Bambi Discord Rules

🌈🌈🌈 NEW MAIN PINNED POST/ANNOUNCEMENT. UPDATED RULES. 🌈🌈🌈

🚨 ALL members are REQUIRED to read 👀👀👀 and comment ✏🖋🖍 on this post! 🚨

🚧 It is your responsibility to know the rules and follow them. We're now muting and banning members for rule violations much more frequently, as giving warnings wasn't effective. 🚧

🌠 An Intersectional Feminist group to post funny, annoying or infuriating incidents of mansplaining, or misogyny in general. This includes internalized misogyny (NLOGs = "Not Like Other Girls"). Feminist content, whether general discussion, information, memes, etc. (feminist or anti-feminist), is also posted here. 🌠

👀👀👀 RULES: 👀👀👀

🌟 Don't be an a**hole. Don't pick fights or act aggressively towards Admins or group members. Don't be rude or condescending. Leave bad attitudes at the door. Absolutely no dogpiling will be tolerated. This is a supportive environment and a safe space, so act accordingly. Above all else, be kind.

🌟 Screenshots must be censored. Names/usernames and any identifying information, including profile pictures, must be redacted. This applies to posts and comments made on public pages/groups/news articles, etc. Page/group names must be censored, this includes public groups.

⭐ Absolutely no harassment or doxxing permitted, this applies to members of the group as well as people who are not in the group. Not only will we not approve posts that ask group members to mass report/message/otherwise stalk or harass an individual/group/page/business/organization, etc., we will mute/ban you. This also applies to comments on posts in the group. Groups that allow "witchhunts"/calls-to-arms often get shut down by Discord, since harassment is against their terms of service. We're here for support, commiseration, camaraderie, community and laughs.

🌟 No shared posts, either directly from pages/groups, or links to posts allowed. This applies to Facebook, as well as all other social media sites. If you want to submit content from pages or groups, censored screenshots are fine. If it's an image, like a meme, you can submit the photo directly in your post. Links to articles are also fine. Unfortunately this means no videos unless directly posted to the group, with the exception of links to videos on YouTube or similar sites. Basically, if the content you want to submit is in the body of a social media post, then it must be submitted as an image.

🌟 No profile stalking or bullying of group members, this includes making disparaging remarks about anything on their profile, including profile pictures. Ad hominem attacks result in an automatic ban.

🌟 Do not block Admins. We can still see you, but are unable to communicate with you. Violation of this rule is an automatic ban.

🌟 CWs/TWs are not required, but feel free to add them if you'd like. If someone asks you for a CW or TW, please add it. It takes just a second. Don't mock someone's request for a CW/TW.

CW = Content Warning
TW = Trigger Warning

⭐Absolutely no misogyny, transmisogyny, transphobia, enbyphobia, homophobia, lesbophobia, biphobia, panphobia, aphobia, racism, xenophobia, anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, fat shaming, body shaming, ableism (this includes ableist language), classism, grammar shaming and gendered language (see next rule for clarification).

Here's a few links in case anyone has questions regarding ableist language and grammar shaming:


☆ ABLEIST LANGUAGE ☆

https://www.tolerance.org/magazine/no-joking-matter-words-and-disability

https://www.care2.com/causes/40-alternatives-to-these-ableist-and-oppressive-words.html

https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/stupid-is-an-ableist-slur-breaking-down-defenses-around-ableist-language-liberating-our-words/

http://disabledfeminists.com/2009/11/20/a-brief-psa-on-language/

http://disabledfeminists.com/2010/05/24/ableist-word-profile-why-i-write-about-ableist-language/

https://www.autistichoya.com/p/ableist-words-and-terms-to-avoid.html?m=1

♧ GRAMMAR SHAMING ♧

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/oct/03/my-problem-with-grammar-snobs

https://everydayfeminism.com/2014/05/grammar-snobbery

https://www.hotpepper.ca/blog/2017/02/08/correcting-grammar-is-classist


🌟 No gendered language. Don't address the group or members as "Ladies," "Guys" "Dudes," etc. When you do that, you're misgendering thousands of members. If you're addressing a friend or member who has told you their gender in previous interactions, that's alright. Violation of this rule will result in being muted/banned.

Here's a couple links explaining gendered language and how it's misogynistic:

◇ GENDERED LANGUAGE ◇

https://hub.wiley.com/community/exchanges/educate/blog/2017/03/05/i-m-not-your-guy-dude-why-language-really-does-matter

https://www.britishcouncil.org/voices-magazine/what-is-gendered-language

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SWERFs and TERFs are not welcome here. Ace exclusionists are not welcome here: Asexual/aromantic people ARE part of the LGBTQ+ community, unless they choose not to label themselves as such. Go somewhere terrible with that nonsense. 👀💯💯

SWERF = Sex Worker Exclusionary Radical Feminist.
TERF = Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist.

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🌟 Do not use the "@Moderator" function, it's not efficient and could get you muted. Tag several Admins or Mods for any issues that arise. You can also message us, but that might take longer for us to respond since it will go into our message requests.

🌟 Do not report to Discord. This could get the server deleted. Again, tag several of us or message us if you're having trouble or are uncomfortable tagging.

🌟 If your post is not approved, it either breaks one of our rules (most commonly the rule about censoring names/usernames and profile pictures, or is a shared post), is a repost, or is off-topic. If we delete your pending post, we might tag you on this post to tell you why and ask you to resubmit with the issue(s) corrected.

🌝🌚 YOUR CREW: 🌚🌝

🌈 Mocha Bean (She/her or They/them)

🌈 Mr. Black (He/him or They/them)

🌈 Japs (They/them)

🌈 Kapellka (She/her)

🌈 RistoH (She/her or They/them)

🌈 Roy (He/him)

🌈 Soup (She/her)

🌈 Flying Whale (They/them)

🌈 DesertH20 (They/them)

🌈 Giordo (She/her)

🌈 Dr. Phil (Apache Attack Helicopter)

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Thank you for reading all of this and we hope you enjoy the Server! Someone out there cares about you, even if it feels at times like they don't. WE care about you and want you to stay safe and take care of yourself. I genuinely love you, I just wanted you to know that.

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