PC w/Specialk31 1/4/18

Guest_Speacialk31: There we go. I don't have a thing on my phone that says go to my room and i dont know how to be in multiple rooms at once
AisuSkyWolven: np
Guest_Speacialk31: It's a long story so I'll say it in short spurts so that if you have a question you can ask
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: And please keep it between me you and no fence post
AisuSkyWolven: of course
Guest_Speacialk31: A while back ago in June I was invited to an adult party. I agreed to go because me and my husband were having problems
Guest_Speacialk31: Me and my husband now are in the process of a divorce
AisuSkyWolven: okay
AisuSkyWolven: I'm sorry to hear that
Guest_Speacialk31: We have two children I was pregnant at the time and my daughter was about to turn a year
Guest_Speacialk31: I took my daughter with me cause it was only me and two other people there.
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: Well I needed to get away to clear my mind and to get it strait and I had made my mind up about what to do with my husband.
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: At the time he wasn't working and was always drinking doing drugs and had parties at my house. He didn't help out with the children unless I had to go to work and even then he would have some other person take care of her while he went out and partied and screwed other women.
Guest_Speacialk31: I at the time did not know he was having sex with others only that he wasn't helping out. I found out about a month later what was going on and had kicked him out
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: I gave him a chance to get a job to stop the alcohol and the drugs. He didn't want to listen so I kicked him out along with his room in buddies.
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: For a while I stayed at my place struggling because the car tires were getting slashed by my husband and he had admitted it when he was drunk to my neighbor which is how I found out. Already struggling with money and couldn't save any because I had to replace 5 slashed tires I decided to move to a save house
Guest_Speacialk31: Safe
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: The safe house was the house where I had the adult party. Well when I went to the adult party the lady had given me permission saying that it was ok for her man to get me off and that they had been wanting another women in the relationship
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: So she had said that we needed to make it a relationship so we did and she blew off the wall because she could noy handle seeing her man with another women which is understandable. But she had broken a 3000$ bar set by throwing it at him when I had left with my bff after a fight had broken out.
AisuSkyWolven: oh no
Guest_Speacialk31: I was in silver and there was another party that was supposed to happen. I asked my bff if she wanted to come and she said yes. So she came and they invited another dude for her and me and the couple did whatever. Well she blew off the handle the night before and said she was leaving. So we were all very under the impression that she left because we heard a vehicle come up to the gate and leave.
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: The next morning we were all outside me and my bff were having a cig and he was out there with us conversating about the previous night. Well the lady that had claimed to leave (Hollie) had come out of the shed and started yelling
Guest_Speacialk31: Had told me and my bff to get our shit and leave. So we did.
Guest_Speacialk31: Tell ghoul I'll be there in a moment
AisuSkyWolven: oh  my
Guest_Speacialk31: Are you still on track? I jump back and forth between the story to try to get in every detail
AisuSkyWolven: yes
Guest_Speacialk31: Ok
Guest_Speacialk31: Well we left and I was about an hour away. I got a calm from him (jr) to come back that there had been a big incident that had just happened and the police needed us because we were a witness.
Guest_Speacialk31: we went back and was told that Hollie had blown off the handle and threw the 3000$ crystal bar set at jr just after we left. He said he had just gotten inside and she started throwing stuff at him
AisuSkyWolven: wow
Guest_Speacialk31: So we went inside and saw the evidence as well as the police later. It took us from 7 or 8 in the morning until 10;00 at night to clean up the mess. So we stayed the night. Seeing how i didnt have a licence and the car didnt have insurance.
Guest_Speacialk31: And it was late at night
AisuSkyWolven: right
Guest_Speacialk31: So we stayed outside for a bit and talked until the police came. We had told him our story and said that the stories matched. He saw the evidence then and eft while we went inside to clean up
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: We had stayed for about 3 days to make sure he was going to be ok until my bff (angel) had to go back to her home town.
Guest_Speacialk31: Thankfully everything was ok. Minus the arguing over the phone
AisuSkyWolven: right
Guest_Speacialk31: Well I had to stay away for a little while and jr and I had grown close to one another. Not intended but you can't really control the heart
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: Though I had known them for more than ten years and I have always liked him so it was a plus for me.
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: Well jr was able to convince Hollie to let me return and she had come back too.
Guest_Speacialk31: Everything was ok for a bit but then she blew off again and she packed her things and left. Of course I had to to.
AisuSkyWolven: okay
Guest_Speacialk31: So I went back to my place and she left to Idaho where she has a house
Guest_Speacialk31: She said she was done and want coming back. I was told to come back to him and because I was blinded by heart I did. So I moved back. Mind you this is the third time ive moved in about 3 to four months.
Guest_Speacialk31: Everything repaid a third time so I had to leave and go to my house and she left. But this time when I went to my house I went into pre mature labor
Guest_Speacialk31: My son was born two months early and I was in elpaso for the better part of two months.
AisuSkyWolven: oh my
Guest_Speacialk31: Jr had convinced Hollie do to my son that I had to come back because of the apartments I'm living in. Is not my living conditions but others that live around me. And because they lived like slobs i had to deal with roaches and mice
Guest_Speacialk31: I was able to come back and she came back too. Now we're at the point where he says he wants only me and that when we move she has to come with so that she isnt stranded.
Guest_Speacialk31: I believe in my mind that he doesnt want to get rid of either one of us. And if he gets rid of one of us all of us go. His mom is living with is now as well And she is very nosey and lives for drama
AisuSkyWolven: -nods-
Guest_Speacialk31: Well there has been a fight going on for the past 3 days now and I'm fed up. But I can't go back to my place because of the conditions. And if I did I still don't have a way down there because I told everyone i knew to kick rocks for Jr
AisuSkyWolven: mhm
Guest_Speacialk31: So I'm stuck. I can't leave because I'd loose my kids. And by staying here I have to deal with being called a whore and all the arguing and the heartbreak.
AisuSkyWolven: I'm so sorry hun
Guest_Speacialk31: Jr had gotten me an rv and is in the process of fixing it up. But here's the gig with that. If i make payments and have to wind up going back to m my house I don't get my money back. And he is already talking about keeping the rv for himself. So what do I do. I don't yave family. I don't care for anyone who used me on the past. So I dont have any contacts. I want to be with him. But at the same time it's like hes playing me. He denies it but .. with what has been going on. I don't believe him. I don't have money to get up and go. I no longer have a vehicle and they don't have a vehicle that is long distance road worthy
Guest_Speacialk31: And no one can come to the house cause he said he'd shoot them
Guest_Speacialk31: He asks me to vent to him but then when I do he says that it's bullshit. He says I'm too sensitive and that damn right ima jealous bitch.
Guest_Speacialk31: He says why should he care when I try to vent to him but I don't get it cause hr asked me to but then he says it's bullshit
AisuSkyWolven: so you in a samned if you do and damned if you don't situation
Guest_Speacialk31: Pretty much
Guest_Speacialk31: Did all of that make since?
AisuSkyWolven: yes it did
Guest_Speacialk31: Any advice or are you dumb founded too
Guest_Speacialk31: Heading back to the pack room. Message me if you do