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- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:27:25 No.7606062
- Replies: >>7606065 >>7606348 >>7606429 >>7606824
- >tfw like a girl
- >I definitely feel like she likes me too
- >crushing fear of messing it up
- >begin to recede inwards
- >she thinks I don't like her and moves on
- every time. What do I do?
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:27:58 No.7606065
- >>7606062 (OP)
- Don't recede inwards. Sounds pretty simple to me.
- >>
- noko 07/04/13(Thu)11:28:39 No.7606073
- just be alpha op
- >>
- Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)11:31:00 No.7606089
- Replies: >>7606103 >>7606576
- >putting girls on a pedestal
- Stop it, they are sub-human
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)11:32:29 No.7606103
- >>7606089
- I don't. I just enjoy her company and think she's pretty, I'm not thinking of her as some "perfect goddess".
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:03:16 No.7606348
- Replies: >>7606385
- >>7606062 (OP)
- I believe I'm in the process of doing this with a particularly cute girl. I probably will not "recede inwards," if anything, I'll do something drastic and embarrassing if she begins to think I don'y like her.
- >>
- MJ Mage !!+bLaz0hgurU 07/04/13(Thu)12:08:24 No.7606385
- >>7606348
- I think that is still better than sitting thereand letting it slip right past you
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:13:43 No.7606429
- Replies: >>7606543
- >>7606062 (OP)
- make a move, idiot. nothing ventured, nothing gained.
- the saying has merit. people don't just use it because it looks nice.
- DO SOMETHING or learn to live with failure.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:19:10 No.7606472
- Replies: >>7606504
- I just found out the girl I was crushing on and was giving me the eyes is married and has a kid.
- So there.
- OP, as soon as you start liking the girl, ask her out. Like a bandaid. You gotta just go for it. Make sure she knows it's a date too.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:23:27 No.7606504
- Replies: >>7606543 >>7606552
- >>7606472
- >as you start liking the girl
- Just remember:
- Act aloof but still interested
- Be confident, but not too confident
- Be attractive, but not more attractive than she is
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:29:40 No.7606543
- Replies: >>7606579 >>7606598 >>7606599 >>7606612
- >>7606429
- would it be too much to just be direct? Honestly I just want to cut all the awkward tension and just be like "hey, I really like you, wanna go on a date this Saturday?"
- I'm afraid that will come off WAY too strong and pathetic considering I just met her two weeks ago
- >>7606504
- this kind of stuff bothers me, I just want to be myself and express myself but I'm afraid that might end poorly and seem overly desperate. Why can't it just be simple without all the bullshit?
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:30:40 No.7606552
- >>7606504
- Nah. Don't worry about all this shit. You'll start over thinking. Just do your thing and you'll be fine.
- Godspeed, padawan
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:33:46 No.7606576
- Replies: >>7606731
- >>7606089
- You're subhuman, you troglodyte. You don't have the right to judge a pile of shit on the side of the road, much less a human being.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:34:01 No.7606579
- Replies: >>7606613
- >>7606543
- No, that's perfect. Two weeks is plenty of time for her to figure out if she's interested or not. That line is not pathetic at all, and the directness is good. Though I'd say something like "you seem pretty cool" over "I really like you. Don't need to say you really like her before you've even gone out with her.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:35:58 No.7606598
- >>7606543
- Not so much "want to go on a date" as something less direct but more specific.
- "Want to get drinks sometime," "Are you free the weekend to get coffee" etc.
- 90% of girls know that you mean a date.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:36:07 No.7606599
- >>7606543
- >I just want to be myself
- Everyone does.
- But I've learned that you can't really do that until the relationship has gotten rolling.
- I really, REALLY hate to say this, but a lot of the times you're better off hiding a lot of stuff about yourself at first. Not only does the "mystery" aspect keep women interested, but it also keeps things from getting stale right off the bat.
- Women know this almost instinctively - they only tell certain things to certain guys depending on their intentions.
