Her Only Choice (2018)

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[logo music]

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[dramatic music]

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Hey Tasha, do you want

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to go to the playground?

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We've been sitting here

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all day.

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So?

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Let's go inside and

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play on my Game Boy.

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No Bernie, I just

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wanna sit here.

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[boy scoffs]

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Look at what we got here.

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Let me see this.

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Give it back!

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Give it back to him!

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Go home and cry to

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your sickly mother!

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Don't you ever

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say that again!

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Tasha!

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Come here.

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Come all the way here, baby.

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What's wrong?

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[Tasha] Nothing.

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What happened?

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You and Bernie get mad

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at each other again?

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I see, somebody bothered you?

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Who was it?

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It was William.

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He was being mean.

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William?

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Oh girl, that boy ain't

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nothing but trouble.

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I'll go handle this.

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Uh Mama, lay back down.

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No, I can't have that, baby.

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I guess as much as I wanna get

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up I can't, baby. I...

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I just can't.

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It's okay, Mama.

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Go on stand in the

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middle of the floor.

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Go on.

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Now what?

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All right, I want you

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to ball your fists up

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as tightly as you can, and I

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want you to spin 'em around

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like a windmill.

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Huh?

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You know, like the big

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windmills we see on the farm.

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Why?

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Because when something or

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somebody bothers you, sweetie,

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you gotta fight back.

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I'm not always gonna be

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around to defend you.

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No, uh uh. Don't do that.

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Pick your head up.

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All right? Now on

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the count of three,

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I want you to spin your

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arms as wild as you can

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until you knock 'em down, okay?

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- Mm-hmm.

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- One, two, three.

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Spin 'em Tasha, there you

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go, there you go, baby.

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[laughing]

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I'm dizzy.

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[laughing]

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All right, come here.

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Get up here with me.

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You see Tasha, strength

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isn't just physical,

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it's mental and emotional too.

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And I need you to be strong.

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All right? You understand?

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You promise?

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Promise.

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Come here.

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[gentle music]

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<i>♪ Happy birthday to you ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Happy birthday dear Tasha ♪</i>

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<i>♪ My beautiful, sexy,</i>

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<i>intelligent wife ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Who always makes me put</i>

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<i>the toilet seat down ♪</i>

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[laughing]

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Oh God Bernie!

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You woke me up when I have

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15 minutes of sleep left.

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Well, so what?

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It's your birthday.

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<i>♪ Happy birthday to you ♪</i>

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Oh sing, my Barry White. Sing!

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[laughing]

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So go ahead.

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Make a wish and blow

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out that candle.

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Yeah, oh.

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My goodness, baby.

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What?

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Ohhh, I hope your wish

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was for fresher breath.

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- Bernie.

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- Goodness, woman.

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You need to use all of the

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toothpaste this morning.

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Are you serious--

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And the mouthwash and

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you need to floss too.

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And you need to get

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a pack of Tic Tacs

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on your way to work.

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Shut it, Bernie.

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[laughs]

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I'm just saying.

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Would you shut up?

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Anyway, uh, me and Tony

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we gotta go lay a carpet

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at that new office

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complex on Blakely Road.

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It's not that far. I

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should be back in time

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to head out to your

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dad's for dinner.

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Is that tonight?

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Your birthday on another

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night we don't know about?

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No, it's just, you know

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I was just trying to think

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if maybe we could

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skip all the dramatics

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and just spend a nice quiet

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evening just the two of us.

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Like he's going to allow that.

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Melvin ain't the boss of me.

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No, he's just the

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boss of your birthday.

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- Hmm, he is isn't he?

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- Hmm.

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Fine.

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You know, I'm going back to

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sleep for ten more minutes then.

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You got a little

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icing right there.

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Mmm, thank you.

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You get your last ten minutes

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of sleep birthday girl.

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All right my Barry White.

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- And I'll see you later.

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- I heard you.

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[Bernie] ♪<i> Happy</i>

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<i>breath day to you ♪</i>

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Stop, stop.

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[bell ringing]

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Boys and girls, I need you

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to be writing these math--

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[giggling]

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Math equations in

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your notebooks.

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[giggling]

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Enough with all the giggling.

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[laughs]

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Okay, what did I te--

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[kids] Happy

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birthday, Mrs. Jackson.

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Oh, would you look at this.

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Thank you, that was so kind

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and thoughtful of each of you.

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Now if you would, please line up

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and place your beautiful

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cards on my desk.

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I will enjoy them later.

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Single file line everyone,

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single file line.

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Thank you, my dear.

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Thank you so much.

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That's so thoughtful.

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[dramatic music]

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[retching]

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[all] Ew!

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[coughing]

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Kids, if-- If you could excuse

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me for a moment,

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Take your seats.

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Take your seats. Okay.

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[Tasha]<i> You know I threw</i>

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<i>up in front of the kids</i>

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<i>and grossed them out today?</i>

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[Bernie]<i> Yes, yes you</i>

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<i>told me several times.</i>

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I got my usual morning coffee

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but... maybe the milk was sour.

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Yeah, maybe and you

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told me that too, look.

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We just stay a little while

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then we leave, all right?

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Hour tops.

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You promise?

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Yeah, I'm not trying to

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stay here all night.

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[chuckles]

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Come on, let's get

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this out of the way.

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-[chattering]

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-[door bell rings]

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[Bernie] Why is it so dark in

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here, man. It's nighttime.

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Turn the lights on.

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[all] Surprise!

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[cheering]

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[Melvin] There's

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my birthday girl.

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Were you surprised?

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Surprised is an

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understatement, Daddy.

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You really didn't have to

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go through all this trouble.

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It was Brenda's idea.

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Melvin get that

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camera out of her face,

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the girl just got here.

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Happy 30th birthday, Tasha.

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Thank you so much, Brenda.

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Somebody make Tasha a plate.

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She's the birthday girl.

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She gets served first.

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And put a heap of my

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mac 'n' cheese on

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there, not Carol's.

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You don't want any of

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Carol's mac 'n' cheese,

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she don't use the right

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cheeses or seasonings,

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and I don't even know

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why she brought it

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when she knows mine is the best.

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Oh, trust me, I don't need a

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heap of anything tonight, okay?

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Of course you do, look at

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you, you're skin and bones.

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What you have against

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hips I'll never know.

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Wait are you serious,

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have you seen my, mmm.

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Okay, well put it there.

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[both] Uhhh, uhhh.

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One more.

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[both] Uhhh.

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- All right now.

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- All right now.

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Wow what a spread

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we got tonight, huh?

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Hi.

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Everybody come on in

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here and get some food.

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Okay, 'cause after

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this we're gonna watch

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Tasha's birth video.

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No, Daddy not tonight.

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Please, can we skip the

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birth video this year?

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You talking crazy.

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We watch that video every

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year since you was born.

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But we can skip this year.

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How about--

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[whispers] Help me.

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Hi everybody.

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Daddy, we really gotta

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upgrade you on that camera.

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It's the best investment

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that I ever made this camera.

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VHS?

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<i>Get that God damn</i>

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<i>camera out of my face</i>

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<i>and help me you idiot.</i>

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[laughing]

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-[on TV]<i> Screw you!</i>

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-[screaming]

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-[crying out]

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-[gentle music]

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[grunting]

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[screaming]

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[thuds]

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Oh my God.

292
00:09:09,633 --> 00:09:12,177
Baby, hey, Tasha.

293
00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596
- Baby, hey, hey.

294
00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596
- What happened?

295
00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597
[Brenda] Could

296
00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597
somebody get some water?

297
00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:16,556
Tasha?

298
00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935
-[Bernie]<i> Hey listen.</i>

299
00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935
-[Tasha]<i> Hmm.</i>

300
00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398
<i>- Um...</i>

301
00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398
- What?

302
00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607
I think you should

303
00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607
take one of those

304
00:09:25,649 --> 00:09:28,402
home pregnancy tests.

305
00:09:28,444 --> 00:09:32,572
Oh, Bernie. Honey for what?

306
00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994
Seven years of being told

307
00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994
that my eggs aren't fertile?

308
00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413
Bernie, a baby isn't

309
00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413
possible for us.

310
00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249
Well, babe I get

311
00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249
all that, but look...

312
00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378
You threw up at school,

313
00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378
you passed out at the party

314
00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:49,173
and your cycle is late.

315
00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383
Isn't that what happen to a

316
00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383
woman when she's pregnant?

317
00:09:51,425 --> 00:09:53,177
It's impossible.

318
00:09:53,218 --> 00:09:55,012
Okay, how late are you?

319
00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641
- Two weeks.

320
00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641
- See, two-- Come on.

321
00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601
- What?

322
00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601
- Just take the test, baby.

323
00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689
Honey, if I am pregnant, I

324
00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689
need a doctor to confirm it.

325
00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275
Honey, listen it's almost

326
00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275
time for my annual exam,

327
00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028
I'll just get the

328
00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028
full work up, okay?

329
00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488
- Yeah?

330
00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488
- That work?

331
00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905
- That works.

332
00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905
- Good.

333
00:10:13,947 --> 00:10:15,615
Good, all right.

334
00:10:18,369 --> 00:10:19,619
Get some rest.

335
00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124
Okay, fine so

336
00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124
let's play what if.

337
00:10:24,166 --> 00:10:25,543
Are you ready?

338
00:10:25,584 --> 00:10:26,335
Do I have a choice.

339
00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920
- No. Okay.

340
00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920
- Okay.

341
00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676
What if, by some divine

342
00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676
intervention, I am pregnant?

343
00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720
- Hmm.

344
00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720
- Mm-hmm.

345
00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766
Would you want a baby

346
00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766
boy or a baby girl?

347
00:10:43,185 --> 00:10:45,145
[chuckles]

348
00:10:43,185 --> 00:10:45,145
Well...

349
00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357
Yeah, I don't know. It

350
00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357
doesn't really matter.

351
00:10:48,399 --> 00:10:50,150
I just want a healthy baby.

352
00:10:50,192 --> 00:10:52,110
Boy, stop playing.

353
00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322
You know you want a boy. You

354
00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322
know you want a baby boy.

355
00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I

356
00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576
mean, I admit I would...

357
00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703
have a little more

358
00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703
in common with a boy.

359
00:11:01,745 --> 00:11:03,121
Mm-hmm, just a little.

360
00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,122
Just a little bit.

361
00:11:04,164 --> 00:11:05,707
[laughs]

362
00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088
- If he was anything like me

363
00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088
he'd have that throwing arm.

364
00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088
- Mm-hmm.

365
00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090
I'd train him all

366
00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090
the way up to the NFL.

367
00:11:13,131 --> 00:11:14,341
Aww.

368
00:11:14,758 --> 00:11:15,926
[gasps]

369
00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720
And he could buy us a

370
00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720
big house in the Hamptons.

371
00:11:18,762 --> 00:11:21,348
Where all the rich people live.

372
00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141
We could go to all

373
00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141
the dinner parties,

374
00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895
and sip on our wine, and um...

375
00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895
I would develop an accent,

376
00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313
and I would go

377
00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313
around saying things

378
00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900
like um... "Lovely weather

379
00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900
we're having, darling."

380
00:11:31,942 --> 00:11:33,527
Right, right?

381
00:11:33,569 --> 00:11:34,736
"How do you do?

382
00:11:34,778 --> 00:11:36,071
How do you do?

383
00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323
How is the weather; Crisp

384
00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323
and clean and fresh?"

385
00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783
- Right.

386
00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783
- You see I talk well?

387
00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535
Yeah, yeah you

388
00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535
gonna talk like that?

389
00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120
You gonna have to do that on

390
00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120
the other side of the room.

391
00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123
Oh. And you don't

392
00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123
drink wine so...

393
00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542
- I bet I would start.

394
00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542
- Right.

395
00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545
When you're paying a hundred

396
00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545
dollars a bottle, or a sip?

397
00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:52,712
- Shoot.

398
00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:52,712
-[laughs]

399
00:11:54,798 --> 00:11:59,303
Okay so, what if we had a girl.

400
00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763
Oh, a baby girl?

401
00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763
She'd be so cute.

402
00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:03,098
Yeah.

403
00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103
I don't know maybe she

404
00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103
would become president.

405
00:12:08,145 --> 00:12:09,521
Yes.

406
00:12:09,563 --> 00:12:11,731
And bring about world peace.

407
00:12:11,773 --> 00:12:12,524
I like that.

408
00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775
- You like that?

409
00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775
- Mm-hmm.

410
00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777
Mmm.

411
00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777
[gasps] Oh.

412
00:12:18,113 --> 00:12:19,323
Namaste.

413
00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785
I'm pretty sure your using

414
00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785
that word in the wrong context.

415
00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332
I told you I just like

416
00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332
saying it, joy stealer.

417
00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334
All right, you keep saying

418
00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334
it. Say it real low

419
00:12:30,375 --> 00:12:31,293
'cause I'm going to sleep.

420
00:12:31,335 --> 00:12:32,503
Stop.

421
00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754
- Go to bed lady, goodness.

422
00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754
- Whatever.

423
00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425
Well Tasha, we're all done

424
00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425
with your annual physical,

425
00:12:38,467 --> 00:12:40,010
we have your blood work,

426
00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220
but because of your family's

427
00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220
history with breast cancer...

428
00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640
Ah, let me guess, you

429
00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640
need me to go to radiology

430
00:12:44,682 --> 00:12:46,433
next door for my mammogram?

431
00:12:46,475 --> 00:12:47,476
Precisely.

432
00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646
I've been getting mammograms

433
00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646
for the past five years

434
00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023
Doctor Bailey, I

435
00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023
know the routine.

436
00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818
But those machines, oh my God,

437
00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818
they are so uncomfortable.

438
00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446
I know that mammograms

439
00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446
can be uncomfortable,

440
00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823
but because you carry the

441
00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823
mutated gene for breast cancer,

442
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659
it's really important

443
00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659
that you get your checkups

444
00:13:03,701 --> 00:13:05,285
at this early age.

445
00:13:06,662 --> 00:13:07,663
Understood.

446
00:13:12,876 --> 00:13:14,794
But what if I am pregnant?

447
00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424
I mean is it okay for me to

448
00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424
get a mammogram right now?

449
00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843
With all that radiation,

450
00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843
it's just-- I don't--

451
00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429
Normally, mammograms

452
00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429
are safe during pregnancy

453
00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015
because the amount of

454
00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015
radiation is minimal.

455
00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644
But Tasha, I don't want

456
00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644
you getting your hopes up.

457
00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437
Your chances are less

458
00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437
than five percent

459
00:13:32,479 --> 00:13:34,439
of becoming pregnant.

460
00:13:34,481 --> 00:13:36,816
Your eggs just aren't fertile.

461
00:13:38,235 --> 00:13:39,986
[dramatic music]

462
00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:40,820
I got it.

463
00:13:41,863 --> 00:13:43,198
I know.

464
00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,409
Are you gonna be okay?

465
00:13:45,450 --> 00:13:48,245
I will be. [laughs]

466
00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831
Okay well, get dressed

467
00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831
and we'll talk soon okay?

468
00:13:51,873 --> 00:13:53,833
Thank you, Doctor Bailey.

469
00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883
So we get the carpet

470
00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883
out, ready to install it,

471
00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429
and I unroll it and

472
00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429
I see all these cuts,

473
00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:06,638
all through the whole roll,

474
00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265
a whole bunch of

475
00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265
cuts on the carpet.

