Diagz - Yesterday at 11:44 PM
hello?
i dont understand why ur mad
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:44 PM
fuck off
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:44 PM
people have different opinions on things
?
what
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:44 PM
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/sea-lioning
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Sea-Lioning
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Diagz - Yesterday at 11:45 PM
i dont even know what that is
ill read it
but honestly why are u mad at me
we were just talking i didnt even know u were getting mad(edited)
ill just not talk about stuff i dont know about
but i was actually trying to get your opinion on shit to educate myself on stuff
im ignorant
so yes u can be mad about that
but i dont know how its escalated into us falling out
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:47 PM
You treated Ellie like shit
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:47 PM
no
she called me thick
?
and was just acting outraged about everything i was saying
and sighing
and just saying, im guna leave
not actually contributing
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:48 PM
No
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:48 PM
okay
well
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:48 PM
You were literally just arguing for the sake of argument
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:48 PM
no
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:49 PM
It's not asking my opinion when you challenge everything I say
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:49 PM
im pretty sure ellie started it
what
?
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:49 PM
Even shit analogies
With*
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:49 PM
i was talking about the trump baloon
thats all
saying its stupid
but thats it
i wasnt trying anything
like agenda
or shit
like
i dont even know what sea lioning is
didnt
why would i try to start an argument
with you
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:50 PM
It actually really fucking upset me the other day
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:50 PM
i wasnt even disagreeing with most stuff
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:50 PM
When you were saying that I'd changed and that I was 'one of them'
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:50 PM
well
talk to me about it
like i said
it has some truth
u have changed
u even said u have
like u said u were racist slightly before and w.e
but it was mainly a joke
like i didnt think it would offend u
i was playing off of the fact that you have just changed your views on stuff
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:51 PM
I don't talk about politics
It's always you and James
then you ask for my opinions or whatever
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:52 PM
ye like i said
its stupid of me talking about stuff i dont know about
but dont get mad
i wasnt trying toi make u mad
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:52 PM
I come on here to talk about games
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:52 PM
ok
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:52 PM
If you want to stop being ignorant then do the leg work yourself
Read
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:52 PM
ok
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:53 PM
You muted Ellie
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:53 PM
for 5 mins
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:53 PM
You made her feel excluded
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:53 PM
man
i wish i recorded it
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:53 PM
Why
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
u didnt hear all the shit
?
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
Cause she called you thick?
I know what she said
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
she felt excluded
?
okay
i felt attacked
?
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
You were talking utter shite
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
ok
well i muted her because she just kept on saying oh my god
and sighing
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:54 PM
You can mute her for yourself
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:55 PM
my fault for talking about shit
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:55 PM
Not a server mute
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:55 PM
ok
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:55 PM
Yes it is your fault when you start fucking debates when you know fuck all about anything
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:55 PM
ok
but dont u think falling out is an overreaction
you left the server
and egnored me
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:56 PM
I meant to leave the voice channel
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:56 PM
when i said lets be friends
and not fall out
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:56 PM
Headset wasn't on
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:56 PM
ok
i just thought u meant to leave because ellie did(edited)
as well
also
ellie doesnt like me
its clear
like as soon as i joined she said im going to leave
so
she's the one who has a problem
with me
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:58 PM
She's allowed to not like you
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:58 PM
im not disagreeing that
i just dont know why
like all i have ever said is
you arent one of those are you
but that was mainly a joke
so
like if i say that and u get offended
tell me
im not trying to offend anyone
were all supposed to be friends lol
Dango Fett - Yesterday at 11:59 PM
Maybe disguising everything as a joke is your problem
Diagz - Yesterday at 11:59 PM
"everything"
its not a disguise
also
July 15, 2018
Diagz - Today at 12:00 AM
but if i say something
and follow it with
that was a joke
will that make things better
were adults
like if i say something
Dango Fett - Today at 12:00 AM
You do the fucking same then
When you joined
Diagz - Today at 12:00 AM
and u dont like it
tell me
Dango Fett - Today at 12:00 AM
and she said she was leaving
she was joking
Diagz - Today at 12:00 AM
okay
i chose to be offended by it
just like she did
Dango Fett - Today at 12:01 AM
Politics is very personal
Diagz - Today at 12:01 AM
I guess it is ye
Dango Fett - Today at 12:01 AM
She grew up poor
Diagz - Today at 12:01 AM
so someone like me who doesnt care as much
wouldnt know
like really poor?
