Salbae: Deb
QnDebShadow: Sal
Salbae: change it to your room please
Salbae: invite Kin
Salbae: I dont want her vent on general and get kicked
Salbae: she can vent here in prviate
Salbae: Kin had a insane week and me too
Salbae: she's under stress
Salbae: DEB
QnDebShadow: come sit
Salbae: Kin, Deb and I love you. Say everything you want please.
KinVanity: I already said it all.
QnDebShadow: what makes anyone think Kin would get kicked
Salbae: I am worried because Kin, you said no one wants drama and I understand the flirting is a issue but if you say it like that with a smile its passive aggressive and I fear that others might want you gone if you attack for being flirty?
Salbae: I cant control others and you cant
Salbae: We can speak with the Kings about it
QnDebShadow: di i miss something?
Salbae: I don't know. I could be overreacting.
Salbae: Was it not a big deal then for her to say that on general?
QnDebShadow: say what, what am i missing
KinVanity: So you're perfectly fine with the constant flirting and unproper comments?
Salbae: Depends no situation I think, what situation ---- OH DAE? SAYING THAT?
Salbae: FUCK NO.
Salbae: That is not okay
Salbae: BUT
KinVanity: right
Salbae: I CANT PUT IT ON GENERAL
KinVanity: OH
Salbae: KIN YOU CANT AIR IT OUT
KinVanity: there's a ''BUT''
Salbae: Kin wth, a Sin can't go NUTS!
KinVanity: You said nothing
Salbae: Relax
Salbae: OMG. I am now.
KinVanity: then you said you dont know what he mean
KinVanity: Right
Salbae: Kin - With Deb I understand
KinVanity: now
Salbae: Dont you put shit on general to get kicked
Salbae: I came in in this group and stayed for you
Salbae: whatever you dont like
Salbae: speak with who you need to
Salbae: get shit done
Salbae: I cant do it for you, only you can voice it
Salbae: But not on general for god sake!
QnDebShadow: Salbae...she isnt going to get kicked for that
QnDebShadow: worse things have been said in the past
Salbae: King Sao is very strict when it comes to allowing flirting, he could take offense to the comment of her disliking flirting in the room, King Sai already stated sex was okay to be in the room on the group page
Salbae: Kin, I dont want to lose you in the group, if you dont like it
Salbae: Speak to who you need to
Salbae: I dont care about the flirting, I feel nothing about it. I dont care one way or another, it hasnt bothered me. It sounds like it annoys you and obviously, I want you to stay and not leave because improper comments or "too" much flirting?
KinVanity: You make absolutely no sense right now
Salbae: Fine.
Salbae: That's fine.
KinVanity: First off people have been fucking in that very room
KinVanity: No you know it's NOT fine
Salbae: We near did
KinVanity: ''fine''
Salbae: So we can do our thing and others cant?
Salbae: We can flirt and others cant?
Salbae: Are we better?
KinVanity: Im talking about all of these disgusting idiots flirting with YOU
KinVanity: Not in general
Salbae: Jesus christ, I dont love anyone but you
Salbae: Who?
KinVanity: Oh so thats what it is
Salbae: I will message them now
Salbae: I will PC
KinVanity: well then
KinVanity: it's fine
Salbae: I will tell them to stop
Salbae: right now
KinVanity: everything is solved
Salbae: Give me names
KinVanity: WE'RE ALL GOOD FOLKS
Salbae: Give me the names
KinVanity: Thank you goodnight, I wanna give a special thanks to Jerry and the band and the black weather lady
Salbae: The black weather lady is the best tho
KinVanity: Because obviously we got no problem
Salbae: Give me the names
KinVanity: Right?
Salbae: I want to address it now
Salbae: I will do it on 1 on 1
Salbae: I'll delete my comments on general.
Salbae: Because I didnt know the scope of the issue then. K.
Salbae: -waits to you to tell me names so I can address the issue properly-
QnDebShadow: brb
KinVanity: Take your time dear
Salbae: What she said.
