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This is the first foretaste of the eternal:
having time for love.

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Rainer Maria Rilke

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lsocitrate...

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Through isocitrate dehydrogenase
in alpha-ketoglytarate...

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By alpha-ketoglytarate
hydrogenase in...

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Yes?

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Sorry, can't remember that right now.

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Miss Wolf. The citric acid cycle.
ATP isthe...

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...energy unit of organic life.
You've got to know that.

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Yeah.

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With one acid missing,
the cycle is not closed.

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I know. Learning by heart
was never my strong point.

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But as a biologist, I mean,
if I need it later, then...

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I'll ask this.

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Then maybe you should
start working for Google.

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Well...

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I'm sorry. I can't
let you pass like this.

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Alright, ladies and gentlemen,
that's it, see you in fall.

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Mr. Laube, do you have a moment?

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It's about the scholarship.

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Unfortunately,
the foundation chose someone else.

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Your work was great, one of the best.

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And I know that you can use the money
well, better than most in here.

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But you've been a bit naive,
haven't you?

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Why?

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Well, the Adenauer Foundation
is not a liberal think tank.

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And your attitude towards American
drones was quite radical.

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Radical?
That was all thoroughly researched.

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I know, Mr. Laube.
But in politics you have to consider:

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What is my goal
and how can I achieve it?

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Strategic thinking.
That's what you still have to learn.

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And what about attitude?
You did talk about attitude.

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I'm sorry, Mr. Laube.
Have a nice summer.

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Likewise.

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To make yourself really stable
you can do this.

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That's right.

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Let's do it again.
Starting position.

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Did you get the pills?

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Yes, I did.
- Ok.

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Mom, I don't know if I'll do it.

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Jule, please.
We discussed this.

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Consider your future...
- Yeah, but it's my decision, ok?

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And I can't make this decision alone.
I...

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...have to talk to Alex.

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He's involved too, right?
- So call him.

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I tried, he's not answering.

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And maybe that's better.

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Why?

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I have to speak to him personally. It's
not something you discuss on the phone.

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I need to see him.

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No.
No, definitely not.

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Please don't call him.
Don't tell him, OK?

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No, by carpool.
Flying is too expensive this late.

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Hi, it's Jan.
From "Share A Ride", yes.

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Where are you?

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What?
No...

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On the website it said 5 p.m.!

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Wait...
No, wait!

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Hello!

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Are you heading west,
like to Cologne?

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Not at all, no.

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Ok, thanks.

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Hello.
- Hi.

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Are you heading to Cologne by chance?
- No, sorry. Hamburg.

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Thanks anyway.
Safe trip.

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Hello.

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Are you heading to Cologne?
- Yes, why?

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Could you give me a ride?

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No, sorry, we're full.

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No problem, thanks anyway.

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Are you heading to Cologne, by chance?

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Yes.

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Could you maybe give me a ride?

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I had a carpool, but they stood me up.

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Now I'm stuck here and...

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I'd throw in some gas money.

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Or motor oil.

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That's ok.
You can come along.

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Really? Cool!
- No problem.

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Great.

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I just need to wash my hands.

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Okay.

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Just wait here, ok?

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Perfect, thanks.

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See you.
- See you.

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Okay.
- All cleaned up?

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Jump in.

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Alright?
- Yeah, fine.

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You can sit here.

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Jule.
- Jan, hi.

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You hitchhike a lot?

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No, first time.

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Lucky me.
I asked two people before you.

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But they were full or headed elsewhere.

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And then you showed up.

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Cool ride!
Real nice.

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Thanks.

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It even has a fridge, right?

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Yeah, and an oven.

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What model is it?

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It's a Hymermobil
on a Mercedes 303 chassis.

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Cool.

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It's a bit older, right?

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No, brand-new.

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About 30.

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30 years old?

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You travel a lot in it?

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Not really, no.

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But it's yours.
- Yes.

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It used to belong to my brother.
- Okay.

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We traveled in it a lot,
but now it's mine.

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It "used to" belong to your brother?

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My brother...
He passed away two years ago.

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Shit.
I'm sorry.

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It's OK.

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Want a sip?
It's still cold.

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Sure.
- Shall I open it?

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Thanks.

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Elderflower?

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Homemade?
- Yep.

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Cool.

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Are you from Cologne?
- No, Berlin.

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So what are you doing in Cologne?

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Moving on. I'm taking a bus.
To Spain.

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Vacation?

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No, I'm...
visiting my father.

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He lives there?
- Exactly.

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In northern Spain.

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What do you do in Berlin?

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I study biology at the
Humboldt University.

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Cool.
- And you?

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I study, too.
Political science.

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Cool.
- Well, it's a lot of statistics.

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I sometimes envy you natural scientists.

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Theory, experiment, result:
that has such a nice clarity.

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Well, it's not that simple...

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I blew my biochemistry exam
this morning.

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I'd prefer not to talk about my studies.

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Sure, sorry.

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May I ask how old you are?

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24.

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And you?
- Me too.

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So we have three more years.

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Three years before what?
- Before we turn 27.

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When all cool people bail out.

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Kurt Cobain, Janis Joplin,
Amy Winehouse, Heath Ledger...

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You think so?

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Well, that's the saying.
Never heard of it?

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I'm totally against suicide,
if that's what you're thinking.

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It may sound strange,
but I think suicide's selfish.

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I mean, you've solved your own problems.

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But your relatives really suffer.

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An old friend killed himself seven years
ago and his mom still doesn't speak.

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Not a word. She just sits in her yard
and stares into space.

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She's totally done for.

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You think it's selfish.

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I beg your pardon,
but once you're in that place,

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you don't evenexistanymore.

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You can't think of others.
You can't think at all anymore.

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You just want it to stop.
- And it does stop.

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You've solved your problems.

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But you're not only responsible
for your own life.

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It's a fact: The relatives
suffer like hell.

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What are you babbling about?
You have no idea what you're saying.

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You have this attitude that
the media spreads...

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What?
- But you're just talking shit.

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Not true at all! I told you
that I witnessed it with a friend.

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His mother was so sweet,
and now she's a wreck.

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"So sweet."
And your friend, what about him?

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But I see the family, too.
They're completely ruined.

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That's so fucked up!

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No wonder you go to hell
for suicide in most religions.

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Is that so?
- As far as I know, yes.

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Sorry, I didn't mean to get to you...
- Stop it.

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I think this was a bad idea.

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I'm not really sociable at the moment.
I think...

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...you should maybe find another ride.

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Sorry.
- Okay.

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'H...

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I'll take the next exit.

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Her brother!

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Fuck!
Fuck...

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MY Phone.
NO! Jule!

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Jule!

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Listen, I'm taking a pit
stop, I gotta take a nap.

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You can crash in the bottom bunk if you like.
- OK, cool. Great, thanks.

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No, everything's fine.

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I'm on my way to see you.

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Yeah, with the RV.

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Aren't you happy?

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Alex, I'll call you right back.

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Yes?

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I'm admiring your RV.

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We have an RV, too.

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It's practical. Room for the kids.
But your ride, it's just...

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...fantastic.

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A cult model!

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Thanks.

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I'm Torge.

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Hello. Jule.

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These are the original furnishings!

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Awesome.

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And the AC still works?

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No, hasn't for a long time.

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Do you have a glass of water for me?

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Sure, yeah.

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I'll go brush my teeth.
- Go ahead.

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And then in the other direction, right?

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You're pretty.

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Can you please leave now.

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Why?
- Because I say so.

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You leave now.

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No.

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Leave or I'll call the police.

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You smell so good.

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Come here.

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Hands off!

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Jule, it's Jan. Can you open up?
I left my phone with you.

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Come in, it's open!

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Get out.

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Get out!
- Thanks for your hospitality.

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Piss off.

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Piss off!
- Have a nice evening.

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He has my phone.

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Give me the phone.
- Piss off!

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Stupid asshole, I'll kill you.

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Cunt!

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Piss off!

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Shit, are you OK?

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Wait, I'll get water.

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Yeah, take off, asshole!

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Open up.

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Alright?

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One more time, here.

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Sorry I sprayed you, too.
I panicked.

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At least you got that guy.
- Shit, your eyes are so red.

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So are yours.

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We look like zombies.

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You came out of nowhere.

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A truck driver picked me up.
I was sleeping in his truck.

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No way, what a coincidence.
If you hadn't shown up...

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Fuck.

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Eye drops?

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Alright?

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You know karate or something?

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A bit, yeah.

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So there was no need for the pepper spray.
- Yes, there was.

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Can you do me, too?
- Sure.

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He was pretty skilled.

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I think he knew martial arts.
Ex-soldier or something.

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Open your eyes.

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A frustrated ex-soldier.

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Exactly. Thrown out for
lack of intelligence.

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Couldn't find the trigger anymore.

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What an asshole.

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Did you see his shoes?

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Men in white socks and sandals,
let me tell you: They're the worst.

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I'll remember that.

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So you're on your way to Bilbao
to see your father.

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Does he work there?
Or are your parents divorced?

261
00:24:11,100 --> 00:24:14,890
No, I grew up with my stepfather and...

262
00:24:15,850 --> 00:24:20,100
...the guy in Bilbao is my biological father.
I've never met him.

263
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,350
Wow.

264
00:24:24,970 --> 00:24:26,890
And why is that?
I mean...

265
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,850
I didn't know that my stepfather
wasn't my real father until I was 17.

266
00:24:34,270 --> 00:24:36,890
And last month I asked my mother...

267
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,640
...to put me in touch with
my biological father.

268
00:24:41,060 --> 00:24:43,310
Three days ago, he called.

269
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,470
I was just watching a game show on TV.
Totally absurd.

270
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,430
Crazy.

271
00:24:51,470 --> 00:24:53,020
And, I mean...

272
00:24:53,180 --> 00:24:57,100
...how did you find out? That
your stepfather isn't your father?

273
00:24:59,850 --> 00:25:01,890
Well...
- Long story?

274
00:25:02,470 --> 00:25:05,100
Yeah, kinda.
- OK. You don't need to...

275
00:25:08,180 --> 00:25:11,270
Sorry I threw you out this afternoon.

276
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:12,890
It's just that...

277
00:25:13,060 --> 00:25:16,270
...my brother was really 27
when he committed suicide.

278
00:25:16,430 --> 00:25:18,430
So it's a sensitive topic for me.

279
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,430
I figured.

280
00:25:21,270 --> 00:25:23,180
Sorry that I...

281
00:25:30,850 --> 00:25:32,350
Headache?

282
00:25:33,350 --> 00:25:36,720
Wanna smoke some weed?
To relax. I brought some.

283
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,020
No, thanks.

284
00:25:39,100 --> 00:25:41,180
But you can if you want!
- No need.

285
00:25:41,890 --> 00:25:43,270
Beer's enough.

286
00:25:44,430 --> 00:25:46,850
I guess I'm just really tired.

287
00:25:49,850 --> 00:25:51,350
OK, then...

288
00:25:51,430 --> 00:25:52,890
...thanks for the beer.

289
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,060
I'll let you get some sleep.
- Listen...

290
00:25:57,270 --> 00:26:00,640
Would you mind sleeping here tonight?

291
00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:05,060
You know, if this guy turns up again,
I'm a bit...

292
00:26:06,350 --> 00:26:09,890
No, sure. I can do that.
- Really? Great, that's...

293
00:26:10,060 --> 00:26:12,430
Thanks.
- Sure thing.

294
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:23,020
Jule, sure you don't want the bed? I'm
the guest, I should sleep on the floor.

295
00:26:24,770 --> 00:26:28,520
In India, I slept on the floor
for six months. Without a mat.

296
00:26:29,470 --> 00:26:30,720
It's good here.

297
00:26:30,970 --> 00:26:32,640
Very comfortable.

298
00:26:34,180 --> 00:26:35,520
It's your back.

299
00:26:45,100 --> 00:26:46,970
Do you have a favorite dream?

300
00:26:47,060 --> 00:26:48,350
What?

301
00:26:48,430 --> 00:26:50,020
A favorite dream.

302
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,020
Yes, flying. I love
to dream of flying.

303
00:26:57,140 --> 00:26:59,060
Really?
So do I!

304
00:26:59,770 --> 00:27:06,600
What, really?
You too fly at night?

305
00:27:07,350 --> 00:27:14,680
Yeah, over the city, with my arms set back.
Like Superman.

306
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,720
I feel so super free then.
Everything is possible.

307
00:27:23,220 --> 00:27:25,890
And how do you take off?

308
00:27:27,100 --> 00:27:31,140
I usually jump off a table
or a wall or something.

309
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,470
And then, shortly before I hit the
floor, I do a body twist...

310
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,890
...turn on my stomach and fly away.