- The first few months of a relationship is all about acting.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:37:08 No.7606612
- >>7606543
- this might work if you are alpha about it... totally dependant on her perception of you.. if you do this make sure to look her in the eyes.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:37:17 No.7606613
- >>7606579
- Seconding this. That kind of falls into the whole "saying I love you before I know you thing" but not as severe. You can show interest, but don't overdo it.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:41:54 No.7606653
- Replies: >>7606805
- You answered the question to your problem by stating your problem.
- Stop receding inwards and start telling them how you feel.
- That's it, girls like to know you care about them. When they don't think you do, they get frustrated and just move on to find someone else who does.
- Bottom line. It's not about being "alpha" or any of that shit. You can still be shy little awkward you, just you need to say something or do things that show you care.
- I mean what's worse? Taking the chance of things working out or sitting back knowing she'll eventually leave you because you can't take the chance.
- >>
- Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)12:52:51 No.7606731
- Replies: >>7606749
- >>7606576
- I'm sub-human, but I'm just glad not as much so as a woman
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:54:49 No.7606743
- You know what they call a guy whose never been rejected by a girl?
- >an internet porn connoisseur.
- If you ask her out and she says no, thats still a positive move in the right direction & it will be easier to do next time. Stop trying to protect your own ego and do something to try and improve your life. GET HER OP
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)12:55:21 No.7606749
- Replies: >>7606772
- >>7606731
- ricky why wont u make an appearence in the r9k tinychat
- >>
- Ricky !aZkBiDudVc 07/04/13(Thu)12:58:01 No.7606772
- >>7606749
- I'm on my phone for the rest of the week.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:02:53 No.7606805
- Replies: >>7606813 >>7606875 >>7606881
- >>7606653
- I am really bad at showing I care because I feel like I care -too much- and that might scare her off or be pathetic.
- Like for example, she said she wanted to read some book, so I was thinking it might be nice to buy it for her just because. No occasion or anything, just because I think it would make her happy. I feel like doing this will come off as... trying too hard to get her to like me and be unappealing to her
- Then I don't want to text or call her because I don't want to be one of "those guys"... I don't want to bother her all the time and it's too hard to find the right balance where it's not annoying
- Eventually everything just amounts to being excessively reserved where I end up having little to no contact with her because of things like this
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:03:59 No.7606813
- >>7606805
- >Then I don't want to text or call her because I don't want to be one of "those guys"... I don't want to bother her all the time and it's too hard to find the right balance where it's not annoying
- Iktf man
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:05:19 No.7606818
- Happens to me everytime. Too beta to meet her, too scared of rejection, if she doesn't actually like me.
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:05:50 No.7606824
- >>7606062 (OP)
- Act on your crush
- >If she says yes, she will date you(50% Chance)
- >If she says no, she will move on(50% Chance)
- If you don't act on it
- >She will move on (100% Chance)
- >>
- Typical Inhabitant of Great Britain !EcRjYWX0sY 07/04/13(Thu)13:08:21 No.7606843
- File: 1372957701489.jpg-(19 KB, 680x402, owjuA.jpg)
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- Image
- >Enthusiastic girl approaches me
- >Obviously wants me
- >Panic
- >Run to the toilet until she leaves
- Every time
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:12:02 No.7606875
- >>7606805
- Ah fuck, buddy, I can relate to all of that
- >>
- Anonymous 07/04/13(Thu)13:12:26 No.7606881
- >>7606805
- Just be you.
- I mean, yeah sometimes going all in can be offputting but it's like, start small, little things, do things that are borderline friendly/affectionate, see if she returns the actions. See how she reacts. Passive flirting, etc.
- If she takes the bait just work your way up to more things.
- It's not about being the guy the girl wants, it's just about find the girl who fits you.
- If a girl doesn't like you, all of you, even creepy part of you don't fret it anon.
- As I said, start small and test the waters.
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