Dear Grom,

It is sad to see you go man.
I know you liked Invex and are only leaving due to IRL friends Dandy and Chef leaving.

Just so you know, you were a good player to play with and people genuinely liked your personality.
You have a lot of good traits that makes you a good person.
While i've never seen you disrespect Dandy or CHEF and you always vouch for them, say nice things about them, Dandy likes to talk shit about you all the time behind your back to anybody and everybody.

He has said (multiple times) and I quote:
"Grom is a fucking loser at school, he has no friends and nobody likes him".
"I fucking hate Grom, why can't he go away"

I'm pretty sure Tick or h0pz have recordings that they haven't released to anybody obviously.

That is absolutely disgusting to say at all, let alone to an online community which is only concerned with gaming.
CHEF is better as he doesn't seem to talk about you and seems nice in general but gets influenced by Dandy a lot which causes him to do similar things.

I wanted to PM you to say ignore idiots like that in life. This isn't about Invex/prioryshit or online gaming, you come across dickheads in life like Dandy who you think are your friends but they are only holding you back. I know they are your IRL friends and you will follow them as you want to play with them/not be hated by them but try to expand your friend group so it doesn't contain people with douchebag-like qualities like Dandy.

I think overall he was jealous how you rose in ranks at Invex, getting admin so quick, being liked by essentially everyone in general, being a meme (leak meme) and he was jealous that his admin apps got constantly denied because nobody liked him, in fact, the entire admin team hated him and wished he would go away like Road 2 Admin. Kinda funny how Trident is now *friends* with Dandy as he was one of Dandy's main haters. And don't get me started with Road 2 Admin, Trident hates his guts and he is the reason he is banned on Invex yet he is now in his community because he is desperate for any playerbase at all. Oh and gutter too but that's a story for another day.

If 1 good thing came from the new community split, is that Dandy is gone (hopefully permanently). I hope you know their community will fail, it doesn't take 1 week to setup a popular server, Trident has no dev and no player base and his forums are only semi-alive right now as he leached players off us. We dominated combat surf, we dominated surf ffa, we dominated Jailbreak (overtaking 3 banhammer devs vs me as Invex's only dev) and we are still #1. That doesn't happen overnight, it takes hard work and determination over 2 years with a lot of help from admins along the way. If I had to list the top 10 people who made Invex popular/grow to what it is today, Trident doesn't even make the list, he only got here after we were huge and threw money at us in donations and spent a lot of time admining so he got his global rank.

I don't care at all as I know it will fail while we continue to grow and dominate the scene. The saddest part about the whole thing though is losing you Grommy, I literally don't care about anybody else leaving but you leaving hurts bad (no homo). Hopefully when their server dies or something, you will come back to us (or just play on our servers from time to time!). I might even consider letting CHEF (idk about Dandy) back if it means you can come back.

Anyway, hopefully you have as much respect for me as I have of you so I am asking that you don't share this with others as I don't want to cause more unneeded drama. Whatever you reply to this (if you choose to reply) will be kept 100% private. Please no leak <3

Best of luck and if you every want someone to talk to about anything (gaming or real life), i'm one PM or TS3 channel away (but after exams yo!).