311
00:27:40,060 --> 00:27:43,640
With my arms close to the body,
like a ski jumper.

312
00:27:44,140 --> 00:27:45,430
Wicked.

313
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,140
Have a nice flight.

314
00:27:53,270 --> 00:27:54,600
You, too.

315
00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:45,100
Hey!

316
00:28:45,180 --> 00:28:46,680
Good morning!
- Good morning.

317
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,720
I thought you'd left already.

318
00:28:48,850 --> 00:28:50,850
Oh no, I just didn't wanna wake you up.

319
00:28:51,020 --> 00:28:55,430
I was having breakfast with Manni,
my trucker friend.

320
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:56,720
Oh, okay.

321
00:29:02,430 --> 00:29:04,720
Did you dream of flying?

322
00:29:04,850 --> 00:29:07,640
No, unfortunately not.
And you?

323
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,430
Neither.
We should have smoked that pot.

324
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,520
Yeah, maybe.

325
00:29:17,470 --> 00:29:22,890
I gotta go. Manni has to reach Paris today.
- Right, OK.

326
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,180
Thanks again.

327
00:29:25,770 --> 00:29:27,720
For yesterday.
- Sure thing.

328
00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:32,180
Well, take care then.
- You too.

329
00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:33,720
Good luck.

330
00:29:34,060 --> 00:29:36,720
Safe trip.
- You too.

331
00:29:37,970 --> 00:29:39,310
Bye.
- Ciao.

332
00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:48,640
Jan, hang on.
Could you come back for a sec?

333
00:29:52,270 --> 00:29:55,180
I could also take you a little further.

334
00:29:55,470 --> 00:29:57,100
Really?
- Yeah, sure.

335
00:29:57,390 --> 00:29:59,720
Well, great!
I'd love that!

336
00:29:59,850 --> 00:30:02,220
Unless you prefer to ride with Manni.

337
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,470
Manni's music taste...

338
00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:07,220
No.

339
00:30:07,470 --> 00:30:09,850
Great.
- I'll grab my stuff.

340
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,140
Cool. See you.
- See you.

341
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,100
To the next leg, right'?

342
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,970
Let's see how many miles
we last this time.

343
00:30:29,060 --> 00:30:31,220
Do you mind taking country roads?

344
00:30:31,390 --> 00:30:33,720
Not at all, I'm not in a hurry.

345
00:30:47,220 --> 00:30:50,560
Look, there's a stork!
It's really pretty.

346
00:30:58,270 --> 00:31:01,270
So where are you heading?
You haven't told me yet.

347
00:31:01,470 --> 00:31:03,520
Oh, right.
To Portugal.

348
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,850
Portugal?
Wow. Pretty far.

349
00:31:06,020 --> 00:31:07,140
Yes.

350
00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,770
I'm visiting someone.

351
00:31:09,430 --> 00:31:10,520
Your father too?

352
00:31:11,060 --> 00:31:12,220
No.

353
00:31:13,430 --> 00:31:14,770
My boyfriend.

354
00:31:16,220 --> 00:31:18,770
He's doing his PhD there, in Tamera.

355
00:31:19,430 --> 00:31:21,850
What's it on?
- Ecological agriculture.

356
00:31:22,060 --> 00:31:24,559
Permacultures, water
retention systems, etc...

357
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,560
Water retention systems?

358
00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:31,470
Not just using water,
but keeping it in the cycle.

359
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,180
Want the details?
- Some other time.

360
00:31:39,470 --> 00:31:41,470
May I?
- Sure.

361
00:31:46,430 --> 00:31:49,890
Absurd, right'?
Two tons of steel to move one person?

362
00:31:50,850 --> 00:31:54,390
In 90% of the cars,
there's only one person.

363
00:31:54,470 --> 00:31:56,220
True.
Like me.

364
00:31:57,060 --> 00:31:58,560
Almost.

365
00:32:01,850 --> 00:32:03,220
And you?

366
00:32:03,430 --> 00:32:05,770
Lone wolf or social animal?

367
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,770
Social animal, definitely!
Extremely social!

368
00:32:12,970 --> 00:32:17,180
No, neither one. Some friends,
some acquaintances, the usual.

369
00:32:18,470 --> 00:32:20,430
Leaning towards the lone wolf, maybe.

370
00:32:22,220 --> 00:32:24,890
You know how many people
in Germany live alone?

371
00:32:26,220 --> 00:32:28,220
No idea. 20%?
- 50%.

372
00:32:28,390 --> 00:32:30,220
Crazy.
- Yeah, right?

373
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,390
And you know what?
I think there's a strategy behind it.

374
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,770
Really?

375
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,970
Economic reasons.
- "Economic reasons."

376
00:32:39,390 --> 00:32:40,470
Yes.

377
00:32:40,770 --> 00:32:42,140
Look:

378
00:32:42,390 --> 00:32:45,220
Take four people who
live in four apartments.

379
00:32:45,430 --> 00:32:49,390
They need four fridges, four vacuum
cleaners, four kettles, four...

380
00:32:49,770 --> 00:32:50,770
Flat screen TVs.

381
00:32:50,890 --> 00:32:54,520
Exactly! If they lived together,
they'd only need one of each.

382
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,970
So economically it makes more sense if they
live alone, as they consume more.

383
00:32:59,220 --> 00:33:04,220
A friend wrote his thesis on that:
"Capitalism's Separation Strategy."

384
00:33:04,430 --> 00:33:06,520
That does sound like a thesis.

385
00:33:07,220 --> 00:33:10,220
But being alone is against
human nature, totally!

386
00:33:10,770 --> 00:33:13,430
Humans are social creatures!
Within minutes...

387
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,970
...of being alone, we
secrete stress hormones!

388
00:33:16,220 --> 00:33:18,430
Cortisol and such.
- Wow.

389
00:33:19,770 --> 00:33:25,220
And Cortisol weakens the immune system,
so being alone makes you sick.

390
00:33:28,220 --> 00:33:30,060
But that's what they want.

391
00:33:30,220 --> 00:33:31,520
What?

392
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,220
Us to be unhappy, so we consume more.

393
00:33:36,810 --> 00:33:40,430
You keep saying "they,"
but who are "they" supposed to be?

394
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,850
Executives and politicians
who meet in dark rooms and decide...

395
00:33:46,020 --> 00:33:50,520
"Let's isolate them, so they consume
more and cease to resist.“

396
00:33:51,970 --> 00:33:53,520
You can't seriously believe that.

397
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,390
Well, I used to.
- And now?

398
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,220
Now I think it's inherent to the system.
- Inherent to the system?

399
00:34:00,430 --> 00:34:06,020
Yes. Capitalism inevitably leads to isolation
- due to its fundamental principles.

400
00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:11,429
"The Fundamental Principles of Capitalism."
- Yeah, think about it:

401
00:34:11,430 --> 00:34:15,560
From a young age we're taught
to compete with each other.

402
00:34:15,770 --> 00:34:20,060
It starts in school. Who's the best-looking?
Who's the smartest? And so on...

403
00:34:20,220 --> 00:34:23,390
Life has become a permanent audition!

404
00:34:23,470 --> 00:34:26,520
1000 people apply to a
college, only ten get in.

405
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,560
100 people apply for an
apartment, one gets it.

406
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,520
You have to be tougher,
quicker and stronger 24/7!

407
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,020
What a stress!

408
00:34:35,220 --> 00:34:37,770
Well, life's no day at the beach.

409
00:34:38,060 --> 00:34:41,060
Not in capitalism that's for sure.

410
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,770
But that's just how it is:
Competition is in our blood.

411
00:34:46,970 --> 00:34:50,890
Take two kids running across a field:
One will always try to run faster.

412
00:34:52,220 --> 00:34:56,720
How is that related?
- It totally is! It starts there, in that field!

413
00:34:57,220 --> 00:34:59,470
We just LOVE competing.

414
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,180
Competition is fun!
Even jungle warriors compete.

415
00:35:03,390 --> 00:35:06,770
But it's become so extreme!
Nonstop struggle and competition...

416
00:35:06,970 --> 00:35:09,390
The whole world has become
a damn Circus Maximus!

417
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,600
You're exaggerating.

418
00:35:10,770 --> 00:35:16,970
What? The top 5% who own the capital
benefit from the rest scurrying about.

419
00:35:17,220 --> 00:35:21,470
Everyone else just works their asses off,
is unhappy and totally stressed out.

420
00:35:27,140 --> 00:35:29,310
That's not so nice, yeah.

421
00:35:29,390 --> 00:35:31,720
But that's nature's way.

422
00:35:31,770 --> 00:35:33,890
The hard in the garden,
the tender in the pond.

423
00:35:34,060 --> 00:35:36,219
The strongest survive, these
are the rules of evolution.

424
00:35:36,220 --> 00:35:37,770
Says who?

425
00:35:37,850 --> 00:35:38,850
Says Darwin.

426
00:35:39,020 --> 00:35:40,770
Darwin?
- Yes.

427
00:35:42,270 --> 00:35:45,680
Whoa, I don't think
you're up to date there.

428
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,520
Oh, fuck...
I feel sick.

429
00:35:54,180 --> 00:35:55,520
I'm getting off the road.

430
00:36:13,060 --> 00:36:15,850
Oh shit, are you okay?

431
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,850
Have another sip of water.

432
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,520
Oh, shit.

433
00:36:30,310 --> 00:36:31,430
Are you all right?

434
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,180
I hope it's not a sunstroke.
Are you dizzy?

435
00:36:34,350 --> 00:36:37,640
No, it's alright, I guess I just
ate something wrong.

436
00:36:37,810 --> 00:36:39,350
Alright.

437
00:36:39,470 --> 00:36:43,520
I hope it's not because of
my pro-capitalist arguments.

438
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,890
No, don't worry.

439
00:36:49,100 --> 00:36:51,140
I already feel better.
I'll wipe off my vomit.

440
00:36:51,270 --> 00:36:53,350
No, no.
Let me do that.

441
00:36:53,470 --> 00:36:55,350
You want to clean off my vomit?

442
00:36:55,470 --> 00:36:58,270
I was a civil servant in
oncology, I'll manage.

443
00:36:58,430 --> 00:36:59,680
Okay.

444
00:37:01,020 --> 00:37:02,020
Oh, sorry.

445
00:37:02,140 --> 00:37:06,720
All good.
Say, can we go for a walk?

446
00:37:07,220 --> 00:37:11,890
Yeah, sure. Look, there's a
forest back there, a forest walk?

447
00:37:15,970 --> 00:37:20,470
The strongest survive. It's always
been like that. Darwin proved it.

448
00:37:20,810 --> 00:37:22,310
No, Jan.

449
00:37:22,430 --> 00:37:26,310
Darwin said "survival of the
fittest", not "survival of the strongest".

450
00:37:26,430 --> 00:37:29,770
Not the strongest survive,
but those who adapt best.

451
00:37:30,470 --> 00:37:35,020
It can also be the most bizarre.
Take the peacock for example.

452
00:37:35,140 --> 00:37:38,060
The peacock?
- Yes. Pavo Cristatus.

453
00:37:38,310 --> 00:37:39,560
Peacock!

454
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:46,890
If only the strong survive, why is there
a bizarre animal like the peacock?

455
00:37:47,060 --> 00:37:50,640
It's neither fast nor strong,
can't even run away.

456
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,310
But it can spread it's tail
to a wonderful fan.

457
00:37:54,470 --> 00:37:57,020
The ladies love it, so it has more babies.

458
00:37:57,970 --> 00:38:02,310
See? In this case not the strongest survived,
but the most bizarre.

459
00:38:02,430 --> 00:38:03,850
There are so many examples.

460
00:38:04,100 --> 00:38:07,890
This "struggle for existence" is
total bullshit.

461
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,640
Darwin was abused by the capitalists.

462
00:38:11,770 --> 00:38:13,430
From the beginning.

463
00:38:20,100 --> 00:38:22,060
But then what about gorillas?

464
00:38:22,310 --> 00:38:25,180
Gorillas fight until only one is left:

465
00:38:25,310 --> 00:38:26,810
The alpha male.

466
00:38:26,890 --> 00:38:31,560
Only the alpha male may reproduce.
It even kills the other males' babies.

467
00:38:31,810 --> 00:38:33,350
And we're all gorillas, or what?

468
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,390
No, but human society works similarly.

469
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:42,560
We fight until a pecking order is created.
And our economic system accommodates that.

470
00:38:42,770 --> 00:38:47,140
That's why it's the only one that works,
and why communism didn't work.

471
00:38:47,310 --> 00:38:50,890
Objection. Firstly, communism
was a hierarchical system too.