476
00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270
Yeah, it was completely

477
00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270
ruined. Couldn't use any of it.

478
00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190
The customer was unsatisfied,

479
00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190
of course, for obvious reasons.

480
00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817
And it set me and

481
00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817
Tony back two days,

482
00:14:18,858 --> 00:14:19,984
we'll have to get new carpet

483
00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319
and still have it

484
00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319
installed on time.

485
00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071
- Hmm.

486
00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071
- It's crazy.

487
00:14:24,864 --> 00:14:25,657
Tasha?

488
00:14:26,866 --> 00:14:27,618
Baby?

489
00:14:27,659 --> 00:14:29,202
What's up?

490
00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621
Have you listened

491
00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621
to a word I said?

492
00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291
Yeah, you said, "carpet,

493
00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291
slices, pushback."

494
00:14:34,332 --> 00:14:35,125
Right.

495
00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629
It's this funny thing about me

496
00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629
though, you know, it's like

497
00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467
when I talk to someone, I like

498
00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467
when they interact with me, so.

499
00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595
- Honey, I'm sorry.

500
00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595
- Hmm.

501
00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388
I don't know. I've just been

502
00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388
having so much on my mind

503
00:14:48,430 --> 00:14:49,807
and of course I'm tired,

504
00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391
I don't know what's

505
00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391
going on with me.

506
00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602
Well, thinking about

507
00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602
the test results

508
00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186
is not gonna make the

509
00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186
phone ring any faster.

510
00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:56,020
Yeah.

511
00:14:57,021 --> 00:14:59,190
[door bell rings]

512
00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193
Well, it did make something

513
00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193
ring now didn't it?

514
00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696
- Mm, mm, mm.

515
00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696
- Yeah, you're funny. Not really.

516
00:15:04,738 --> 00:15:05,739
[laughs]

517
00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866
- Be right back.

518
00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866
- Mm-hmm.

519
00:15:10,994 --> 00:15:11,829
[door thuds]

520
00:15:11,870 --> 00:15:13,204
We have a guest.

521
00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:14,038
Hey.

522
00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793
Just thought I'd come by

523
00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793
and see how she was doing.

524
00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961
Oh, I'm doing good

525
00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961
Daddy, much better.

526
00:15:20,003 --> 00:15:20,962
How you doing, young man?

527
00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589
I'm good man, we

528
00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589
just having dinner.

529
00:15:22,631 --> 00:15:23,965
Good.

530
00:15:24,007 --> 00:15:25,383
'Cause I am hungry.

531
00:15:25,425 --> 00:15:27,427
Oh, I'll get you a bowl.

532
00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807
So, Bernie informed me

533
00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807
that the other night

534
00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976
you got some really

535
00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976
great video footage.

536
00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937
- I always get good

537
00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937
video footage.

538
00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937
- Mm-hmm.

539
00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152
Well, she says

540
00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152
that she can't stand

541
00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989
the fact that you always

542
00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989
gotta video tape everything.

543
00:15:48,031 --> 00:15:48,990
I don't video everything.

544
00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785
I just video the

545
00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785
important stuff.

546
00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995
So, me passing out at

547
00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995
my party was important?

548
00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:56,164
Well, yeah.

549
00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999
Daddy, come on,

550
00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999
that is embarrassing.

551
00:15:58,041 --> 00:16:00,001
Don't show that video to anyone.

552
00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003
When you say

553
00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003
anyone, you mean what?

554
00:16:02,045 --> 00:16:03,421
Anyone.

555
00:16:06,216 --> 00:16:07,008
Fine.

556
00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013
But one day, you're gonna

557
00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013
look back at that footage

558
00:16:12,055 --> 00:16:14,015
and you gonna appreciate it.

559
00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018
And then you gonna realize

560
00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018
why I video everything.

561
00:16:17,060 --> 00:16:19,604
Because life is precious, baby,

562
00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:21,398
and I capture those moments

563
00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150
so that you have

564
00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150
something to hold onto.

565
00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778
You even hold onto your

566
00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778
mothers memory because of it.

567
00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364
Yes, Daddy, and I

568
00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364
do appreciate it,

569
00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992
but video of me fainting

570
00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992
needs to be destroyed.

571
00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370
Have you gone to

572
00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370
the doctor to find out

573
00:16:35,412 --> 00:16:36,371
why you passed out?

574
00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584
Yes, and we're

575
00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584
waiting on the results.

576
00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171
Well, Brenda and I think it's

577
00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171
because you don't eat right.

578
00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006
You seriously gonna

579
00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006
start that tonight?

580
00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175
Well, just look at

581
00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175
this for example, huh?

582
00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054
I mean, what is this okay,

583
00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054
this "egg poo young" nonsense?

584
00:16:53,096 --> 00:16:55,766
[laughs]

585
00:16:53,096 --> 00:16:55,766
It's egg foo yong, Melvin.

586
00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854
"Poo young". Whatever it

587
00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854
is, okay? It's not a

588
00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854
wholesome meal.

589
00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355
You know what you

590
00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355
need to do, right?

591
00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:04,065
Take some cooking classes.

592
00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:04,065
[clears throat]

593
00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:05,149
Exactly.

594
00:17:05,191 --> 00:17:06,777
Excuse me?

595
00:17:06,818 --> 00:17:08,361
I didn't say nothing.

596
00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448
You didn't marry me for

597
00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448
my cooking, now did you?

598
00:17:11,489 --> 00:17:14,576
Mm. No ma'am I did not.

599
00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913
Excuse me, I ain't trying

600
00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913
to hear all that now, all right?

601
00:17:17,955 --> 00:17:18,789
What, Daddy?

602
00:17:18,830 --> 00:17:19,998
That we have sex?

603
00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:20,791
Tasha.

604
00:17:20,832 --> 00:17:22,375
[laughing]

605
00:17:22,417 --> 00:17:24,168
<i>♪ Let's get it on ♪</i>

606
00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587
I tried to have

607
00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587
that talk with you

608
00:17:25,629 --> 00:17:27,171
when you was a little girl.

609
00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:29,007
That talk with you about sex?

610
00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759
You didn't want to

611
00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759
hear nothing about it.

612
00:17:30,801 --> 00:17:32,343
Now look at you.

613
00:17:32,385 --> 00:17:34,805
[gentle music]

614
00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:43,146
Tasha. Tasha.

615
00:17:44,022 --> 00:17:44,815
Yeah?

616
00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027
I want to talk to

617
00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027
you for a minute.

618
00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159
Brenda suggested that

619
00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159
maybe you stay home today.

620
00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370
You know since you, well you

621
00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370
know, started menstruation.

622
00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790
God Dad, don't

623
00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790
say that out loud.

624
00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209
I'm sorry, okay? I don't

625
00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209
know all the rules.

626
00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132
Um, did she teach you about

627
00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132
those little pads?

628
00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551
Please let this to

629
00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551
be the end of the talk.

630
00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:14,594
Or my life.

631
00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138
Do you want me to

632
00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138
take you to the store?

633
00:18:17,180 --> 00:18:18,139
Do you need something?

634
00:18:18,181 --> 00:18:19,975
No.

635
00:18:20,017 --> 00:18:23,144
So, do you have any questions?

636
00:18:23,186 --> 00:18:24,103
No.

637
00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359
Tasha, you know, since you are

638
00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359
becoming a woman as of today,

639
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362
I don't know, I thought maybe

640
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362
you might have a few questions.

641
00:18:32,403 --> 00:18:34,906
Questions about what?

642
00:18:34,948 --> 00:18:36,157
[sighs]

643
00:18:36,199 --> 00:18:37,325
What do you know about sex?

644
00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326
I'm not having

645
00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326
this talk with you.

646
00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:40,161
Yes you are, okay.

647
00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540
Your mother is not

648
00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540
here, okay so,

649
00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583
who else are you gonna

650
00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583
talk to about it but me?

651
00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:46,543
Dad.

652
00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170
Look Tasha, I am

653
00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170
serious about this okay?

654
00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757
When I was a kid, no one

655
00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757
told me anything about sex.

656
00:18:52,799 --> 00:18:54,342
Everything I learned about sex

657
00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595
was from a song called

658
00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595
"Let's Get It On."

659
00:18:58,179 --> 00:18:59,180
Hmm.

660
00:18:59,222 --> 00:19:00,431
Have to look that one up.

661
00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:02,183
No you don't.

662
00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355
Look many years from now...

663
00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355
maybe when you're 60 or so,

664
00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190
you know you're

665
00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190
gonna wanna have sex.

666
00:19:09,232 --> 00:19:10,191
60 dad?

667
00:19:10,233 --> 00:19:11,192
Come on.

668
00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945
All right, 40, 45,

669
00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945
something like that.

670
00:19:13,987 --> 00:19:15,947
I'm not waiting that long,

671
00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324
and let me save us both

672
00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324
from this devastation.

673
00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202
I've already had

674
00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202
sex ed at school.

675
00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206
I know about sex, the vagina,

676
00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206
penis, egg, and sperm.

677
00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375
Sexually transmitted

678
00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375
diseases, all that.

679
00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753
- Okay, but there's more--

680
00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753
- But nothing, Dad.

681
00:19:29,794 --> 00:19:31,337
Stop stressing. I'm gonna wait

682
00:19:31,379 --> 00:19:33,965
till I get married to have sex.

683
00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550
I want to have a

684
00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550
beautiful wedding,

685
00:19:35,592 --> 00:19:37,176
just like you and Mom had.

686
00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221
I want a house full

687
00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221
of children, five.

688
00:19:40,263 --> 00:19:41,765
Five?

689
00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725
And I have their

690
00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725
names picked out too.

691
00:19:43,767 --> 00:19:46,310
Patricia, after Mom of course.

692
00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188
Candice, so I can

693
00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188
nickname her Candy.

694
00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151
Oh wait, that sounds like a

695
00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151
stripper name. Scratch that one.

696
00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,319
And Alfonzo is gonna be amazing.

697
00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406
Okay. I see you have this

698
00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406
all planned out, all right?

699
00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617
We don't have to go through

700
00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617
every single detail.

701
00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328
Great. Now I

702
00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328
gotta go to school.

703
00:20:04,370 --> 00:20:06,998
[gentle music]

704
00:20:09,375 --> 00:20:10,585
Good talk, huh?

705
00:20:13,379 --> 00:20:14,213
I hope.

706
00:20:19,177 --> 00:20:20,511
Great work, Zinobia.

707
00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:25,349
-[clapping]

708
00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:25,349
-[phone buzzing]

709
00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436
All right class, I need

710
00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436
to return a quick call,

711
00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272
but I will be right at

712
00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272
the door if you need me.

713
00:20:31,314 --> 00:20:34,567
You may talk. Quietly.

714
00:20:39,572 --> 00:20:41,282
Hello?

715
00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786
Yes, this is Tasha Jackson

716
00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786
returning your call.

717
00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:48,957
Okay, so my results aren't in?

718
00:20:48,999 --> 00:20:50,000
Oh, they are?

719
00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503
Well, why can't you just give

720
00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503
them to me over the phone?

721
00:20:53,544 --> 00:20:56,131
[dramatic music]

722
00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715
Oh, of course my husband

723
00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715
and I will be there

724
00:20:57,757 --> 00:20:59,300
if Dr. Bailey insists.

725
00:20:59,342 --> 00:21:01,970
[dramatic music]

726
00:21:05,974 --> 00:21:07,934
I apologize for the delay.

727
00:21:07,976 --> 00:21:09,310
It's all right.

728
00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147
Mr. and Mrs. Jackson,

729
00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147
Tasha's results are in

730
00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357
but I wanted to speak

731
00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357
with you personally

732
00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195
because her results are

733
00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195
well, delicate in nature.

734
00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:21,531
What is it, Doctor?

735
00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116
I thought about

736
00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116
how to tell you this

737
00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035
but there's only one

738
00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035
way to say it so,

739
00:21:25,076 --> 00:21:27,704
I'm just gonna come out with it.

740
00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:30,915
You have defied the odds, Tasha.

741
00:21:30,957 --> 00:21:32,333
You're pregnant.

742
00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334
- Oh my God!

743
00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334
- Are you serious?

744
00:21:33,376 --> 00:21:34,335
Oh my God!

745
00:21:34,377 --> 00:21:35,920
-[laughing]

746
00:21:34,377 --> 00:21:35,920
-[crying]

747
00:21:35,962 --> 00:21:37,338
Oh, Bernie.

748
00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:38,923
Are you serious?

749
00:21:38,965 --> 00:21:40,508
Nine weeks along.

750
00:21:40,550 --> 00:21:41,342
A baby.

751
00:21:42,969 --> 00:21:44,012
Wow.

752
00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061
But a mass was found

753
00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061
on your mammogram.

754
00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730
- Wait.

755
00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730
- What?

756
00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901
Wait no, no, no. I've been

757
00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901
getting my mammogram for years,

758
00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195
and my results have

759
00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195
always been clean.

760
00:22:00,237 --> 00:22:02,321
I know, and I'm sorry,

761
00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700
but unfortunately

762
00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700
this result was not.

763
00:22:05,742 --> 00:22:07,952
Whoa hold on a second, wait.

764
00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914
Just so I can

765
00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914
understand you clearly,

766
00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916
are you saying my wife

767
00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916
has breast cancer?

768
00:22:12,957 --> 00:22:14,918
No, I'm not saying that at all.

769
00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503
A biopsy will have to be

770
00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503
preformed to determine that.

771
00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131
What I'm saying is

772
00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131
that Tasha has a mass,

773
00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341
and as you both already know

774
00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341
she carries a mutated gene.

775
00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719
The BRCA1 she inherited

776
00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719
from her mother.

777
00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721
This mutation causes

778
00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721
a greater risk

779
00:22:26,763 --> 00:22:28,973
of developing breast cancer.

780
00:22:29,015 --> 00:22:30,349
Okay, but...

781
00:22:32,518 --> 00:22:34,896
but, she can get the biopsy back

782
00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899
and find out the

783
00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899
mass isn't cancerous,

784
00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401
and she and the baby

785
00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401
will be fine, right?

786
00:22:40,443 --> 00:22:41,903
Yes, of course.

787
00:22:41,945 --> 00:22:44,405
The mass can be benign.

788
00:22:44,447 --> 00:22:46,324
And what if it isn't?

789
00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327
If it's malignant,

790
00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327
then your oncologist will

791
00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411
talk to you about

792
00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411
the next steps.

793
00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415
No, no, Doc, you could

794
00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415
just tell us right now.

795
00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794
You're a doctor, you have

796
00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794
an idea of what'll happen.

797
00:22:57,835 --> 00:22:58,628
Please.

798
00:23:00,838 --> 00:23:01,965
I'm sorry I...

799
00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555
Listen, we've been wanting

800
00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555
this baby for a long time.

801
00:23:09,597 --> 00:23:11,057
Yes.

802
00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936
Right, we've been through

803
00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936
too much so just, just tell us.

804
00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940
Okay normally, in a case such

805
00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940
as this, with the pregnancy

806
00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321
in it's early stages, if the

807
00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321
mass is indeed malignant,

808
00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115
depending on the

809
00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115
stage that it's in,

810
00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449
then your

811
00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449
oncologist might suggest

812
00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:30,118
that you terminate the pregnancy

813
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121
and receive treatment

814
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121
immediately.