Dango Fett - Today at 12:02 AM
Single mother with four kids
Diagz - Today at 12:02 AM
well ye
thats something i didnt know
Dango Fett - Today at 12:02 AM
And a dad that didn't give a single shit
Diagz - Today at 12:02 AM
the main frustration at the moment
is that
i feel like we used to be able to joke about things
and now
i dont know if u will find it funny
or have a problem
Dango Fett - Today at 12:02 AM
I've never liked talking about politics with my friends
Diagz - Today at 12:02 AM
with it
i feel like ellie has changed your views on a lot of things
if im being truthful
which isnt a bad thing
im not saying that
but this is where my jokes(edited)
which wouldnt have hurt your or made u pissed off before
could make u mad now
like the "you're not one of them are you" thing
i didnt think u would have been offended by that(edited)
Dango Fett - Today at 12:06 AM
Hard to believe that I'm not the same person I was three years ago when I was a jobless obese virgin that had zero social skills and had dropped out of his law degree
Diagz - Today at 12:06 AM
no its not
im not saying that it is
as long as we havent fell out
but if u wanna talk we can
Dango Fett - Today at 12:07 AM
I didn't mean to leave the server but I'm done with the conversation
Diagz - Today at 12:07 AM
ok
but the ellie thing, like she really makes it clear that she doesnt like me
so its hard for me not to reciprocate
muting her was uncalled for
sorry
but i dont have anything against her
ive said from day one, im glad you are together etc
Dango Fett - Today at 12:09 AM
She didn't dislike you before this
Diagz - Today at 12:09 AM
i was just pissed off that she was so outraged
she was acting like i was attacking her
anyway
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Dango Fett - Today at 12:13 AM
I just wanted to talk about fucking wow and what class I'm gonna play
Diagz - Today at 12:13 AM
xD
Dango Fett - Today at 12:27 AM
You only unmuted her when I asked you to btw. Yeah she called you a thick bitch but she didn't say anything that I wasn't thinking and it isn't anything that wouldn't normally be said on here. Just think about some of the things you'd say to Cott when you argue with him. She thinks that you dislike her and you can't really change that now. She's upset about it and you have to admit that you wouldn't mute me like that even though I've definitely acted worse than she did in the past. You really should think before you speak sometimes and be careful what you talk about since just because you don't care about something doesn't mean that other people don't. I'm not gonna hold any grudges or anything but I'd rather avoid these types of conversations because they're just stressful and don't do anything for me. Like no offence but I'm not your professor. I'm not hosting a seminar at 11pm at night, whilst I'm playing competitive games in Overwatch, before I have to be up at 8am for work. We're the same age and our politic awareness is up to ourselves and is our own responsibility. If you're just asking other people for what they think you're essentially just parroting people's opinions. Just research modern mainstream ideologies, look up various writers and journalists and read what they have to say about shit. Think critically. Come to your own conclusions. Start on Wikipedia if you have to. This shit isn't spoonfed to you. There's no point in pretending to be curious if you aren't actually interested in doing your own research. That's my two cents anyway.
Diagz - Today at 12:29 AM
If she didnt dislike me before i muted her, why did she act like she did
i treated her like that because she acted like she didnt like me
today
and the other day when we were playing secret hitlet
and i agree
with the other stuff
Dango Fett - Today at 12:29 AM
Because what you were saying upsetted her.
What did she do during secret hitler?
