>I want to learn, where do I start?
http://www.freedrumlessons.com/drum-lessons/
>How do I hold the sticks?
https://www.wikihow.com/Hold-a-Drumstick
>What kind of sticks should I buy?
It's reccomended to try different sticks to see what feels nice in your hands
This site has a lot of information about how different sticks behave and general things you should look for if you're planning on playing certain types of music
http://vicfirth.com/drumstick-anatomy/
>How do I tune my drums?
While notes don't necessarily matter, you should make sure the head sounds the same near tension rods
http://pearldrum.com/media/education/drum-tuning.pdf

More good shit for beginners:
>Music theory (only really need basics and rhythmic sections for drums)
https://www.musictheory.net/lessons
>16th notes
https://youtu.be/tAzWUU6ldIE
>Intro to linear fills
https://youtu.be/kHPpd0dKkF4
>RITSU'S RUDIMENTS
https://my.mixtape.moe/aseebs.gif
>how to tune your shit
long but the best
https://youtu.be/Ra1222a24ew
short but Good (get it?)
https://youtu.be/yl9wgXSfxew

intermediate exercises:
>half-time 'Rosanna' shuffle at 20:18
https://youtu.be/iMLGPD-nyT4

brain's Shredding Repis on the Gnar Gnar Rad (very worth watching):
https://youtu.be/0I6YVvkuLt4
9:12 - Up down technique
14:03 - Double stroke roll

advanced hand technique:
>Jeff Peterson's Open/Close
https://youtu.be/zM_QOSvJJSo
>Dick Culley's ridiculous shit
https://youtu.be/nV0JofDLb50

Other resources:
>metronome
online: https://www.imusic-school.com/en/tools/online-metronome/
Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.soundbrenner.pulse
iOS: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/metronome-%CF%9F/id416443133?mt=8