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From: Sandy <freelybe@hotmail.com>
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Your actions emphasized everything not me stating it. They saw it.
Your bad mom comment emphsized more.
I'm glad we're done.


Sent from my iPhone

On Nov 24, 2010, at 7:42 AM, Aaron Barr <aaron@hbgary.com> wrote:

> It appeared that u were making a point to emphasize it in front of
> them and I had my childhood flash before me.  That tactic is bad
> parenting and it hits to my core.  I will keep silent.
>
> From my iPhone
>
> On Nov 24, 2010, at 7:10 AM, Sandy <freelybe@hotmail.com> wrote:
>
>> I stated what you did. What you did in front of them.
>>
>> You've dropped the bad mom label for the second time. Both times
>> with them present. And the last. Every time you yelled at them or
>> manhandled them, even causing an injury to happen because of it, I
>> always stepped in to tell you to stop the behavior. Never once did
>> I call you a bad dad.
>>
>> There is no relationship here. You have a choice to make this a
>> healthy and smooth transition for your kids or be an ass. Nothing I
>> can do about that. All I know is what my lawyer told me I can
>> expect in terms of my rights, the laws, and your reactions.
>>
>> Sent from my iPhone
>>
>> On Nov 23, 2010, at 7:31 AM, Aaron Barr <aaron@hbgary.com> wrote:
>>
>>> No see u are twisting.  Get your anger straight.  I said it was a
>>> bad
>>> mom for slamming me to them.  Your comment to them about mr shitting
>>> the door and u pushing to get in.  You didn't have to point out
>>> specifically to them that I was slamming the door in your face I
>>> asked
>>> to be left alone.  Your not a bad mom for wanting divorce come on
>>> sandy don't twist things.  Or maybe that's what u want.
>>>
>>> From my iPhone
>>>
>>> On Nov 23, 2010, at 7:28 AM, Sandy <freelybe@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Not an ass? You have repeatedly ruined this marriage thus thus
>>>> family unit. When I suggest divorce for all to get healthy you
>>>> say I am doing a "bad mom" thing. Good riddance Aaron.
>>>>
>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>>
>>>> On Nov 23, 2010, at 6:34 AM, Aaron Barr <aaron@hbgary.com> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Done why because u think I lied about a cupcake.  Red flags.  I am
>>>>> responding to your u get 3 days with your kids.  U are starting to
>>>>> throw the jabs not me but when I respond I am like my dad or
>>>>> show red
>>>>> flags.  What about red the flags your showing.
>>>>>
>>>>> I am a zombie and I don't give a shit.  All things u have said
>>>>> about u
>>>>> but u jab I  like my dad.  Fine
>>>>>
>>>>> From my iPhone
>>>>>
>>>>> On Nov 23, 2010, at 5:59 AM, Sandy <freelybe@hotmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Not an ass huh. Great planning for your kids. That's why I have
>>>>>> a lawyer. I was told exactly what I can expect.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Purposefully wrong? You never do anything purposefully wrong.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Talk bad about you to them? Nice try. All I stated was just
>>>>>> what you did. It would be the same as you basically stating
>>>>>> "mommy is yelling at daddy."   Same as you point out to them
>>>>>> what they do to each other. You just have hangups when it comes
>>>>>> to you. I have to live in a situation where I am forced to lie
>>>>>> through my teeth to my children when I talk with emotion about
>>>>>> their daddy to them, the person who has ruined so much for all
>>>>>> of us. From what i tell them every day they think
>>>>>> mommy likes daddy. I've tried my best, 20 years, I cannot fix
>>>>>> what you so selfishly broke.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> And a zombie, don't give a shit anymore, you say. You and Dave
>>>>>> should crawl into bed together and nurse your woe is me
>>>>>> personalities. It always comes down to that with you two.
>>>>>> Thanks for the red flag.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> I am leaving at noon with or without you. Your car or Carolyn
>>>>>> is paying for a rental for me. I am going to spend time with my
>>>>>> family. You can walk into any uncomfortable situation that may
>>>>>> arise just as I've been forced to do with your family. Mark my
>>>>>> words, I'm done with this.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On Nov 22, 2010, at 8:38 PM, Aaron Barr <aaron@hbgary.com> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Your 4 days will be reduced to less than 2 because you will
>>>>>>> have to get a job.  They will need to go to full day.  We will
>>>>>>> need to move to either small apartments or further out.  I
>>>>>>> have a flexible schedule for the most part so in the end my 3
>>>>>>> days will likely be more than your 4 at least with time with
>>>>>>> them.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Please don't throw that in my face again or do not talk bad
>>>>>>> about me to them.  You have done the same to me with the door
>>>>>>> I wanted to be left alone and closed the door and wanted it
>>>>>>> closed.  In this case you are acting more like my parents than
>>>>>>> me.  Leave them out of it, if you think you are doing them
>>>>>>> some benefit by showing a strong mother and a bad father, your
>>>>>>> not.  It just creates fear and anxiety for them...I know.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> We are the adults.  You strongly disagree with how I handled
>>>>>>> the situation.  I don't believe I did anything purposely wrong.
>>>>>
>>>
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