815
00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:34,956
Terminate the pregnancy?

816
00:23:38,335 --> 00:23:40,920
God. Bernie.

817
00:23:47,135 --> 00:23:47,927
Tasha.

818
00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101
If it's between

819
00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101
you and this baby...

820
00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938
I mean, it's no... real choice

821
00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938
in the matter, you know?

822
00:24:00,481 --> 00:24:01,524
Are you serious?

823
00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696
Just, we have options.

824
00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696
Right?

825
00:24:06,737 --> 00:24:08,489
Tasha let me order the biopsy

826
00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658
and let's look at the results

827
00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658
before you get yourself upset.

828
00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536
I mean, in your condition

829
00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536
it is very important

830
00:24:13,577 --> 00:24:14,495
that you remain calm.

831
00:24:14,537 --> 00:24:15,496
[Tasha] Oh God, I can't.

832
00:24:15,538 --> 00:24:16,497
Tasha, baby.

833
00:24:16,539 --> 00:24:17,707
[Tasha] I can't!

834
00:24:18,916 --> 00:24:20,084
Thank you.

835
00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:21,085
Tasha.

836
00:24:21,127 --> 00:24:22,128
[crying]

837
00:24:25,548 --> 00:24:27,550
[sobbing]

838
00:24:38,353 --> 00:24:39,520
Tasha.

839
00:24:39,562 --> 00:24:40,897
Don't you speak to me.

840
00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524
Wait, don't use that

841
00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524
teacher voice on me.

842
00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652
How dare you say

843
00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652
that if it's between me

844
00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863
and the baby there's

845
00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863
no other choice?

846
00:24:48,905 --> 00:24:50,907
My body, my choice.

847
00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700
Hey, wait a second,

848
00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700
you're my wife, okay?

849
00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327
- I have a say in this.

850
00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327
- No, you don't, Bernie.

851
00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121
Yes, I do, Tasha!

852
00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121
I do have a say! Okay?

853
00:24:59,749 --> 00:25:01,418
[sighs]

854
00:25:05,129 --> 00:25:07,548
Why is this happening to me?

855
00:25:07,590 --> 00:25:09,717
Why is this happening to us?

856
00:25:10,718 --> 00:25:11,552
Listen.

857
00:25:11,594 --> 00:25:12,511
What?

858
00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474
Let's not do

859
00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474
this to each other.

860
00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:17,516
Not right now.

861
00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563
The biopsy could

862
00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563
come back benign

863
00:25:22,605 --> 00:25:25,608
and everything will be okay.

864
00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:26,650
All right?

865
00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946
- Okay.

866
00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946
- Okay.

867
00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281
- Come on.

868
00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281
- I'm sorry, Bernie.

869
00:25:31,322 --> 00:25:34,075
No, that's okay, come on.

870
00:25:34,117 --> 00:25:35,118
It's gonna be all right.

871
00:25:37,328 --> 00:25:39,330
[door bell rings]

872
00:25:41,707 --> 00:25:42,583
Daddy.

873
00:25:42,625 --> 00:25:44,710
[crying]

874
00:25:47,630 --> 00:25:49,590
It's malignant.

875
00:25:49,632 --> 00:25:50,549
Damn it.

876
00:25:51,884 --> 00:25:54,304
My baby, my baby, my baby.

877
00:25:56,097 --> 00:25:57,640
When I had that biopsy done,

878
00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394
I just knew that everything

879
00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394
was gonna be okay.

880
00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564
But the oncologist

881
00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564
said that I have...

882
00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902
I have invasive ductal

883
00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902
carcinoma stage two.

884
00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074
It's an aggressive

885
00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074
form of breast cancer.

886
00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537
I know. It's what your

887
00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537
mother had, stage four.

888
00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624
Yeah so, Melvin,

889
00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624
Brenda will you please

890
00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042
help me talk some

891
00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042
sense into her?

892
00:26:25,084 --> 00:26:26,627
Please?

893
00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630
The oncologist said that we

894
00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630
should terminate the pregnancy

895
00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841
now so that she can

896
00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841
start her treatment.

897
00:26:31,882 --> 00:26:33,259
Terminate the pregnancy?

898
00:26:33,301 --> 00:26:34,260
Yes.

899
00:26:34,302 --> 00:26:35,636
This is our baby, Bernie.

900
00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638
How many times do I have

901
00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638
to remind you of that?

902
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,265
That's our baby.

903
00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476
Tasha honey,

904
00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476
this is your life.

905
00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481
Yes. Yes. This

906
00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481
is my life. Mine.

907
00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065
Who around this table

908
00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065
understands that?

909
00:26:48,107 --> 00:26:49,859
What is there to understand?

910
00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:51,652
Huh?

911
00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071
The oncologist said that

912
00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071
her cancer's treatable

913
00:26:54,113 --> 00:26:55,614
if we start now, Tasha.

914
00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452
Did you ask the

915
00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452
doctor what would happen

916
00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703
if she's waits till

917
00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703
after the pregnancy?

918
00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456
Yeah, and if she waits

919
00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456
until the baby is born,

920
00:27:03,498 --> 00:27:04,665
then the cancer could grow

921
00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251
and it may be too late

922
00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251
to do anything about it.

923
00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256
Tasha, baby, what

924
00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256
do you want to do?

925
00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:14,633
I want to have our baby.

926
00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262
Look, whatever time I

927
00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262
have left on this earth

928
00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681
I would rather spend it

929
00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681
having a baby to love,

930
00:27:20,723 --> 00:27:22,099
than without one.

931
00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023
Daddy, this is a miracle.

932
00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023
This baby is a gift from God.

933
00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235
What part about that don't

934
00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235
you understand, Bernie?

935
00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029
You know what, I'm not gonna

936
00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029
sit here and listen to this.

937
00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447
So what, you're

938
00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447
just gonna walk away?

939
00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:39,700
You're just gonna walk away?

940
00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912
Let him go. He has

941
00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912
a lot to process.

942
00:27:43,704 --> 00:27:44,663
Trust me, I know.

943
00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458
The thought about

944
00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458
losing the only woman

945
00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836
that you've ever loved...

946
00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836
It's a lot to deal with.

947
00:27:50,878 --> 00:27:52,463
So what?

948
00:27:52,505 --> 00:27:54,715
You two gonna gang up on me too?

949
00:27:54,757 --> 00:27:56,259
Is that it?

950
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844
We're not gonna

951
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844
gang up on you, Tasha,

952
00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723
but if your doctor is urging

953
00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723
you to terminate the pregnancy,

954
00:28:02,765 --> 00:28:05,643
then you need to listen to him.

955
00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646
I seen what this disease

956
00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646
can do first hand

957
00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232
and baby, I don't

958
00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232
wish that on you.

959
00:28:11,274 --> 00:28:13,817
[dramatic music]

960
00:28:13,859 --> 00:28:14,860
Hey, come here.

961
00:28:16,070 --> 00:28:17,696
Come over here with us.

962
00:28:20,741 --> 00:28:21,576
My girls.

963
00:28:25,704 --> 00:28:27,081
[laughing]

964
00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043
<i>♪ And I try to care from</i>

965
00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043
<i>an angel made for me ♪</i>

966
00:28:31,085 --> 00:28:32,044
<i>♪ Made for me ♪</i>

967
00:28:32,086 --> 00:28:33,837
<i>♪ Made for me ♪</i>

968
00:28:33,879 --> 00:28:37,758
<i>♪ Made for me ♪</i>

969
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,676
Patricia.

970
00:28:40,094 --> 00:28:40,928
Patricia.

971
00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850
Tasha, call 911 like

972
00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850
we practiced, come on.

973
00:28:46,892 --> 00:28:47,726
Tasha, now!

974
00:28:49,479 --> 00:28:50,271
Patricia.

975
00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153
[Melvin]<i> Even though I</i>

976
00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153
<i>saw how much pain this</i>

977
00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153
<i>disease caused her,</i>

978
00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781
<i>I was equally hurt</i>

979
00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781
<i>that you had to grow up</i>

980
00:29:00,823 --> 00:29:02,492
<i>without her guidance.</i>

981
00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914
[Brenda] Hey Tashy,

982
00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914
you wanna come out

983
00:29:08,956 --> 00:29:09,790
and get something to eat?

984
00:29:09,832 --> 00:29:12,751
I know you must be hungry.

985
00:29:12,793 --> 00:29:14,920
I'm not hungry.

986
00:29:14,962 --> 00:29:15,754
You sure?

987
00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806
You know, Tasha you can

988
00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806
talk to me about anything.

989
00:29:25,848 --> 00:29:28,559
Just like your momma did.

990
00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979
I mean, I wasn't her

991
00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979
best friend for nothing.

992
00:29:34,898 --> 00:29:35,774
Okay.

993
00:29:37,818 --> 00:29:39,153
I'm here if you need me.

994
00:29:39,195 --> 00:29:41,989
[dramatic music]

995
00:29:51,624 --> 00:29:52,416
[Bernie] Hey, Tasha.

996
00:29:52,458 --> 00:29:53,751
Hey, Bernie.

997
00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337
Your mommy's

998
00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337
gone to Heaven, huh?

999
00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840
My dog Split went to heaven

1000
00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840
too, guess it's a good place.

1001
00:29:59,882 --> 00:30:01,842
That's what they say in church.

1002
00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927
Remember the day

1003
00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927
of the funeral?

1004
00:30:03,969 --> 00:30:07,765
How could I forget? Yeah.

1005
00:30:07,806 --> 00:30:09,559
[dramatic music]

1006
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769
Heard your mom kicked

1007
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769
the bucket, shrimp.

1008
00:30:11,810 --> 00:30:16,106
-[whacks]

1009
00:30:11,810 --> 00:30:16,106
-[cries out]

1010
00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526
When I pulled you

1011
00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526
out of that fight...

1012
00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:19,902
Tasha, stop!

1013
00:30:19,943 --> 00:30:22,530
Tasha, I said stop!

1014
00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909
...I knew right then and there,

1015
00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909
I could only do so much for you.

1016
00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870
You really need to think

1017
00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870
about the possibility

1018
00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790
of this child growing

1019
00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790
up without you.

1020
00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960
Now come on, Daddy's

1021
00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960
gonna take you home.

1022
00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882
I mean one minute we

1023
00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882
can't have any kids.

1024
00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302
The next minute...

1025
00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302
You know?

1026
00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890
It's all so much all

1027
00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890
of a sudden, man.

1028
00:30:49,932 --> 00:30:51,642
Yeah, I know.

1029
00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562
I mean, I can't pretend I never

1030
00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562
wanted children, you know?

1031
00:30:56,105 --> 00:30:57,106
Hmm.

1032
00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736
But when we found out

1033
00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736
Tasha couldn't have any,

1034
00:31:01,778 --> 00:31:03,904
I was cool with that, you know.

1035
00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532
I wasn't going

1036
00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532
anywhere. I love her.

1037
00:31:06,574 --> 00:31:07,784
Yeah, I get it.

1038
00:31:15,792 --> 00:31:17,960
I don't want this baby, Tony.

1039
00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593
It might not be right

1040
00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593
but, that's how I feel.

1041
00:31:27,553 --> 00:31:29,513
You'll come around.

1042
00:31:29,555 --> 00:31:30,556
I doubt it.

1043
00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894
- She needs you man.

1044
00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894
- Mm-mm.

1045
00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358
Bro, she don't need me.

1046
00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358
She got it all figured out.

1047
00:31:42,568 --> 00:31:43,736
She's so damn stubborn.

1048
00:31:43,778 --> 00:31:44,570
Yeah.

1049
00:31:49,158 --> 00:31:51,577
[door bangs]

1050
00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586
I tucked her in just like

1051
00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586
I did when she was little.

1052
00:32:00,628 --> 00:32:02,505
She was spent.

1053
00:32:02,546 --> 00:32:03,339
I'm sure.

1054
00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929
I can't believe

1055
00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929
this is happening.

1056
00:32:10,971 --> 00:32:11,764
Not to her.

1057
00:32:14,975 --> 00:32:16,560
Can I get a cup of tea?

1058
00:32:21,023 --> 00:32:22,024
What?

1059
00:32:22,065 --> 00:32:23,984
You mad at me?

1060
00:32:24,026 --> 00:32:25,944
I don't know, am I?

1061
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990
What does--

1062
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990
What's that

1063
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990
supposed to mean.

1064
00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994
It means... When will I

1065
00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994
be enough for you, Melvin?

1066
00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748
I don't know what the

1067
00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748
hell you talking about.

1068
00:32:44,547 --> 00:32:45,715
All these years I've been here,

1069
00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925
I feel like I'm

1070
00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925
invisible to you.

1071
00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:49,092
Invisible?

1072
00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010
You're standing

1073
00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010
right in front of me.

1074
00:32:50,052 --> 00:32:51,094
Do you see me?

1075
00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515
'Cause I feel like I'm

1076
00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515
standing in Patricia's shadow.

1077
00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726
Nothing I do is ever

1078
00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726
good enough for you.

1079
00:32:56,767 --> 00:32:58,018
Not when I helped you take care

1080
00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103
of my best friend

1081
00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103
until her death.

1082
00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022
Not even when I

1083
00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022
helped you raise Tasha

1084
00:33:02,064 --> 00:33:03,399
while I'm raising my own boys.

1085
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027
Not once have I ever

1086
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027
felt appreciated.

1087
00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822
We're in a relationship Brenda,

1088
00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822
that's not enough for you?

1089
00:33:09,864 --> 00:33:11,198
No, it's not.

1090
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408
Then what do you

1091
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408
want from me, huh?

1092
00:33:12,449 --> 00:33:14,034
A thank you?

1093
00:33:14,076 --> 00:33:15,244
Do you love me?

1094
00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206
My only child

1095
00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206
just walked in here

1096
00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625
and told me she

1097
00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625
has breast cancer

1098
00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:23,419
and she's foregoing treatment

1099
00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:26,046
for a child she may never raise.

1100
00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634
Every bit of love,

1101
00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634
every bit of support,

1102
00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637
every bit of strength,

1103
00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637
everything I have in me

1104
00:33:33,679 --> 00:33:36,181
is going to my daughter.

1105
00:33:36,223 --> 00:33:39,226
You either accept that, or not.

1106
00:33:41,061 --> 00:33:42,020
I'm going to bed.

1107
00:33:53,115 --> 00:33:56,410
-[dramatic music]

1108
00:33:53,115 --> 00:33:56,410
-[crying]

1109
00:33:56,452 --> 00:33:58,078
[knocking]

1110
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039
[Melvin]<i> Tasha baby,</i>

1111
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039
<i>please open the door.</i>

1112
00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084
Tasha's in the bathroom,

1113
00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084
she won't come out.

1114
00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295
I didn't know what to

1115
00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295
do so I called you.

1116
00:34:06,336 --> 00:34:10,007
It's fine. She's 12 years old.

1117
00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094
If she's not coming out of the

1118
00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094
bathroom it's for one reason.

1119
00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056
Sanitary napkins. She's

1120
00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056
crossed over into womanhood.

1121
00:34:19,308 --> 00:34:21,101
How could I not know that?

1122
00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520
Don't beat

1123
00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520
yourself up about it.

