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- Subtitles by explosiveskull
- www.OpenSubtitles.org
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- <i>♪ Have you been to Jesus ♪</i>
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- 00:00:46,871 --> 00:00:48,973
- <i>♪ For his cleansing power? ♪</i>
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- 00:00:49,007 --> 00:00:52,378
- <i>♪ Are you washed in the blood
- of the Lamb? ♪</i>
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- 00:00:52,411 --> 00:00:57,049
- <i>♪ Are you fully trusting
- in his grace this hour? ♪</i>
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- 00:00:57,083 --> 00:00:58,750
- <i>♪ Are you washed in the blood
- of the Lamb? ♪</i>
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- 00:00:58,783 --> 00:01:02,054
- Mark, I see belt loops
- and no belt.
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- 00:01:02,088 --> 00:01:04,789
- <i>♪ Are you washed
- in the blood? ♪</i>
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- 00:01:04,823 --> 00:01:08,927
- <i>♪ In the soul-cleansing blood
- of the Lamb? ♪</i>
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- Oh, oh, oh... No.
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- 00:01:13,265 --> 00:01:15,067
- <i>♪ Are you washed in the blood
- of the Lamb? ♪</i>
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- Ah, ah, ah, ah.
- Miss O'Donnell.
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- Just as I suspected:
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- 00:01:22,841 --> 00:01:24,310
- over two-and-a-half inches
- above the knee.
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- Dean's Office. Now!
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- - Morning, Mrs. Veda.
- - Alice.
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- School mass today at 2:00.
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- Why don't you be
- gift bearer again?
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- Sure.
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- 00:01:39,058 --> 00:01:40,192
- Hmm.
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- 00:01:42,727 --> 00:01:47,066
- OK, it's like this,
- guys are like microwave ovens.
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- 00:01:47,099 --> 00:01:51,070
- And ladies are like
- conventional ovens.
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- 00:01:51,103 --> 00:01:53,671
- Guys only need a few seconds,
- you know, like a microwave,
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- to get...
- switched on.
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- 00:01:55,773 --> 00:01:59,311
- While ladies,
- they typically need to...
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- 00:01:59,345 --> 00:02:01,012
- preheat for a while.
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- 00:02:01,046 --> 00:02:03,681
- But God created sex
- with boundaries
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- and for a purpose.
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- 00:02:05,384 --> 00:02:07,752
- Does anyone wanna take a stab
- at what the boundary is?
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- 00:02:07,785 --> 00:02:08,920
- Yes, Wade?
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- - Marriage.
- - Very good.
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- And does anybody
- know the purpose?
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- - To have children.
- - Perfecto.
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- When a man and a woman receive
- the sacrament of matrimony,
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- God calls on them to create
- children in his image.
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- Any sex outside of one man,
- one woman, one marriage
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- is against God's plan.
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- 00:02:29,508 --> 00:02:32,877
- Um, what about sex
- with yourself?
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- 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,348
- Can you create children
- from sex with yourself?
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- 00:02:36,382 --> 00:02:38,850
- - No.
- - Right, so?
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- - It's against God's plan.
- - Exactly.
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- 00:02:41,153 --> 00:02:43,988
- So, is that what the
- Bible means by "spilling your seed"?
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- 00:02:44,022 --> 00:02:45,491
- Is it spilling if you catch it?
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- All right, all right.
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- We are called on to be chaste
- until we are married.
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- And that means no sex...
- with yourself or anyone else...
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- until you stand at that altar
- and you say "I do"
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- or else it is damnation
- for all eternity.
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- And remember...
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- God is always watching.
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- Capiche?
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- They gave us Baby Think-It-Over
- in Christian Lifestyles.
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- I'm not even having sex, they should
- just give them to the slutty girls.
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- 00:03:17,056 --> 00:03:20,758
- Oh, have you had to watch the
- partial-birth abortion video yet?
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- - It's really awful.
- - No, no! Don't ruin it for me.
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- 00:03:25,331 --> 00:03:27,233
- How was Morality?
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- It was fine.
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- 00:03:28,900 --> 00:03:32,770
- Did you know that masturbating
- is a sin?
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- Ew. Of course. Why?
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- 00:03:37,443 --> 00:03:39,478
- I was just wondering.
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- 00:03:39,511 --> 00:03:43,449
- Making me rewind <i>Titanic</i>
- back to the car scene twice
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- is probably also a sin,
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- just in case you were wondering
- that next.
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- Look, I only
- asked you to do that
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- because I couldn't hear
- what Kate whispered to Leo
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- - when he said, "Where to, Miss?"
- - Mm-hmm.
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- Which just happens to be
- right before they make out
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- and steam up that car window
- that Kate slaps her hand on.
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- I didn't write it!
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- Hey! Hi, Gus.
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- Sit, Gus.
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- Sit.
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- <i>Welcome!</i>
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- OK. Here we go!
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- Damn it!
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- <i>Titanic!</i>
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- Yes!
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- <i>You've got mail.</i>
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- Mom?
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- Wet?
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- Uh...
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- 00:08:06,712 --> 00:08:09,147
- Underwear?
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- Ohh.
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- What?
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- Alice!
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- 00:09:09,675 --> 00:09:12,578
- Dinner!
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- - I confess to almighty God...
- - Almighty God...
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- and to you,
- my brothers and sisters,
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- that I have sinned
- through my own fault,
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- in my thoughts and in my words,
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- in what I have done and in what
- I have failed to do...
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- 00:09:27,192 --> 00:09:29,528
- The Millers invited us
- over to watch the game.
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- Great, I'll make
- my cheesy potatoes.
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- 00:09:33,465 --> 00:09:35,801
- Oh, Damn it, Ron.
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- 00:09:35,834 --> 00:09:37,536
- Now I'm all wet!
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- Calm down, Gail,
- you're not that wet.
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- So, uh, Alice, I heard
- you got on Wade Friday night.
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- Stephanie told me she walked in
- on you guys in my sauna.
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- Ooh!
- Gettin' steamy in the sauna!
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- 00:10:04,863 --> 00:10:08,500
- No, we were just back there
- getting some drinks.
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- 00:10:10,369 --> 00:10:12,471
- We were only gone
- for like a minute!
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- 00:10:12,504 --> 00:10:13,605
- Yeah, that's long enough
- for Wade.
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- I was just messin'.
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- Listen.
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- You don't have to put out
- just because you like a boy.
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- 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,782
- I don't like him.
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- 00:10:23,815 --> 00:10:26,451
- And now, for the Bible
- passages that back all this up...
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- We're gonna start
- with <i>Galatians.</i>
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- 00:10:28,654 --> 00:10:30,455
- Heather, why don't you
- start us off?
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- 00:10:30,489 --> 00:10:32,524
- The acts of the flesh
- are obvious:
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- sexual immorality,
- impurity, debauchery...
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- 00:10:35,894 --> 00:10:38,864
- OK, so, I just bought
- this Blink 182 CD
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- 00:10:38,897 --> 00:10:40,265
- from Sam Goody, right?
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- 00:10:40,298 --> 00:10:41,700
- Um, I upload them to my computer
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- 00:10:41,733 --> 00:10:42,868
- and then I just put 'em
- on here.
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- Easy as pie.
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- 00:10:44,269 --> 00:10:45,637
- The album's amazing, by the way.
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- It's called
- <i>Enema of the State.</i>
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- Get it?
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- 00:10:48,607 --> 00:10:50,475
- I bet you know all about enemas,
- don't you?
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- 00:10:50,509 --> 00:10:52,411
- Can you not talk about enemas
- near my baby, please?
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- Yeah, I'm gonna...
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- 00:10:54,846 --> 00:10:56,214
- Thank you.
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- 00:10:59,484 --> 00:11:00,952
- Such a perv.
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- 00:11:00,986 --> 00:11:02,354
- What's an enema?
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- 00:11:02,387 --> 00:11:03,822
- It's when you fall water skiing
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- 00:11:03,855 --> 00:11:05,323
- and water shoots up your butt.
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- 00:11:07,325 --> 00:11:08,927
- Well, look who it is.
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- 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:10,529
- Where were you this weekend?
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- 00:11:10,562 --> 00:11:12,330
- You didn't come to my party.
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- 00:11:12,364 --> 00:11:14,533
- Yeah, I heard things
- got pretty crazy.
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- 00:11:16,535 --> 00:11:18,503
- Everyone's been talking
- about you and Wade.
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- 00:11:18,537 --> 00:11:21,406
- - Oh?
- - Yeah.
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- 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:22,708
- They're saying
- you tossed his salad.
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- 00:11:22,741 --> 00:11:24,009
- - What?
- - Gross!
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- 00:11:24,043 --> 00:11:26,445
- You tossed his salad
- in my sauna?
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- 00:11:26,478 --> 00:11:29,281
- What? No! No!
- Who, who said that?
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- 00:11:29,314 --> 00:11:31,683
- Some girl in my Geometry class
- was telling a bunch of us.
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- 00:11:31,717 --> 00:11:33,385
- Heather's really pissed too.
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- 00:11:33,418 --> 00:11:35,387
- She just gave Wade
- a promise bracelet.
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- 00:11:35,420 --> 00:11:37,522
- OK.
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- 00:11:37,556 --> 00:11:42,661
- I mean, I've never even heard of
- dressing someone's salad! So...
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- 00:11:43,962 --> 00:11:45,597
- The party was really fun.
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- 00:11:45,630 --> 00:11:47,933
- Why didn't you come?
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- I was on a retreat.
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- 00:11:49,367 --> 00:11:50,469
- Oh! Like a spa?
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- 00:11:50,502 --> 00:11:52,504
- No, a retreat ran by the school.
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- 00:11:52,537 --> 00:11:56,608
- It's called Kirkos and I got
- this necklace on it. See?
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- 00:11:56,641 --> 00:11:59,045
- Cool. What'd you do there?
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- 00:11:59,078 --> 00:12:01,513
- We're not allowed to talk about
- it with anyone who hasn't been.
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- 00:12:01,546 --> 00:12:04,050
- But it totally changed my life.
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- Coming, Beth?
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- 00:12:06,318 --> 00:12:09,921
- Yeah. I gotta go.
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- 00:12:09,955 --> 00:12:11,957
- You guys should sign up
- for the next one.
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- 00:12:11,990 --> 00:12:13,925
- I think it'd be good for you.
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- 00:12:20,432 --> 00:12:25,003
- Since when does Beth eat lunch
- with Nina and those girls?
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- 00:12:26,072 --> 00:12:27,672
- I have to go on that retreat.
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- 00:12:27,706 --> 00:12:29,808
- Do you think she thinks
- that I actually
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- 00:12:29,841 --> 00:12:31,710
- tasted Wade's salad or whatever?
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- 00:12:31,743 --> 00:12:33,578
- I don't know.
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- 00:12:33,612 --> 00:12:35,614
- Beth's such a moron.