472
00:38:51,060 --> 00:38:55,810
And why? Because everyone wanted
the biggest piece of the cake!

473
00:38:55,890 --> 00:38:59,470
That's why "real socialism" never existed.

474
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,770
Neither in East Germany,
nor in Russia, nor in China.

475
00:39:02,850 --> 00:39:06,850
Mao and Stalin forced a system on
the people that they didn't want.

476
00:39:07,020 --> 00:39:09,220
Because it doesn't fit human nature.

477
00:39:09,390 --> 00:39:13,390
Oh, please don't start with
"communism vs capitalism"...

478
00:39:13,470 --> 00:39:16,680
That's so 90s.
Both systems suck.

479
00:39:16,770 --> 00:39:20,310
The question of the basic principle
is much more interesting.

480
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,140
What advances mankind more?

481
00:39:23,390 --> 00:39:25,140
Competition or cooperation?

482
00:39:25,310 --> 00:39:26,810
Competition.
- Cooperation.

483
00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:30,020
Competition.
- Cooperation! Why else did I give you a ride?

484
00:39:30,140 --> 00:39:31,680
And why did you kick me out?

485
00:39:32,390 --> 00:39:36,100
Come on, you know why. I took you
'cos I felt sorry for you.

486
00:39:36,220 --> 00:39:39,100
What??
You felt sorry for me??

487
00:39:39,220 --> 00:39:43,470
Never heard of compassion,
empathy, mirror neurons?

488
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,350
You were sad. I saw that, felt what
you felt, and got sad, as well.

489
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:53,310
Empathy! That's why I gave you a ride!
And that's the basis of humanity!

490
00:39:53,390 --> 00:39:57,890
It generates cooperation, which isn't
just nice, but the secret of our success!

491
00:39:58,100 --> 00:40:02,390
Thanks to cooperation, we descend
from Cro-Magnons, not Neanderthals.

492
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,140
Wanna hear more?
- No.

493
00:40:06,310 --> 00:40:07,680
Sure you do.
- No!

494
00:40:08,100 --> 00:40:09,810
Stop it, I'm a gorilla!

495
00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:17,310
They lived at the end of the last Ice Age,
around 25,000 years ago.

496
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,470
In southern France alongside
the Neanderthals.

497
00:40:20,970 --> 00:40:24,310
The Cro-Magnons survived,
while the Neanderthals went extinct.

498
00:40:24,390 --> 00:40:25,850
Know why?

499
00:40:26,100 --> 00:40:28,810
They killed the Neanderthals?
- No.

500
00:40:29,310 --> 00:40:31,100
Because of battue.

501
00:40:31,470 --> 00:40:38,470
It was like this: Neanderthals were lone
wolves who lived in groups of eight to ten.

502
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,310
They fought each other,
and were massive, brawny beings.

503
00:40:42,390 --> 00:40:44,560
Like me.
- More or less.

504
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,640
They needed around 5,000 calories
per day, a lot of meat.

505
00:40:49,140 --> 00:40:50,560
Like me.

506
00:40:51,470 --> 00:40:54,220
Yeah, maybe, anyway...

507
00:40:54,390 --> 00:40:58,770
At the end of the Ice Age, food became
scarce and they started eating each other.

508
00:40:59,470 --> 00:41:03,680
They were cannibals?
- In the end. Then they starved and went extinct.

509
00:41:03,810 --> 00:41:05,810
Now the Cro-Magnons:

510
00:41:06,100 --> 00:41:09,140
They lived in groups of up to 400.

511
00:41:09,470 --> 00:41:12,020
Together, they drove
animals towards cliffs...

512
00:41:12,140 --> 00:41:14,470
...who panicked and fell off them.
Et voila:

513
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:18,140
They had loads of meat. Real barbecue parties.
- Cool.

514
00:41:18,390 --> 00:41:22,100
Having so much food
gave them time to paint caves.

515
00:41:22,470 --> 00:41:25,470
Their tongues developed,
they started talking.

516
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,560
As the first homo sapiens.

517
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,220
And from the Cro-Magnons we descend.
They're our ancestors.

518
00:41:31,390 --> 00:41:33,140
Really?
- Yes.

519
00:41:34,140 --> 00:41:37,220
They survived because
they cooperated...

520
00:41:37,390 --> 00:41:41,350
...while Neanderthals went extinct.
Battue, that was the success factor!

521
00:41:41,470 --> 00:41:46,849
So the social element was the
decisive factor in enabling humanity!

522
00:41:46,850 --> 00:41:50,890
And now the capitalists want to turn us
back into Neanderthals, get it?

523
00:41:51,390 --> 00:41:54,640
That's a bit one-sided, Jule.
- No, it isn't.

524
00:41:55,390 --> 00:41:58,970
Capitalism is an inhuman,
misanthropic system.

525
00:41:59,100 --> 00:42:03,310
It benefits the 1% at the top,
while the rest of humanity feels miserable.

526
00:42:03,390 --> 00:42:05,390
Sorry, but that's total bullshit.

527
00:42:05,470 --> 00:42:08,310
You act like humans are
peace-loving hippies...

528
00:42:08,390 --> 00:42:11,310
...who give out hugs
all day, but they're not.

529
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,470
Know what they found on Ötzi,
that iceman from 5,000 years ago? An ax.

530
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,680
Not a peace pipe, an ax.
- Maybe he was felling trees.

531
00:42:20,390 --> 00:42:22,220
It was a battle ax, for killing.

532
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,520
He had war injuries
and an arrow tip in his shoulder.

533
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,220
That tip severed an artery
and he bled to death.

534
00:42:29,350 --> 00:42:33,220
He was murdered from behind
with a bow and arrow. Bang!

535
00:42:33,810 --> 00:42:37,520
That's what I see when I look at
5,000 years of human history:

536
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,680
Murder and destruction.
People slitting throats.

537
00:42:40,810 --> 00:42:44,970
Tribal genocide, nations attacking
each other, hate, the Holocaust...

538
00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:50,060
...oppression. The history of
mankind is one big bloodbath!

539
00:42:51,390 --> 00:42:54,720
Every 3 seconds there's a murder
in the world. Every 3 seconds!

540
00:42:55,180 --> 00:42:59,680
Right now, a man stabs his wife
because she wants to leave him.

541
00:43:02,970 --> 00:43:04,560
We're not just good, Jule.

542
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,890
We're evil, too.
- Evil.

543
00:43:10,350 --> 00:43:13,680
What about the guy who almost raped you.
Did he want to cooperate?

544
00:43:13,810 --> 00:43:16,270
What? You don't have to get polemical!

545
00:43:16,350 --> 00:43:19,196
What's that got to do with anything?
That was a troubled, stupid asshole.

546
00:43:19,220 --> 00:43:22,470
Of course there are people like that.
What fucking argument is that anyway?

547
00:43:27,100 --> 00:43:30,180
We're talking about
basic human traits.

548
00:43:30,350 --> 00:43:32,520
Those that promote us as humanity.

549
00:43:34,100 --> 00:43:41,060
Okay. And what about envy and greed?
Aren't these also basic human traits?

550
00:43:41,350 --> 00:43:46,140
If I eat potatoes every day, but my
neighbour has grilled chicken...

551
00:43:46,310 --> 00:43:49,520
...isn't it the rule rather than the
exception that I want chicken, too?

552
00:43:50,060 --> 00:43:53,680
Or if someone walks to work for ten
kilometers, while his neighbour...

553
00:43:53,810 --> 00:43:57,390
...goes by bike, isn't it normal and
humane that he also wants a bike?

554
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,969
Yes, but this has nothing to do with envy.
It's just unfair.

555
00:43:59,970 --> 00:44:01,130
They should both have a bike.

556
00:44:01,220 --> 00:44:02,850
No, we're going around in circles here.

557
00:44:02,970 --> 00:44:05,180
He should save until he
can afford a bicycle...

558
00:44:05,350 --> 00:44:07,469
...for that he'll work harder and produce
better products or...

559
00:44:07,470 --> 00:44:09,680
...tomatoes or whatever he produces.

560
00:44:11,350 --> 00:44:16,140
"My bike","your bike"...
it all started much earlier.

561
00:44:16,270 --> 00:44:18,350
With the invention of property.

562
00:44:18,470 --> 00:44:21,770
If I don't own anything,
you can't envy me, can you?

563
00:44:21,970 --> 00:44:25,390
Look, nomads, they shared.
They shared everything.

564
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,809
We love to share. Our body releases tons
of happiness hormones when we share.

565
00:44:29,810 --> 00:44:30,810
We love it.

566
00:44:32,310 --> 00:44:33,970
Then why don't we do it?

567
00:44:34,850 --> 00:44:38,020
I'm really hungry.
Shall we cook something?

568
00:44:38,180 --> 00:44:39,390
Yes.
- Yes?

569
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,970
Definitely.
Chicken, perhaps?

570
00:44:42,060 --> 00:44:43,850
For you, only potatoes.

571
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,350
No, I need meat.
Meeeeeat!

572
00:44:46,470 --> 00:44:48,850
Then go hunt a deer.

573
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:54,390
I need you for that. For the battue.
- Forget it. Take a spade.

574
00:45:06,890 --> 00:45:12,560
It's great to add two or three
sprigs of rosemary.

575
00:45:26,890 --> 00:45:28,850
How's it going there?

576
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,060
Thanks, I'm gettin into it.

577
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,180
Still some dirt here.

578
00:45:37,890 --> 00:45:40,220
And there's also pretty much here.

579
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,850
Get away!

580
00:45:54,350 --> 00:45:56,100
Next stop: Dortmund.

581
00:45:56,850 --> 00:45:59,180
All crazy Jans please disembark.

582
00:46:01,970 --> 00:46:04,850
Driving, driving, driving
down the Autobahn!

583
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,600
Look, the Cologne Cathedral!

584
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,140
Cologne!
- Carnival!

585
00:46:43,100 --> 00:46:46,850
Just drop me off at the corner,
I'll walk to the station from there.

586
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,020
And then you'll take the bus?

587
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,350
Just as I was getting used to you.

588
00:46:54,140 --> 00:46:57,810
Plus, I still have to convince you that
humans aren't as bad as you think.

589
00:46:58,060 --> 00:47:00,520
Well, that's true of course.

590
00:47:01,890 --> 00:47:03,810
Another 300 miles?

591
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,970
Uhm, yeah!

592
00:47:07,060 --> 00:47:08,770
Sure, I'd love that.

593
00:47:09,390 --> 00:47:11,390
But only if it's not out of pity.

594
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,970
No, don't worry.
Deal?

595
00:47:15,060 --> 00:47:16,350
Deal.

596
00:47:31,100 --> 00:47:32,220
Hey, look.

597
00:47:32,890 --> 00:47:34,970
Hello, Belgium!

598
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:36,970
Bye, Germany!

599
00:47:40,100 --> 00:47:43,930
Wanna pick something from the
camping guide?

600
00:47:44,890 --> 00:47:47,100
"RV Camping Guide."

601
00:47:47,350 --> 00:47:48,600
This looks good:

602
00:47:48,720 --> 00:47:53,850
"The camping site Champe le Monde
lies in the midst of the hilly Ardennes."

603
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,970
They're open.
- They are?

604
00:48:01,470 --> 00:48:03,970
From happy lambs?
- Yes, very happy.

605
00:48:06,970 --> 00:48:08,350
Meat!

606
00:48:08,970 --> 00:48:11,060
Shouldn't we grill it first?
- No!

607
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,520
You OK or you need help?

608
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,970
I'll manage.

609
00:48:41,390 --> 00:48:42,600
And?

610
00:48:43,180 --> 00:48:44,810
Looking good!

611
00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:50,140
Want some wine, too?

612
00:48:50,350 --> 00:48:51,970
Uhm, no.

613
00:48:52,100 --> 00:48:53,600
You don't drink?

614
00:48:53,720 --> 00:48:55,350
Not right now, no.

615
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,390
Hunger, for example.

616
00:49:02,020 --> 00:49:07,100
There's so much wheat that we could
feed the world's population twice.

617
00:49:07,850 --> 00:49:10,720
It's just not being
distributed properly. Or...

618
00:49:10,970 --> 00:49:14,970
Wait, I wanna show you something.

619
00:49:18,350 --> 00:49:21,520
That red spot...
This area would be sufficient...

620
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,100
...to supply the whole earth
with solar energy.

621
00:49:24,220 --> 00:49:25,720
The sun is that strong.

622
00:49:26,350 --> 00:49:30,060
Instead, we burn oil
and heat up our planet.

623
00:49:33,180 --> 00:49:36,470
Are you sure?
- Yes, it's all been calculated.

624
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,850
And the map is always with you?