1124
00:34:23,562 --> 00:34:26,565
Tasha honey, it's Brenda.

1125
00:34:27,858 --> 00:34:28,859
Can I come in?

1126
00:34:30,444 --> 00:34:32,446
[creaks]

1127
00:34:35,658 --> 00:34:37,618
I'll be in the kitchen.

1128
00:34:37,660 --> 00:34:38,661
It'll be fine.

1129
00:34:38,702 --> 00:34:39,536
Yeah.

1130
00:34:42,039 --> 00:34:44,625
[water splashing]

1131
00:34:46,418 --> 00:34:47,711
She's growing up.

1132
00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131
Best to let her stay

1133
00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131
home from school today.

1134
00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967
Experiencing that

1135
00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967
for the first time

1136
00:34:53,009 --> 00:34:54,677
can be a little traumatic.

1137
00:34:54,718 --> 00:34:55,678
Thank you, Brenda.

1138
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,095
Mm-hmm. No problem.

1139
00:35:01,141 --> 00:35:03,978
[sighs] You know,

1140
00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146
with Patricia

1141
00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146
gone I just feel as though

1142
00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524
there's so much

1143
00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524
she's missing out on

1144
00:35:08,565 --> 00:35:09,817
that I can't give to her.

1145
00:35:09,859 --> 00:35:11,151
Well, I'm not her mother,

1146
00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613
but I'm always here

1147
00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613
to help you with her.

1148
00:35:14,655 --> 00:35:16,198
I don't want to burden you.

1149
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117
It's no burden.

1150
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117
I can help her.

1151
00:35:20,995 --> 00:35:21,996
And you.

1152
00:35:24,832 --> 00:35:27,417
[dramatic music]

1153
00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172
- I can't.

1154
00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172
- Yes, you can.

1155
00:35:32,214 --> 00:35:35,051
[dramatic music]

1156
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,432
Melvin.

1157
00:35:44,434 --> 00:35:47,021
You're a man with needs.

1158
00:35:47,063 --> 00:35:49,439
I'm a woman with the same needs.

1159
00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152
My needs are taken

1160
00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152
care of just fine.

1161
00:35:55,696 --> 00:35:58,156
Oh, I see.

1162
00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871
So, you can be with other

1163
00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871
women, just not me. Is that it?

1164
00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456
Brenda, it's not

1165
00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456
easy for you and me.

1166
00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:09,251
You were her best friend.

1167
00:36:09,292 --> 00:36:10,878
It's been four years.

1168
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,089
You think I don't know that?

1169
00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885
She's gone Melvin, and

1170
00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885
I'm here, and I love you.

1171
00:36:17,927 --> 00:36:19,469
And that little girl upstairs,

1172
00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847
- I love her like she's my own.

1173
00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847
- I know that.

1174
00:36:21,889 --> 00:36:22,848
Then why?

1175
00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850
I just-- Look I

1176
00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850
just can't, okay?

1177
00:36:24,892 --> 00:36:26,852
Can't is not a reason.

1178
00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228
Why don't you just

1179
00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228
consider the fact that--

1180
00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690
Look, I'm still in

1181
00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690
love with my wife, okay?

1182
00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862
Look, I don't want

1183
00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862
to hurt you, Brenda.

1184
00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238
I took care of her

1185
00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238
when that cancer

1186
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,198
was just eating her away.

1187
00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244
I did everything I

1188
00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244
could to keep her here.

1189
00:36:44,286 --> 00:36:47,456
Because Tasha needed her mother.

1190
00:36:47,497 --> 00:36:49,458
I took care of her too.

1191
00:36:49,499 --> 00:36:51,501
I was right there with you.

1192
00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715
So you expect me to just

1193
00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715
make love to her best friend?

1194
00:36:56,757 --> 00:36:57,758
Yes.

1195
00:36:59,676 --> 00:37:01,720
You just don't understand.

1196
00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639
I can't betray

1197
00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639
Patricia like that.

1198
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,266
You can't betray a dead woman.

1199
00:37:08,477 --> 00:37:12,856
I didn't mean that. I'm sorry.

1200
00:37:12,898 --> 00:37:15,985
Look, I know she's dead, okay?

1201
00:37:16,026 --> 00:37:19,279
And she's not coming back.

1202
00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660
And you're a beautiful

1203
00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660
woman. Any man would be

1204
00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660
lucky to have you.

1205
00:37:24,701 --> 00:37:26,286
But I'm not gonna sit here

1206
00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707
and pretend that I want any

1207
00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707
more from you than friendship.

1208
00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:32,751
I don't need anymore friends.

1209
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,883
I can't do this anymore.

1210
00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889
Brenda, don't leave.

1211
00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889
Tasha needs you.

1212
00:37:47,850 --> 00:37:49,893
If only you needed me too.

1213
00:37:49,935 --> 00:37:52,270
[dramatic music]

1214
00:37:53,313 --> 00:37:55,691
[door clatters]

1215
00:38:02,572 --> 00:38:03,573
Hey.

1216
00:38:04,366 --> 00:38:05,617
Hey.

1217
00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329
I have a sonogram

1218
00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329
appointment this morning.

1219
00:38:09,371 --> 00:38:11,456
You think you could make it?

1220
00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256
Um, yeah, I don't think so

1221
00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256
babe. I don't think I can.

1222
00:38:19,297 --> 00:38:20,465
Could you try?

1223
00:38:23,177 --> 00:38:24,220
I gotta work.

1224
00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:26,471
[clears throat]

1225
00:38:28,891 --> 00:38:31,476
[dramatic music]

1226
00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861
All right. Okay, thanks

1227
00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861
for telling me. Okay.

1228
00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032
That was Tasha. She has

1229
00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032
a sonogram this morning.

1230
00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826
What? You still

1231
00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826
not talking to me?

1232
00:38:47,868 --> 00:38:49,411
For what?

1233
00:38:49,452 --> 00:38:51,329
I don't have anything to say.

1234
00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957
Then don't say

1235
00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957
anything.

1236
00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211
We just uh...

1237
00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211
make up.

1238
00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340
Aren't we a little

1239
00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340
too old for make up sex?

1240
00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344
I don't know.

1241
00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344
Tell me when we're finished.

1242
00:39:06,386 --> 00:39:08,972
[dramatic music]

1243
00:39:11,725 --> 00:39:13,393
The gel is warm.

1244
00:39:13,435 --> 00:39:14,352
Okay.

1245
00:39:18,398 --> 00:39:19,775
Oh.

1246
00:39:18,398 --> 00:39:19,775
[laughs]

1247
00:39:23,112 --> 00:39:25,530
All right, here we go.

1248
00:39:29,952 --> 00:39:30,953
There.

1249
00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415
[laughs] It looks like a

1250
00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415
little kidney bean.

1251
00:39:35,457 --> 00:39:37,167
[laughs]

1252
00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003
Yes, that's what it's supposed

1253
00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003
to look like at this gestation.

1254
00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:41,297
Wow.

1255
00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465
Well, is everything okay,

1256
00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465
is the heart beating?

1257
00:39:43,506 --> 00:39:46,302
Heart beat is strong.

1258
00:39:46,343 --> 00:39:47,427
You're about 11 weeks along.

1259
00:39:47,469 --> 00:39:49,721
[laughing]

1260
00:39:54,143 --> 00:39:56,436
Miss Jackson, are you okay?

1261
00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897
I wish my husband

1262
00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897
was here is all.

1263
00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483
We'll print a

1264
00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483
picture out for him.

1265
00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443
No one wants to do

1266
00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443
the first... ya know,

1267
00:40:03,485 --> 00:40:04,903
sonogram alone, you know?

1268
00:40:04,945 --> 00:40:06,404
Oh yeah, I understand.

1269
00:40:07,489 --> 00:40:08,698
Did we miss it?

1270
00:40:08,740 --> 00:40:10,492
Oh my God, you're here?

1271
00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165
Oh, Brenda and Daddy.

1272
00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165
Oh, here you go.

1273
00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458
We would have been

1274
00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458
here earlier but um--

1275
00:40:18,500 --> 00:40:19,709
Traffic.

1276
00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295
- Yeah.

1277
00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295
- We were caught in traffic.

1278
00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089
Yeah, caught in traffic, good

1279
00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089
traffic-- I mean, big traffic.

1280
00:40:24,131 --> 00:40:25,465
Yeah.

1281
00:40:25,507 --> 00:40:26,424
Okay?

1282
00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469
All right, let's fire this thing

1283
00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469
up so I can see this baby.

1284
00:40:29,511 --> 00:40:31,096
[nurse] Oh, yeah, sure thing.

1285
00:40:31,138 --> 00:40:33,015
Oh, yeah.

1286
00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810
[Melvin] Look, I got the baby

1287
00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810
on film before it's even here!

1288
00:40:36,852 --> 00:40:38,645
[laughs]

1289
00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,564
I know. It's so tiny.

1290
00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,564
[laughs]

1291
00:40:43,108 --> 00:40:45,319
Okay, here goes nothing.

1292
00:40:46,195 --> 00:40:48,446
[sighs]

1293
00:40:46,195 --> 00:40:48,446
[clears throat]

1294
00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995
Hello there, um... well, today

1295
00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995
has been all in all, uh...

1296
00:40:55,037 --> 00:40:56,997
Oh my God.

1297
00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168
What the hell am

1298
00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168
I trying to say?

1299
00:41:01,210 --> 00:41:02,585
Oh, I got it. [clears throat]

1300
00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968
All right, um... Hey there

1301
00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968
little person, whoever you are.

1302
00:41:10,010 --> 00:41:12,512
My name is Tasha, Tasha Jackson

1303
00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310
and um...

1304
00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310
I recently turned 30 and um...

1305
00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522
Damn it. This thing's

1306
00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522
not even recording.

1307
00:41:22,564 --> 00:41:24,524
Okay, okay here we go.

1308
00:41:28,695 --> 00:41:30,488
Hello, little one.

1309
00:41:30,530 --> 00:41:32,282
[laughs]

1310
00:41:32,324 --> 00:41:34,993
I am your mommy, Tasha,

1311
00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997
and right now you

1312
00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997
are in my tummy, see?

1313
00:41:39,039 --> 00:41:41,041
[laughs]

1314
00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545
Um, I am recording this

1315
00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545
because apparently

1316
00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590
your grandfather Melvin

1317
00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590
had it right all along.

1318
00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010
Important things should

1319
00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010
be captured on film.

1320
00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181
So here I am recording

1321
00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181
this just for you.

1322
00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643
So, I am 11 weeks

1323
00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643
pregnant with you

1324
00:42:00,685 --> 00:42:04,564
and I also have breast cancer.

1325
00:42:04,606 --> 00:42:06,233
Just like my mom.

1326
00:42:09,611 --> 00:42:11,238
But I want you to know

1327
00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204
that no matter what

1328
00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204
happens, I chose you.

1329
00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543
You are loved,

1330
00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543
and I will always,

1331
00:42:25,585 --> 00:42:27,963
always be here with you.

1332
00:42:29,631 --> 00:42:31,383
[Bernie] Tasha.

1333
00:42:31,425 --> 00:42:34,177
That's your loud daddy.

1334
00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,595
Yeah?

1335
00:42:35,637 --> 00:42:36,554
Breakfast.

1336
00:42:42,018 --> 00:42:43,437
What's all this?

1337
00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774
What do you mean,

1338
00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774
it's breakfast.

1339
00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777
Well, I can see that, it's

1340
00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777
just your idea of breakfast

1341
00:42:50,819 --> 00:42:52,195
is usually cereal.

1342
00:42:52,237 --> 00:42:53,238
Yeah, well.

1343
00:42:55,449 --> 00:42:56,241
Not today.

1344
00:42:58,243 --> 00:43:00,120
Bernie, don't do this.

1345
00:43:01,663 --> 00:43:02,956
Do what?

1346
00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584
Start doing all this

1347
00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584
extra unnecessary stuff.

1348
00:43:07,794 --> 00:43:09,587
It's just breakfast, Tasha.

1349
00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384
No, it's not, it's um...

1350
00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384
"You know I think you're

1351
00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384
gonna die soon,

1352
00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179
so let me start doing this

1353
00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179
extra stuff to compensate

1354
00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763
for what I should have

1355
00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763
been doing all along."

1356
00:43:18,805 --> 00:43:20,765
That's not fair, Tasha.

1357
00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186
Okay? I made breakfast

1358
00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186
because I wanted to.

1359
00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603
So this is the

1360
00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603
part where we start

1361
00:43:25,645 --> 00:43:26,771
talking about what's fair?

1362
00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981
No, you don't want to

1363
00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981
have that conversation

1364
00:43:28,023 --> 00:43:29,399
with me right now, trust me.

1365
00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652
Oh, yes I do. I do want

1366
00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652
to have this conversation.

1367
00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571
All right, let's have

1368
00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571
the conversation.

1369
00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574
How are you gonna

1370
00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574
convince me or anybody else

1371
00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576
that you're being fair to

1372
00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576
yourself and your husband

1373
00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662
by keeping this baby instead

1374
00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662
of saving your own life?

1375
00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583
Hmm? Explain to me how

1376
00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583
that's fair. I'm listening.

1377
00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753
Bernie, this is not 25 years

1378
00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753
ago when my mother had cancer.

1379
00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590
There are new treatments

1380
00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590
and medicines...

1381
00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385
You are acting as if you're

1382
00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385
about to plan my funeral.

1383
00:43:56,426 --> 00:43:58,595
I might have to.

1384
00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056
Do you understand that,

1385
00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056
Tasha? I just might have to.

1386
00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683
God, you don't think

1387
00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683
that I'm afraid of that?

1388
00:44:03,725 --> 00:44:05,768
I am, God knows I wanna live.

1389
00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646
Then do what needs

1390
00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646
to be done, okay?

1391
00:44:10,773 --> 00:44:12,775
[crying]

1392
00:44:18,907 --> 00:44:19,908
God.

1393
00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206
You are so damn

1394
00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206
stubborn and naive.

1395
00:44:27,749 --> 00:44:30,168
And what if I lose you, huh?

1396
00:44:30,210 --> 00:44:31,169
Hmm? What then?

1397
00:44:31,211 --> 00:44:32,421
What do I do?

1398
00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428
I've loved you my

1399
00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428
entire life, Tasha.

1400
00:44:40,429 --> 00:44:43,557
Oh Bernie, I am so sorry.

1401
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604
I am so--

1402
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604
I am so sorry.

1403
00:44:49,771 --> 00:44:52,148
[whispering] Ok, um...

1404
00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:53,567
Look, you ready to go?

1405
00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944
Oh my God, my feet

1406
00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944
are killing me.

1407
00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571
You're walking around

1408
00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571
campus all day

1409
00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738
and then you come

1410
00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738
here work at night,

1411
00:44:58,780 --> 00:45:00,490
I bet your feet do hurt.

1412
00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369
Don't expect no foot

1413
00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369
rub or nothing, though.

1414
00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954
Thanks for coming all

1415
00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954
this way to pick me up.

1416
00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917
It aint nothing, you know,

1417
00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917
that's what best friends

1418
00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917
are for, right?

1419
00:45:10,959 --> 00:45:11,960
Yes.

1420
00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921
[Bernie] Why

1421
00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921
am I picking you up?

1422
00:45:14,963 --> 00:45:16,756
Because I asked you to.

