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- Why do you want to get married?
- What traits are important to you? Come up with the 4 most important.
- What type of lifestyle do you think you'd want to live? How often do you expect to purchase a
- new car? Go out to eat? How important are those to you?
- What does she do with friends?
- ● Does she like her job? Would she continue working or be a stay at home mother?
- ● What bothers you? How do you handle them?
- ● How does she deal with stressful situations?
- ● How does she handle having coworkers/teammates who don’t complete their fair share of the
- work?
- ● If you were going to live somewhere else, where? Why? Where could you not imagine yourself
- living?
- ● Where you see yourself in five years, and ten years, and how you hope to "get there."
- ● What gets you excited?
- ● How does she imagine her Shabbos table? Would you have guests? Do you like singing zemiros?
- ● Is there something you have dreamed of doing for a long time? Do you think you’ll ever do it?
- ● The most interesting experience you ever had at work or school.
- ● What size family would you want to have? You don't need a number, but there's a difference
- between 2-4 and "as many as possible"
- ● Aspirations: What would you like to accomplish?
- ● What would you do if you won the lottery?
- ● Do you have a strong feeling about pets?
- ● When do you feel most relaxed? Most alive?
- What's important to her
- ● Long-term career and family goals,
- ○ If she's a stay at home mother, until when? Work part time? Government programs?
- ○ Number of Kids
- ○ Raising and disciplining kids
- ○ Where do you want (or not want) to live? Brooklyn? Out of town?
- ○ Eretz Yisrael?
- ● TV/Movies/Non-Jewish music
- ● Opinions on college, kollel, working, learning
- ● How do you spend Shabbos - how do you envision it being?
- ● What type of school would you want your kids to go to? Kollel? College?
- ● What are the roles of a father? Mother? Husband? Wife?
- What (4) values are most important to you?
- ● What do your parents do right? Do wrong? And likewise for yourself?
- ● What role do you see yourself taking within a community?
- ○ There are many possible levels of community involvement. For example, knowing
- people, taking part in events, like baking after someone has a baby, or running a
- community program.
- ● What are your similarities? Your differences? How can they be utilized? Where would they cause
- problems?
- ● What makes you happy?
- ● What type of relationship do you have (and want to have) with your immediate and extended
- family?
- ● What negative emotions do you most-frequently experience and how do you handle it?
- ● What do you enjoy? What are you proud of?
- ● Do you have any long-term goals? What are they?
- ● How do you manage your finances and spending habits?
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