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- 00:12:35,647 --> 00:12:37,649
- I never have any clue
- what's she's talking about
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- 00:12:37,682 --> 00:12:39,785
- so she probably made it up.
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- 00:12:50,796 --> 00:12:52,564
- I'm gonna go get more milk.
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- 00:12:59,571 --> 00:13:01,973
- Oh. Hey, Heather. Hey, Wade.
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- 00:13:05,010 --> 00:13:06,945
- Can't have pudding without milk!
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- She's disgusting.
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- 00:13:25,031 --> 00:13:26,665
- I think I'm going to ask Heather
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- to bear the gifts
- with Jacob today.
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- 00:13:46,718 --> 00:13:50,589
- Alice, if you want to continue
- to be a gift bearer,
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- 00:13:50,622 --> 00:13:53,725
- you have to conduct yourself
- like one.
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- 00:13:54,893 --> 00:13:58,064
- Your body is a gift from God.
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- 00:13:58,097 --> 00:14:01,399
- You need to honor it.
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- 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,549
- In the name of the Father,
- the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
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- 00:14:51,583 --> 00:14:54,686
- Um, bless me Father
- for I have sinned.
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- 00:14:54,719 --> 00:14:57,089
- It has been a week
- since my last confession.
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- These are my sins...
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- 00:14:58,823 --> 00:15:01,793
- Talking back to my dad...
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- 00:15:01,826 --> 00:15:05,164
- Not helping my mom
- in the kitchen...
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- 00:15:05,197 --> 00:15:09,935
- Forgetting to feed the dog...
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- 00:15:09,968 --> 00:15:11,937
- And...
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- 00:15:13,205 --> 00:15:15,440
- And anything else?
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- 00:15:18,677 --> 00:15:19,644
- That's it.
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- 00:15:19,678 --> 00:15:21,680
- For penance,
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- 00:15:21,713 --> 00:15:23,682
- why don't you do
- the dishes for a week?
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- 00:15:23,715 --> 00:15:25,117
- Give your mom a break.
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- 00:15:25,151 --> 00:15:27,752
- And ten Hail Marys
- and ten Our Fathers.
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- 00:15:31,157 --> 00:15:33,159
- God, the Father of mercies,
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- 00:15:33,192 --> 00:15:35,194
- through the death
- and resurrection of his Son,
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- has reconciled
- the world to itself
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- 00:15:37,263 --> 00:15:38,830
- and sent the Holy Spirit
- among us
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- 00:15:38,863 --> 00:15:40,565
- for the forgiveness of sins...
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- 00:15:40,598 --> 00:15:42,234
- Give us this day
- our daily bread,
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- 00:15:42,268 --> 00:15:44,203
- and forgive us
- of our trespasses,
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- 00:15:44,236 --> 00:15:46,105
- as we forgive those that
- trespass against us...
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- 00:15:46,138 --> 00:15:48,207
- <i>Your body is a gift from God.</i>
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- 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,874
- <i>It's against God's plan.</i>
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- 00:15:49,908 --> 00:15:52,178
- <i>You need to honor it.</i>
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- 00:15:52,211 --> 00:15:55,147
- <i>Or else it is
- damnation for all eternity.</i>
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- Thy will be done
- on earth as it is in Heaven.
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- 00:15:57,916 --> 00:15:59,818
- <i>It's called Kirkos.</i>
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- 00:15:59,851 --> 00:16:02,620
- <i>I think it'd be good for you.</i>
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- 00:16:15,667 --> 00:16:19,171
- <i>♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪</i>
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- 00:16:19,205 --> 00:16:23,541
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:16:23,575 --> 00:16:27,146
- <i>♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪</i>
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- 00:16:27,179 --> 00:16:31,016
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:16:31,050 --> 00:16:35,687
- <i>♪ Sister help
- to trim the sails ♪</i>
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- 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,957
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:16:38,990 --> 00:16:42,927
- <i>♪ Sister help
- to trim the sails ♪</i>
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- 00:16:42,961 --> 00:16:46,698
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:16:46,731 --> 00:16:50,735
- <i>♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪</i>
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- 00:16:50,769 --> 00:16:54,806
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:16:54,839 --> 00:16:56,042
- Are we there?
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- 00:16:56,075 --> 00:16:57,976
- <i>♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪</i>
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- 00:16:58,009 --> 00:17:03,149
- <i>♪ Hallelujah ♪</i>
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- 00:17:11,290 --> 00:17:13,192
- I can't do this.
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- 00:17:13,225 --> 00:17:16,028
- These few days away
- are going to be good for us.
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- 00:17:16,062 --> 00:17:17,229
- I don't know.
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- 00:17:17,263 --> 00:17:19,697
- Ugh!
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- 00:17:19,731 --> 00:17:23,601
- Father looks so weird
- in regular people clothes.
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- 00:17:23,635 --> 00:17:25,371
- Oh, my God! Nina's here!
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- 00:17:25,404 --> 00:17:27,939
- She must be one
- of the group leaders.
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- 00:17:27,972 --> 00:17:29,908
- Welcome, everyone.
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- 00:17:29,941 --> 00:17:32,677
- Who's that?
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- 00:17:32,710 --> 00:17:35,214
- Are you serious?
- That's Chris.
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- 00:17:35,247 --> 00:17:37,816
- He's only like the star
- of the football team.
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- 00:17:42,687 --> 00:17:44,323
- Welcome to Kirkos.
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- 00:17:44,356 --> 00:17:47,259
- So, uh, you're gonna be
- bunking in my cabin this week.
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- 00:17:47,293 --> 00:17:52,931
- <i>♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪</i>
- 230
- 00:17:52,964 --> 00:17:54,300
- <i>♪ My body's sayin' let's go ♪</i>
- 231
- 00:17:54,333 --> 00:17:58,670
- <i>♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪</i>
- 232
- 00:17:58,703 --> 00:18:01,673
- <i>♪ But my heart is sayin' no ♪</i>
- 233
- 00:18:01,706 --> 00:18:04,642
- <i>♪ If you wanna be with me ♪</i>
- 234
- 00:18:04,676 --> 00:18:08,114
- <i>♪ Baby,
- there's a price to pay ♪</i>
- 235
- 00:18:08,147 --> 00:18:12,284
- <i>♪ I'm a genie in a bottle ♪</i>
- 236
- 00:18:12,318 --> 00:18:14,652
- <i>♪ You gotta rub me
- the right way ♪</i>
- 237
- 00:18:14,686 --> 00:18:16,688
- Hi! Alice, right?
- 238
- 00:18:16,721 --> 00:18:18,923
- - Yeah.
- - Welcome.
- 239
- 00:18:18,957 --> 00:18:22,261
- I'm Nina. Come with me.
- You're in my cabin. Come on.
- 240
- 00:18:22,294 --> 00:18:23,362
- Sorry.
- 241
- 00:18:26,332 --> 00:18:29,000
- I'm so excited for you guys.
- 242
- 00:18:31,303 --> 00:18:34,806
- OK. Find the room
- with your name on the door.
- 243
- 00:18:56,395 --> 00:18:58,464
- Oh, sorry!
- 244
- 00:18:58,497 --> 00:19:00,032
- I didn't mean to scare you!
- 245
- 00:19:00,065 --> 00:19:01,367
- You settling in?
- 246
- 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,136
- I've got a sweatshirt
- here for you.
- 247
- 00:19:04,170 --> 00:19:05,703
- Thanks.
- 248
- 00:19:05,737 --> 00:19:08,973
- And... next order
- of beeswax is...
- 249
- 00:19:09,007 --> 00:19:10,942
- I'm gonna need
- your cell phone and/or watch,
- 250
- 00:19:10,975 --> 00:19:12,311
- if you have 'em.
- 251
- 00:19:12,344 --> 00:19:14,812
- Did you bring either one
- of those with you?
- 252
- 00:19:14,846 --> 00:19:16,148
- Mm-hmm.
- 253
- 00:19:33,965 --> 00:19:34,933
- No phone?
- 254
- 00:19:34,966 --> 00:19:36,468
- - Mm-mm.
- - K.
- 255
- 00:19:36,502 --> 00:19:38,937
- Don't worry,
- you won't be needing
- 256
- 00:19:38,970 --> 00:19:42,241
- a watch this weekend anyway
- because...
- 257
- 00:19:42,274 --> 00:19:44,210
- you're on Jesus' time!
- 258
- 00:19:44,243 --> 00:19:46,811
- See ya!
- 259
- 00:19:50,382 --> 00:19:53,485
- Please find
- your small group number!
- 260
- 00:19:53,519 --> 00:19:56,088
- Cut the chit-chat, please,
- and have a seat.
- 261
- 00:19:56,121 --> 00:19:58,357
- Sit at the table
- with your small group number.
- 262
- 00:19:58,390 --> 00:20:00,192
- Please find
- your small group number.
- 263
- 00:20:01,527 --> 00:20:03,895
- - I guess I'll see you later.
- - What?
- 264
- 00:20:17,942 --> 00:20:19,111
- Group One?
- 265
- 00:20:20,812 --> 00:20:21,980
- Awesome!
- 266
- 00:20:23,515 --> 00:20:25,184
- I'm Chris,
- Group One's Senior Leader.
- 267
- 00:20:25,217 --> 00:20:26,285
- Have a seat.
- 268
- 00:20:28,853 --> 00:20:32,157
- Group One too?
- Awesome! Have a seat.
- 269
- 00:20:34,059 --> 00:20:37,795
- You are here
- as a part of God's plan.
- 270
- 00:20:37,829 --> 00:20:42,268
- His spirit moved each of you
- to sign up for this retreat,
- 271
- 00:20:42,301 --> 00:20:45,471
- which is a unique experience
- that will challenge you
- 272
- 00:20:45,504 --> 00:20:48,073
- in new and profound ways.
- 273
- 00:20:48,107 --> 00:20:50,276
- Kirkos is a time
- to find meaning
- 274
- 00:20:50,309 --> 00:20:52,344
- in the highs and lows
- of your life.
- 275
- 00:20:52,378 --> 00:20:54,313
- Over these next four days
- 276
- 00:20:54,346 --> 00:20:56,148
- you will hear
- from your classmates
- 277
- 00:20:56,181 --> 00:20:58,350
- and be invited
- to open up as well.
- 278
- 00:20:58,384 --> 00:21:01,320
- It will strengthen your
- relationship with yourself,
- 279
- 00:21:01,353 --> 00:21:05,491
- but most importantly,
- with Jesus.
- 280
- 00:21:05,524 --> 00:21:07,359
- Now let's get started.
- 281
- 00:21:07,393 --> 00:21:09,328
- On the papers
- that Mrs. Veda is handing out,
- 282
- 00:21:09,361 --> 00:21:11,430
- you're going to find
- a list of feelings.
- 283
- 00:21:11,463 --> 00:21:13,898
- Go through them
- and circle any
- 284
- 00:21:13,931 --> 00:21:16,502
- that you may have felt
- in the past year or so.