1423
00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759
I know that, your dad

1424
00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759
couldn't pick you up?

1425
00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929
- I'm trying to surprise him.

1426
00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929
- Aww.

1427
00:45:22,971 --> 00:45:24,764
Ain't that sweet.

1428
00:45:24,806 --> 00:45:25,932
Why are you coming home now?

1429
00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560
It's not a holiday or

1430
00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560
a break or anything.

1431
00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521
Tomorrow's the

1432
00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521
anniversary of Mom's death.

1433
00:45:31,563 --> 00:45:33,773
[sighs]

1434
00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359
I don't like leaving

1435
00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359
him home alone you know?

1436
00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946
Yeah, I bet that.

1437
00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946
That's what's up.

1438
00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947
Don't act like you

1439
00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947
ain't gonna put no money

1440
00:45:40,989 --> 00:45:42,782
in my gas tank, though.

1441
00:45:42,824 --> 00:45:44,159
So what, you broke again?

1442
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,577
What?

1443
00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912
Girl, you got jokes.

1444
00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912
Nah, I ain't broke.

1445
00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122
I got a little

1446
00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122
something happening.

1447
00:45:49,164 --> 00:45:50,748
Doing what?

1448
00:45:50,790 --> 00:45:51,916
Don't look at me like that.

1449
00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586
I ain't doing nothing

1450
00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586
illegal, Tasha.

1451
00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545
Hey yo,

1452
00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545
for real, I'm not.

1453
00:45:55,587 --> 00:45:57,547
[laughs]

1454
00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757
I got a job at this

1455
00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757
carpet company.

1456
00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218
Bernie, you the dude

1457
00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218
that can barely vacuum.

1458
00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930
Well, I guess that's something

1459
00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930
we got in common then.

1460
00:46:05,972 --> 00:46:07,599
Well, good for you then.

1461
00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187
Take care of you

1462
00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187
too, if you let me.

1463
00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733
Okay, you see Bernie that's

1464
00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733
what I'm talking about.

1465
00:46:16,816 --> 00:46:17,775
You play too much.

1466
00:46:26,159 --> 00:46:28,953
Brenda, hey. It's been a while.

1467
00:46:31,164 --> 00:46:33,791
Melvin, hi.

1468
00:46:34,959 --> 00:46:38,129
Yeah, what five years at least.

1469
00:46:38,171 --> 00:46:39,964
Six years to be exact.

1470
00:46:41,591 --> 00:46:43,552
What are you doing here?

1471
00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844
Well, you know a

1472
00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844
little market like this

1473
00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137
is the best place to

1474
00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137
get a good steak.

1475
00:46:46,179 --> 00:46:47,764
It's the best market in town.

1476
00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932
I was just picking up my

1477
00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932
seasonings for my jerk chicken.

1478
00:46:49,974 --> 00:46:51,768
Ah, your jerk chicken, yeah.

1479
00:46:51,809 --> 00:46:53,144
I remember that.

1480
00:46:53,186 --> 00:46:54,896
So, how's Tasha?

1481
00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523
- She's in college now.

1482
00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523
- Wow.

1483
00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941
Yeah, actually I was

1484
00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941
hoping she'd come home

1485
00:46:58,983 --> 00:47:01,819
in a few days, for you know...

1486
00:47:02,779 --> 00:47:04,531
Uh, but she's busy studying.

1487
00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534
Tomorrow's the anniversary

1488
00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534
of Patricia's passing.

1489
00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911
Yeah. What's going on

1490
00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911
with you? You married?

1491
00:47:09,952 --> 00:47:11,538
You not married? What?

1492
00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541
No, no, no. Been

1493
00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541
there done that.

1494
00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543
Yeah, I remember you having

1495
00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543
a hard time with your divorce.

1496
00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880
Oh, no not really. He

1497
00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880
was a lying, manipulative,

1498
00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926
narcissistic, weak example of

1499
00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926
a man. Easy to walk away from.

1500
00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762
Damn, tell me how

1501
00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762
you really feel.

1502
00:47:26,803 --> 00:47:28,846
[chuckles]

1503
00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727
Well, listen, it was

1504
00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727
good to see you Melvin.

1505
00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896
Give Tasha my love and

1506
00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896
tell her I miss her.

1507
00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859
What about me? I mean, do

1508
00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859
you miss me even a little?

1509
00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532
You were such a constant

1510
00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532
in our lives for years,

1511
00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535
and these past years without

1512
00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535
you, I really regret it.

1513
00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330
If I could go back I

1514
00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330
would-- Well it's not important.

1515
00:47:54,372 --> 00:47:56,124
I really miss you, Brenda.

1516
00:47:56,165 --> 00:47:58,126
I'm not Patricia, Melvin.

1517
00:47:58,167 --> 00:47:59,586
I know that.

1518
00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923
I was never trying

1519
00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923
to take her place.

1520
00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926
I was just trying to be there

1521
00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926
in whatever capacity I could.

1522
00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765
I realize that, and I took

1523
00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765
you for granted and I'm sorry.

1524
00:48:12,557 --> 00:48:16,561
Yes, I do miss you.

1525
00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940
Well, what are you

1526
00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940
doing tonight?

1527
00:48:20,982 --> 00:48:21,983
Are you busy?

1528
00:48:22,024 --> 00:48:23,109
Would you like to have dinner?

1529
00:48:23,151 --> 00:48:25,570
Remember, I cook a mean steak.

1530
00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952
Thank you, but um...

1531
00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952
I'm gonna pass on dinner.

1532
00:48:32,994 --> 00:48:34,579
You take care of yourself, okay?

1533
00:48:48,217 --> 00:48:49,135
Melvin.

1534
00:48:51,346 --> 00:48:53,139
I like my steaks rare.

1535
00:48:54,766 --> 00:48:55,933
Okay.

1536
00:48:55,975 --> 00:48:56,768
Cabernet?

1537
00:48:59,771 --> 00:49:00,730
Daddy!

1538
00:49:02,023 --> 00:49:02,940
Daddy, I'm home!

1539
00:49:07,028 --> 00:49:07,945
Daddy!

1540
00:49:10,114 --> 00:49:10,948
Brenda?

1541
00:49:12,116 --> 00:49:12,950
Oh!

1542
00:49:16,037 --> 00:49:18,289
Oh my God, I can't believe this.

1543
00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082
And on the anniversary

1544
00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082
of my mother's death?

1545
00:49:20,124 --> 00:49:22,001
That is totally disrespectful.

1546
00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921
Well, technically it's

1547
00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921
not on the anniversary.

1548
00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,965
That's tomorrow, but I mean--

1549
00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720
To me, your dad and Brenda

1550
00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720
makes sense, you know?

1551
00:49:31,761 --> 00:49:32,721
Really, Bernie?

1552
00:49:32,762 --> 00:49:34,305
She was my mother's best friend.

1553
00:49:34,347 --> 00:49:36,933
Yeah I know, but I mean...

1554
00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018
What do you mean?

1555
00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018
What do you mean?

1556
00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481
Look, it's not like he's

1557
00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481
cheating on your moms, you know?

1558
00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610
And Brenda, I mean, I'm just

1559
00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610
saying-- I'd hit it.

1560
00:49:47,652 --> 00:49:48,486
[smacks]

1561
00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029
Ow, hey come on

1562
00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029
stop hitting on me.

1563
00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031
No, not when you

1564
00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031
say dumb crap like that.

1565
00:49:52,073 --> 00:49:53,491
Come on Tasha, are you serious?

1566
00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493
What, you think your dad's

1567
00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493
gonna go the rest of his life

1568
00:49:55,535 --> 00:49:57,036
without gettin' some?

1569
00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915
Come on man, you

1570
00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915
need to chill out.

1571
00:49:59,956 --> 00:50:01,290
I don't need to do anything,

1572
00:50:01,332 --> 00:50:03,919
but go back to school right now.

1573
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,504
No. no. Right now?

1574
00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881
- Yes.

1575
00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881
- No, no.

1576
00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090
We're not going back right

1577
00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090
now, we just got here.

1578
00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970
I'm not turning around and

1579
00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970
taking you all the way back.

1580
00:50:14,303 --> 00:50:15,430
Fine.

1581
00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685
Can I spend the night

1582
00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685
at your house then?

1583
00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521
I really don't want

1584
00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521
to got home tonight.

1585
00:50:25,106 --> 00:50:26,691
Are you finished yet?

1586
00:50:26,733 --> 00:50:28,484
Bernie, I told you not to look.

1587
00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905
I'm not looking,

1588
00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905
all right? I'm just tired.

1589
00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072
You know, it took me four

1590
00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072
hours to come get you

1591
00:50:33,114 --> 00:50:35,116
and four hours to come back.

1592
00:50:41,122 --> 00:50:41,915
Okay, I'm done.

1593
00:50:41,957 --> 00:50:42,749
Thank you.

1594
00:50:52,508 --> 00:50:55,470
Bernie, what are you doing?

1595
00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514
I'm not sleeping

1596
00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514
in my clothes.

1597
00:51:00,809 --> 00:51:02,184
Oh, man.

1598
00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272
No, no, no, no, no,

1599
00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272
you sleep on the floor

1600
00:51:06,314 --> 00:51:07,899
and I'm gonna sleep in the bed.

1601
00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484
Tasha, I am not sleeping

1602
00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484
on the floor okay?

1603
00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194
I'm tired. I just wanna

1604
00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194
get in my own bed.

1605
00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280
Ain't nobody gonna

1606
00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280
touch you girl, move.

1607
00:51:14,322 --> 00:51:16,115
But, what if your mom comes in?

1608
00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868
She's not coming in here.

1609
00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868
She works the night shift now.

1610
00:51:25,291 --> 00:51:26,083
Bernie?

1611
00:51:28,586 --> 00:51:30,005
Huh?

1612
00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132
How many girls

1613
00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132
have you been with?

1614
00:51:33,174 --> 00:51:34,091
What?

1615
00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014
Tasha, you crazy girl,

1616
00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014
go to bed.

1617
00:51:44,393 --> 00:51:46,395
Did you love any of them?

1618
00:51:51,233 --> 00:51:52,027
No.

1619
00:51:53,611 --> 00:51:56,113
So, you've never been in love?

1620
00:51:57,198 --> 00:51:58,783
Well, yeah.

1621
00:52:01,870 --> 00:52:02,871
With who?

1622
00:52:07,583 --> 00:52:10,127
[gentle music]

1623
00:52:13,798 --> 00:52:14,590
With you.

1624
00:52:15,884 --> 00:52:18,177
[scoffs] Me?

1625
00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180
You can't be in love with me.

1626
00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180
I'm your best friend.

1627
00:52:21,222 --> 00:52:23,850
That's more the reason, right?

1628
00:52:33,026 --> 00:52:34,527
Make love to me, then.

1629
00:52:34,569 --> 00:52:35,319
What?

1630
00:52:35,361 --> 00:52:36,153
Nah.

1631
00:52:37,238 --> 00:52:38,155
What do you mean, "nah"?

1632
00:52:38,197 --> 00:52:39,741
No.

1633
00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201
What, is there

1634
00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201
something wrong with me?

1635
00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746
No, there's nothing

1636
00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746
wrong with you I'm just...

1637
00:52:44,787 --> 00:52:46,789
Okay, well then why not?

1638
00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969
I'm not making love to

1639
00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969
you until I marry you, okay?

1640
00:53:00,011 --> 00:53:01,178
Marry me?

1641
00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769
Bernie you are so stupid

1642
00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769
sometimes. Oh my gosh.

1643
00:53:08,770 --> 00:53:09,562
Marry me.

1644
00:53:11,773 --> 00:53:14,776
No, I'm not stupid, Tasha.

1645
00:53:17,779 --> 00:53:19,781
I'm gonna marry you one day.

1646
00:53:21,574 --> 00:53:22,575
I'm serious.

1647
00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332
But, for right now I'm gonna

1648
00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332
get some sleep. All right?

1649
00:53:30,374 --> 00:53:31,208
Goodnight.

1650
00:53:39,759 --> 00:53:41,260
Come on in and take a seat.

1651
00:53:41,302 --> 00:53:43,304
We're just getting started.

1652
00:53:43,345 --> 00:53:45,765
Okay. Thank you.

1653
00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143
I know we are

1654
00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143
all going through

1655
00:53:48,184 --> 00:53:50,311
a lot of emotion right now.

1656
00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941
Ranging from fear

1657
00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941
to self pity to, well,

1658
00:53:54,983 --> 00:53:57,526
feeling less than a woman.

1659
00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946
But your focus should

1660
00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946
not be on those things.

1661
00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032
Your focus should be

1662
00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032
sharing your information

1663
00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202
and your resources

1664
00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202
to help one another.

1665
00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498
Black women are more

1666
00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498
likely to be diagnosed

1667
00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501
with breast cancer, and

1668
00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501
have more aggressive forms

1669
00:54:13,542 --> 00:54:16,504
of the disease than white women.

1670
00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133
Each of you have your own

1671
00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133
set of unique circumstances,

1672
00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927
but we are dealing with a

1673
00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927
disease that can be cured

1674
00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305
if monitored and

1675
00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305
treated properly.

1676
00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977
We need to give our breasts

1677
00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977
the attention they deserve.

1678
00:54:32,561 --> 00:54:35,731
So, does anyone want to share?

1679
00:54:35,773 --> 00:54:36,565
Anybody?

1680
00:54:38,567 --> 00:54:40,319
Oh yeah, Denise.

1681
00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491
Well, I just had day 30 of

1682
00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491
my chemo, I'm almost done.

1683
00:54:45,533 --> 00:54:47,702
[clapping]

1684
00:54:47,743 --> 00:54:51,330
I know, what a wonderful thing.

1685
00:54:51,372 --> 00:54:53,332
And I feel good today.

1686
00:54:53,374 --> 00:54:54,667
I'm strong.

1687
00:54:56,377 --> 00:54:59,338
I know I can beat this thing.

1688
00:54:59,380 --> 00:55:02,008
How wonderful for you, Denise,

1689
00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509
but some of us don't

1690
00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509
have enough time left

1691
00:55:03,551 --> 00:55:05,553
to think about next year.

1692
00:55:06,762 --> 00:55:09,348
Let me just remind you

1693
00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351
that we were just at Jasmine's

1694
00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351
funeral last weekend.

1695
00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479
I mean, she was just sitting

1696
00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479
here with us, now she's gone.

1697
00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358
I haven't forgotten

1698
00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358
about Jasmine.

1699
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112
Yeah, well, some of us are

1700
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112
barely hanging on to hope.

1701
00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364
But y'all wanna post your

1702
00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364
little pictures on social media

1703
00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700
of your bald heads

1704
00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700
and your smiles,

1705
00:55:27,742 --> 00:55:30,119
like this isn't killing women.

1706
00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496
Women do that to

1707
00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496
encourage one another;

1708
00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375
to let each other know

1709
00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375
they can get through this.

1710
00:55:36,417 --> 00:55:38,502
I'm angry.

1711
00:55:38,544 --> 00:55:39,962
I'm hurt.

1712
00:55:41,422 --> 00:55:43,340
And I hate...

1713
00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305
that this

1714
00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305
is happening to me.

1715
00:55:49,346 --> 00:55:53,101
My cancer is terminal.

