INSERT ALL
    IF NOT EXISTS( SELECT 1 WHERE fo.primary_key='bar' )
    (
        INSERT INTO
            schema.myFoo fo ( primary_key, value1, value2 )
        VALUES
            ('bar','baz','bat')
    ),

    IF NOT EXISTS( SELECT 1 WHERE fo.primary_key='bar1' )
    (
        INSERT INTO
            schema.myFoo fo ( primary_key, value1, value2 )
        VALUES
            ('bar1','baz1','bat1')
    )
SELECT * FROM schema.myFoo;

create table t1 (pk int primary key, i int);
create table t11 (pk int primary key, i int);
insert into t1 values(1, 1);
insert into t11 values(2, 21);
insert into t11 values(3, 31);
commit;

MERGE INTO t1 d
USING t11 s ON (d.pk = s.pk)
WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN INSERT (d.pk, d.i) VALUES (s.pk, s.i);

insert /*+ IGNORE_ROW_ON_DUPKEY_INDEX(customer_orders,pk_customer_orders) */
  into customer_orders
       (order_id, customer, product)
values (    1234,     9876,  'K598')
     ;

begin
  insert into customer_orders
         (order_id, customer, product)
  values (    1234,     9876,  'K698')
  ;
  commit;
exception
  when DUP_VAL_ON_INDEX
  then ROLLBACK;
end;

begin
    select count (*)
    into   l_is_matching_row
    from   customer_orders
    where  order_id = 1234
    ;

    if (l_is_matching_row = 0)
    then
      insert into customer_orders
             (order_id, customer, product)
      values (    1234,     9876,  'K698')
      ;
      commit;
    end if;
exception
  when DUP_VAL_ON_INDEX
  then ROLLBACK;
end;

insert myFoo
  select *
     from t
       where t.primary_key not in ( select primary_key from myFoo)

create table t1 (pk int primary key, i int);
create table t11 (pk int primary key, i int);
insert into t1 values(1, 1);
insert into t11 values(2, 21);
insert into t11 values(3, 31);
commit;

MERGE INTO t1 d
USING t11 s ON (d.pk = s.pk)
WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN INSERT (d.pk, d.i) VALUES (s.pk, s.i);

if not exists (...) insert ...

insert into destination (DESTINATIONABBREV)
  select 'xyz' from dual
  left outer join destination d on d.destinationabbrev = 'xyz'
  where d.destinationid is null;