- 285
- 00:21:16,535 --> 00:21:20,339
- There are no wrong answers.
- So just, just be honest.
- 286
- 00:22:10,656 --> 00:22:13,659
- <i>While ladies,
- they typically need to...</i>
- 287
- 00:22:13,692 --> 00:22:15,860
- <i>preheat for a while.</i>
- 288
- 00:22:31,443 --> 00:22:32,977
- OK. Let's finish up.
- 289
- 00:22:33,010 --> 00:22:34,646
- Pass your papers
- toward the aisles.
- 290
- 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,616
- And make sure that your name
- is printed clearly on top.
- 291
- 00:22:46,258 --> 00:22:47,192
- Come on.
- 292
- 00:22:51,330 --> 00:22:53,599
- The other night I dreamt
- that I was walking
- 293
- 00:22:53,632 --> 00:22:54,966
- along the beach with the Lord.
- 294
- 00:22:54,999 --> 00:22:56,468
- As we walked,
- 295
- 00:22:56,502 --> 00:22:59,171
- scenes from my life
- flashed across the sky
- 296
- 00:22:59,204 --> 00:23:00,639
- and in each scene,
- 297
- 00:23:00,672 --> 00:23:02,708
- I noticed that there were
- footprints in the sand.
- 298
- 00:23:02,741 --> 00:23:05,943
- In some scenes there were
- two sets of footprints
- 299
- 00:23:05,977 --> 00:23:09,615
- and in other scenes there was
- only one set of footprints.
- 300
- 00:23:16,455 --> 00:23:17,389
- Hey.
- 301
- 00:23:18,323 --> 00:23:19,458
- Oh. Hey.
- 302
- 00:23:19,491 --> 00:23:21,693
- - Hey, Sister Louise.
- - Hi.
- 303
- 00:23:21,727 --> 00:23:24,596
- Do you mind if I snag another
- stupendous Walking Taco?
- 304
- 00:23:24,630 --> 00:23:28,033
- Of course, dear.
- You're a growing boy!
- 305
- 00:23:28,066 --> 00:23:32,104
- And Walking Tacos have lots
- of protein and fiber.
- 306
- 00:23:32,137 --> 00:23:34,173
- Oh, may I have some sour cream
- too, please?
- 307
- 00:23:34,206 --> 00:23:35,674
- - Oh, yes.
- - Thank you.
- 308
- 00:23:35,707 --> 00:23:38,510
- You're welcome.
- What about you, dear?
- 309
- 00:23:38,544 --> 00:23:40,546
- - Oh, no, no thanks.
- - No?
- 310
- 00:23:40,579 --> 00:23:44,750
- No sour cream?
- No, that is the best part.
- 311
- 00:23:44,783 --> 00:23:46,485
- OK.
- 312
- 00:23:46,518 --> 00:23:49,421
- I guess I'll have some.
- 313
- 00:23:49,455 --> 00:23:51,423
- How's everything going for you
- so far, Alice?
- 314
- 00:23:51,457 --> 00:23:53,425
- It's great.
- 315
- 00:23:53,459 --> 00:23:58,497
- You know, it's OK if you think
- things are totally weird.
- 316
- 00:23:58,530 --> 00:24:01,200
- It's supposed to be
- a little weird.
- 317
- 00:24:01,233 --> 00:24:03,135
- At least at first.
- 318
- 00:24:04,269 --> 00:24:05,571
- I'll see you later, Alice.
- 319
- 00:24:05,604 --> 00:24:07,239
- OK, bye!
- 320
- 00:24:10,576 --> 00:24:13,545
- I come from a very big family.
- 321
- 00:24:13,579 --> 00:24:18,584
- I have four younger siblings
- and...
- 322
- 00:24:18,617 --> 00:24:21,587
- an older sister...
- 323
- 00:24:21,620 --> 00:24:23,689
- Melissa.
- 324
- 00:24:23,722 --> 00:24:26,525
- She made honor roll
- every semester
- 325
- 00:24:26,558 --> 00:24:28,527
- and she founded
- Habitat for Humanity
- 326
- 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,095
- at our school.
- 327
- 00:24:30,128 --> 00:24:32,631
- She's the star of our family.
- 328
- 00:24:32,664 --> 00:24:35,701
- One time,
- I came home at 2:00 a.m....
- 329
- 00:24:35,734 --> 00:24:38,670
- three hours past my curfew.
- 330
- 00:24:42,374 --> 00:24:44,810
- And no one even noticed.
- 331
- 00:24:44,843 --> 00:24:48,780
- It felt like no one cared
- 332
- 00:24:48,814 --> 00:24:52,784
- if I was there or not.
- 333
- 00:24:52,818 --> 00:24:54,419
- Um...
- 334
- 00:24:54,453 --> 00:24:56,088
- Uh...
- 335
- 00:24:56,121 --> 00:24:58,724
- I'd now like to play
- my first song.
- 336
- 00:25:08,834 --> 00:25:13,372
- <i>♪ You don't notice me
- standing here ♪</i>
- 337
- 00:25:13,405 --> 00:25:16,575
- <i>♪ Wishing you
- could somehow feel ♪</i>
- 338
- 00:25:16,608 --> 00:25:18,777
- <i>♪ I just wish
- that you could feel ♪</i>
- 339
- 00:25:18,810 --> 00:25:22,114
- Last fall,
- Melissa came to pick me up
- 340
- 00:25:22,147 --> 00:25:24,483
- from a friend's house
- to take me home.
- 341
- 00:25:24,516 --> 00:25:30,188
- <i>♪ And each day we were born ♪</i>
- 342
- 00:25:30,222 --> 00:25:34,793
- And the next thing I remember
- is waking up in the hospital
- 343
- 00:25:34,826 --> 00:25:36,662
- being told that
- we were in an accident
- 344
- 00:25:36,695 --> 00:25:40,465
- and that I had
- three broken ribs...
- 345
- 00:25:42,601 --> 00:25:45,304
- And the first thought
- I had was...
- 346
- 00:25:49,374 --> 00:25:55,314
- Maybe my parents will finally
- start to notice me.
- 347
- 00:25:58,383 --> 00:26:00,752
- Melissa was fine but...
- 348
- 00:26:00,786 --> 00:26:02,854
- my parents
- were still obsessed with her.
- 349
- 00:26:02,888 --> 00:26:08,760
- It felt like
- they blamed me for the accident.
- 350
- 00:26:08,794 --> 00:26:12,531
- That if she hadn't
- had to come and pick me up,
- 351
- 00:26:12,564 --> 00:26:15,667
- she wouldn't have missed
- her Science Bowl nationals.
- 352
- 00:26:15,701 --> 00:26:19,738
- But then,
- I came on to this retreat...
- 353
- 00:26:21,306 --> 00:26:26,278
- And I realized
- that God loves me...
- 354
- 00:26:26,311 --> 00:26:28,747
- my friends love me...
- 355
- 00:26:28,780 --> 00:26:32,150
- and...
- 356
- 00:26:33,185 --> 00:26:36,154
- I love me too.
- 357
- 00:28:41,713 --> 00:28:43,582
- OK, guys, circle up, circle up.
- 358
- 00:28:48,420 --> 00:28:50,422
- Now, this is one
- of my favorite songs,
- 359
- 00:28:50,455 --> 00:28:53,425
- and while you're listening,
- I want you to imagine
- 360
- 00:28:53,458 --> 00:28:57,429
- that the eyes in the song
- are Jesus's eyes.
- 361
- 00:29:22,420 --> 00:29:23,555
- <i>♪ Love ♪</i>
- 362
- 00:29:26,491 --> 00:29:32,364
- <i>♪ I get so lost sometimes ♪</i>
- 363
- 00:29:32,397 --> 00:29:37,636
- <i>♪ Days pass ♪</i>
- 364
- 00:29:37,669 --> 00:29:43,608
- <i>♪ And this emptiness
- fills my heart ♪</i>
- 365
- 00:29:43,642 --> 00:29:47,445
- <i>♪ When I want to run away ♪</i>
- 366
- 00:29:52,617 --> 00:29:54,586
- Would you look at how
- these gorgeous pines
- 367
- 00:29:54,619 --> 00:29:57,089
- contrast against the blue sky?!
- 368
- 00:29:57,123 --> 00:30:00,625
- Isn't God's paint palette
- just magnificent?
- 369
- 00:30:00,659 --> 00:30:02,828
- So did I tell you Nina
- told me she liked my hair
- 370
- 00:30:02,861 --> 00:30:05,031
- - this morning at breakfast?
- - Mm-hmm.
- 371
- 00:30:05,064 --> 00:30:06,998
- She said she can't do it
- with her own hair
- 372
- 00:30:07,033 --> 00:30:09,434
- because every time she tries it
- her hair gets all bumpy.
- 373
- 00:30:09,467 --> 00:30:11,837
- So I said I could
- show her how I do it
- 374
- 00:30:11,870 --> 00:30:13,939
- and she said she would
- invite me over sometime!
- 375
- 00:30:13,972 --> 00:30:15,473
- Isn't that cool?
- 376
- 00:30:15,507 --> 00:30:16,942
- Yeah.
- 377
- 00:30:18,643 --> 00:30:23,415
- I mean, you can come too,
- of course, if you want.
- 378
- 00:30:23,448 --> 00:30:24,883
- Well, maybe I should
- ask Nina first
- 379
- 00:30:24,916 --> 00:30:26,718
- if it's OK that you're there,
- 380
- 00:30:26,751 --> 00:30:28,753
- but I mean
- do you even wanna come?
- 381
- 00:30:28,787 --> 00:30:30,989
- - Whoa!
- - Oh, my God.
- 382
- 00:30:31,022 --> 00:30:32,891
- Are you OK?
- 383
- 00:30:34,626 --> 00:30:35,994
- Everything OK here, troops?
- 384
- 00:30:36,028 --> 00:30:38,064
- Ooh, comrade.
- 385
- 00:30:38,097 --> 00:30:40,432
- That's quite a battle wound.
- 386
- 00:30:40,465 --> 00:30:41,533
- Uh-huh.
- 387
- 00:30:41,566 --> 00:30:43,435
- Can you walk?
- 388
- 00:30:43,468 --> 00:30:48,107
- - No. No. No.
- - OK. Just don't move.
- 389
- 00:30:50,142 --> 00:30:52,178
- Let's get you to the nurse, huh?
- 390
- 00:31:13,565 --> 00:31:15,901
- Hey.
- 391
- 00:31:15,934 --> 00:31:18,037
- I was just coming to let you
- know we're doing the group photo
- 392
- 00:31:18,070 --> 00:31:19,671
- down by the bridge in five.
- 393
- 00:31:19,704 --> 00:31:23,808
- Great. I'll be there.
- 394
- 00:31:23,842 --> 00:31:26,212
- Everything OK in here?