1716
00:55:53,142 --> 00:55:58,147
I have kids for God's sake.

1717
00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151
What are they gonna

1718
00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151
do without me?

1719
00:56:04,820 --> 00:56:06,322
Tell me that?

1720
00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407
Look, I know that

1721
00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407
you are so angry--

1722
00:56:08,449 --> 00:56:09,617
You're damn right I am.

1723
00:56:09,658 --> 00:56:13,412
I wanna live!

1724
00:56:13,454 --> 00:56:14,705
Oh, God, we all want that.

1725
00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167
I'm sorry, excuse

1726
00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167
me? What did you say?

1727
00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004
You wanna talk?

1728
00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004
Tell me your name.

1729
00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095
I'm Tasha Jackson and

1730
00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095
I was simply agreeing

1731
00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722
with the fact that

1732
00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722
we all want to live.

1733
00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478
Well, the great news is

1734
00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478
that I just found out

1735
00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440
that I'm pregnant

1736
00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440
with my first child.

1737
00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321
A baby that I have wanted and

1738
00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321
prayed for my entire life.

1739
00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782
A baby that, clinically

1740
00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782
speaking, I was never supposed

1741
00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828
to be able to conceive

1742
00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828
because I'm infertile. I was.

1743
00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082
On the flip side is the

1744
00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082
reason we are all here.

1745
00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794
I too have been diagnosed

1746
00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794
with breast cancer.

1747
00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466
My doctor has advised that

1748
00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466
I terminate my pregnancy

1749
00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637
in order to begin

1750
00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637
treatments immediately.

1751
00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307
But sacrificing my

1752
00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307
child's life in order

1753
00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936
to save mine is a decision

1754
00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936
that I simply cannot make.

1755
00:57:20,104 --> 00:57:21,689
Adopt a baby.

1756
00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193
Terminate your pregnancy

1757
00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193
and save your life.

1758
00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486
Take it from someone who

1759
00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486
isn't gonna beat this thing.

1760
00:57:27,528 --> 00:57:29,530
Charlene, please.

1761
00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495
Can you tell me, why

1762
00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495
is it so important

1763
00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957
that you would risk your

1764
00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957
own life for this baby?

1765
00:57:42,835 --> 00:57:44,461
Do you have children?

1766
00:57:44,503 --> 00:57:46,463
Yes, I have three.

1767
00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761
Would you risk your life

1768
00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761
in order to protect them?

1769
00:57:52,803 --> 00:57:55,723
Would you die to save them?

1770
00:57:55,764 --> 00:57:57,766
Of course I would.

1771
00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064
Even though my child

1772
00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064
is still inside of me,

1773
00:58:03,105 --> 00:58:05,482
I feel that exact same way.

1774
00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572
Okay ladies, I'll

1775
00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572
see you next week.

1776
00:58:17,578 --> 00:58:20,664
Uh, Tasha.

1777
00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:23,459
This is Dr. Lopez's card.

1778
00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547
I know you think

1779
00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547
you're the only woman

1780
00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260
who has cancer while

1781
00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260
pregnant, but you're not.

1782
00:58:32,301 --> 00:58:33,052
Go see him.

1783
00:58:33,094 --> 00:58:35,679
[dramatic music]

1784
00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558
[Tasha]<i> I was told that you</i>

1785
00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558
<i>could help me Dr. Lopez.</i>

1786
00:58:40,601 --> 00:58:43,604
There has to be another option.

1787
00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564
Now, I have received all

1788
00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564
of your medical records

1789
00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608
that were transferred

1790
00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608
to my office,

1791
00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818
and I cannot say that

1792
00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818
terminating your pregnancy

1793
00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490
at this juncture was the wrong

1794
00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490
advice from your oncologist.

1795
00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827
In fact, it's normal practice

1796
00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827
to suggest termination

1797
00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914
in the first trimester when

1798
00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914
there's cancer present.

1799
00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626
You need treatment Mrs.

1800
00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626
Jackson, you need it now.

1801
00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421
You have an aggressive

1802
00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421
form of breast cancer.

1803
00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589
Hormones that your body's

1804
00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589
producing during your pregnancy

1805
00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470
will only cause the tumor

1806
00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470
to grow and possibly spread.

1807
00:59:15,844 --> 00:59:18,597
You cannot afford to wait.

1808
00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602
What I can't afford

1809
00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602
is to abort my baby.

1810
00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020
Then I will do

1811
00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020
everything in my power

1812
00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442
to keep your baby safe

1813
00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442
while you receive treatment.

1814
00:59:29,484 --> 00:59:31,402
You will?

1815
00:59:31,444 --> 00:59:32,236
I will.

1816
00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614
But this will be

1817
00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614
a long hard road,

1818
00:59:35,656 --> 00:59:38,242
nothing about this will be easy.

1819
00:59:40,661 --> 00:59:42,579
What do we need to do?

1820
00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167
Well, the first step is a

1821
00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167
mastectomy of the left breast

1822
00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586
with a partial

1823
00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586
reconstruction, immediately.

1824
00:59:51,213 --> 00:59:52,631
I understand your concerns.

1825
00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968
Surgery is always a

1826
00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968
risk, pregnant or not.

1827
00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596
And the closer the

1828
00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596
surgery is to the uterus,

1829
00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600
we run the risk of a

1830
00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600
spontaneous abortion.

1831
01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396
However, I feel certain that

1832
01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396
we can preform the surgery

1833
01:00:07,438 --> 01:00:09,231
and keep the baby safe.

1834
01:00:10,232 --> 01:00:11,984
So that's it?

1835
01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153
We do the surgery now,

1836
01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153
while I'm pregnant,

1837
01:00:14,195 --> 01:00:15,612
and the chemo after?

1838
01:00:16,989 --> 01:00:18,157
You will be receiving chemo

1839
01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159
during your pregnancy

1840
01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159
Mrs. Jackson.

1841
01:00:20,201 --> 01:00:21,743
What?

1842
01:00:21,785 --> 01:00:24,663
How on earth is that possible?

1843
01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958
Dr. Lopez, I saw first hand what

1844
01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958
that chemo did to my mother

1845
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586
and it sucked the

1846
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586
life out of her.

1847
01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171
How could I go through

1848
01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171
something like that

1849
01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757
while I'm pregnant? How

1850
01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757
could my baby survive that?

1851
01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760
While there are certain

1852
01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760
types of chemo that would harm

1853
01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681
the baby, there are other

1854
01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681
types that will be harmless,

1855
01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767
spread out over a period of

1856
01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767
every three weeks for six

1857
01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767
months,

1858
01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728
and I will connect

1859
01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728
with your obstetrician.

1860
01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648
We will monitor both you

1861
01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648
and the baby very closely.

1862
01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404
I'm sorry, but this

1863
01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404
is a lot to process.

1864
01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157
I must tell you that

1865
01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157
while I am certain

1866
01:01:00,199 --> 01:01:02,826
that we can keep the baby safe,

1867
01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747
I cannot be certain of

1868
01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747
how the cancer will react.

1869
01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708
So what you're

1870
01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708
telling me is that

1871
01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214
I could go through all of

1872
01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214
this and still won't be cured?

1873
01:01:15,631 --> 01:01:16,965
Yes.

1874
01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717
The reality is we can

1875
01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717
give you this treatment

1876
01:01:18,759 --> 01:01:21,345
and it will not work.

1877
01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139
Even as doctors we cannot

1878
01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139
ignore the possibility

1879
01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605
that your husband would raise

1880
01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605
this child, your child, alone.

1881
01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732
The choice is yours,

1882
01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732
Mrs. Jackson.

1883
01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612
But I promise to be with

1884
01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612
you every step of the way.

1885
01:01:40,406 --> 01:01:42,699
I see that you're married too.

1886
01:01:43,992 --> 01:01:46,954
What would you tell your wife

1887
01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958
if she were the one

1888
01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958
that was sitting here?

1889
01:01:50,999 --> 01:01:52,751
I'd tell her to keep that baby

1890
01:01:52,793 --> 01:01:55,212
and to start her treatment now.

1891
01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052
This is the...

1892
01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052
This is the lobby.

1893
01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638
[Tony] All right, this

1894
01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638
must be upstairs.

1895
01:02:03,679 --> 01:02:04,930
Yeah.

1896
01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348
[Tony] I hope they got

1897
01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348
the AC up there.

1898
01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684
I know, this

1899
01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684
heat is killing me.

1900
01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:09,685
You ain't lying.

1901
01:02:11,812 --> 01:02:13,564
And this is the extra for...

1902
01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649
I don't even know

1903
01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649
what this is for.

1904
01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358
[Bernie] We got room

1905
01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358
for the other one.

1906
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,192
Hey.

1907
01:02:18,193 --> 01:02:19,987
I need to talk to you.

1908
01:02:21,614 --> 01:02:22,364
Hey, Tony.

1909
01:02:22,406 --> 01:02:23,782
Hey, Tasha.

1910
01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327
Bernie told me about the

1911
01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327
baby, congratulations.

1912
01:02:26,368 --> 01:02:27,119
Thanks.

1913
01:02:27,161 --> 01:02:27,953
What?

1914
01:02:29,955 --> 01:02:31,915
You mind giving us a minute?

1915
01:02:31,957 --> 01:02:33,750
I'll be inside.

1916
01:02:33,792 --> 01:02:34,543
Good seeing you, Tasha.

1917
01:02:34,585 --> 01:02:35,461
Bye.

1918
01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758
What do you gotta tell

1919
01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758
me that couldn't be--

1920
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802
couldn't be said

1921
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802
on the phone Tasha?

1922
01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138
All right, first you need to get

1923
01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138
rid of your little attitude.

1924
01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:48,807
I'm working babe, okay?

1925
01:02:48,849 --> 01:02:50,142
What is it?

1926
01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560
I went to see a new

1927
01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560
oncologist this morning

1928
01:02:51,602 --> 01:02:54,771
to get a second opinion.

1929
01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772
So, you went to the

1930
01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772
doctor without me?

1931
01:02:55,814 --> 01:02:56,691
Yes.

1932
01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735
I mean, it's not

1933
01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735
like you were there

1934
01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820
for my sonogram appointment,

1935
01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820
so what's your point?

1936
01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823
Babe, you're really

1937
01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823
pushing it, all right?

1938
01:03:04,865 --> 01:03:07,826
Just tell me what happened.

1939
01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538
He said that I

1940
01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538
can keep the baby

1941
01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124
and begin treatment for

1942
01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124
the cancer right now.

1943
01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545
That he could keep

1944
01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545
our baby safe.

1945
01:03:17,586 --> 01:03:18,546
He said that?

1946
01:03:18,587 --> 01:03:19,380
Yeah.

1947
01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387
But in addition to the chemo,

1948
01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387
I also have to have a surgery.

1949
01:03:27,179 --> 01:03:28,597
What kind of surgery?

1950
01:03:30,807 --> 01:03:31,808
A mastectomy.

1951
01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773
That I have to have my left

1952
01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773
breast removed immediately.

1953
01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154
But Bernie, the point is,

1954
01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154
we can keep our baby.

1955
01:03:49,159 --> 01:03:51,119
Yeah, yeah.

1956
01:03:51,161 --> 01:03:52,871
[crying]

1957
01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331
That's exactly what

1958
01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331
we're gonna do.

1959
01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167
Oh God, I was hoping

1960
01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167
you would say that.

1961
01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341
My big announcement is...

1962
01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341
my husband and I are

1963
01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341
having a baby.

1964
01:04:04,383 --> 01:04:06,885
[laughs]

1965
01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513
Now, because I will

1966
01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513
need plenty of rest,

1967
01:04:09,555 --> 01:04:11,724
I am going on leave after today,

1968
01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893
and you all are getting

1969
01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893
a substitute teacher.

1970
01:04:14,935 --> 01:04:16,729
[groans]

1971
01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898
I know, I will miss each

1972
01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898
and every one of you

1973
01:04:19,940 --> 01:04:23,235
very, very much.

1974
01:04:23,277 --> 01:04:24,194
Yes, Aubrey?

1975
01:04:24,236 --> 01:04:25,529
But your tummy isn't big.

1976
01:04:25,571 --> 01:04:27,782
[laughs]

1977
01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909
That's because the

1978
01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909
baby is still growing.

1979
01:04:30,951 --> 01:04:32,536
KJ.

1980
01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537
How did the baby

1981
01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537
get in your stomach?

1982
01:04:33,579 --> 01:04:35,539
[light hearted music]

1983
01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332
We all know the

1984
01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332
stork doesn't drop off

1985
01:04:37,374 --> 01:04:39,668
the baby at the hospital.

1986
01:04:39,710 --> 01:04:40,877
[all] Mm-hmm.

1987
01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923
Okay, let's change

1988
01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923
the subject, shall we?

1989
01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303
If you all could open up your

1990
01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303
science readers to page 11,

1991
01:04:49,344 --> 01:04:51,930
and not that kind of science.

1992
01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934
Okay mammals, that's what we're

1993
01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934
gonna talk about, mammals.

1994
01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737
Bernie honey, come on,

1995
01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737
come on and sit down.

1996
01:05:06,779 --> 01:05:08,739
You gotta think positive.

1997
01:05:08,781 --> 01:05:09,948
I'm sure Tasha and the baby

1998
01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950
are gonna get through

1999
01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950
the surgery just fine.

2000
01:05:11,992 --> 01:05:13,910
And what if they don't?

2001
01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913
You know, cause if

2002
01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913
Tasha wakes up,

2003
01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292
and finds out anything

2004
01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292
happened to that baby.

2005
01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294
She'll never forgive

2006
01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294
herself, or me.

2007
01:05:22,336 --> 01:05:23,295
None of this is your fault.

2008
01:05:23,337 --> 01:05:25,130
It is my fault, Melvin.

2009
01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761
I should have done something

2010
01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761
else, I don't know.

2011
01:05:35,349 --> 01:05:38,310
Mom and baby are fine.

2012
01:05:38,769 --> 01:05:40,103
Mrs. Jackson did great.

2013
01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981
We were able to get her

2014
01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981
left breast and the tumor.

2015
01:05:43,023 --> 01:05:44,441
[chuckling]

2016
01:05:47,110 --> 01:05:48,696
Thank you, Doc.

2017
01:05:48,737 --> 01:05:49,488
Thank you.

2018
01:05:49,530 --> 01:05:50,698
Your welcome.

2019
01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283
Hey, you'll be able

2020
01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283
to see her soon.

2021
01:05:53,325 --> 01:05:54,075
Okay.

2022
01:05:54,117 --> 01:05:56,953
[dramatic music]

2023
01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087
<i>♪ Butterflies and</i>

2024
01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087
<i>Barbie dolls ♪</i>

2025
01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299
<i>♪ Pigtails, playing</i>

2026
01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299
<i>in my mothers heels ♪</i>

2027
01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137
<i>♪ Summer days playing dress</i>

2028
01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137
<i>up just being so innocent ♪</i>

2029
01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685
<i>♪ Catching fireflies</i>

2030
01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685
<i>trying to count the stars ♪</i>

2031
01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021
<i>♪ Singing and dancing no</i>

2032
01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021
<i>matter where we were ♪</i>

2033
01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066
<i>♪ Finding laughter in</i>

2034
01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066
<i>anything and everything ♪</i>

2035
01:06:26,107 --> 01:06:30,946
<i>♪ Just being girls ♪</i>

2036
01:06:31,613 --> 01:06:35,992
<i>♪ And that's all I want ♪</i>

2037
01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919
<i>♪ That's all I've</i>

2038
01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919
<i>got to remember you ♪</i>

2039
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757
<i>♪ When we were young</i>

2040
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757
<i>wild and free ♪</i>

2041
01:06:51,091 --> 01:06:52,551
There you go.