625
00:49:42,350 --> 00:49:47,390
It reminds me of what we could do, if
we'd just organize ourselves. Cooperate.

626
00:49:48,930 --> 00:49:52,060
Which we don't.
- Not yet.

627
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,600
Are you nervous about
meeting your father?

628
00:50:02,180 --> 00:50:03,640
No, not at all.

629
00:50:04,180 --> 00:50:05,810
I'm looking forward to it.

630
00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:09,970
Want to hear the rest of the story?

631
00:50:10,180 --> 00:50:12,140
How I found out?

632
00:50:12,470 --> 00:50:13,720
Yes, I'd love to.

633
00:50:18,810 --> 00:50:22,140
Well, my father...
He...

634
00:50:22,430 --> 00:50:25,140
...never really knew
what to do with me.

635
00:50:25,270 --> 00:50:29,640
He never even hid his dislike.
I always asked myself why...

636
00:50:30,430 --> 00:50:33,140
...why he didn't like me, but...
Well...

637
00:50:34,470 --> 00:50:39,430
Then one summer day, we had this family
celebration at my grandmother's.

638
00:50:39,470 --> 00:50:41,350
I was 17.

639
00:50:41,970 --> 00:50:45,680
Everyone was there:
my older brother with his two kids...

640
00:50:45,720 --> 00:50:47,430
I have an older brother.

641
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,470
His wife...

642
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,810
Grandparents, uncles and aunties...

643
00:50:51,890 --> 00:50:53,520
The whole shebang.

644
00:50:54,180 --> 00:50:56,270
So I'm sitting there...

645
00:50:56,970 --> 00:51:00,810
...looking around. Everyone's
enjoying themselves, having fun.

646
00:51:03,140 --> 00:51:06,810
Suddenly I realize something's missing.
Something's wrong.

647
00:51:06,970 --> 00:51:10,270
Like a part of me's missing,
something in me is empty, you know?

648
00:51:10,430 --> 00:51:13,430
Inside of me it was getting
darker and darker.

649
00:51:14,350 --> 00:51:16,810
So I'm looking at my father's relatives...

650
00:51:17,430 --> 00:51:19,060
And suddenly...

651
00:51:19,180 --> 00:51:21,350
All of a sudden, it clicks.

652
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,270
I realize what my problem is,
I get up, approach my mother and say:

653
00:51:25,430 --> 00:51:27,720
"He's not my father, right?"

654
00:51:29,350 --> 00:51:30,470
In front of everyone?

655
00:51:31,350 --> 00:51:32,810
In front of everyone.

656
00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:36,520
And your mother?
How did she react?

657
00:51:36,970 --> 00:51:40,350
She said nothing at all.
Which was the answer, of course.

658
00:51:41,770 --> 00:51:46,430
Thus it was clear why he had
treated me like shit for 17 years.

659
00:51:50,850 --> 00:51:54,850
Is it my fault that my mother had
good taste for once in her life...

660
00:51:55,140 --> 00:51:57,430
by falling for a Spanish boatbuilder.

661
00:51:58,470 --> 00:52:00,430
A Spanish boatbuilder?

662
00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:04,680
1993, on vacation.
A one-night stand.

663
00:52:05,140 --> 00:52:07,520
My stepfather wanted her to
abort, but she refused.

664
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,140
And so one fine day
I saw the light of the world.

665
00:52:49,810 --> 00:52:51,680
No?
- No, one more time.

666
00:52:51,810 --> 00:52:53,720
Yes, okay...

667
00:52:53,850 --> 00:52:55,430
Get back, it should be fine now.

668
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,020
Really?
- Yes.

669
00:52:57,720 --> 00:52:58,720
Got it?

670
00:53:00,850 --> 00:53:02,520
Wow.
Alright?

671
00:53:03,430 --> 00:53:04,850
Really cool.

672
00:53:09,270 --> 00:53:10,470
Jan?

673
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,470
Are you still awake?

674
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:13,810
Yes.

675
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,140
I'm really happy you're with me.

676
00:53:20,350 --> 00:53:22,720
I'd have gone crazy on my own.

677
00:53:23,770 --> 00:53:25,430
And gotten the flu.

678
00:53:26,220 --> 00:53:27,430
The flu?

679
00:53:28,180 --> 00:53:30,390
Yeah, being alone,
cortisol and all:

680
00:53:30,470 --> 00:53:32,560
Doesn't that weaken the immune system?

681
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,430
That's true.

682
00:53:39,350 --> 00:53:43,180
One gentle touch kills thousands
of stress hormones, by the way.

683
00:53:43,350 --> 00:53:44,720
Really?

684
00:53:46,850 --> 00:53:49,680
I have to remember that.
- Do that.

685
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:54,810
Good night.

686
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,180
Good night.

687
00:54:30,430 --> 00:54:32,720
Look, we're almost in France!

688
00:54:33,850 --> 00:54:35,430
Bye bye, Belgium!

689
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,810
Hello, France!

690
00:54:43,430 --> 00:54:45,640
Looks different right away, right?

691
00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:48,350
Yeah, and much less traffic, right?

692
00:55:19,850 --> 00:55:21,350
Alex?

693
00:55:21,850 --> 00:55:24,140
Hi, yes, it's me.

694
00:55:25,430 --> 00:55:26,970
I have to tell you something.

695
00:55:36,850 --> 00:55:41,850
I did want to tell you face to face,
but I couldn't stand it any longer, sorry.

696
00:55:44,180 --> 00:55:45,810
I have to go now.

697
00:55:47,430 --> 00:55:51,140
I'll call back, OK?
Bye.

698
00:56:05,850 --> 00:56:07,430
Are you OK?

699
00:56:08,180 --> 00:56:09,520
So-so.

700
00:56:10,720 --> 00:56:12,350
Can I help you?

701
00:56:12,430 --> 00:56:14,140
No, not really.

702
00:56:14,850 --> 00:56:16,850
I just need a minute, OK?
- Sure.

703
00:56:17,140 --> 00:56:18,600
Then we'll move on.

704
00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:20,430
I'll be right back.

705
00:56:40,720 --> 00:56:42,720
You know what always helps against grief?

706
00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,140
No.

707
00:56:58,270 --> 00:56:59,850
I love those!

708
00:57:10,810 --> 00:57:12,640
So?
ls It helping?

709
00:57:13,890 --> 00:57:16,430
Yeah, much better already.

710
00:57:19,350 --> 00:57:21,180
My grandma always made these.

711
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:31,720
What was that?

712
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:36,140
A gentle touch.
Kills stress hormones.

713
00:57:37,350 --> 00:57:38,640
Yeah, right.

714
00:57:43,350 --> 00:57:44,430
Thank you.

715
00:57:47,310 --> 00:57:48,680
Shall we?

716
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,180
So, do you have a girlfriend?
- No, not right now.

717
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,180
My last relationship
ended three months ago.

718
00:58:12,350 --> 00:58:13,810
How did it end?

719
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,180
Well, we'd "grown apart."

720
00:58:17,850 --> 00:58:19,430
How long were you together?

721
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:20,850
Six months.

722
00:58:21,470 --> 00:58:23,850
Then you "grew apart" rather quickly...

723
00:58:26,970 --> 00:58:30,640
It was the problem I always have.
I loved her more than she loved me.

724
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,140
Actually, I think she
didn't love me at all.

725
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:35,890
From the beginning?

726
00:58:36,180 --> 00:58:37,680
I think so.

727
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,680
Then why were you with her?

728
00:58:42,140 --> 00:58:46,270
I don't really know myself.
It happens to me again and again.

729
00:58:47,430 --> 00:58:49,970
I fall for women who don't fall for me.

730
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,850
I feel at home in rejection,
as I wasn't loved enough as a child.

731
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,720
You don't sound convinced.

732
00:58:57,180 --> 00:58:59,680
Ahh, I don't know.

733
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,390
I mean yeah, my stepdad treated me like
shit, but that's way too simple.

734
00:59:03,970 --> 00:59:06,179

to be able to love others.>>

735
00:59:06,180 --> 00:59:08,179

loved is difficult>>

736
00:59:08,180 --> 00:59:10,429
Just because it's simple,
it doesn't have to be less true.

737
00:59:10,430 --> 00:59:12,679
I think there's something to it.

738
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:16,600
Oh come on, I'll buy you a , it's all in there, too.
- So what?

739
00:59:17,470 --> 00:59:21,520
What, so what? Who on earth loves himself?
Only idiots love themselves.

740
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:22,470
What?

741
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,139
Do you know someone who loves himself?
I don't.

742
00:59:25,140 --> 00:59:27,720
At least nobody with more
than five brain cells.

743
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:31,850
Or do you love yourself?

744
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:46,810
I wasn't just at the bakery, by the way.
- Champagne?

745
00:59:46,970 --> 00:59:50,060
Now that we're in the Champagne...

746
00:59:51,350 --> 00:59:54,850
After this bottle, I'll love myself.
And all the women who love me.

747
00:59:56,810 --> 00:59:58,430
One can't discuss with you today.

748
00:59:59,140 --> 01:00:01,140
Sorry, difficult subject for me.

749
01:00:08,970 --> 01:00:11,350
Know what my real problem is?

750
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,720
That I can't choose who
I fall in love with.

751
01:00:16,180 --> 01:00:18,020
Oh, right.
- Yeah.

752
01:00:18,470 --> 01:00:21,600
I keep falling in love with women
who aren't right for me.

753
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,520
You know whose fault that is?

754
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,970
The MHC sector of my DNA.

755
01:00:27,180 --> 01:00:30,560
MHC is the part that
codes the immune system.

756
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,140
Correct.

757
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:36,770
It's your field,
but I did extensive research.

758
01:00:36,890 --> 01:00:40,600
The MHC sees to it
that you like the smell of people...

759
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,810
...who have an immune system
differing strongly from your own.

760
01:00:43,970 --> 01:00:47,470
Women can smell a
difference of a single gene!

761
01:00:47,810 --> 01:00:49,180
What?

762
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,270
Take two men.

763
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:59,350
One man's immune system differs from yours
by one gene more than the other's.

764
01:00:59,850 --> 01:01:02,060
You'll find his smell better.

765
01:01:02,140 --> 01:01:04,890
You can't help it, it
happens subconsciously.

766
01:01:06,890 --> 01:01:09,020
The biological reason is...

767
01:01:09,140 --> 01:01:13,720
...if you have children with someone
whose immune system is complementary...

768
01:01:14,180 --> 01:01:19,060
...the kids will be twice as resistant
to viruses, bacteria, etc.

769
01:01:19,180 --> 01:01:21,640
Evolutionary genius.

770
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:28,180
That was hugely advantageous in the past
when people died like flies from infections.

771
01:01:29,140 --> 01:01:30,890
In the past, yes.

772
01:01:31,020 --> 01:01:35,890
But we no longer run around the forest in
loincloths, looking for the best-smelling DNA.

773
01:01:36,100 --> 01:01:38,100
Well, I do sometimes...

774
01:01:43,180 --> 01:01:46,719
And in terms of choosing our partners,
we're still cavemen.

775
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:50,270
You know what pheromones are?
- Yes, scentless transmitting agents.

776
01:01:50,470 --> 01:01:55,719
Right. And most of them are located here
in the little groove above the upper lip.

777
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,270
That's why we kiss before we mate.

778
01:01:58,470 --> 01:02:00,640
And tilt our heads sideways.

779
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,060
To smell the pheromones.
- How romantic!

780
01:02:04,390 --> 01:02:07,180
Kissing is a gene check.
Nothing else.

781
01:02:08,140 --> 01:02:11,970
Thanks, now I'll always think of
"gene check" when I kiss, great.

782
01:02:16,020 --> 01:02:19,520
With the first kiss, you already know
if the sex will be good or not.

783
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,100
True.

784
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:26,770
And the craziest thing is: When two people
have sex who like each other's smell...

785
01:02:26,970 --> 01:02:30,680
...the chance that the woman gets
pregnant is three times as high.

786
01:02:31,890 --> 01:02:36,720
They found that out with that
T-shirt smell test. Ever heard of it?

787
01:02:36,890 --> 01:02:37,970
No.

788
01:02:39,470 --> 01:02:43,060
Ten women and ten men
wore a T-shirt for a week...

789
01:02:43,180 --> 01:02:46,060
...then had to select
the best-smelling one.

790
01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:49,430
With those who found
each other's smell appealing...

791
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:53,060
...the woman was three times
more likely to get pregnant.

792
01:02:54,100 --> 01:02:56,180
Eww, how did they test that?

793
01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,640
I have no clue.

794
01:03:00,350 --> 01:03:03,310
But it doesn't work
if the woman takes the pill.

795
01:03:03,350 --> 01:03:06,970
Because then she prefers men
with a similar immune system.