- 395
- 00:31:26,245 --> 00:31:28,147
- Yep.
- 396
- 00:31:28,180 --> 00:31:29,547
- OK.
- 397
- 00:31:32,951 --> 00:31:34,586
- What was that?
- 398
- 00:31:41,559 --> 00:31:43,628
- I specifically asked you
- for your phone
- 399
- 00:31:43,662 --> 00:31:46,198
- on the day you arrived.
- 400
- 00:31:46,232 --> 00:31:49,901
- Look, I'm gonna have
- to tell Father about this.
- 401
- 00:31:52,938 --> 00:31:54,439
- Uh, Chris,
- could you come in, please?
- 402
- 00:31:56,108 --> 00:31:59,811
- Hey, Alice,
- what'd you have for breakfast?
- 403
- 00:31:59,844 --> 00:32:01,646
- Cereal.
- 404
- 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,581
- Oh, you didn't have salad?
- 405
- 00:32:03,615 --> 00:32:04,883
- Like a Wade salad.
- 406
- 00:32:06,118 --> 00:32:09,587
- OK. Everybody say Jesus Christ!
- 407
- 00:32:09,621 --> 00:32:11,656
- Jesus Christ!
- 408
- 00:32:11,690 --> 00:32:13,092
- OK, great!
- 409
- 00:32:13,125 --> 00:32:14,960
- Guys, head up
- toward the cafeteria.
- 410
- 00:32:14,993 --> 00:32:17,495
- We're gonna have lunch
- in our small groups today, OK?
- 411
- 00:32:20,232 --> 00:32:23,768
- And Alice, Alice, a quick word.
- 412
- 00:32:28,673 --> 00:32:30,008
- Nina said you kept your phone.
- 413
- 00:32:33,712 --> 00:32:34,779
- You know, we have a reason
- for everything
- 414
- 00:32:34,813 --> 00:32:36,581
- that we ask you to do here
- 415
- 00:32:36,614 --> 00:32:38,783
- and it's very important
- that you follow our rules.
- 416
- 00:32:38,817 --> 00:32:40,685
- Sorry, Father.
- 417
- 00:32:40,719 --> 00:32:43,722
- I hope you understand I can't
- let this go unpunished.
- 418
- 00:32:43,755 --> 00:32:48,194
- Now first, you must empty
- the trash receptacles.
- 419
- 00:32:48,227 --> 00:32:50,729
- There are four of them.
- 420
- 00:32:50,762 --> 00:32:56,102
- One there... and one there...
- 421
- 00:32:56,135 --> 00:32:58,737
- and one there...
- 422
- 00:33:20,226 --> 00:33:22,861
- Come on.
- 423
- 00:34:57,889 --> 00:34:58,957
- What?
- 424
- 00:35:40,399 --> 00:35:42,800
- Alice!
- 425
- 00:35:42,834 --> 00:35:44,303
- - Hey.
- - What's up?
- 426
- 00:35:46,505 --> 00:35:48,840
- Just finished cleaning.
- 427
- 00:35:48,873 --> 00:35:50,708
- We made S'mores after lunch.
- 428
- 00:35:50,742 --> 00:35:51,943
- Saved you one.
- 429
- 00:35:53,011 --> 00:35:54,846
- Thanks.
- 430
- 00:35:54,879 --> 00:35:57,049
- We pretended each marshmallow
- was a different mortal sin
- 431
- 00:35:57,082 --> 00:35:58,384
- before burning it.
- 432
- 00:35:58,417 --> 00:36:00,386
- Yours was lust.
- 433
- 00:36:00,419 --> 00:36:01,420
- Oh.
- 434
- 00:36:03,788 --> 00:36:06,492
- Look, I want you to know
- I'm not mad
- 435
- 00:36:06,525 --> 00:36:09,161
- about the phone thing, OK?
- 436
- 00:36:09,195 --> 00:36:11,263
- You're doing a real good job
- 437
- 00:36:11,297 --> 00:36:14,300
- and I think
- you're on the right path now.
- 438
- 00:36:14,333 --> 00:36:17,036
- So, just keep up
- the good work, OK?
- 439
- 00:36:17,069 --> 00:36:18,204
- OK.
- 440
- 00:36:20,306 --> 00:36:22,074
- I believe in you.
- 441
- 00:36:43,928 --> 00:36:45,064
- "Dear Andrew...
- 442
- 00:36:48,567 --> 00:36:49,968
- Remember when you were little
- 443
- 00:36:50,001 --> 00:36:51,936
- and Mom and I would tuck you in,
- 444
- 00:36:51,970 --> 00:36:54,206
- and you would make us kiss you
- on both of your cheeks
- 445
- 00:36:54,240 --> 00:36:55,507
- at exactly the same time
- 446
- 00:36:55,541 --> 00:36:58,210
- or else
- you couldn't fall asleep?
- 447
- 00:36:58,244 --> 00:37:00,246
- I always thought those
- were my favorite memories
- 448
- 00:37:00,279 --> 00:37:02,248
- from when
- we were a young family.
- 449
- 00:37:02,281 --> 00:37:03,815
- But I was wrong.
- 450
- 00:37:03,848 --> 00:37:06,452
- Every day is a new
- favorite memory with you.
- 451
- 00:37:06,485 --> 00:37:09,355
- I love you, kiddo.
- 452
- 00:37:09,388 --> 00:37:11,490
- Love, Dad."
- 453
- 00:37:15,994 --> 00:37:17,529
- "Dear Laura...
- 454
- 00:37:19,198 --> 00:37:21,799
- Your father and I
- love you so much.
- 455
- 00:37:21,833 --> 00:37:23,801
- And although
- I will always cherish
- 456
- 00:37:23,835 --> 00:37:26,205
- those days
- when you were little,
- 457
- 00:37:26,238 --> 00:37:28,906
- I love being able to do
- adult things with you too...
- 458
- 00:37:28,940 --> 00:37:30,975
- like getting our nails done
- 459
- 00:37:31,009 --> 00:37:34,446
- and showing you how to cook
- my famous baked ziti.
- 460
- 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:40,286
- But no matter what,
- you'll always be my baby girl.
- 461
- 00:37:40,319 --> 00:37:42,388
- I love you so much."
- 462
- 00:37:46,058 --> 00:37:49,161
- "Dear Alice,
- 463
- 00:37:49,194 --> 00:37:51,929
- You're a wonderful daughter
- and the best church partner
- 464
- 00:37:51,963 --> 00:37:55,301
- a father could ask for.
- It's so amazing
- 465
- 00:37:55,334 --> 00:37:57,969
- to watch you grow
- into the wholesome young woman
- 466
- 00:37:58,002 --> 00:38:01,340
- God created you to be.
- I am so proud of you
- 467
- 00:38:01,373 --> 00:38:06,345
- for always making good choices.
- Love you, Al.
- 468
- 00:38:06,378 --> 00:38:07,446
- Love, Dad."
- 469
- 00:38:27,299 --> 00:38:28,233
- Amen.
- 470
- 00:38:28,267 --> 00:38:30,169
- Amen.
- 471
- 00:38:32,037 --> 00:38:35,574
- All right.
- Like myself
- 472
- 00:38:35,607 --> 00:38:37,909
- and my fellow senior leaders
- have done,
- 473
- 00:38:37,942 --> 00:38:39,311
- we are now gonna ask
- 474
- 00:38:39,345 --> 00:38:42,247
- that you all share
- your own stories.
- 475
- 00:38:42,281 --> 00:38:45,050
- Moments when life
- was difficult,
- 476
- 00:38:45,084 --> 00:38:48,620
- or hard, or overwhelming.
- 477
- 00:38:48,654 --> 00:38:51,022
- Times where you felt
- Jesus was far away.
- 478
- 00:38:56,328 --> 00:39:00,599
- My girlfriend
- dumped me last week.
- 479
- 00:39:00,632 --> 00:39:02,967
- That was really rough.
- 480
- 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,603
- I thought everything
- was going well,
- 481
- 00:39:04,636 --> 00:39:07,206
- and last week,
- she had her friend call me
- 482
- 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,241
- to break up with me for her.
- 483
- 00:39:09,274 --> 00:39:11,043
- And I'm pretty sure
- it was a three-way call,
- 484
- 00:39:11,076 --> 00:39:15,547
- and she was listening,
- so I acted like it was cool,
- 485
- 00:39:15,581 --> 00:39:18,417
- but it really sucked.
- 486
- 00:39:18,450 --> 00:39:19,884
- Thank you, Andrew.
- 487
- 00:39:22,454 --> 00:39:26,991
- This is really hard
- to talk about.
- 488
- 00:39:27,024 --> 00:39:30,462
- But...
- 489
- 00:39:30,496 --> 00:39:33,065
- Last month...
- 490
- 00:39:35,701 --> 00:39:39,071
- my Grandma died.
- 491
- 00:39:39,104 --> 00:39:43,075
- She lived in Idaho,
- so I didn't see her that often.
- 492
- 00:39:46,412 --> 00:39:48,647
- And like,
- it makes me really sad
- 493
- 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,617
- that we didn't get to talk much
- before she died.
- 494
- 00:39:51,650 --> 00:39:55,521
- The saddest part is...
- after her funeral,
- 495
- 00:39:55,554 --> 00:39:58,657
- we went back to her house,
- 496
- 00:39:58,690 --> 00:40:02,361
- and her dog was there,
- just looking so sad.
- 497
- 00:40:02,394 --> 00:40:04,229
- It was, like,
- walking around the house
- 498
- 00:40:04,263 --> 00:40:07,999
- looking for her.
- It had no idea.
- 499
- 00:40:19,144 --> 00:40:21,012
- OK...
- 500
- 00:40:22,681 --> 00:40:24,149
- Um...
- 501
- 00:40:26,017 --> 00:40:27,686
- Well...
- 502
- 00:40:30,255 --> 00:40:32,691
- Speaking of dogs...
- 503
- 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:39,031
- My dog... Gus...
- 504
- 00:40:39,064 --> 00:40:41,767
- died a few weeks ago.
- 505
- 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:47,706
- Um, our neighbors put out
- some chipmunk poison.
- 506
- 00:40:50,209 --> 00:40:55,113
- He must have got into it
- through the chain-link fence.
- 507
- 00:40:55,147 --> 00:40:58,083
- My family was playing basketball
- in our driveway,
- 508
- 00:40:58,116 --> 00:41:00,385
- and the ball
- went over the fence,
- 509
- 00:41:00,419 --> 00:41:02,588
- and I went to go get it,
- 510
- 00:41:02,621 --> 00:41:07,159
- and... that's where
- I found him...
- 511
- 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:13,499
- lying on his side.
- He wasn't moving.
- 512
- 00:41:36,321 --> 00:41:38,323
- - I thought he was just...
- - Excuse me.
- 513
- 00:41:38,357 --> 00:41:39,558
- All right, can I have
- your attention, please?