2042
01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472
You showed me this recipe, now

2043
01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472
you're gonna eat this thing.

2044
01:06:57,514 --> 01:07:00,976
<i>♪ Double Dutch and lollipops ♪</i>

2045
01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644
<i>♪ One dollar bills running</i>

2046
01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644
<i>for the ice cream truck ♪</i>

2047
01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:04,062
-[retching]

2048
01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:04,062
- Ok, ok sweetie.

2049
01:07:04,104 --> 01:07:06,690
<i>♪ Fire crackers on the fourth ♪</i>

2050
01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736
<i>♪ Hit the pool do a</i>

2051
01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736
<i>belly flop ♪</i>

2052
01:07:19,119 --> 01:07:22,080
Come on not too much, Brenda.

2053
01:07:22,122 --> 01:07:23,916
Listen.

2054
01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251
If there's one thing I know

2055
01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251
how to do it's beat a face.

2056
01:07:26,293 --> 01:07:28,503
[giggles]

2057
01:07:30,798 --> 01:07:32,048
Yeah.

2058
01:07:32,507 --> 01:07:34,509
All right, here ya go.

2059
01:07:36,136 --> 01:07:36,971
Oh.

2060
01:07:37,012 --> 01:07:38,054
Do you like it?

2061
01:07:40,015 --> 01:07:43,059
Oh, I look just like Mama.

2062
01:07:44,686 --> 01:07:46,062
Yeah, ya do.

2063
01:07:49,817 --> 01:07:52,987
Brenda, I miss her so much.

2064
01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115
Me too, but she would

2065
01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115
be so proud of you.

2066
01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368
And so happy about

2067
01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368
that grandbaby.

2068
01:08:00,410 --> 01:08:01,411
I know.

2069
01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125
Brenda, I know for

2070
01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125
the first two years

2071
01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545
I was very upset

2072
01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545
about you and Daddy.

2073
01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132
Oh, listen that's water

2074
01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132
under the bridge girl.

2075
01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263
I know that I was young,

2076
01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263
and I just didn't understand.

2077
01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976
But, I want you to know

2078
01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976
how beyond grateful

2079
01:08:24,018 --> 01:08:26,020
I am that he has you.

2080
01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106
And even though he may be a

2081
01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106
little complicated at times...

2082
01:08:30,148 --> 01:08:31,733
[giggles]

2083
01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656
-...know how much he loves you.

2084
01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656
- Well,

2085
01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825
I can certainly

2086
01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825
say I love him.

2087
01:08:41,493 --> 01:08:45,080
Now, let's get that dress on.

2088
01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082
We are going to

2089
01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082
shower you with gifts.

2090
01:08:47,123 --> 01:08:48,166
[laughs]

2091
01:08:48,208 --> 01:08:50,544
[light hearted music]

2092
01:08:50,585 --> 01:08:52,170
[all] Aw.

2093
01:08:52,212 --> 01:08:54,715
-[Brenda laughing]

2094
01:08:52,212 --> 01:08:54,715
-[clapping]

2095
01:08:54,756 --> 01:08:56,717
[Brenda] That is so adorable.

2096
01:08:58,218 --> 01:09:00,136
[cries out]

2097
01:09:00,178 --> 01:09:01,262
-[chattering]

2098
01:09:00,178 --> 01:09:01,262
-[clapping]

2099
01:09:01,304 --> 01:09:04,058
Look at these booty shorts.

2100
01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183
Baby booty--

2101
01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183
Come on man.

2102
01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185
Look at this!

2103
01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185
The little-- Who did this one?

2104
01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313
Oh my God, that

2105
01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313
is so beautiful.

2106
01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691
Oh. Precious. Isn't

2107
01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691
that sweet, Carol?

2108
01:09:12,733 --> 01:09:14,234
It's so precious.

2109
01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195
Oh, we're not gonna have

2110
01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195
to buy clothes for years.

2111
01:09:17,237 --> 01:09:18,864
Thank you so much.

2112
01:09:22,993 --> 01:09:24,953
A diaper bag.

2113
01:09:24,995 --> 01:09:26,204
[Brenda] You can use that.

2114
01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749
Oh, let's see if I

2115
01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749
can put it on now.

2116
01:09:28,790 --> 01:09:30,166
[cheering]

2117
01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961
[Brenda] Oh, look at that.

2118
01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961
That is so great.

2119
01:09:33,003 --> 01:09:35,756
[clapping]

2120
01:09:35,797 --> 01:09:37,049
[Brenda] Nice.

2121
01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803
Oh, get up off the floor.

2122
01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803
What is wrong with you?

2123
01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807
Would you get up off the floor?

2124
01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807
You are out of your mind.

2125
01:09:45,849 --> 01:09:48,226
Get up off the floor, would you?

2126
01:09:48,268 --> 01:09:50,020
You are in the way.

2127
01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813
Daddy gets every shot--

2128
01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813
Oh, here we go again.

2129
01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232
Here we are again bro.

2130
01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232
Melvin.

2131
01:09:54,274 --> 01:09:55,817
Here we go. Look.

2132
01:09:55,859 --> 01:09:58,236
[laughs]

2133
01:09:58,278 --> 01:10:01,865
Today, I am 33 weeks pregnant,

2134
01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243
and we also had

2135
01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243
your baby shower.

2136
01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249
The biggest news, is that

2137
01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249
you are gonna be here

2138
01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210
in about, oh just

2139
01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210
a few short weeks.

2140
01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006
Oh honey, see the

2141
01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006
doctor's gonna perform

2142
01:10:18,048 --> 01:10:20,258
what they call a C-section.

2143
01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803
And that means he's gonna

2144
01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803
cut you outta mommy's tummy.

2145
01:10:22,844 --> 01:10:24,805
Now, I know that may sound gross

2146
01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807
and it may be too

2147
01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807
much information,

2148
01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602
but the point is that you

2149
01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602
are going to be here soon

2150
01:10:30,644 --> 01:10:32,813
and safe.

2151
01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025
Keep on doing what you're

2152
01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025
doing girl, you are so strong.

2153
01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237
And promise me that you're

2154
01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237
always gonna be that way.

2155
01:10:43,949 --> 01:10:45,283
Oof!

2156
01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079
My goodness, time

2157
01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079
for a potty break.

2158
01:10:49,121 --> 01:10:51,081
Mommy can't keep going like this

2159
01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250
with a three pound

2160
01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250
Patricia on her bladder.

2161
01:10:56,503 --> 01:10:57,462
All right.

2162
01:10:57,504 --> 01:10:58,463
[groaning]

2163
01:10:58,505 --> 01:11:01,758
How do I get out of this chair?

2164
01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,260
Okay, here goes.

2165
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:07,472
[splashing]

2166
01:11:07,514 --> 01:11:09,307
-[dramatic music]

2167
01:11:07,514 --> 01:11:09,307
-[gasping]

2168
01:11:09,349 --> 01:11:11,476
Oh my God.

2169
01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522
Bernie? I think my

2170
01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522
water just broke!

2171
01:11:23,363 --> 01:11:24,865
The baby's here.

2172
01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950
She and Tasha are

2173
01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950
doing just fine.

2174
01:11:26,992 --> 01:11:28,326
[laughing]

2175
01:11:28,368 --> 01:11:30,328
Congratulations, Daddy.

2176
01:11:30,370 --> 01:11:32,914
Ah, thank you. Oh, my God.

2177
01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670
She's uh... She's a

2178
01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670
little small, but they say

2179
01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670
she's doing good.

2180
01:11:38,712 --> 01:11:39,671
Amazing.

2181
01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089
- Yeah.

2182
01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089
- And how's my baby girl?

2183
01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675
She was a champ bro.

2184
01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675
Melvin, she was a champ.

2185
01:11:43,717 --> 01:11:44,885
Oh, that's my baby.

2186
01:11:44,926 --> 01:11:46,678
Thank God. Thank God.

2187
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471
I cannot believe this.

2188
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471
I'm a papa.

2189
01:11:48,513 --> 01:11:49,472
Yes, you are.

2190
01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517
And uh...

2191
01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517
you're a proud grandpapa.

2192
01:11:54,394 --> 01:11:56,437
Yeah, uh, okay. I guess I am.

2193
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,648
[laughing]

2194
01:11:58,690 --> 01:12:01,526
Congratulations.

2195
01:12:01,985 --> 01:12:03,987
Baby, you did so good.

2196
01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283
Oh yes, we just saw

2197
01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283
the baby in NICU.

2198
01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660
Daddy, could you stop?

2199
01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660
I look a mess.

2200
01:12:10,702 --> 01:12:12,079
What you talking about?

2201
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873
You look great, I

2202
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873
mean considering.

2203
01:12:16,917 --> 01:12:19,920
Tasha's a mommy. You did it.

2204
01:12:21,504 --> 01:12:22,672
I did, didn't I?

2205
01:12:22,714 --> 01:12:24,465
Yes, you did, baby.

2206
01:12:24,507 --> 01:12:26,426
She's healthy and wonderful.

2207
01:12:26,467 --> 01:12:28,428
Yeah, she is.

2208
01:12:28,469 --> 01:12:30,264
Knock knock. [chuckles]

2209
01:12:30,305 --> 01:12:32,057
[Tasha] Oh, Dr. Lopez.

2210
01:12:32,099 --> 01:12:33,433
Your OB called my office

2211
01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643
and let me know you

2212
01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643
delivered the baby last night

2213
01:12:35,685 --> 01:12:37,437
and everything went well.

2214
01:12:37,478 --> 01:12:39,273
Thank you.

2215
01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399
No thanks needed. I'm just

2216
01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399
glad she arrived safely.

2217
01:12:41,441 --> 01:12:42,776
Yes.

2218
01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651
[Lopez] A little earlier

2219
01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651
than we would have liked.

2220
01:12:43,693 --> 01:12:44,652
[laughing]

2221
01:12:44,694 --> 01:12:45,445
A little early.

2222
01:12:45,486 --> 01:12:46,863
What about Tasha?

2223
01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074
Well, she has two

2224
01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074
more chemo sessions.

2225
01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659
And then we'll get the

2226
01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659
MRI, see if she's cleared.

2227
01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494
Could we not talk

2228
01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494
about that right now

2229
01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:55,538
and focus on celebrating?

2230
01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417
Well, you do that and

2231
01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417
I will see you later.

2232
01:12:59,459 --> 01:13:00,418
Everybody take care. Huh?

2233
01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129
- Thank you.

2234
01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129
- Thank you.

2235
01:13:03,463 --> 01:13:04,923
Well, I don't know about ya'll,

2236
01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717
but I can't wait to

2237
01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717
get that baby home.

2238
01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136
Now listen, you don't have

2239
01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136
to worry about a thing.

2240
01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929
I'm gonna come over. I'm

2241
01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929
gonna sleep on the couch.

2242
01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932
I'm gonna fix the formula.

2243
01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932
I'm gonna change the diapers.

2244
01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434
I'm gonna get up in the middle

2245
01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434
of the night with the baby.

2246
01:13:16,476 --> 01:13:17,435
I know Bernie don't know nothing

2247
01:13:17,477 --> 01:13:18,728
about taking care of no baby.

2248
01:13:18,770 --> 01:13:20,355
[laughs]

2249
01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941
I was praying

2250
01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941
you would say that.

2251
01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153
I don't know what we would

2252
01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153
do without you, Brenda.

2253
01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447
I don't think Bernie knows

2254
01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447
how to change a diaper.

2255
01:13:29,489 --> 01:13:30,531
I don't think so either.

2256
01:13:30,573 --> 01:13:32,700
[giggles]

2257
01:13:32,742 --> 01:13:35,162
[gentle music]

2258
01:13:36,537 --> 01:13:38,039
[Bernie]<i> Look who's here.</i>

2259
01:13:38,539 --> 01:13:40,334
[Tasha] Oh, honey.

2260
01:13:40,375 --> 01:13:42,502
[Bernie] I know, I know.

2261
01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338
Oh my God, would you

2262
01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338
look at that girl?

2263
01:13:44,379 --> 01:13:45,505
Look at this big old baby.

2264
01:13:45,546 --> 01:13:47,341
Oh.

2265
01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550
- Hey, little mama.

2266
01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550
- Oh.

2267
01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219
- Come here.

2268
01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219
- How precious is she?

2269
01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512
Come here, what

2270
01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512
you smiling at?

2271
01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515
- Hi.

2272
01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515
- Huh, what you smiling at?

2273
01:13:55,556 --> 01:13:56,933
Come on.

2274
01:13:56,975 --> 01:13:59,102
-[crying]

2275
01:13:56,975 --> 01:13:59,102
- I know, I know, I know.

2276
01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188
- It's okay.

2277
01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188
- Come to Mama.

2278
01:14:01,604 --> 01:14:04,732
It's okay.

2279
01:14:04,774 --> 01:14:06,526
Patricia, it's fine.

2280
01:14:06,567 --> 01:14:07,485
It's all right, baby.

2281
01:14:07,527 --> 01:14:08,486
Don't cry, honey.

2282
01:14:08,528 --> 01:14:09,487
Here you go.

2283
01:14:09,529 --> 01:14:10,488
It's okay.

2284
01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157
- Here you go.

2285
01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157
- There you go.

2286
01:14:14,368 --> 01:14:16,494
That's what that girl wanted.

2287
01:14:16,536 --> 01:14:18,538
Good job, Daddy.

2288
01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916
And Mommy can't wait

2289
01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916
to get up from here

2290
01:14:21,958 --> 01:14:23,918
and take care of you herself.

2291
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503
Mommy needs to

2292
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503
give it some time.

2293
01:14:25,545 --> 01:14:26,504
I know.

2294
01:14:26,546 --> 01:14:27,922
All right, don't over do it.

2295
01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132
You just finished your

2296
01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132
last chemo session,

2297
01:14:29,174 --> 01:14:30,717
and you need your energy

2298
01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927
to celebrate this

2299
01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927
little lady coming home.

2300
01:14:32,969 --> 01:14:34,512
Hey, baby.

2301
01:14:34,554 --> 01:14:35,471
Oh, wow.

2302
01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557
Honey, could you

2303
01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557
please take her?

2304
01:14:37,598 --> 01:14:38,516
Hm?

2305
01:14:38,558 --> 01:14:40,101
Take her I can't.

2306
01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

2307
01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521
I got you. I got you.

2308
01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026
When are, um, Daddy and Brenda

2309
01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026
supposed to get here?

2310
01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237
Um, they said they should

2311
01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237
be here within the hour.

2312
01:14:50,278 --> 01:14:51,238
[crying]

2313
01:14:51,279 --> 01:14:52,406
Okay.

2314
01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534
Did you make that last

2315
01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534
bottle before you left?

2316
01:14:56,576 --> 01:14:58,036
I'm doing it right now.

2317
01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705
Baby, are you sure you

2318
01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705
got it? 'Cause I don't...