796
01:03:07,140 --> 01:03:10,100
As a result, A: she won't
get pregnant as quickly...

797
01:03:10,180 --> 01:03:12,720
...and B: the kids will
be at the doctor all the time.

798
01:03:13,020 --> 01:03:17,890
So: Get off the pill six months before
marriage or your offspring is screwed.

799
01:03:18,100 --> 01:03:19,720
Sure thing.

800
01:03:21,350 --> 01:03:23,350
It actually happened to me.

801
01:03:23,470 --> 01:03:27,890
I dated a girl who stopped taking the pill
six months into our affair.

802
01:03:28,020 --> 01:03:30,060
Suddenly, we couldn't stop fighting!

803
01:03:30,180 --> 01:03:34,770
Because of the pill, so many couples
come together who don't match at all!

804
01:03:35,350 --> 01:03:39,060
Hey, we're close to Verdun.
Let's have an ice cream there.

805
01:03:39,220 --> 01:03:41,640
Good idea.
I want one too.

806
01:04:56,020 --> 01:04:59,970
Jan, about what you said earlier.
The pheromones and all.

807
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,770
When someone blames
his relationship problems on biology,

808
01:05:04,970 --> 01:05:07,220
it triggers my internal alarm, because...

809
01:05:07,430 --> 01:05:09,180
Because it's the truth?

810
01:05:10,060 --> 01:05:14,720
No, kidding aside. What you're referring
to is merely sexual attraction.

811
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:20,140
When two people sniff each other,
get horny and fuck, is that love?

812
01:05:20,390 --> 01:05:21,970
We're not animals.

813
01:05:22,060 --> 01:05:23,810
Sure, mammals.

814
01:05:23,970 --> 01:05:28,310
Nonsense! OK, I need to find a man hot
before starting a relationship with him.

815
01:05:28,430 --> 01:05:32,180
But that's just the first stage.
It's a great stage, yes.

816
01:05:32,310 --> 01:05:37,310
It's exciting, your knees go weak, you get
goosebumps and have physical reactions.

817
01:05:37,430 --> 01:05:41,100
But the truth is...
It's also the least interesting stage.

818
01:05:41,770 --> 01:05:47,810
I don't find it so uninteresting.
- But it's just unconscious, primal instincts!

819
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,180
I mean, I've heard all those theories...

820
01:05:51,810 --> 01:05:56,600
...how women look for macho,
testosterone-laden men while ovulating...

821
01:05:56,810 --> 01:05:59,060
Like me?
- Exactly.

822
01:06:00,060 --> 01:06:04,390
The rest of the time, they prefer caring
types who look like their relatives.

823
01:06:04,470 --> 01:06:08,600
Hang on: So statistically speaking,
the caring type has an advantage?

824
01:06:09,220 --> 01:06:12,640
Well, now everything's clear, Jule.
- Jan, stop it!

825
01:06:13,140 --> 01:06:19,810
It's funny and I know those theories,
but they have no significance for your life.

826
01:06:19,970 --> 01:06:21,350
Why not?

827
01:06:22,220 --> 01:06:25,890
Because no woman
let's her ovaries choose the man.

828
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,850
That's crystal clear.
- Is it?

829
01:06:29,060 --> 01:06:34,020
Yes. Maybe for one night,
but not for my whole life!

830
01:06:34,470 --> 01:06:36,470
What am I gonna do with a
hunk who's good in bed...

831
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,350
...but we have nothing
to say to each other?

832
01:06:38,470 --> 01:06:39,970
That's ridiculous.

833
01:06:40,810 --> 01:06:44,390
OK, for you guys it's different...
- What do you mean?

834
01:06:44,470 --> 01:06:49,770
Penis brain? Blood down there, nothing up here?
- Oh god, here we go.

835
01:06:51,430 --> 01:06:53,060
Let's stick to the topic of love.

836
01:06:54,310 --> 01:06:57,180
After I've found someone
who's sexually attractive...

837
01:06:57,310 --> 01:06:59,270
...that's when it gets
interesting, doesn't it?

838
01:06:59,390 --> 01:07:03,060
That's when the word love
becomes really relevant:

839
01:07:03,140 --> 01:07:05,060
When you start to tune in.

840
01:07:05,270 --> 01:07:08,770
I mean, we don't fall in love down here.

841
01:07:08,890 --> 01:07:11,270
But here.
And here.

842
01:07:12,220 --> 01:07:15,270
So yes, maybe I can't
decide who I find hot...

843
01:07:15,810 --> 01:07:18,270
...but I can decide who
I fall in love with.

844
01:07:22,390 --> 01:07:24,060
And that's your problem.

845
01:07:24,270 --> 01:07:28,310
Or the solution to your problem.
You have to take it step by step.

846
01:07:28,430 --> 01:07:30,060
Step by step?

847
01:07:30,140 --> 01:07:34,140
Step one: find a woman you find hot.
Step two:

848
01:07:34,270 --> 01:07:37,890
Find out if you're on the same wavelength.
If not, go back to step one.

849
01:07:38,060 --> 01:07:39,890
Not so difficult.

850
01:07:40,970 --> 01:07:45,059
There's also a step three, but we'll
discuss that in the advanced course.

851
01:07:45,060 --> 01:07:48,600
Let's take our time.
- Yeah, you're still a beginner.

852
01:07:48,810 --> 01:07:51,270
But I'm looking forward to it.

853
01:07:55,140 --> 01:07:58,470
I can't believe how many guys
never reach step two.

854
01:08:00,890 --> 01:08:03,310
Oh, Jule, I'm not so sure...

855
01:08:05,060 --> 01:08:08,140
We're discussing men-women
relationships, right?

856
01:08:08,310 --> 01:08:11,770
And sex is an essential part of that.

857
01:08:11,970 --> 01:08:15,770
Originally, the man-woman thing
was about having kids.

858
01:08:15,890 --> 01:08:17,390
OK, true.

859
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,350
And now to my theory.

860
01:08:20,220 --> 01:08:21,810
I'm listening.

861
01:08:22,270 --> 01:08:24,470
Sex / needs / contrast.

862
01:08:24,770 --> 01:08:25,770
Contrast?

863
01:08:26,430 --> 01:08:28,810
Man/woman, plus/minus, hard/soft.

864
01:08:28,970 --> 01:08:32,100
Oh, Jan, please...
- What? Let me finish.

865
01:08:32,220 --> 01:08:35,470
Friction creates heat.
Sex.

866
01:08:36,220 --> 01:08:40,770
This thing about the differing immune
systems is applicable on a higher level.

867
01:08:40,810 --> 01:08:43,470
The hot-blooded Italian
likes the blonde Swede.

868
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,140
Exotic is sexy,
because it expands the gene pool.

869
01:08:48,350 --> 01:08:51,810
Difference and disharmony
is what creates passion.

870
01:08:51,970 --> 01:08:54,810
After a fight
you have the best sex!

871
01:08:55,060 --> 01:08:57,220
Passion needs contrast.

872
01:08:58,390 --> 01:09:01,430
OK, it can help.
- Fine.

873
01:09:01,810 --> 01:09:03,890
But now to my actual point.

874
01:09:05,810 --> 01:09:09,140
Long-term relationships and partnerships,
however...

875
01:09:09,470 --> 01:09:12,770
I agree with you there,
they need harmony.

876
01:09:12,890 --> 01:09:15,970
Your partner should be a real partner.

877
01:09:16,060 --> 01:09:21,390
If one loves meat and the other is
vegetarian, there'll be trouble...

878
01:09:21,470 --> 01:09:24,720
Or one is orderly and the other chaotic.
- Exactly.

879
01:09:24,890 --> 01:09:27,059
That ends with "We're not
right for each other."

880
01:09:27,060 --> 01:09:29,060
Break-up reason number one.
- Exactly.

881
01:09:29,220 --> 01:09:30,890
So my question is:

882
01:09:31,060 --> 01:09:34,470
Why do so many people get together
who aren't right for each other?

883
01:09:35,060 --> 01:09:38,060
For different reasons...
- Because they have great sex!

884
01:09:38,220 --> 01:09:42,310
And there you go, the reason for
all relationship misery on this planet.

885
01:09:42,430 --> 01:09:44,890
There's a fundamental
contradiction between...

886
01:09:45,060 --> 01:09:48,020
...sexual attraction and
successful partnership.

887
01:09:48,100 --> 01:09:51,810
Men and woman are simply incompatible
in the long term.

888
01:09:52,100 --> 01:09:54,680
Sure, long-term relationships
are culturally...

889
01:09:54,810 --> 01:09:57,390
...desirable because they
bring social stability.

890
01:09:57,470 --> 01:10:00,770
But from a biological standpoint,
they're impossible.

891
01:10:01,270 --> 01:10:05,060
Monogamy is culturally
programmed unhappiness.

892
01:10:05,270 --> 01:10:06,890
Quod erat demonstrandum.

893
01:10:08,970 --> 01:10:12,390
How long was your longest relationship again?
- Nine months.

894
01:10:12,970 --> 01:10:15,060
Seriously?
You're kidding, right?

895
01:10:29,060 --> 01:10:31,770
Shall we drive on?
I need to move a bit after this.

896
01:10:31,890 --> 01:10:33,220
Sure.
I'm...

897
01:10:33,810 --> 01:10:35,140
...ready.

898
01:10:37,810 --> 01:10:39,350
Nine months!

899
01:10:47,470 --> 01:10:48,970
Let me get this.

900
01:10:49,060 --> 01:10:50,270
Alex?

901
01:10:52,810 --> 01:10:54,060
What's up?

902
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,060
What?
What's with your tone?

903
01:10:59,470 --> 01:11:01,220
Of course I'm asking...

904
01:11:01,810 --> 01:11:03,390
Calm down, will you?

905
01:11:04,060 --> 01:11:05,470
Calm down.

906
01:11:06,810 --> 01:11:10,430
What? It's my problem?
So for you, it's a "problem?"

907
01:11:31,470 --> 01:11:33,599
All done?
- Yeah, I think so.

908
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,350
I'll go in and pay.

909
01:12:29,020 --> 01:12:30,390
Ready for departure?

910
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,720
Yes...
Almost.

911
01:12:34,220 --> 01:12:36,020
Just your type, right?

912
01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:37,810
What?

913
01:12:37,970 --> 01:12:39,600
The bimbo over there.

914
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:41,430
No way!

915
01:12:43,970 --> 01:12:46,020
Then why are you staring at her?

916
01:12:47,310 --> 01:12:49,890
Well, she's sexually
quite attractive.

917
01:12:50,060 --> 01:12:52,970
Then go check if you're
soul mates: step two.

918
01:12:55,310 --> 01:12:58,680
Ask her if she'll drive you.
She might want your genes.

919
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,520
I would never get into a car like that.

920
01:13:03,220 --> 01:13:04,810
I prefer taking the bus.

921
01:13:05,310 --> 01:13:06,720
Good.

922
01:13:17,390 --> 01:13:20,310
Can I go or do you want more?

923
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,430
Just a sec...

924
01:13:35,430 --> 01:13:37,060
Look, the Loire!

925
01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:40,470
Shall we have a picnic?

926
01:14:09,430 --> 01:14:11,600
Now the Captain's on board, too.

927
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,430
Right on, little mermaid.

928
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,310
What did you say, Captain Bluebeard?

929
01:14:19,220 --> 01:14:20,600
Look, land in sight!

930
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,470
Captain, land in sight!

931
01:14:23,310 --> 01:14:25,720
After months of traveling...

932
01:14:26,430 --> 01:14:29,720
We hang in the ropes for a bit.
- Exactly.

933
01:14:44,770 --> 01:14:46,520
"Like God in France."

934
01:14:49,060 --> 01:14:51,390
Contrast in relationships
may create friction...

935
01:14:51,470 --> 01:14:53,680
...and thus passion
and possibly great sex.

936
01:14:54,430 --> 01:14:57,770
But is that love?
What's that got to do with love?

937
01:14:58,390 --> 01:14:59,810
A lot.

938
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,520
The problem with many people
is that they confuse passion for love.

939
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:09,220
They think that if they suffer a lot,
they must be deeply in love.

940
01:15:09,310 --> 01:15:11,600
That's a huge problem, because...

941
01:15:12,430 --> 01:15:14,680
This 'amour fou' constant fighting...

942
01:15:14,970 --> 01:15:19,520
It works in movies, because it's entertaining
when the sparks fly. But in reality...

943
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,020
...it just causes aggravation,
misery...

944
01:15:23,140 --> 01:15:26,270
...and pain,
and lasts for two years max.

945
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:27,640
Or nine months.

946
01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,180
But...