- 514
- 00:41:39,591 --> 00:41:41,827
- All eyes and ears here.
- 515
- 00:41:41,860 --> 00:41:44,530
- I'm sorry to report
- that earlier this morning,
- 516
- 00:41:44,563 --> 00:41:46,198
- I found something
- rather disturbing
- 517
- 00:41:46,231 --> 00:41:48,467
- on my office computer.
- 518
- 00:41:48,500 --> 00:41:50,202
- It appears that someone
- has used it
- 519
- 00:41:50,235 --> 00:41:53,672
- to engage
- in an online chat of...
- 520
- 00:41:53,705 --> 00:41:56,775
- well, let's just say
- an explicit nature.
- 521
- 00:41:56,808 --> 00:41:59,344
- Would anyone like to take
- responsibility for this?
- 522
- 00:42:04,116 --> 00:42:07,452
- I didn't think so.
- 523
- 00:42:07,486 --> 00:42:11,823
- Now, I have no way
- of knowing who did this,
- 524
- 00:42:11,857 --> 00:42:17,162
- but whoever it was,
- even if I don't know you did it,
- 525
- 00:42:17,195 --> 00:42:21,466
- you do, and so does God.
- 526
- 00:42:21,500 --> 00:42:24,136
- But in keeping with the theme
- of this retreat,
- 527
- 00:42:24,169 --> 00:42:27,172
- I hope that whomever did do it
- feels compelled
- 528
- 00:42:27,205 --> 00:42:29,441
- by the Spirit of Christ
- to come forward
- 529
- 00:42:29,474 --> 00:42:31,677
- before the retreat is through.
- 530
- 00:43:02,574 --> 00:43:04,910
- So, Alice,
- how would you describe
- 531
- 00:43:04,943 --> 00:43:07,245
- your relationship with Jesus?
- 532
- 00:43:07,279 --> 00:43:09,481
- - Fine.
- - Just fine?
- 533
- 00:43:11,883 --> 00:43:13,885
- Fine, as in good.
- 534
- 00:43:13,919 --> 00:43:16,221
- Do you think that there might
- be something getting in the way?
- 535
- 00:43:16,254 --> 00:43:18,523
- Something that's preventing it
- from being better?
- 536
- 00:43:21,727 --> 00:43:23,762
- OK, well, why don't you try
- reflecting back
- 537
- 00:43:23,795 --> 00:43:25,530
- on that feelings checklist
- you filled out
- 538
- 00:43:25,564 --> 00:43:28,166
- on your first day here.
- Do any of the emotions
- 539
- 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,736
- that you circled on there
- bring anything up?
- 540
- 00:43:30,769 --> 00:43:32,904
- Um...
- 541
- 00:43:34,973 --> 00:43:40,812
- I was feeling envious
- of my best friend
- 542
- 00:43:40,846 --> 00:43:44,216
- when she got a Beamer
- for her birthday,
- 543
- 00:43:44,249 --> 00:43:47,185
- because I drive
- a Buick Le Sabre.
- 544
- 00:43:47,219 --> 00:43:50,889
- Anything else?
- 545
- 00:43:50,922 --> 00:43:53,792
- She also got Oakley sunglasses
- for Christmas.
- 546
- 00:43:56,895 --> 00:43:58,730
- What about feeling turned on?
- 547
- 00:44:05,504 --> 00:44:07,506
- No temptation
- has overtaken you
- 548
- 00:44:07,539 --> 00:44:09,675
- except what is common
- to mankind.
- 549
- 00:44:09,708 --> 00:44:11,276
- And God will not let you
- be tempted
- 550
- 00:44:11,309 --> 00:44:12,811
- beyond what you can bear,
- and he knows
- 551
- 00:44:12,844 --> 00:44:14,613
- what is truly in your heart.
- 552
- 00:44:17,849 --> 00:44:19,351
- OK.
- 553
- 00:44:22,821 --> 00:44:24,556
- So, have you ever
- felt turned on?
- 554
- 00:44:28,994 --> 00:44:31,730
- And did you take any action
- when you had that feeling?
- 555
- 00:44:34,299 --> 00:44:35,734
- You didn't take any action?
- 556
- 00:44:37,969 --> 00:44:39,237
- No.
- 557
- 00:44:42,708 --> 00:44:44,810
- Nothing with
- your classmate Wade?
- 558
- 00:44:47,612 --> 00:44:50,415
- No.
- 559
- 00:44:50,449 --> 00:44:51,983
- Someone made that up.
- 560
- 00:44:55,054 --> 00:44:56,922
- Alice, this retreat
- isn't gonna do you any favors
- 561
- 00:44:56,955 --> 00:44:58,390
- if you're not honest.
- 562
- 00:45:10,969 --> 00:45:13,438
- How's this?
- 563
- 00:45:13,472 --> 00:45:17,609
- Wow! That one's huge.
- Way to go, Alice.
- 564
- 00:45:20,746 --> 00:45:22,280
- Thanks.
- 565
- 00:45:36,962 --> 00:45:39,965
- And when you turn it on,
- our plasma rises
- 566
- 00:45:39,998 --> 00:45:42,000
- out of this little Oak unit.
- 567
- 00:45:42,034 --> 00:45:44,302
- But when you press off,
- it sinks back down
- 568
- 00:45:44,336 --> 00:45:46,304
- and a Rothko takes its place.
- 569
- 00:45:46,338 --> 00:45:48,473
- Your rec room sounds amazing!
- 570
- 00:45:48,507 --> 00:45:50,675
- Hey, Nina, that, um...
- 571
- 00:45:50,709 --> 00:45:52,611
- leader meeting
- is about to start.
- 572
- 00:45:52,644 --> 00:45:55,047
- Right, right.
- I forgot about that.
- 573
- 00:45:55,081 --> 00:45:57,382
- Thank you. Um, I gotta go.
- 574
- 00:45:57,415 --> 00:45:59,451
- OK. I'll see you
- at the campfire.
- 575
- 00:46:11,797 --> 00:46:12,998
- Hey!
- 576
- 00:46:13,032 --> 00:46:14,533
- What?
- 577
- 00:46:17,036 --> 00:46:19,038
- What is your problem with me?
- 578
- 00:46:19,071 --> 00:46:21,973
- My problem? My problem is
- that Heather almost dumped me
- 579
- 00:46:22,007 --> 00:46:23,909
- because of that disgusting rumor
- you started.
- 580
- 00:46:23,942 --> 00:46:25,577
- I didn't start it!
- 581
- 00:46:25,610 --> 00:46:27,479
- Yeah, well,
- if you didn't, who did?
- 582
- 00:46:27,512 --> 00:46:30,015
- I don't know! I...
- 583
- 00:46:30,049 --> 00:46:31,083
- Did you start it?
- 584
- 00:46:31,117 --> 00:46:34,419
- No! I have a girlfriend.
- 585
- 00:46:34,452 --> 00:46:37,556
- OK. Well,
- both you and I know
- 586
- 00:46:37,589 --> 00:46:40,559
- that nothing happened.
- 587
- 00:46:42,828 --> 00:46:44,329
- Are you telling people that?
- 588
- 00:46:48,567 --> 00:46:50,502
- You need to start!
- Because everyone thinks
- 589
- 00:46:50,535 --> 00:46:53,338
- that I'm a slut,
- even the teachers.
- 590
- 00:46:55,074 --> 00:46:57,008
- Look, you're
- the only other person
- 591
- 00:46:57,043 --> 00:46:58,443
- who knows what happened.
- 592
- 00:46:58,476 --> 00:47:00,946
- And no one believes me!
- 593
- 00:47:00,979 --> 00:47:03,115
- Hey, Wade! What are you
- still doing here?
- 594
- 00:47:03,149 --> 00:47:04,883
- Just on my way out, Father.
- 595
- 00:47:04,916 --> 00:47:06,952
- OK, good, good.
- Hey, how's the old shotput arm
- 596
- 00:47:06,985 --> 00:47:08,720
- - doing in the off season?
- - Good, Father.
- 597
- 00:47:08,753 --> 00:47:10,689
- Just trying not to do
- too much heavy lifting.
- 598
- 00:47:50,162 --> 00:47:53,099
- <i>♪ Give me a word
- Give me a sign ♪</i>
- 599
- 00:47:53,132 --> 00:47:58,637
- <i>♪ Show me where to look
- Tell me what will I find ♪</i>
- 600
- 00:47:58,670 --> 00:48:00,906
- <i>♪ What will I find? ♪</i>
- 601
- 00:48:02,841 --> 00:48:05,944
- <i>♪ Lay me on the ground
- Fly me in the sky ♪</i>
- 602
- 00:48:05,977 --> 00:48:11,516
- <i>♪ Show me where to look
- Tell me what will I find ♪</i>
- 603
- 00:48:11,549 --> 00:48:13,818
- <i>♪ What will I find? ♪</i>
- 604
- 00:48:18,257 --> 00:48:19,624
- <i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>
- 605
- 00:48:21,660 --> 00:48:22,861
- <i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>
- 606
- 00:48:25,131 --> 00:48:29,901
- <i>♪ Oh, heaven,
- let your light shine down ♪</i>
- 607
- 00:48:31,703 --> 00:48:36,474
- <i>♪ Oh, heaven,
- let your light shine down ♪</i>
- 608
- 00:48:38,177 --> 00:48:43,648
- <i>♪ Oh, heaven,
- let your light shine down ♪</i>
- 609
- 00:48:43,682 --> 00:48:45,717
- <i>♪ Oh ♪</i>
- 610
- 00:48:48,019 --> 00:48:50,956
- I need a cup of tea.
- 611
- 00:48:58,730 --> 00:49:00,232
- I'm all done.
- 612
- 00:49:00,266 --> 00:49:01,833
- OK, dear.
- 613
- 00:49:01,866 --> 00:49:04,936
- It is the best.
- 614
- 00:49:04,970 --> 00:49:06,571
- ...and the colorful,
- like, floral tops.
- 615
- 00:49:06,604 --> 00:49:07,572
- - The stripes, the stripes!
- - Hey!
- 616
- 00:49:07,605 --> 00:49:08,773
- It's so good.
- 617
- 00:49:08,807 --> 00:49:10,809
- Can I talk to you
- for a minute?
- 618
- 00:49:10,842 --> 00:49:12,211
- - Um...
- - I'll save you a seat.
- 619
- 00:49:12,244 --> 00:49:13,812
- OK.
- 620
- 00:49:16,915 --> 00:49:19,185
- What's up?
- Nina asked me to sit with her,
- 621
- 00:49:19,218 --> 00:49:21,187
- so I don't want
- to make her wait.
- 622
- 00:49:21,220 --> 00:49:25,790
- I saw Nina giving Adam
- a blow job.
- 623
- 00:49:25,824 --> 00:49:27,059
- What?!
- 624
- 00:49:27,093 --> 00:49:29,128
- Yeah. In the woods
- after lunch.
