Legi's Musings

Well, I didn't need this advice because at a time when I was presumably "supposed" to "start getting my feet on the ground" "in the real world" I was physically (and otherwise) so jaded and soaked that I physically (again) couldn't do it.

I mean what I've learned thorough the process of "literally" resurrecting myself (because I've needed explanations) is that one of my parents was a hipster and another was committed to remain in child-mode (not taking responsibility) through the remainder of her life.

Simply put: There's a good chance that your parents weren't "the best ever". It's either you or their status quo, and rationalising your past can help you untraumatize yourself.

To your point: If most people can't rely on their family to provide them a good runway into life — why should they do it on schools?

Many (most?) school teachers are gutless fanatics who couldn't help themselves if they wanted.

So, of course you should start thinking for yourself ASAP!
However, I wouldn't say that hoping to bump into monk in a field is an advisable strategy for everyone. (Disclaimer: I didn't: at least not on the field! )

Ofc now I know very specific things techniques that help with "finding yourself", but I assume you'll have to wait for content on my channel or something if you want 'em.


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25.05.2018, Left as a comment to some YouTube text-post about how you should experiment instead of committing to a shit-job that you are gonna hate