2319
01:15:00,747 --> 01:15:02,916
Yeah, sure, yeah.

2320
01:15:02,957 --> 01:15:04,542
You don't sound too convincing.

2321
01:15:04,584 --> 01:15:05,752
I got it.

2322
01:15:07,087 --> 01:15:11,299
-[crying]

2323
01:15:07,087 --> 01:15:11,299
-[breathing]

2324
01:15:12,842 --> 01:15:15,262
Okay, okay, Mommy's coming.

2325
01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515
Mommy's coming, baby.

2326
01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515
Don't cry, honey.

2327
01:15:20,558 --> 01:15:21,351
Okay.

2328
01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:25,521
Just give Mommy some time, okay?

2329
01:15:25,563 --> 01:15:27,107
Mommy time.

2330
01:15:27,148 --> 01:15:30,318
Oh, Patricia don't cry, baby.

2331
01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:31,527
Okay?

2332
01:15:32,153 --> 01:15:34,155
Okay, I'm coming baby.

2333
01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368
I'm coming. Just give

2334
01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368
me some time, okay?

2335
01:15:39,619 --> 01:15:42,580
Okay, I'm coming, baby.

2336
01:15:42,622 --> 01:15:44,582
Okay, I'm coming.

2337
01:15:44,624 --> 01:15:46,000
[thuds]

2338
01:15:46,042 --> 01:15:48,253
-[dramatic music]

2339
01:15:46,042 --> 01:15:48,253
-[baby crying]

2340
01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006
Here we go. I don't know if

2341
01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006
this is gonna be enough, but...

2342
01:15:52,048 --> 01:15:52,840
Tasha!

2343
01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430
Between the chemo

2344
01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430
and the pregnancy,

2345
01:15:58,472 --> 01:16:00,265
she's extremely anemic.

2346
01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310
She's losing blood

2347
01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310
flow to her brain

2348
01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603
and it's caused her

2349
01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603
to slip into a coma.

2350
01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814
Now, there are different

2351
01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814
medicines we are trying,

2352
01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651
but a blood transfusion

2353
01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651
may have to be performed.

2354
01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615
Without proper blood

2355
01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615
flow to her brain,

2356
01:16:17,657 --> 01:16:19,617
her organs could shut down.

2357
01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788
And if that happens, there's

2358
01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788
not much that we can do.

2359
01:16:23,830 --> 01:16:25,623
Mrs. Jackson needs to fight.

2360
01:16:25,665 --> 01:16:27,834
[beeping]

2361
01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009
Did you know you were

2362
01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009
named after your grandmama?

2363
01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009
[chuckles]

2364
01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638
That's right.

2365
01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638
I loved me some her.

2366
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642
She was my bestest friend

2367
01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642
in the whole world.

2368
01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811
I had just moved

2369
01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811
to the neighborhood,

2370
01:16:46,853 --> 01:16:49,814
and I didn't have one friend.

2371
01:16:49,856 --> 01:16:51,649
For weeks I sat up on my porch

2372
01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986
and watched her playing

2373
01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986
jump rope across the street.

2374
01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988
Finally one day, she

2375
01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988
marched over to me

2376
01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200
and said, "What's

2377
01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200
wrong with you?

2378
01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661
Get off that porch right now

2379
01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661
and come and play with me."

2380
01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623
And from that day forward we

2381
01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623
were connected at the hip.

2382
01:17:07,665 --> 01:17:09,250
Until the day she passed.

2383
01:17:11,044 --> 01:17:12,628
I never heard that story about

2384
01:17:12,670 --> 01:17:15,006
how you and Patricia met before.

2385
01:17:15,048 --> 01:17:17,258
I didn't hear you come in.

2386
01:17:19,719 --> 01:17:20,636
How's Tasha?

2387
01:17:24,432 --> 01:17:26,684
Nothing's really changed.

2388
01:17:26,726 --> 01:17:29,645
I mean, she had a...

2389
01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695
pregnancy,

2390
01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695
a mastectomy, chemo,

2391
01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074
delivered a baby

2392
01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074
safely, all for what?

2393
01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743
So she can get laid up in a

2394
01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743
hospital fighting for her life?

2395
01:17:43,784 --> 01:17:44,660
Anemic?

2396
01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705
And we still don't know

2397
01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705
if the cancer's gone

2398
01:17:47,747 --> 01:17:48,873
into remission yet.

2399
01:17:48,915 --> 01:17:49,707
I know.

2400
01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879
It's so unfair. I wish

2401
01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879
I could go see her.

2402
01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050
You can. I can sit with

2403
01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050
the baby.

2404
01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720
No, she'd want me to stay

2405
01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720
here and take care of Patricia.

2406
01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766
I was thinking that uh...

2407
01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766
we should get married.

2408
01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316
I've been waiting a long

2409
01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316
time to hear those words, but...

2410
01:18:16,776 --> 01:18:17,735
But what?

2411
01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739
You're scared

2412
01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739
right now, Melvin.

2413
01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075
You don't know what's

2414
01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075
gonna happen with Tasha,

2415
01:18:24,117 --> 01:18:25,743
and you want me to stick around.

2416
01:18:25,785 --> 01:18:26,869
That's not it.

2417
01:18:26,911 --> 01:18:28,746
Yes, it is.

2418
01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667
I left once and you're

2419
01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667
thinking maybe I'll leave again.

2420
01:18:32,708 --> 01:18:35,253
And you don't like to be alone.

2421
01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047
Don't tell me what I'm

2422
01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047
feeling and what I'm thinking.

2423
01:18:38,089 --> 01:18:41,676
I asked you because I love you.

2424
01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470
And yes, I know what I said

2425
01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470
to you when I found out

2426
01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847
about Tasha was harsh,

2427
01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847
and I'm sorry for that.

2428
01:18:46,889 --> 01:18:49,684
But I really do love you.

2429
01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520
And you've taken care

2430
01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520
of my family for me.

2431
01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939
You think I do

2432
01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939
all this for you?

2433
01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860
I take care of all of

2434
01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860
you because my best

2435
01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860
friend isn't here

2436
01:18:59,902 --> 01:19:02,614
to take care of you herself.

2437
01:19:05,074 --> 01:19:06,784
I'm taking care of the baby

2438
01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453
and trying to make sure

2439
01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453
Bernie has a hot meal

2440
01:19:08,495 --> 01:19:09,829
when he gets home.

2441
01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292
I don't have time to think

2442
01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292
about marrying you right now.

2443
01:19:15,876 --> 01:19:19,589
[dramatic music]

2444
01:19:19,631 --> 01:19:21,633
[beeping]

2445
01:19:25,052 --> 01:19:26,304
Tasha.

2446
01:19:28,764 --> 01:19:29,599
Wake up.

2447
01:19:34,854 --> 01:19:36,523
Patricia needs you, baby.

2448
01:19:37,732 --> 01:19:38,816
I need you.

2449
01:19:38,858 --> 01:19:43,863
-[beeping]

2450
01:19:38,858 --> 01:19:43,863
-[dramatic music]

2451
01:19:47,074 --> 01:19:50,495
[light hearted music]

2452
01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831
I'm sorry. It'll be over...

2453
01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831
It'll be over soon. I'm sorry.

2454
01:19:53,873 --> 01:19:54,832
[crying]

2455
01:19:54,874 --> 01:19:56,834
I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

2456
01:19:56,876 --> 01:19:58,712
Oh my God, I'm sorry.

2457
01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846
Oh my God. I know.

2458
01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846
I know, I'm sorry.

2459
01:20:08,888 --> 01:20:11,807
-[dramatic music]

2460
01:20:08,888 --> 01:20:11,807
-[beeping]

2461
01:20:17,897 --> 01:20:18,814
[Patricia]<i> Tasha.</i>

2462
01:20:20,650 --> 01:20:21,651
Tasha.

2463
01:20:27,448 --> 01:20:28,866
Mama?

2464
01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535
I thought I

2465
01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535
taught you to fight?

2466
01:20:32,328 --> 01:20:33,871
You did.

2467
01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957
Well, why aren't you

2468
01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957
fighting this, baby?

2469
01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545
Mama, I fought the

2470
01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545
good fight, but I can't.

2471
01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922
- I'm tired.

2472
01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922
- Oh, you fight anyway, honey.

2473
01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550
You ball your fist up and

2474
01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550
you swing at this thing

2475
01:20:45,592 --> 01:20:48,762
with everything you got, honey.

2476
01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471
- But, I can't--

2477
01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471
- No buts.

2478
01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852
Don't give up.

2479
01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852
You can't give up.

2480
01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898
- Mama.

2481
01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898
-[Patricia] You got it.

2482
01:21:00,940 --> 01:21:02,108
Mama, wait.

2483
01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195
Mama, wait don't go.

2484
01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195
Mama.

2485
01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865
Mama, don't leave

2486
01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865
me again, please.

2487
01:21:09,907 --> 01:21:11,867
[beeping]

2488
01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:19,834
-[coughing]

2489
01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:19,834
-[crying out]

2490
01:21:19,875 --> 01:21:22,044
Bernie, wake up. She's awake.

2491
01:21:23,254 --> 01:21:24,422
[Bernie] Baby!

2492
01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632
[Melvin] I'm gonna

2493
01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632
go get a nurse.

2494
01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008
Okay. Hey, hey look

2495
01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008
at me, hey baby look,

2496
01:21:28,050 --> 01:21:29,927
you have a tube in your throat.

2497
01:21:29,969 --> 01:21:30,928
Somebody's coming to get it.

2498
01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721
Melvin went to go

2499
01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721
get someone, okay?

2500
01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515
Relax.

2501
01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515
They'll take it out, okay.

2502
01:21:34,557 --> 01:21:38,561
[upbeat music]

2503
01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573
<i>♪ Happy birthday, Mommy</i>

2504
01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573
<i>Happy birthday, Mommy ♪</i>

2505
01:21:53,951 --> 01:22:00,333
<i>♪ Happy birthday dear Mommy ♪</i>

2506
01:22:00,374 --> 01:22:06,213
<i>♪ Happy birthday to you ♪</i>

2507
01:22:09,258 --> 01:22:11,552
Go ahead. Make a wish.

2508
01:22:13,554 --> 01:22:14,972
All my wishes have come true.

2509
01:22:15,014 --> 01:22:15,931
Yes.

2510
01:22:17,016 --> 01:22:18,518
Where's that little munchkin?

2511
01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729
She's finally asleep, right

2512
01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729
as we're about to leave.

2513
01:22:21,771 --> 01:22:23,147
Oh, course she is.

2514
01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276
You know what, um, I've been

2515
01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276
playing with this for a while.

2516
01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488
This short hair's

2517
01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488
not so bad is it?

2518
01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991
I think you look

2519
01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991
gorgeous either way.

2520
01:22:34,033 --> 01:22:36,911
Gorgeous and cancer-free.

2521
01:22:36,952 --> 01:22:39,163
Gorgeous and cancer-free.

2522
01:22:39,205 --> 01:22:39,997
Yes.

2523
01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085
So what, you're just

2524
01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085
gonna eat my cupcake?

2525
01:22:45,127 --> 01:22:46,713
You gonna eat this?

2526
01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715
- Really, Bernie?

2527
01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715
- What?

2528
01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299
<i>♪ When I heard your</i>

2529
01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299
<i>heart beat ♪</i>

2530
01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343
<i>♪ When I heard your</i>

2531
01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343
<i>heart beat ♪</i>

2532
01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058
<i>♪ I made me right</i>

2533
01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058
<i>Oh Oh ♪</i>

2534
01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2535
01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020
<i>When I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2536
01:23:03,062 --> 01:23:07,983
<i>♪ I changed my life ♪</i>

2537
01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2538
01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489
<i>When I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2539
01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032
And it's about time

2540
01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032
you put a ring on it.

2541
01:23:15,074 --> 01:23:17,117
[chuckling]

2542
01:23:20,955 --> 01:23:22,039
[clapping]

2543
01:23:22,081 --> 01:23:23,040
There we go.

2544
01:23:23,082 --> 01:23:26,126
[light-hearted music]

2545
01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316
<i>♪ This overwhelming</i>

2546
01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316
<i>love I have inside me ♪</i>

2547
01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113
<i>♪ Could ignite the</i>

2548
01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113
<i>city lights, yeah ♪</i>

2549
01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787
<i>♪ Unconditional love I</i>

2550
01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787
<i>understand now as I hold you ♪</i>

2551
01:24:01,621 --> 01:24:04,373
<i>♪ Ever so tight ♪</i>

2552
01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2553
01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2554
01:24:07,919 --> 01:24:11,923
<i>♪ I made things right ♪</i>

2555
01:24:12,506 --> 01:24:15,676
<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

2556
01:24:15,718 --> 01:24:18,721
♪♪

2557
01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537
<i>♪ This overwhelming love</i>

2558
01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537
<i>I have inside me ♪</i>

2559
01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081
<i>♪ Could ignite the</i>

2560
01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081
<i>city lights ♪</i>

2561
01:24:46,123 --> 01:24:47,082
<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

2562
01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466
<i>♪ Unconditional love I</i>

2563
01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466
<i>understand now as I hold you ♪</i>

2564
01:24:55,508 --> 01:24:58,135
<i>♪ Ever so tight ♪</i>

2565
01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2566
01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2567
01:25:01,597 --> 01:25:06,101
<i>♪ I changed my life ♪</i>

2568
01:25:06,143 --> 01:25:08,688
<i>♪ Changed my life ♪</i>

2569
01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2570
01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2571
01:25:12,483 --> 01:25:16,654
<i>♪ I made things right ♪</i>

2572
01:25:16,696 --> 01:25:19,156
<i>♪ Made things right ♪</i>

2573
01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2574
01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2575
01:25:22,910 --> 01:25:27,456
<i>♪ I made things right ♪</i>

2576
01:25:27,498 --> 01:25:28,499
<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

2577
01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257
<i>♪ Just to know you are</i>

2578
01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257
<i>on your way ♪</i>

2579
01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179
<i>♪ Makes life more living</i>

2580
01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179
<i>every day ♪</i>

2581
01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852
<i>♪ To give a home</i>

2582
01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852
<i>and your seed ♪</i>

2583
01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064
<i>♪ And she'll give you</i>

2584
01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064
<i>back your legacy ♪</i>

2585
01:25:51,105 --> 01:25:52,732
<i>♪ Ohh ♪</i>

2586
01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2587
01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2588
01:25:55,693 --> 01:26:00,197
<i>♪ I changed my life ♪</i>

2589
01:26:00,239 --> 01:26:02,199
<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

2590
01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2591
01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2592
01:26:06,245 --> 01:26:10,875
<i>♪ I made things right ♪</i>

2593
01:26:10,917 --> 01:26:13,210
<i>♪ Ohh ♪</i>

2594
01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2595
01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2596
01:26:17,256 --> 01:26:21,427
<i>♪ I changed my life ♪</i>

2597
01:26:21,468 --> 01:26:23,846
<i>♪ Ohh ♪</i>

2598
01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059
<i>♪ When I heard your heart beat</i>

2599
01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059
<i>when I heard your heart beat ♪</i>

2600
01:26:28,101 --> 01:26:32,438
<i>♪ I made things right ♪</i>

2601
01:26:32,479 --> 01:26:34,231
<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

2602
01:26:34,273 --> 01:26:40,195
♪♪