Diagz - Today at 12:30 AM
im talking about when i joined
and she made it clear she wanted to go because i joined
Dango Fett - Today at 12:30 AM
She says she was joking
I do that shit with Mike
Diagz - Today at 12:31 AM
you have known mike for 7+ years
ive had about 2 hours of conversation with ellie
so ye i wouldnt do that to you
or cott
im indifferent, i dont dislike anyone
i reciprocated what she was doing to me
Dango Fett - Today at 12:32 AM
yeah she's trying to fit in cause she feels like an outsider
Diagz - Today at 12:32 AM
well she is
as in
like
put it this way
weve all been friends for like 10 years
Dango Fett - Today at 12:33 AM
you've spoken to her for ages though
Diagz - Today at 12:33 AM
i havent, personally
i dont think
Dango Fett - Today at 12:33 AM
She's been coming on the computer for a year
Diagz - Today at 12:33 AM
ye but i personally havent spoken to her that much
this month is like the most i ever have
Dango Fett - Today at 12:34 AM
Dude you've talken to her more than that wtf
She remembers that deep conversation you had ages ago about depression and shit and that talk alone was more than 2 hours
Diagz - Today at 12:35 AM
oh ye
i remember that
Dango Fett - Today at 12:35 AM
yeah she thought you were close after that somewhat but I guess to you she's just my gf
Diagz - Today at 12:35 AM
hmm(edited)
not really
i wouldnt call her my friend
just like i dont think she would
call me her friend
Dango Fett - Today at 12:36 AM
she would've done lol
Diagz - Today at 12:36 AM
maybe i have just forgot
that we have talked a lot
i dont come on ts a lot for a long time
so maybe its like i spoke to her a bit
then just did my usual thing of coming on ts and muting for 6 months
and now were here
so to me it just seems like we havent talked a lot
im also not saying i wouldnt want to be friends
btw
this is all pointless
i shouldnt have muted her
but she was over reacting
in my opinion
at the time
but now i know why
so it wasnt really over reacting
thats the top and bottom of it
Dango Fett - Today at 12:39 AM
ok
Diagz - Today at 12:39 AM
i dont hate her
and i would like to talk to her more
she isnt just ur GF
maybe when u guys start playing wow
i can get to know her a bit more
or even if we play other shit like secret hitler
but i apologise if she feels upset or attacked
Dango Fett - Today at 12:41 AM
she's really upset
doesn't want to rejoin the discord
Diagz - Today at 12:42 AM
okay well maybe just leave it for now
its all fresh
show her this convo
like
you know me
im not malicious
at least i hope im not
like i didnt even know rodge hated me
thats how open to people i am
i let someone fucking abuse me and say horrible shit and i thought it was all banter
just leave it for now, tomorrow is a new day and all that shit
Dango Fett - Today at 12:44 AM
Dude she doesn't believe you. I'm telling her the gist of it. She thinks that you don't like her and that you're just covering it up. Like you didn't message her on discord to apologise, you messaged me.
Diagz - Today at 12:44 AM
im not friends with her on discord
i dont think
Dango Fett - Today at 12:45 AM
she says you are
Diagz - Today at 12:45 AM
oh
i am
well
im not gunna go say it to her now
because then it looks like im only doing it
Dango Fett - Today at 12:46 AM
just leave it
Diagz - Today at 12:46 AM
because u said it
Dango Fett - Today at 12:46 AM
you should just know
that she doesn't have that many friends
Diagz - Today at 12:46 AM
i assumed u were talking to her about it
so u saying he said sorry would be enough
Dango Fett - Today at 12:46 AM
she got isolated from a lot of her school friends when she was with Richard, cause he isolated her
and she struggles making new friends at uni or work, just in general, cause she has really bad anxiety
Diagz - Today at 12:47 AM
the last ill say of it because its not worth it to keep going on, but if she wants to look at it from that point of view then its not something i can help with
you know me
Dango Fett - Today at 12:47 AM
I'm not saying that
Diagz - Today at 12:47 AM
im saying that to the covering it up
stuff
Dango Fett - Today at 12:48 AM
I'm saying, just cause you didn't really see her as anything doesn't mean she didn't think of you as a friend
muting her
was really cruel
cause she doesn't have anything else
Diagz - Today at 12:48 AM
yea i get it
but i didnt know at the time
like i said about her being outraged
and it was as if i was attacking her
i just muted her because i thought it was just dramatizing
Dango Fett - Today at 12:49 AM
I wasn't happy either I'm just better at keeping shit inside.
Diagz - Today at 12:49 AM
but i didnt know
put it this way, you've known me since year 7
like
we have fall outs and whatever
but we always make friends again
i think you know what im like
Dango Fett - Today at 12:50 AM
yeah
Diagz - Today at 12:50 AM
so just tell her that
im an idiot
thats all
: )
Dango Fett - Today at 12:51 AM
look all you can do is just forget about it and be chill if she decides she wants to come on again
Diagz - Today at 12:51 AM
yea
and she's welcome to
Dango Fett - Today at 12:54 AM
I have to be up for work at 8 anyway. I'm not holding any grudges or anything. She'll probably calm down, just lay off on the political shit.
Diagz - Today at 12:55 AM
yea
have a good one
: )