- 625
- 00:49:34,066 --> 00:49:37,103
- Why do you think it's OK
- to keep making things up?
- 626
- 00:49:37,136 --> 00:49:38,903
- I'm not making this up!
- 627
- 00:49:38,937 --> 00:49:40,538
- Gabby told me you were talking
- 628
- 00:49:40,572 --> 00:49:43,109
- about your dog dying
- in your small group?
- 629
- 00:49:43,142 --> 00:49:45,010
- - Did Gus die?
- - OK, look.
- 630
- 00:49:45,044 --> 00:49:47,679
- I just said that because...
- I didn't know what to do!
- 631
- 00:49:47,712 --> 00:49:49,014
- I didn't have anything to say,
- and everyone had
- 632
- 00:49:49,048 --> 00:49:50,582
- these really sad stories...
- 633
- 00:49:50,615 --> 00:49:52,650
- God,
- this is just like
- 634
- 00:49:52,684 --> 00:49:54,286
- that time in sixth grade
- when you told everyone
- 635
- 00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:55,720
- Jason gave you
- a "purple nurple"
- 636
- 00:49:55,754 --> 00:49:57,056
- on the bus.
- 637
- 00:49:57,089 --> 00:49:58,890
- You want attention.
- 638
- 00:49:58,923 --> 00:50:00,859
- - OK...
- - You know what?
- 639
- 00:50:00,892 --> 00:50:02,827
- I bet you actually did
- toss Wade's salad.
- 640
- 00:50:02,861 --> 00:50:04,030
- I don't even know
- what that means!
- 641
- 00:50:04,063 --> 00:50:05,231
- Oh, my God. Quit the act.
- 642
- 00:50:05,264 --> 00:50:06,865
- I know you know what it means,
- 643
- 00:50:06,898 --> 00:50:08,267
- just like you know
- the sex scene in <i>Titanic</i>
- 644
- 00:50:08,300 --> 00:50:10,169
- comes right after
- they're in the car.
- 645
- 00:50:14,073 --> 00:50:16,775
- You were the one
- in Father's office, weren't you?
- 646
- 00:50:16,808 --> 00:50:20,112
- What?
- 647
- 00:50:20,146 --> 00:50:24,250
- It makes perfect sense.
- 648
- 00:50:24,283 --> 00:50:28,220
- And I am sick of constantly
- feeling embarrassed
- 649
- 00:50:28,254 --> 00:50:31,723
- for being friends
- with a pervy psycho.
- 650
- 00:50:44,070 --> 00:50:45,603
- Ugh.
- 651
- 00:50:50,276 --> 00:50:52,710
- Ugh.
- 652
- 00:52:50,229 --> 00:52:53,265
- Alice, hey.
- 653
- 00:52:53,299 --> 00:52:55,301
- Hey.
- 654
- 00:52:55,334 --> 00:52:56,968
- Is everything all right?
- 655
- 00:52:57,001 --> 00:52:59,837
- Uh...
- 656
- 00:52:59,871 --> 00:53:01,207
- Do you wanna talk?
- 657
- 00:53:10,949 --> 00:53:12,451
- Is everything OK?
- 658
- 00:53:21,460 --> 00:53:22,461
- What are you doing?
- 659
- 00:53:33,905 --> 00:53:35,307
- What are you doing?!
- 660
- 00:53:37,142 --> 00:53:39,010
- You know that I get turned on
- like a microwave!
- 661
- 00:53:44,350 --> 00:53:48,320
- <i>♪ Let us
- build the city of God ♪</i>
- 662
- 00:53:48,354 --> 00:53:52,258
- <i>♪ Let our tears
- be turned into dancing ♪</i>
- 663
- 00:53:52,291 --> 00:53:56,462
- <i>♪ For the Lord,
- our light and our love ♪</i>
- 664
- 00:53:56,495 --> 00:54:00,099
- <i>♪ Has turned
- the night into day ♪</i>
- 665
- 00:54:00,132 --> 00:54:04,303
- <i>♪ Let us build
- the city of God ♪</i>
- 666
- 00:54:04,336 --> 00:54:08,006
- <i>♪ Let our tears
- be turned into dancing ♪</i>
- 667
- 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:12,244
- <i>♪ For the Lord,
- our light and our love ♪</i>
- 668
- 00:54:12,278 --> 00:54:15,880
- <i>♪ Has turned
- the night into day ♪</i>
- 669
- 00:54:15,913 --> 00:54:19,518
- <i>♪ Let us build
- the city of God ♪</i>
- 670
- 00:55:24,949 --> 00:55:30,356
- <i>♪ I am the drink at
- the loneliest place in town ♪</i>
- 671
- 00:55:34,226 --> 00:55:37,029
- <i>♪ The place where
- the heartache and smoke... ♪</i>
- 672
- 00:55:37,062 --> 00:55:40,399
- One wine cooler. Please.
- 673
- 00:55:43,135 --> 00:55:48,973
- <i>♪ The jukebox is moanin'
- a sad old country sound ♪</i>
- 674
- 00:55:51,976 --> 00:55:54,246
- Thanks.
- 675
- 00:55:54,279 --> 00:55:57,982
- <i>♪ At the loneliest place
- in town ♪</i>
- 676
- 00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:05,457
- <i>♪ It's a place
- where I feel at home ♪</i>
- 677
- 00:56:05,491 --> 00:56:08,026
- <i>♪ And it's better
- than bein' alone ♪</i>
- 678
- 00:56:08,060 --> 00:56:10,462
- Rough day?
- 679
- 00:56:10,496 --> 00:56:14,032
- <i>♪ 'Cause ever since
- you been gone ♪</i>
- 680
- 00:56:14,066 --> 00:56:15,933
- <i>♪ This is where I belong ♪</i>
- 681
- 00:56:15,967 --> 00:56:19,304
- You from that Catholic
- youth retreat down the road?
- 682
- 00:56:19,338 --> 00:56:22,508
- No.
- 683
- 00:56:22,541 --> 00:56:24,309
- I'm 21.
- 684
- 00:56:28,647 --> 00:56:32,518
- <i>♪ Cuttin' up, tellin' jokes ♪</i>
- 685
- 00:56:32,551 --> 00:56:34,919
- So, what's it like over there?
- 686
- 00:56:37,723 --> 00:56:43,328
- <i>♪ You'd never know
- my whole world's falling down ♪</i>
- 687
- 00:56:46,331 --> 00:56:48,567
- <i>♪ Yeah I'm the life
- of the party ♪</i>
- 688
- 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,636
- <i>♪ At the loneliest place... ♪</i>
- 689
- 00:56:50,669 --> 00:56:53,138
- I used to be Catholic.
- I went to Catholic school
- 690
- 00:56:53,172 --> 00:56:57,309
- for 12 years.
- I was baptized, confirmed,
- 691
- 00:56:57,342 --> 00:57:01,113
- the whole kit 'n caboodle.
- 692
- 00:57:01,146 --> 00:57:03,315
- You're not anymore?
- 693
- 00:57:03,348 --> 00:57:06,552
- No.
- 694
- 00:57:06,585 --> 00:57:08,654
- How come?
- 695
- 00:57:08,687 --> 00:57:12,357
- San Francisco. The '70s.
- 696
- 00:57:12,391 --> 00:57:15,993
- Sex. Women. Mm.
- 697
- 00:57:16,028 --> 00:57:20,332
- Lots of reasons.
- But I remember being your age
- 698
- 00:57:20,365 --> 00:57:23,068
- and just being scared shitless
- 699
- 00:57:23,101 --> 00:57:25,471
- that I was gonna wind up
- in hell.
- 700
- 00:57:25,504 --> 00:57:28,005
- Really?
- 701
- 00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:29,675
- - For what?
- - Oh, God.
- 702
- 00:57:29,708 --> 00:57:33,378
- For everything.
- Cheating on my homework,
- 703
- 00:57:33,412 --> 00:57:37,516
- for giving up sugar for Lent
- and then eating a whole jar
- 704
- 00:57:37,549 --> 00:57:42,488
- of gumdrops underneath
- my grandmother's staircase.
- 705
- 00:57:42,521 --> 00:57:45,757
- I literally thought
- I was going to hell
- 706
- 00:57:45,791 --> 00:57:48,227
- for eating gumdrops.
- 707
- 00:57:49,795 --> 00:57:52,364
- And that there would be
- a big red devil there
- 708
- 00:57:52,397 --> 00:57:56,068
- with a poker,
- and he'd poke at me.
- 709
- 00:57:56,101 --> 00:57:57,703
- And my bed would be
- made out of coals,
- 710
- 00:57:57,736 --> 00:58:00,539
- and there'd be nothing
- but peas to eat,
- 711
- 00:58:00,572 --> 00:58:03,108
- 'cause I hate peas.
- 712
- 00:58:20,259 --> 00:58:24,730
- I thought I was
- gonna go to hell.
- 713
- 00:58:24,763 --> 00:58:29,601
- for... rewinding <i>Titanic</i>
- 714
- 00:58:29,635 --> 00:58:35,307
- back to the sex scene...
- three times.
- 715
- 00:58:37,209 --> 00:58:40,746
- You know, I thought
- I was gonna go to hell
- 716
- 00:58:40,779 --> 00:58:42,514
- for looking through my dad's
- 717
- 00:58:42,548 --> 00:58:44,750
- <i>Sports Illustrated
- Swimsuit Edition.</i>
- 718
- 00:58:44,783 --> 00:58:47,619
- I thought I was going to hell
- for having cybersex!
- 719
- 00:58:51,423 --> 00:58:52,658
- Yep.
- 720
- 00:58:59,164 --> 00:59:02,668
- You know, the truth is,
- nobody knows what they're doing
- 721
- 00:59:02,701 --> 00:59:05,704
- any more than the rest of us.
- We're all just trying
- 722
- 00:59:05,737 --> 00:59:07,339
- to figure out our shit.
- 723
- 00:59:13,445 --> 00:59:15,414
- But be careful online, OK?
- 724
- 00:59:15,447 --> 00:59:17,683
- Don't give your password
- out to anyone,
- 725
- 00:59:17,716 --> 00:59:19,718
- not even someone who says
- they work for AOL.
- 726
- 00:59:19,751 --> 00:59:22,821
- They don't. They just want
- to give you the Melissa virus.
- 727
- 00:59:29,161 --> 00:59:31,897
- Now, I got to get you back
- to that Jesus camp.
- 728
- 00:59:31,930 --> 00:59:36,435
- I don't want any nuns showing up
- at my bar looking for ya.
- 729
- 00:59:38,870 --> 00:59:43,275
- I know. Come on.
- I'll give you a lift.
- 730
- 00:59:53,652 --> 00:59:56,555
- Mm.
- 731
- 00:59:56,588 --> 00:59:59,224
- - Thanks.
- - No problem, kid.