947
01:15:30,270 --> 01:15:34,180
...nine very steamy months.
The partnership's a bit bumpy, yes.

948
01:15:34,470 --> 01:15:36,220
But the sex: great.

949
01:15:36,350 --> 01:15:39,470
But good sex is also possible
between people who get along well.

950
01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:43,640
Having sex with someone
you really love is...

951
01:15:44,180 --> 01:15:46,680
It takes you to another dimension!

952
01:15:51,180 --> 01:15:54,560
Haven't you ever had that?
- Sure I have.

953
01:15:55,470 --> 01:15:56,470
See?

954
01:15:57,020 --> 01:15:59,560
There might be another
reason why you fall for...

955
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,350
...women who are so different.
Outside of biology.

956
01:16:05,770 --> 01:16:09,560
They don't understand you
because they're so different.

957
01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,470
And thus can't see inside of you.
- What?

958
01:16:12,770 --> 01:16:14,020
Well...

959
01:16:14,270 --> 01:16:18,270
Maybe you don't want anyone
to get really close to you.

960
01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:23,220
That's why you choose these bunnies who...
- Sorry, but that's bullshit.

961
01:16:23,350 --> 01:16:25,640
Why would I not want that?
It makes no sense.

962
01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:27,560
Well...

963
01:16:31,890 --> 01:16:35,350
Maybe you don't want people
to see who you really are.

964
01:16:35,430 --> 01:16:37,100
Because you're unhappy with that.
- What?

965
01:16:37,270 --> 01:16:38,520
It's possible!

966
01:16:38,970 --> 01:16:40,560
Stop it, Jule.

967
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:46,560
That's just total bullshit. I don't
even wanna get further into this crap.

968
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,180
It was just an idea.
- A shitty idea, yeah.

969
01:16:58,430 --> 01:17:01,180
Let's clear this up.

970
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:06,100
Why would I have a problem with myself?
Why? I don't get it.

971
01:17:08,100 --> 01:17:10,180
Please.
I'm listening.

972
01:17:11,470 --> 01:17:12,600
Your stepfather.

973
01:17:42,350 --> 01:17:43,560
I'm sorry.

974
01:17:46,970 --> 01:17:48,180
It's OK.

975
01:17:51,270 --> 01:17:52,640
It's a sore point.

976
01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,310
You sank my battleship.

977
01:19:13,770 --> 01:19:15,770
I think I have the same thing.

978
01:19:16,970 --> 01:19:18,770
That problem with closeness.

979
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,020
I just show it differently.

980
01:19:24,470 --> 01:19:28,470
I'm more of a person who...
throws smoke bombs.

981
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,850
Our "me“ is in a protective capsule...

982
01:19:36,100 --> 01:19:38,430
...and letting someone into it...

983
01:19:39,430 --> 01:19:41,640
...calls for a lot of trust.

984
01:19:42,850 --> 01:19:44,430
Because“.

985
01:19:45,020 --> 01:19:47,430
...if the other person leaves,
then...

986
01:19:48,430 --> 01:19:51,180
...he takes a piece of you with him.

987
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,270
And you die.

988
01:19:54,140 --> 01:19:55,720
At least a bit.

989
01:20:02,430 --> 01:20:03,810
Dangerous thing.

990
01:20:05,810 --> 01:20:07,850
Extremely dangerous, yes.

991
01:20:10,970 --> 01:20:13,430
But so beautiful, too.

992
01:20:14,180 --> 01:20:16,720
When you're merging with each other.

993
01:20:17,430 --> 01:20:19,350
Not alone anymore.

994
01:20:21,350 --> 01:20:24,060
I mean, we're born alone...

995
01:20:24,180 --> 01:20:26,350
...we die alone, but then...

996
01:20:27,350 --> 01:20:30,430
...there's this moment
with your partner...

997
01:20:35,100 --> 01:20:37,600
Do you know that feeling...

998
01:20:37,770 --> 01:20:39,640
...when you're with her.

999
01:20:39,770 --> 01:20:43,430
And it feels as if the universe
is revolving around you?

1000
01:20:44,470 --> 01:20:46,520
And you don't want
to be anywhere else.

1001
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,640
You feel like you're in
exactly the right place.

1002
01:20:51,470 --> 01:20:53,640
That feeling of being at home.

1003
01:20:55,430 --> 01:20:57,640
Of having arrived.

1004
01:21:03,770 --> 01:21:06,350
That's when I know I'm in love.

1005
01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,520
Really in love.

1006
01:21:14,100 --> 01:21:15,810
Have you ever had that?

1007
01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:22,180
Once.

1008
01:21:22,850 --> 01:21:24,470
How did it end?

1009
01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:27,100
Not very well.

1010
01:21:27,430 --> 01:21:29,720
And now you won't dare anymore?

1011
01:21:32,310 --> 01:21:34,720
Cheers to the protective capsule!

1012
01:23:22,770 --> 01:23:25,350
Jule!
Come in!

1013
01:23:29,350 --> 01:23:31,639
Come in!
- Isn't it much too cold?

1014
01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:32,850
Come on!

1015
01:23:33,270 --> 01:23:34,390
No way!

1016
01:24:03,270 --> 01:24:05,770
And we want to go...
here.

1017
01:24:32,810 --> 01:24:34,560
What's that?
Looks cool.

1018
01:24:35,270 --> 01:24:36,850
A monastery, I think.

1019
01:24:37,470 --> 01:24:40,720
Look: "Abbaye de Noirlac."
Shall we take a look?

1020
01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:51,600
Was this the dining hall?
- Yes, the "refectory."

1021
01:24:54,770 --> 01:24:56,890
Surely bigger than our cafeteria.

1022
01:24:57,470 --> 01:25:01,180
And the food was probably better.
- Probably, yeah.

1023
01:25:03,100 --> 01:25:04,220
Look, I'm enlightened.

1024
01:25:05,180 --> 01:25:06,180
I see.

1025
01:25:22,430 --> 01:25:26,180
A friend of mine recently stood
in front of the altar.

1026
01:25:26,350 --> 01:25:28,640
Her in a huge wedding dress,
him in a suit.

1027
01:25:29,390 --> 01:25:34,390
They marched into the church
with organ music, and then... "l do.“

1028
01:25:34,470 --> 01:25:36,720
Her dad was crying his eyes out.

1029
01:25:37,020 --> 01:25:39,390
To get married,
people still go to church.

1030
01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,270
Because it's so terribly romantic.
- It is!

1031
01:25:43,310 --> 01:25:44,350
I don't know...

1032
01:25:44,430 --> 01:25:49,720
Come on, better in a magical church
than a stuffy city hall.

1033
01:25:50,140 --> 01:25:53,810
Yeah, but paying church taxes
your whole life just for one day?

1034
01:25:53,970 --> 01:25:55,350
I don't know...

1035
01:25:55,850 --> 01:26:00,430
And 50% of marriages end in divorce
anyway. Then they kick you out of church.

1036
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,140
Not anymore.

1037
01:26:02,350 --> 01:26:03,720
No'?
- I don't think so.

1038
01:26:07,350 --> 01:26:10,060
Know what the most common
reason for divorce is?

1039
01:26:10,180 --> 01:26:12,970
No.
- Sexual frustration and infidelity.

1040
01:26:15,180 --> 01:26:16,810
Which is no wonder.

1041
01:26:17,180 --> 01:26:19,850
After ten years max, desire is gone.

1042
01:26:20,140 --> 01:26:23,180
And in a marriage,
you're chained to each other for life.

1043
01:26:25,140 --> 01:26:27,430
Know what Jeanne Moreau said about that?

1044
01:26:27,850 --> 01:26:33,600
"Sex in longer relationships is the art
of making repeats seem like premieres."

1045
01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:39,180
Yeah, with dildo techniques and bondage
you can make it another three years.

1046
01:26:39,350 --> 01:26:41,470
But you get tired of that, too.

1047
01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:44,470
Jan, shall we discuss this elsewhere?

1048
01:26:48,060 --> 01:26:50,390
In the confessional, perhaps?

1049
01:26:50,470 --> 01:26:51,720
Idiot.

1050
01:26:54,850 --> 01:26:55,520
Yes...

1051
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,390
Fidelity in marriage was actually
invented by the Catholic church.

1052
01:26:59,470 --> 01:27:01,600
In earlier cultures,
it didn't exist at all.

1053
01:27:01,720 --> 01:27:04,720
Wedded couples only sleeping
with each other, and no one else.

1054
01:27:04,890 --> 01:27:08,720
Neither the Babylonians,
nor the Greeks, nor the Romans had that.

1055
01:27:09,350 --> 01:27:13,720
OK, but why did the Christians invent it?
There must've been some reason.

1056
01:27:14,100 --> 01:27:17,470
Because of overpopulation in Palestine.
- What?

1057
01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:21,390
Well, most rules in religious texts
have a practical reason.

1058
01:27:21,810 --> 01:27:25,720
The Galileans, for example,
didn't have rubbers or abortions.

1059
01:27:25,810 --> 01:27:28,720
So they invented nuptial faithfulness
and prohibited divorce.

1060
01:27:28,970 --> 01:27:31,520
People had less sex,
fewer children were conceived...

1061
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:35,180
...and as it worked so well,
they wrote it into the New Testament.

1062
01:27:35,350 --> 01:27:36,720
You think?
- Yeah.

1063
01:27:36,850 --> 01:27:39,470
It's totally bizarre.
Half of humanity is sexually frustrated...

1064
01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:42,270
...because they had no condoms
in Palestine 2000 years ago.

1065
01:27:42,850 --> 01:27:44,520
Terrible, right?

1066
01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:48,430
But what about trust?

1067
01:27:48,600 --> 01:27:52,720
What's more beautiful than two people
giving each other everything...

1068
01:27:52,850 --> 01:27:57,060
...who are always there for each other, no matter what?
- It can still be like that.

1069
01:27:57,180 --> 01:28:01,680
You can jump in the sack with someone else
and still be there for each other.

1070
01:28:01,850 --> 01:28:03,600
What's the problem?

1071
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,140
Sure, but...

1072
01:28:05,180 --> 01:28:08,680
I don't know.
It hurts when my boyfriend fucks around.

1073
01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:10,520
It just hurts.

1074
01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:15,470
Have you ever asked yourself why?
Why it hurts?

1075
01:28:15,850 --> 01:28:18,270
They're feelings,
you can't control them.

1076
01:28:18,430 --> 01:28:21,470
But have you asked yourself
where these feelings stem from?

1077
01:28:22,850 --> 01:28:24,680
No idea, I...

1078
01:28:25,180 --> 01:28:27,470
I wonder why he does it,
why he needs it.

1079
01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:31,140
If he still finds me attractive,
still desires and loves me...

1080
01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:33,720
So it's about your ego.

1081
01:28:33,810 --> 01:28:36,140
So? Don't you have an ego?

1082
01:28:36,270 --> 01:28:38,551
You don't care if your girlfriend
sleeps with another guy?

1083
01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:41,180
No.
Not if I know beforehand.

1084
01:28:41,350 --> 01:28:45,520
The lie and deceit is what hurts,
not the sex itself.

1085
01:28:45,810 --> 01:28:47,720
That hurts too, yeah.

1086
01:28:48,470 --> 01:28:49,970
You see?

1087
01:28:51,180 --> 01:28:53,810
I know this older couple,
they do it like this:

1088
01:28:53,850 --> 01:28:56,430
They have a wooden bowl
in their wardrobe.

1089
01:28:56,810 --> 01:28:59,430
Whenever one of them
goes on a "trip"...

1090
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:02,600
...they put their wedding ring
in it and the other knows...

1091
01:29:03,140 --> 01:29:06,430
They've been super happy for decades.

1092
01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:09,850
I don't know.
I couldn't do that.

1093
01:29:10,060 --> 01:29:12,640
Sex isn't shaking hands.

1094
01:29:12,850 --> 01:29:15,180
This intimacy, this holy feeling...

1095
01:29:15,350 --> 01:29:20,720
I mean, you're creating a child.
That's a magical moment. Making love...

1096
01:29:20,810 --> 01:29:25,430
It's the core of a partnership. It gets
lost if both fuck around. Don't you think?

1097
01:29:25,470 --> 01:29:27,140
No...

1098
01:29:27,270 --> 01:29:29,680
And 80% of people fuck around anyway.

1099
01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:34,470
Isn't it better to be at least honest
about it? Saves you all the drama, too.

1100
01:29:35,430 --> 01:29:40,180
I do think it's good to stay together
for life and all. Certainly for the kids.

1101
01:29:40,350 --> 01:29:41,720
But...

1102
01:29:43,140 --> 01:29:45,430
The old Romans,
they had a great system.

1103
01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:48,520
They had stable families and great sex.

