad at showing I care because I feel like I care -too much- and that might scare her off or be pathetic.
  231.     Like for example, she said she wanted to read some book, so I was thinking it might be nice to buy it for her just because. No occasion or anything, just because I think it would make her happy. I feel like doing this will come off as... trying too hard to get her to like me and be unappealing to her
  232.     Then I don't want to text or call her because I don't want to be one of "those guys"... I don't want to bother her all the time and it's too hard to find the right balance where it's not annoying
  233.     Eventually everything just amounts to being excessively reserved where I end up having little to no contact with her because of things like this
  234.  
  235. >>
  236. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:03:59 No.7606813
  237.  
  238.     >>7606805
  239.     >Then I don't want to text or call her because I don't want to be one of "those guys"... I don't want to bother her all the time and it's too hard to find the right balance where it's not annoying
  240.  
  241.     Iktf man
  242.  
  243. >>
  244. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:05:19 No.7606818
  245.  
  246.     Happens to me everytime. Too beta to meet her, too scared of rejection, if she doesn't actually like me.
  247.  
  248. >>
  249. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:05:50 No.7606824
  250.  
  251.     >>7606062 (OP)
  252.     Act on your crush
  253.     >If she says yes, she will date you(50% Chance)
  254.     >If she says no, she will move on(50% Chance)
  255.  
  256.     If you don't act on it
  257.     >She will move on (100% Chance)
  258.  
  259. >>
  260. Typical Inhabitant of Great Britain !EcRjYWX0sY 07/04/13(Thu)13:08:21 No.7606843
  261. File: 1372957701489.jpg-(19 KB, 680x402, owjuA.jpg)
  262. DGI
  263. Image
  264.  
  265.     >Enthusiastic girl approaches me
  266.     >Obviously wants me
  267.     >Panic
  268.     >Run to the toilet until she leaves
  269.  
  270.     Every time
  271.  
  272. >>
  273. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:12:02 No.7606875
  274.  
  275.     >>7606805
  276.  
  277.     Ah fuck, buddy, I can relate to all of that
  278.  
  279. >>
  280. Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:12:26 No.7606881
  281.  
  282.     >>7606805
  283.     Just be you.
  284.     I mean, yeah sometimes going all in can be offputting but it's like, start small, little things, do things that are borderline friendly/affectionate, see if she returns the actions. See how she reacts. Passive flirting, etc.
  285.  
  286.     If she takes the bait just work your way up to more things.
  287.     It's not about being the guy the girl wants, it's just about find the girl who fits you.
  288.     If a girl doesn't like you, all of you, even creepy part of you don't fret it anon.
  289.  
  290.     As I said, start small and test the waters.
  291.  
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