- 732
- 01:00:02,628 --> 01:00:07,499
- Hey. Have you thought about
- where you might go to college?
- 733
- 01:00:09,334 --> 01:00:14,673
- Um... probably State?
- 734
- 01:00:14,706 --> 01:00:16,475
- Why don't you
- check out some schools
- 735
- 01:00:16,508 --> 01:00:19,511
- on the East and West Coasts?
- 736
- 01:00:19,544 --> 01:00:22,180
- You might like getting
- outta this town for a bit.
- 737
- 01:00:26,652 --> 01:00:28,186
- Wait!
- 738
- 01:00:33,592 --> 01:00:39,364
- Do you know what...
- tossing someone's salad is?
- 739
- 01:00:45,270 --> 01:00:48,607
- It's means licking
- someone's butthole.
- 740
- 01:00:53,979 --> 01:00:55,547
- Good luck out there, kid.
- 741
- 01:01:44,896 --> 01:01:47,899
- Hey, how's it going?
- 742
- 01:01:47,933 --> 01:01:49,835
- I really miss my cat.
- 743
- 01:01:52,904 --> 01:01:56,007
- Um... what's your cat's name?
- 744
- 01:01:58,376 --> 01:01:59,845
- Kyoto.
- 745
- 01:01:59,878 --> 01:02:03,049
- Oh, that's pretty.
- What does it mean?
- 746
- 01:02:03,082 --> 01:02:05,951
- It's a city is Japan.
- I love Japan!
- 747
- 01:02:05,984 --> 01:02:07,719
- I'm going to go with my mom
- when I turn 18
- 748
- 01:02:07,753 --> 01:02:09,521
- as a... a graduation present.
- 749
- 01:02:09,554 --> 01:02:11,623
- Cool. What are you
- gonna do there?
- 750
- 01:02:11,656 --> 01:02:14,626
- Try all the weird Japanese candy
- and eat a ton of sushi.
- 751
- 01:02:14,659 --> 01:02:15,994
- I've never had sushi.
- 752
- 01:02:16,028 --> 01:02:18,730
- Oh, my God! It's so good.
- 753
- 01:02:18,764 --> 01:02:22,901
- We should go to Taki sometime.
- They have the best sushi.
- 754
- 01:02:22,934 --> 01:02:26,505
- - Yeah.
- - In this city, anyway.
- 755
- 01:02:46,725 --> 01:02:49,394
- Hey.
- 756
- 01:02:49,427 --> 01:02:50,796
- Hey.
- 757
- 01:02:52,964 --> 01:02:55,700
- So, everyone says
- that it was Wade
- 758
- 01:02:55,734 --> 01:02:59,071
- who used Father's computer.
- 759
- 01:02:59,105 --> 01:03:00,072
- Oh.
- 760
- 01:03:00,106 --> 01:03:01,973
- Yeah.
- 761
- 01:03:02,007 --> 01:03:04,509
- Father found his bracelet
- in his office or something.
- 762
- 01:03:04,543 --> 01:03:08,047
- Mm.
- 763
- 01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:09,748
- I'm sorry
- I thought it was you.
- 764
- 01:03:12,884 --> 01:03:15,754
- It's OK.
- 765
- 01:03:15,787 --> 01:03:18,090
- But now that we know
- he's a perv,
- 766
- 01:03:18,124 --> 01:03:20,792
- he probably made up that rumor
- about you guys.
- 767
- 01:03:20,826 --> 01:03:25,697
- He clearly made it up
- to hide the fact that he's gay.
- 768
- 01:03:25,730 --> 01:03:26,765
- What?
- 769
- 01:03:26,798 --> 01:03:28,466
- Yeah, apparently,
- 770
- 01:03:28,500 --> 01:03:32,737
- whatever he did
- on Father's computer was gay.
- 771
- 01:03:32,771 --> 01:03:35,107
- But... he has a girlfriend.
- 772
- 01:03:35,141 --> 01:03:37,642
- Yeah. A girlfriend
- who doesn't even kiss
- 773
- 01:03:37,676 --> 01:03:42,081
- because she's afraid
- it'll lead to sex.
- 774
- 01:03:42,114 --> 01:03:43,815
- The perfect cover-up.
- 775
- 01:03:56,761 --> 01:03:58,097
- Ew.
- 776
- 01:04:06,471 --> 01:04:08,874
- We have a mantra
- here at Kirkos.
- 777
- 01:04:08,907 --> 01:04:12,744
- Question the First,
- Weep the Second,
- 778
- 01:04:12,777 --> 01:04:16,182
- Accept the Third,
- Live the Fourth.
- 779
- 01:04:16,215 --> 01:04:19,751
- It refers to
- the four days of Kirkos.
- 780
- 01:04:19,784 --> 01:04:21,653
- Now, they're all pretty
- self-explanatory,
- 781
- 01:04:21,686 --> 01:04:24,689
- except for
- that last one: live.
- 782
- 01:04:24,723 --> 01:04:27,459
- What that means is
- to take what you have learned
- 783
- 01:04:27,492 --> 01:04:30,162
- this weekend, what you
- have discovered about yourself,
- 784
- 01:04:30,196 --> 01:04:33,832
- and incorporate it
- into your everyday lives.
- 785
- 01:04:33,865 --> 01:04:37,969
- To live each day like it
- is the fourth day of Kirkos.
- 786
- 01:04:38,003 --> 01:04:39,838
- Now, I'm going to ask
- that you come up here
- 787
- 01:04:39,871 --> 01:04:41,640
- and speak about
- your experiences this weekend
- 788
- 01:04:41,673 --> 01:04:44,743
- with the whole group.
- There's no set order.
- 789
- 01:04:44,776 --> 01:04:47,445
- Just let the Spirit of Christ
- move you.
- 790
- 01:05:08,034 --> 01:05:09,701
- I, uh...
- 791
- 01:05:12,871 --> 01:05:16,142
- I gave in to temptation.
- 792
- 01:05:16,175 --> 01:05:20,011
- This is not who I am,
- but I let myself lose control.
- 793
- 01:05:20,046 --> 01:05:21,780
- This retreat has taught me,
- though, that,
- 794
- 01:05:21,813 --> 01:05:25,650
- through the love
- of my friends, teachers,
- 795
- 01:05:25,684 --> 01:05:27,119
- and, most importantly, Jesus,
- 796
- 01:05:27,153 --> 01:05:30,056
- that there is nothing
- I can't overcome.
- 797
- 01:06:06,691 --> 01:06:11,529
- Being in high school sucks.
- 798
- 01:06:11,563 --> 01:06:15,734
- People love to talk, but...
- 799
- 01:06:17,769 --> 01:06:24,210
- just because you hear something
- doesn't mean that it's true.
- 800
- 01:06:24,243 --> 01:06:30,548
- When people spread lies
- about you, it hurts.
- 801
- 01:06:30,582 --> 01:06:35,854
- It makes you feel alone...
- 802
- 01:06:35,887 --> 01:06:38,723
- and empty.
- 803
- 01:06:38,757 --> 01:06:44,196
- And... sometimes...
- 804
- 01:06:44,230 --> 01:06:47,799
- you do things
- that you're not proud of.
- 805
- 01:06:51,002 --> 01:06:54,572
- But look...
- 806
- 01:06:54,606 --> 01:06:58,244
- we're all hiding stuff.
- 807
- 01:06:58,277 --> 01:07:01,913
- All kinds of stuff.
- What if we just try
- 808
- 01:07:01,946 --> 01:07:07,286
- to be honest and to treat
- each other with respect?
- 809
- 01:07:07,319 --> 01:07:09,888
- That's what
- Jesus wanted, right?
- 810
- 01:07:09,921 --> 01:07:15,094
- And then, maybe, we can stop
- feeling so guilty
- 811
- 01:07:15,127 --> 01:07:18,364
- about who we are all the time,
- because the truth is,
- 812
- 01:07:18,397 --> 01:07:20,166
- we're all just trying
- to figure out our shit.
- 813
- 01:07:25,271 --> 01:07:26,604
- Sorry, um...
- 814
- 01:08:06,112 --> 01:08:07,645
- Have you ever had sushi?
- 815
- 01:08:07,679 --> 01:08:10,416
- Sushi? You mean
- like raw fish?
- 816
- 01:08:10,449 --> 01:08:12,351
- No.
- 817
- 01:08:12,384 --> 01:08:13,985
- Who are you gonna go
- to church with
- 818
- 01:08:14,018 --> 01:08:15,920
- when I go to college?
- 819
- 01:08:15,954 --> 01:08:18,257
- College? That's not
- for two more years.
- 820
- 01:08:18,290 --> 01:08:20,159
- A year and a half.
- 821
- 01:08:20,192 --> 01:08:22,961
- I don't know.
- 822
- 01:08:28,766 --> 01:08:30,236
- Maybe I'll start going
- to the late service again
- 823
- 01:08:30,269 --> 01:08:31,803
- so your mom will come.
- 824
- 01:08:34,340 --> 01:08:39,178
- Besides, State's only
- 40 minutes away.
- 825
- 01:08:39,211 --> 01:08:41,646
- Just come home
- on the weekends.
- 826
- 01:09:14,779 --> 01:09:15,980
- Hey.
- 827
- 01:09:21,187 --> 01:09:24,290
- - Um...
- - Hey.
- 828
- 01:09:24,323 --> 01:09:27,059
- You don't have
- to be scared of me.
- 829
- 01:09:27,092 --> 01:09:29,761
- I... I'm not scared of you.
- 830
- 01:09:31,230 --> 01:09:32,897
- It won't happen again.
- 831
- 01:09:35,401 --> 01:09:36,834
- Friends?
- 832
- 01:09:39,271 --> 01:09:40,439
- Friends.
- 833
- 01:09:42,107 --> 01:09:44,510
- Hug?
- 834
- 01:09:44,543 --> 01:09:45,877
- Side hug.
- 835
- 01:09:53,552 --> 01:09:56,355
- Bless me, Father,
- for I have sinned.
- 836
- 01:09:56,388 --> 01:09:58,823
- It has been a week
- since my last confession.
- 837
- 01:09:58,856 --> 01:10:01,427
- These are my sins.
- 838
- 01:10:01,460 --> 01:10:05,830
- Talking back to my parents.
- 839
- 01:10:05,863 --> 01:10:08,733
- Not doing my chores.
- 840
- 01:10:14,440 --> 01:10:15,873
- Is that it?
- 841
- 01:10:22,914 --> 01:10:27,152
- No. It's something
- that happened on the retreat.
- 842
- 01:10:28,354 --> 01:10:29,854
- OK.
- 843
- 01:10:31,190 --> 01:10:32,924
- I watched people having sex.
- 844
- 01:10:40,165 --> 01:10:41,467
- All right.
- 845
- 01:10:41,500 --> 01:10:43,202
- It was a video.
- 846
- 01:10:43,235 --> 01:10:47,573
- There was a man and a woman.