1104
01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:51,270
Because they had lovers.

1105
01:29:51,430 --> 01:29:53,810
Both men and women.
- Really?

1106
01:29:53,970 --> 01:29:57,390
Yeah, they thought,
"We'll give our children a stable home...

1107
01:29:57,470 --> 01:30:00,430
...but we won't allow that
to sexually frustrate us."

1108
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,720
So they had sex whenever
and with whomever they wanted.

1109
01:30:03,810 --> 01:30:06,850
I think that's a pretty
honest arrangement.

1110
01:30:07,430 --> 01:30:10,140
But what if the woman fell in love
with her affair?

1111
01:30:10,270 --> 01:30:13,140
That was a no-go.
Divorce was forbidden.

1112
01:30:13,430 --> 01:30:15,720
And you can control that.

1113
01:30:15,810 --> 01:30:19,430
You said it yourself:
we can decide who we fall in love with.

1114
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,020
True.

1115
01:31:50,140 --> 01:31:52,140
That tastes so divine...

1116
01:31:54,720 --> 01:31:57,850
I'm about to have an orgasm.
This is better than sex.

1117
01:31:59,350 --> 01:32:02,520
Another trick to keep a marriage alive:
food instead of sex.

1118
01:32:03,810 --> 01:32:05,100
Correct.

1119
01:32:07,020 --> 01:32:09,970
Apropos, how's that handled
in Alex's commune?

1120
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,390
Different, I hope.

1121
01:32:14,430 --> 01:32:18,600
Well, to be honest, they actually
do have a concept of free love there.

1122
01:32:20,890 --> 01:32:23,350
And how did you feel about that?
You were there, right'?

1123
01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:25,060
Yes.

1124
01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:29,520
I don't know, I was only visiting.

1125
01:32:29,680 --> 01:32:32,430
I think it needs time.

1126
01:32:34,350 --> 01:32:37,060
But your boyfriend was totally into it?

1127
01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:39,720
Yeah.
He was quite enthusiastic.

1128
01:32:40,430 --> 01:32:42,970
They had pretty girls there, after all.

1129
01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:48,680
What?
- Nothing.

1130
01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:50,600
I won't say anything.

1131
01:32:50,810 --> 01:32:53,180
Join in!
They're always looking for young people.

1132
01:32:53,970 --> 01:32:57,600
No, I don't think I'm ready
to dissolve the barriers of my ego.

1133
01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:00,390
That I believe.

1134
01:33:01,470 --> 01:33:04,430
And "free love" makes me
think of swinger clubs.

1135
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,430
You're a walking contradiction.
- Not at all.

1136
01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:12,600
No. I'm not saying
everybody should bang everybody.

1137
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:14,970
I just say we shouldn't hold
onto monogamy...

1138
01:33:15,140 --> 01:33:18,390
...only because state and church
propagate nuclear families.

1139
01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:21,430
The time is ripe for new
relationship models.

1140
01:33:23,140 --> 01:33:24,140
Yes...

1141
01:33:25,350 --> 01:33:26,640
Maybe you're right.

1142
01:34:03,020 --> 01:34:04,020
Morning!

1143
01:34:04,220 --> 01:34:05,470
Morning!

1144
01:34:05,600 --> 01:34:09,390
All good? I'm gonna take a shower.
- Okay.

1145
01:35:15,810 --> 01:35:17,430
Wanna snitch some corn?

1146
01:36:07,350 --> 01:36:10,640
Carla and Nicolas?
- Yes, Carla Bruni and Nicolas Sarkozy.

1147
01:36:11,020 --> 01:36:13,600
And who is who?
Is this Carla or Nicolas?

1148
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,810
The smaller one is Nicolas.
- Of course!

1149
01:36:32,470 --> 01:36:33,600
Smile!

1150
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,470
I feel cool, and you?

1151
01:36:40,680 --> 01:36:42,060
You're sweating, right?

1152
01:37:36,350 --> 01:37:38,770
Sea, we're coming!

1153
01:38:01,680 --> 01:38:02,720
Go!

1154
01:38:10,140 --> 01:38:11,140
Wow.

1155
01:38:18,270 --> 01:38:20,890
Come on!
Into the sea!

1156
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:32,020
So nice.

1157
01:38:36,600 --> 01:38:38,060
Come on!

1158
01:38:44,470 --> 01:38:46,310
Come in, it's lovely!

1159
01:39:39,970 --> 01:39:44,310
Whoa, so nice.
- Yeah.

1160
01:39:50,310 --> 01:39:53,810
Around the University of Barcelona
so much cocaine was measured...

1161
01:39:53,970 --> 01:39:57,310
...in the air, you would get high
just by walking around there.

1162
01:39:59,270 --> 01:40:01,970
And those are just the Spaniards.
The Germans...

1163
01:40:02,060 --> 01:40:04,390
...drink 500 bottles of beer a year.
Per head.

1164
01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:05,680
500 bottles?

1165
01:40:05,850 --> 01:40:06,850
What?

1166
01:40:07,020 --> 01:40:09,430
And seven liters of booze.
On average, the German...

1167
01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:11,600
...drinks twice as much
as the rest of humanity.

1168
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:15,180
We're a nation of full blown alcoholics.

1169
01:40:15,270 --> 01:40:19,270
Absolutely. I mean, in fact
we're all permanently on.

1170
01:40:19,430 --> 01:40:23,430
But why? Why do we take so many drugs?
Have you ever asked yourself that?

1171
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:25,020
No idea, there are a million reasons.

1172
01:40:25,140 --> 01:40:28,680
Well... Look, in the 1950s,
there was this booze ad.

1173
01:40:28,770 --> 01:40:32,060
Super minimalistic, only a bottle of
schnapps against a white background.

1174
01:40:32,270 --> 01:40:34,446
And you know what was written
underneath it in capital letters?

1175
01:40:34,470 --> 01:40:35,890
"A vacation from yourself“.

1176
01:40:36,060 --> 01:40:38,810
.
Cool.

1177
01:40:39,970 --> 01:40:43,430
That's what this is all about!
Humans are the only living beings...

1178
01:40:43,560 --> 01:40:47,060
...on this planet who can
constantly worry about themselves.

1179
01:40:47,220 --> 01:40:50,430
About their fears, needs, deficits.
We think about the future...

1180
01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:53,560
...about the past, what we
did right, what we did wrong.

1181
01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:56,270
We think, think, think.
The thoughts up there...

1182
01:40:56,390 --> 01:40:58,810
...they permanently comment
and evaluate everything you do.

1183
01:40:58,970 --> 01:41:02,680
16 hours a day, seven days a week...
You just can't take that forever!

1184
01:41:02,850 --> 01:41:06,769
And that is why, I say, man has
a natural need to take drugs.

1185
01:41:06,770 --> 01:41:09,020
At least every two weeks.

1186
01:41:09,970 --> 01:41:11,390
You, maybe...

1187
01:41:12,600 --> 01:41:15,270
Come on, even the natives
in the jungle take drugs.

1188
01:41:15,430 --> 01:41:17,720
Mushrooms, cacti, ayahuasca,
that sort of thing.

1189
01:41:17,890 --> 01:41:20,810
All the peoples in the history
of mankind have taken drugs:

1190
01:41:20,890 --> 01:41:23,560
Indians, Mayans, Incas,
Romans, Greeks, all of them!

1191
01:41:24,430 --> 01:41:28,310
We need to get away from ourselves every
now and then. Otherwise we go crazy.

1192
01:41:28,430 --> 01:41:33,310
Yes, but there are other ways to
take a vacation from yourself.

1193
01:41:33,470 --> 01:41:36,270
Meditation for example, dancing, yoga!

1194
01:41:37,310 --> 01:41:39,270
Sports, sex, anything...

1195
01:41:39,390 --> 01:41:44,060
Yes, all right. But drugs are easier.
Open the bottle, drink, done.

1196
01:41:44,430 --> 01:41:47,496
And human beings are lazy by nature, that's
the second principle of thermodynamics.

1197
01:41:47,520 --> 01:41:48,970
Yes, I'm afraid so.

1198
01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:57,430
But Jan, what if what you call
your self isn't your self?

1199
01:41:57,770 --> 01:41:59,180
Yes?

1200
01:41:59,350 --> 01:42:02,809
This voice in your head, constantly
commenting on what you do.

1201
01:42:02,810 --> 01:42:04,520
I don't think that's you at all.

1202
01:42:04,600 --> 01:42:07,560
I think that's more like
your inner commentator.

1203
01:42:07,850 --> 01:42:08,600
What?

1204
01:42:08,770 --> 01:42:11,559
Your inner commentator.
Like Grandpa at the Muppet Show...

1205
01:42:11,560 --> 01:42:13,310
...who's always putting in his 2 cents?

1206
01:42:13,470 --> 01:42:16,270
That old man with the
giant nose: Hehehehehe...

1207
01:42:16,390 --> 01:42:22,810
Yes, that's the one. Anyway,
I think your real self is nonverbal.

1208
01:42:22,970 --> 01:42:24,720
And it makes all the decisions.

1209
01:42:24,810 --> 01:42:27,600
The commentator can rationalize
these decisions afterwards...

1210
01:42:27,770 --> 01:42:29,850
...but in reality he has
nothing to say, you know?

1211
01:42:30,560 --> 01:42:33,600
Like the commentator in a soccer
game who doesn't even play.

1212
01:42:33,720 --> 01:42:35,600
That voice in your head,
that's not you.

1213
01:42:36,600 --> 01:42:37,810
Okay...

1214
01:42:37,970 --> 01:42:42,430
Maybe. But who am I, then?
Where is my true self located?

1215
01:42:43,890 --> 01:42:48,680
Well, somewhere deep down,
where you can't get with language.

1216
01:42:48,850 --> 01:42:54,390
At the core of your being, only to
be seen in dreams. I don't know...

1217
01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:55,680
Or in psychoanalysis.

1218
01:42:55,810 --> 01:42:57,430
Yes, maybe.

1219
01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:03,520
Anyway, with drugs you can turn off
the commentator. But not the real you.

1220
01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:04,720
Know what I mean?

1221
01:43:04,770 --> 01:43:07,060
But that's awesome.

1222
01:43:07,220 --> 01:43:08,060
What?

1223
01:43:08,220 --> 01:43:11,600
If I can turn off the commentator.
I'll have a few hours' silence.

1224
01:43:12,220 --> 01:43:14,600
Maybe. But with drugs
you not only turn off the...

1225
01:43:14,680 --> 01:43:17,350
...commentator, you also
harm your true self.

1226
01:43:17,470 --> 01:43:19,600
Look at the people who
take drugs for years.

1227
01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:22,850
They're all totally empty at some
point, not even there any more.

1228
01:43:23,850 --> 01:43:27,470
I mean, you know people like that, right?
- Yes, that's true.

1229
01:43:29,060 --> 01:43:32,600
I think it's much better to
harmonize your commentator...

1230
01:43:32,720 --> 01:43:35,310
...and your self, so that
they work as a team.

1231
01:43:35,430 --> 01:43:38,430
Okay.
And how can I do that?

1232
01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:42,470
I don't know.
Certainly not with drugs.

1233
01:43:44,140 --> 01:43:45,270
How then?

1234
01:43:50,220 --> 01:43:52,470
For example, by running
full speed to the sea...

1235
01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:54,560
...and jumping into the
water fully dressed?

1236
01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:04,560
Go!

1237
01:44:42,390 --> 01:44:45,470
Sure you don't want help?
- No, it's fine.

1238
01:44:45,970 --> 01:44:49,310
OK, then I'll take a swim.
- Have fun. See you later.

1239
01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:28,680
Jule?

1240
01:46:37,100 --> 01:46:38,430
Hey...

1241
01:46:39,890 --> 01:46:40,890
Morning.

1242
01:46:43,430 --> 01:46:44,520
Morning.

1243
01:46:46,310 --> 01:46:47,600
This is so cool.

1244
01:46:49,850 --> 01:46:51,600
Who gave you the wetsuit?

1245
01:46:51,770 --> 01:46:55,430
I borrowed it from our neighbor
and thought I'd give it a try.

1246
01:46:57,270 --> 01:46:58,680
Just round the ankle?

1247
01:46:58,810 --> 01:47:03,270
Just round the ankle.
Okay, and now we'll paddle first.

1248
01:47:03,390 --> 01:47:05,520
Hold the board like this.

1249
01:47:06,890 --> 01:47:08,600
Right over there...

1250
01:47:12,600 --> 01:47:14,560
Very good!

1251
01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:19,220
You're doing great!
Use all of your arms strength.

1252
01:47:21,310 --> 01:47:23,020
Back there is a nice one!

1253
01:47:31,970 --> 01:47:34,560
Wow, super, great!

