Red Flags LTR Questions





alcohol / tobacco / drug addiction (or use, ever (excluding alcohol, light drinker preferred))
marijuana usage (ever)
binge shopping / debt / declining credit cards (ever)
Tattoos / abnormal-piercings / short-hair (like a boy’s) /colored-neon-hair
criminal record that isn’t minor crimes
narcissistic or bipolar disorder
STDs or terminal illnesses
bad temper
she physically strikes you in any manner that is not playful in adulthood
likes to go out all the time without you, not with friends but to get attention/validation from strangers
call yourself a drama queen
lie and hide things from you
virgin?
seeing a psychiatrist
having only guys friends / having a lack of female friends
inability to hold down a job or laziness
supportive caring parents? (neglectful / abusive parents = bad)
childhood abuse
control freak / health freak / highly OCD (gets pissed that you left a glass somewhere or you didn’t clean something small and trivial)
highly emotional
do you keep promises
she doesn’t know how to cook
she isn’t religious
she hold grudges. remembers offences and uses it as ammunition
constantly bored and always wants something new
rape claims in the past
at any points admits to destroying an exes belongings
frequent clubbing, getting wasted
plastic surgery
makeup freak
cheating / non faithful in the past (even kissing)
has ever used tinder / online dating (seriously and met others or stay for a long time)
her mother is a whale
has ever kissed more than one guy on the same night
black, or green nail polish
her ex boyfriends are always hanging around
She is mean to random people
any type of political extremism (left or right wing) feminism or extreme left-wings views
The idea of being a traditional stay-at-home mother must appeal to her no matter how unrealistic (she might be extremely career driven)
She must be highly religious, she must opt out of certain acts solely because God commanded her to
There are millions of girls in Europe who “believe in god” but do drugs, lie, cheat and have countless sexual partners.
Make sure she is authentic about wanting a family and to be a good wife and mother
has she lied to any of these questions==