- 847
- 01:10:47,606 --> 01:10:51,577
- And the woman was wearing
- a hot pink bra.
- 848
- 01:10:51,610 --> 01:10:55,347
- They were on
- the hood of a car.
- 849
- 01:10:55,381 --> 01:10:57,216
- With graffiti on it.
- 850
- 01:11:04,556 --> 01:11:07,359
- And I did it,
- 851
- 01:11:07,393 --> 01:11:11,996
- even though I knew
- it was a sin.
- 852
- 01:11:12,031 --> 01:11:14,099
- Will God still forgive me?
- 853
- 01:11:18,037 --> 01:11:19,971
- That's between you and God.
- 854
- 01:11:22,074 --> 01:11:28,080
- For penance, fifty Hail Marys
- and fifty Our Fathers.
- 855
- 01:11:32,151 --> 01:11:34,119
- God, the Father of mercies,
- 856
- 01:11:34,153 --> 01:11:36,255
- through the death and
- resurrection of his Son
- 857
- 01:11:36,288 --> 01:11:38,590
- has reconciled the world
- to himself
- 858
- 01:11:38,624 --> 01:11:40,526
- and sent the Holy Spirit
- among us
- 859
- 01:11:40,559 --> 01:11:43,028
- for the forgiveness of sins...
- 860
- 01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:17,229
- "Where to, miss?"
- 861
- 01:12:17,262 --> 01:12:18,597
- "Stars..."
- 862
- 01:12:50,729 --> 01:12:51,929
- <i>♪ Give it to me ♪</i>
- 863
- 01:12:51,963 --> 01:12:54,233
- <i>♪ Ooh, oh ♪</i>
- 864
- 01:12:54,266 --> 01:12:56,934
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah,
- yeah, yeah, yeah ♪</i>
- 865
- 01:12:56,968 --> 01:12:59,037
- <i>♪ Ooh, oh ♪</i>
- 866
- 01:12:59,071 --> 01:13:00,606
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪</i>
- 867
- 01:13:00,639 --> 01:13:01,640
- <i>♪ Give it to me ♪</i>
- 868
- 01:13:01,673 --> 01:13:03,642
- <i>♪ Ooh, oh ♪</i>
- 869
- 01:13:03,675 --> 01:13:06,445
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah,
- yeah, yeah, yeah ♪</i>
- 870
- 01:13:06,478 --> 01:13:08,414
- <i>♪ Ooh, oh ♪</i>
- 871
- 01:13:08,447 --> 01:13:09,581
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪</i>
- 872
- 01:13:09,615 --> 01:13:10,716
- <i>♪ Give it to me ♪</i>
- 873
- 01:13:10,749 --> 01:13:12,618
- <i>♪ I'm so addicted ♪</i>
- 874
- 01:13:12,651 --> 01:13:17,222
- <i>♪ To the loving
- that you're feeding to me ♪</i>
- 875
- 01:13:17,256 --> 01:13:20,392
- <i>♪ Ohh ♪</i>
- 876
- 01:13:20,426 --> 01:13:22,494
- <i>♪ Can't do without it ♪</i>
- 877
- 01:13:22,528 --> 01:13:26,498
- <i>♪ This feeling's got me
- weak in the knees ♪</i>
- 878
- 01:13:26,532 --> 01:13:30,068
- <i>♪ Ohh, baby, baby ♪</i>
- 879
- 01:13:30,102 --> 01:13:32,137
- <i>♪ Body's in withdrawal ♪</i>
- 880
- 01:13:32,171 --> 01:13:36,308
- <i>♪ Every time
- you take it away ♪</i>
- 881
- 01:13:36,341 --> 01:13:39,445
- <i>♪ Ohh ♪</i>
- 882
- 01:13:39,478 --> 01:13:41,613
- <i>♪ Can't you
- hear me callin' ♪</i>
- 883
- 01:13:41,647 --> 01:13:45,717
- <i>♪ Beggin' you
- to come out and play ♪</i>
- 884
- 01:13:45,751 --> 01:13:47,052
- <i>♪ Aw, yeah ♪</i>
- 885
- 01:13:47,085 --> 01:13:48,220
- <i>♪ Aw, yeah ♪</i>
- 886
- 01:13:48,253 --> 01:13:50,589
- <i>♪ So, baby, come to me ♪</i>
- 887
- 01:13:50,622 --> 01:13:53,058
- <i>♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪</i>
- 888
- 01:13:53,091 --> 01:13:55,327
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
- Sweet to me ♪</i>
- 889
- 01:13:55,360 --> 01:13:57,596
- <i>♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪</i>
- 890
- 01:13:57,629 --> 01:13:58,730
- <i>♪ Ooh, baby ♪</i>
- 891
- 01:13:58,764 --> 01:13:59,765
- <i>♪ I'm craving for you ♪</i>
- 892
- 01:13:59,798 --> 01:14:01,300
- <i>♪ I'm craving ♪</i>
- 893
- 01:14:01,333 --> 01:14:05,571
- <i>♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 894
- 01:14:05,604 --> 01:14:08,240
- <i>♪ Missin' you like candy ♪</i>
- 895
- 01:14:08,273 --> 01:14:10,275
- <i>♪ Sweet sweet loving ♪</i>
- 896
- 01:14:10,309 --> 01:14:14,213
- <i>♪ Got me going
- to the extreme ♪</i>
- 897
- 01:14:14,246 --> 01:14:17,683
- <i>♪ You gotta know, oh ♪</i>
- 898
- 01:14:17,716 --> 01:14:19,551
- <i>♪ Won't go without it ♪</i>
- 899
- 01:14:19,585 --> 01:14:24,089
- <i>♪ This vibe has
- got a hold on me ♪</i>
- 900
- 01:14:24,122 --> 01:14:25,290
- <i>♪ Oh, baby ♪</i>
- 901
- 01:14:25,324 --> 01:14:27,326
- <i>♪ Oh, baby ♪</i>
- 902
- 01:14:27,359 --> 01:14:29,361
- <i>♪ Satisfying, baby ♪</i>
- 903
- 01:14:29,394 --> 01:14:33,065
- <i>♪ Let me show you
- what I'm made of ♪</i>
- 904
- 01:14:33,098 --> 01:14:36,802
- <i>♪ Made of ♪</i>
- 905
- 01:14:36,835 --> 01:14:38,704
- <i>♪ No doubt about it, boy ♪</i>
- 906
- 01:14:38,737 --> 01:14:44,109
- <i>♪ Got me feeling crazy,
- can't get enough ♪</i>
- 907
- 01:14:44,142 --> 01:14:46,478
- <i>♪ Baby, baby, baby,
- won't you ♪</i>
- 908
- 01:14:46,512 --> 01:14:47,813
- <i>♪ Come to me ♪</i>
- 909
- 01:14:47,846 --> 01:14:50,349
- <i>♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪</i>
- 910
- 01:14:50,382 --> 01:14:52,684
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
- Sweet to me ♪</i>
- 911
- 01:14:52,718 --> 01:14:54,786
- <i>♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪</i>
- 912
- 01:14:54,820 --> 01:14:56,154
- <i>♪ Ooh, baby ♪</i>
- 913
- 01:14:56,188 --> 01:14:57,322
- <i>♪ I'm craving for you ♪</i>
- 914
- 01:14:57,356 --> 01:14:58,657
- <i>♪ I'm craving ♪</i>
- 915
- 01:14:58,690 --> 01:15:02,761
- <i>♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 916
- 01:15:02,794 --> 01:15:04,596
- <i>♪ Missin' you like candy ♪</i>
- 917
- 01:15:04,630 --> 01:15:07,099
- <i>♪ So, baby, come to me ♪</i>
- 918
- 01:15:07,132 --> 01:15:09,334
- <i>♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪</i>
- 919
- 01:15:09,368 --> 01:15:11,670
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
- Sweet to me ♪</i>
- 920
- 01:15:11,703 --> 01:15:13,839
- <i>♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪</i>
- 921
- 01:15:13,872 --> 01:15:15,207
- <i>♪ Ooh, baby ♪</i>
- 922
- 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:16,308
- <i>♪ I'm craving for you ♪</i>
- 923
- 01:15:16,341 --> 01:15:17,643
- <i>♪ I'm craving ♪</i>
- 924
- 01:15:17,676 --> 01:15:23,515
- <i>♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 925
- 01:15:23,549 --> 01:15:24,683
- <i>♪ Now, give it to me ♪</i>
- 926
- 01:15:24,716 --> 01:15:26,718
- <i>♪ You know who you are ♪</i>
- 927
- 01:15:26,752 --> 01:15:29,321
- <i>♪ Your love
- is as sweet as candy ♪</i>
- 928
- 01:15:29,354 --> 01:15:31,623
- <i>♪ I'll be forever yours ♪</i>
- 929
- 01:15:31,657 --> 01:15:34,226
- <i>♪ Love always, Mandy ♪</i>
- 930
- 01:15:34,259 --> 01:15:37,095
- <i>♪ Boy, I'm craving ♪</i>
- 931
- 01:15:37,129 --> 01:15:41,600
- <i>♪ Missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 932
- 01:15:42,768 --> 01:15:45,771
- <i>♪ So, baby, come to me ♪</i>
- 933
- 01:15:45,804 --> 01:15:48,574
- <i>♪ Come, come, come to me ♪</i>
- 934
- 01:15:48,607 --> 01:15:50,876
- <i>♪ Sweet to me ♪</i>
- 935
- 01:15:50,909 --> 01:15:52,344
- <i>♪ You're so sweet ♪</i>
- 936
- 01:15:52,377 --> 01:15:53,478
- <i>♪ Ooh, baby ♪</i>
- 937
- 01:15:53,512 --> 01:15:55,814
- <i>♪ I, I, I, I ♪</i>
- 938
- 01:15:55,847 --> 01:16:00,686
- <i>♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 939
- 01:16:00,719 --> 01:16:01,853
- <i>♪ Aw, yeah ♪</i>
- 940
- 01:16:01,887 --> 01:16:04,389
- <i>♪ So, baby, come to me ♪</i>
- 941
- 01:16:04,423 --> 01:16:06,625
- <i>♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪</i>
- 942
- 01:16:06,658 --> 01:16:09,127
- <i>♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah
- Sweet to me ♪</i>
- 943
- 01:16:09,161 --> 01:16:11,263
- <i>♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪</i>
- 944
- 01:16:11,296 --> 01:16:12,431
- <i>♪ Ooh, baby ♪</i>
- 945
- 01:16:12,464 --> 01:16:13,632
- <i>♪ I'm craving for you ♪</i>
- 946
- 01:16:13,665 --> 01:16:15,133
- <i>♪ I'm craving ♪</i>
- 947
- 01:16:15,167 --> 01:16:20,339
- <i>♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪</i>
- 948
- 01:16:22,341 --> 01:16:27,341
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