1254
01:47:37,890 --> 01:47:39,430
Try that one.

1255
01:47:40,310 --> 01:47:42,060
You're doing great!

1256
01:47:43,310 --> 01:47:44,310
Yes!

1257
01:47:45,220 --> 01:47:47,720
Gosh, that was really great!

1258
01:47:51,270 --> 01:47:52,770
Another good one!

1259
01:47:59,810 --> 01:48:01,060
Rad!

1260
01:48:04,310 --> 01:48:06,770
You're really good for a beginner.

1261
01:48:12,890 --> 01:48:16,060
You know how to surf,
You fooled me, man!

1262
01:49:18,390 --> 01:49:21,680
Down the coast to Hossegor, Capbreton...

1263
01:49:22,270 --> 01:49:28,890
Anglet, Biarritz, Saint Jean de Luz
and then San Sebastian.

1264
01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:31,890
Look!
Spain!

1265
01:49:45,270 --> 01:49:48,060
Where does your father live?
Where should I drop you off?

1266
01:49:48,220 --> 01:49:51,560
In Zumaia, a coastal town
in the Basque Country.

1267
01:50:52,430 --> 01:50:54,020
This is the marina.

1268
01:51:06,470 --> 01:51:08,600
I'll check if I see him.
- Okay.

1269
01:51:35,060 --> 01:51:36,220
And?

1270
01:51:36,890 --> 01:51:38,020
No, he's not here.

1271
01:51:42,220 --> 01:51:43,810
You can drive on.

1272
01:51:46,060 --> 01:51:47,430
Sure?

1273
01:52:19,560 --> 01:52:20,720
Is that him?

1274
01:52:23,140 --> 01:52:24,810
Yes, that's him.

1275
01:52:31,680 --> 01:52:33,060
Want to go over?

1276
01:52:36,430 --> 01:52:37,430
No.

1277
01:52:42,720 --> 01:52:45,390
Should I leave,
you want to be alone?

1278
01:52:46,060 --> 01:52:47,220
No, no.

1279
01:52:59,020 --> 01:53:00,810
Which of them is it?

1280
01:53:01,020 --> 01:53:02,810
The one on the left.

1281
01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:18,560
He looks happy, right?

1282
01:53:19,180 --> 01:53:21,220
Definitely, yes.

1283
01:54:13,430 --> 01:54:16,470
I don't know how to describe it.
It was...

1284
01:54:20,100 --> 01:54:21,810
It was strange.

1285
01:54:24,270 --> 01:54:26,560
I couldn't go over to him.

1286
01:54:28,060 --> 01:54:30,100
I just couldn't.

1287
01:54:32,720 --> 01:54:38,180
I didn't think it'd be such a big deal.
I thought I'd come here, see him...

1288
01:54:40,310 --> 01:54:41,720
...we'd talk a bit.

1289
01:54:42,720 --> 01:54:45,310
And it'd all be good, but...

1290
01:54:47,430 --> 01:54:49,520
While standing there...

1291
01:54:51,220 --> 01:54:54,470
I saw a stranger, not my father.

1292
01:54:59,470 --> 01:55:01,140
And I realized...

1293
01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:03,770
I'll never have a father.

1294
01:55:07,890 --> 01:55:11,520
But not only a dream fell apart...

1295
01:55:15,100 --> 01:55:17,350
I also understood something.

1296
01:55:18,970 --> 01:55:24,640
That I have to stop looking outside of
myself, and start looking inside.

1297
01:55:25,600 --> 01:55:28,140
Good, that's good.

1298
01:56:53,310 --> 01:56:55,680
Beautiful, right?
- Yes.

1299
01:56:57,270 --> 01:57:01,770
When Picasso saw this, he said we haven't
learned anything new in painting.

1300
01:57:02,680 --> 01:57:04,810
In 25,000 years.

1301
01:57:10,180 --> 01:57:12,890
Know why they painted mostly animals?

1302
01:57:14,060 --> 01:57:17,430
It's assumed they worshiped
some animals like gods.

1303
01:57:18,180 --> 01:57:22,060
They seemed so strong to them.
Elegant, superior to humans...

1304
01:57:23,470 --> 01:57:26,220
They could only hunt
them by forming groups.

1305
01:57:26,350 --> 01:57:27,680
Battue.

1306
01:57:29,180 --> 01:57:31,470
Look, it's depicted there.

1307
01:57:31,520 --> 01:57:32,600
Battue?

1308
01:57:33,810 --> 01:57:35,350
The Cro-Magnons.

1309
01:57:35,470 --> 01:57:37,640
That's why you brought me here.

1310
01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:40,220
The Cro-Magnons painted these!
- Exactly.

1311
01:57:41,520 --> 01:57:44,890
The first human who had time to do art.

1312
01:58:04,140 --> 01:58:07,180
There they are: the Picos de Europa.

1313
01:58:46,970 --> 01:58:49,600
Shit!
- Are you OK?

1314
01:59:03,350 --> 01:59:05,390
And now? We run?
- Run.

1315
01:59:05,470 --> 01:59:06,680
Run!

1316
01:59:11,140 --> 01:59:13,060
Shit, it's so cold!

1317
01:59:15,770 --> 01:59:17,850
Come on, get in.

1318
01:59:21,470 --> 01:59:22,850
Everything's wet.

1319
01:59:23,060 --> 01:59:25,270
Need a towel?
- Yes, please.

1320
01:59:31,060 --> 01:59:34,140
Can you warm me up a bit?
- Sure. Come here.

1321
02:00:12,100 --> 02:00:13,770
Should we really do this?

1322
02:00:17,310 --> 02:00:18,810
Maybe we shouldn't.

1323
02:00:32,350 --> 02:00:34,770
Damn, Jan, I...

1324
02:00:36,470 --> 02:00:37,890
I think I...

1325
02:00:40,470 --> 02:00:42,890
I think I'm falling in love with you.

1326
02:00:48,520 --> 02:00:50,720
So am I.
In you.

1327
02:00:51,140 --> 02:00:52,680
Totally.

1328
02:01:00,470 --> 02:01:02,390
So what do we do now?

1329
02:01:05,390 --> 02:01:06,810
Stay strong?

1330
02:01:08,470 --> 02:01:10,140
Yeah, right'?

1331
02:01:12,430 --> 02:01:14,180
We talked about it.

1332
02:01:17,680 --> 02:01:19,640
Says the polygamist.

1333
02:01:19,770 --> 02:01:22,180
Polygamist, yes, but...

1334
02:01:22,470 --> 02:01:24,270
I like it.

1335
02:01:26,270 --> 02:01:27,770
So do I.

1336
02:01:36,810 --> 02:01:38,720
But it's damn hard.

1337
02:01:38,810 --> 02:01:40,310
Oh, yeah.

1338
02:01:44,810 --> 02:01:46,600
But sniffing is OK, right?

1339
02:01:57,430 --> 02:01:59,310
You smell incredibly good.

1340
02:02:00,640 --> 02:02:02,310
So do you.

1341
02:02:06,470 --> 02:02:08,310
Genetically compatible.

1342
02:02:09,310 --> 02:02:10,470
Totally.

1343
02:02:16,470 --> 02:02:19,470
Know what's almost better
than the kiss itself?

1344
02:02:20,810 --> 02:02:22,890
The three seconds beforehand.

1345
02:02:23,180 --> 02:02:25,810
The feeling when you know
it's about to happen.

1346
02:02:32,560 --> 02:02:35,140
But we'll stay strong, right?

1347
02:04:15,140 --> 02:04:16,470
Is everything OK?

1348
02:04:22,020 --> 02:04:23,600
Jan, I'm pregnant.

1349
02:04:55,350 --> 02:04:58,270
My mother wants me to get an abortion.

1350
02:05:01,390 --> 02:05:03,470
I don't know what I want.

1351
02:05:04,270 --> 02:05:06,270
I don't know anything anymore.

1352
02:05:10,270 --> 02:05:11,640
Want some tea?

1353
02:05:14,810 --> 02:05:16,180
Coming.

1354
02:05:53,810 --> 02:05:55,180
And Alex?

1355
02:05:55,220 --> 02:05:57,430
Does he want the child?

1356
02:05:58,180 --> 02:05:59,350
No.

1357
02:06:00,600 --> 02:06:02,770
"Bad timing, Jule."

1358
02:06:10,430 --> 02:06:12,060
I can abort it with this.

1359
02:06:14,430 --> 02:06:15,720
With pills?

1360
02:06:15,810 --> 02:06:17,520
That works?

1361
02:06:18,220 --> 02:06:20,220
Up until the eighth week.

1362
02:06:22,680 --> 02:06:24,680
And what week are you in?

1363
02:06:26,100 --> 02:06:27,560
The sixth.

1364
02:06:27,770 --> 02:06:29,770
Not much time left.

1365
02:07:54,100 --> 02:07:55,470
What are you making?

1366
02:07:55,680 --> 02:07:56,810
Paella.

1367
02:08:02,100 --> 02:08:04,390
Jan, I've made up my mind.

1368
02:08:05,850 --> 02:08:07,970
I'm going to have the child.

1369
02:08:16,560 --> 02:08:17,680
You think so?

1370
02:08:17,850 --> 02:08:21,100
Of course.
You'll be a mom. That's great.

1371
02:08:48,100 --> 02:08:49,470
I'm hungry-

1372
02:08:50,060 --> 02:08:53,270
My child needs food.
- You can help me.

1373
02:08:53,810 --> 02:08:54,850
Slicing onions.

1374
02:08:55,100 --> 02:08:56,100
Good.

1375
02:11:13,180 --> 02:11:14,470
I'm not pregnant.

1376
02:11:15,470 --> 02:11:16,560
What?

1377
02:11:17,470 --> 02:11:18,770
Yes...

1378
02:11:19,470 --> 02:11:24,890
He said something like


1379
02:11:26,890 --> 02:11:29,770
I didn't fully understand him,
his English was not so good.

1380
02:11:31,140 --> 02:11:33,470
I was pregnant, but...

1381
02:11:35,020 --> 02:11:37,100
It seems to happen a lot.

1382
02:11:37,770 --> 02:11:39,180
On, boy.

1383
02:11:48,890 --> 02:11:50,180
I wanna go.

1384
02:11:50,310 --> 02:11:51,390
Sure.

1385
02:12:57,430 --> 02:13:01,270
You know, the thought that everything
is transient is not only sad.

1386
02:13:01,680 --> 02:13:04,140
It's also comforting.

1387
02:13:05,640 --> 02:13:09,430
I think that's the most important thing
you have to understand in a relationship.

1388
02:13:10,310 --> 02:13:14,180
You're with me, but you're not mine.
Nobody owns nobody.

1389
02:13:15,600 --> 02:13:20,470
And only if I accept that it can all
be over tomorrow, I can be happy.

1390
02:13:21,810 --> 02:13:25,470
In that moment.
With the other one.

1391
02:14:49,890 --> 02:14:51,140
It's back on.

1392
02:14:51,310 --> 02:14:52,350
Great.

1393
02:15:54,310 --> 02:15:55,890
Then good luck with...

1394
02:15:56,060 --> 02:15:57,220
Thanks.

1395
02:16:00,890 --> 02:16:02,350
No, don't...

1396
02:16:02,520 --> 02:16:04,140
Sorry, I...

1397
02:16:04,720 --> 02:16:07,140
It all went so fast...

1398
02:16:07,520 --> 02:16:08,890
So much happened.

1399
02:16:10,890 --> 02:16:14,770
I need time to think. I need to go
to Alex. I need to talk to him.

1400
02:16:15,890 --> 02:16:17,770
I might not come back.

1401
02:16:24,470 --> 02:16:25,600
Jan!

1402
02:16:29,470 --> 02:16:30,470
L.-

1403
02:16:39,600 --> 02:16:41,890
I have to go or I'll lose my mind.

1404
02:17:55,100 --> 02:17:57,640
I'd like to close now.

1405
02:18:01,430 --> 02:18:04,180
I'm closing.
- Alright.

1406
02:18:04,430 --> 02:18:06,350
How much is it?
- Eight euros.

1407
02:18:10,350 --> 02:18:11,430
Keep the change.

1408
02:18:14,430 --> 02:18:16,140
Do you need a room for the night?

1409
02:18:16,470 --> 02:18:18,180
No, thanks.

1410
02:18:20,770 --> 02:18:22,600
I'm waiting for a woman.

1411
02:18:23,770 --> 02:18:25,020
A woman...

1412
02:18:26,270 --> 02:18:30,520
Women are our destiny. Our destiny...
- That's true.

1413
02:18:30,850 --> 02:18:33,720
Good night.
- Good night. Thanks.