QnDebShadow: back
Salbae: welcome back Deb
QnDebShadow: ty
Salbae: Either Deb or Kin, what can I do to stop the constant flirting and unproper comments? If Kin finds it an issue, then it is a issue for me.
Salbae: What can I do right now?
QnDebShadow: tell them to stop
Salbae: I will.
KinVanity: and? anything else?
QnDebShadow: Salbae, she is your fiance, i think maybe if someone flirts with her, even in a small way, you should tell them she is your fiance and to stpo
QnDebShadow: stop*
Salbae: We are dating in real life too.
Salbae: I get uncomfortable with it, very uncomfortable
Salbae: I shut down, I'm not excusing myself
KinVanity: Uncomfortable with what?
QnDebShadow: then fllirting should not be allowed, you should be telling them to stop
KinVanity: Dating or flirting?
Salbae: improper comments like the one, from Dae, the comment I did not understand
Salbae: I am great in english, but sometimes I don't understand weird phrases
KinVanity: Really
Salbae: I am uncomfortable with the improper comemnts like Dae's
KinVanity: because he outright went from instead of saying hi to me to saying its a shame
KinVanity: and when I point it out he tell me to drop it
KinVanity: and you let him talk like that
Salbae: Not anymore I'm not.
Salbae: It's terrible
Salbae: I needed you to talk with me but when you scare the shit out of me
Salbae: and do crazy nut shit like putting it on general you scare ME
KinVanity: -.-
Salbae: I dont want you gone
Salbae: In fact I will leave here because I get scared to lose everything
KinVanity: THAT SHIT
KinVanity: dont go here
Salbae: I cant do it without you
Salbae: I get uncomfortable even now
Salbae: Well please stop yelling
KinVanity: that comment was REALLY not even top 100 material of the worst things people said there
KinVanity: and i will yell if i feel like
Salbae: Just relax and speak calmly because honestly I am not great at the confrontation for things that make me uncomfortable
KinVanity: OH and you know what? I handle almost every situation with care and wits
Salbae: Okay, I can explain
KinVanity: Calling me confrontational because ''Oh i have my own thing for it''
Salbae: My hands? Their going numb
KinVanity: ''Its part of my life''
KinVanity: NO ITS NOT
Salbae: You are being way too 'uhmp' right now
Salbae: So please relax
KinVanity: you can call a word something its not
Salbae: I will have to go offline I cant be yelled at right now
KinVanity: oh right I shouldnt express how I feel
KinVanity: Its better if I shut the fuck up
Salbae: you made me so scared you would leave everyone over this, I had to drag in Deb
Salbae: If you could act in a way that didnt scare me
Salbae: I wouldnt have to
KinVanity: Deb
KinVanity: You dragged in my close and great friend in to this
KinVanity: Shes seen me more angry than you ever will
Salbae: Because if you leave she gets to know why and even help us fix it
Salbae: And yes, I know its that big of an issue you would over
Salbae: I saw anger in your comment on general
Salbae: I am not oblivious
KinVanity: yes you are
Salbae: To your feelings on being angry, no..
KinVanity: THIS is not even 1% enough to make me drop from kaz
Salbae: Ok, but wouldn't the Kings say we were drama and get rid of us both?
Salbae: If you yellled at everyone in genearl like you did for flirting with  me?
KinVanity: I didnt yell at everyone you idiot
Salbae: You put caps and do not name call
KinVanity: and no one else took it like that
Salbae: that's so out of line, and dont put me down like that again
KinVanity: I will namecall all I feel like
Salbae: You will not because I am not doing a relationship with someone who calls me names
Salbae: Were not talking one on one until you get yourself together and be respectful
Salbae: So dont message me right now on discord or pc me either.
Salbae: Til you can be respectful again.
QnDebShadow: this is Kin calm, trust me
KinVanity: Oh but heres the thing, YOU overstepped a thing called ''the line''
KinVanity: by dragging other people into this
KinVanity: you did not consult me
KinVanity: you went ahead and made MY choice for me
KinVanity: You did not ask
Salbae: You put it in general for not only deb to see, my friends, your friends
KinVanity: You did not care to even concider ''maybe it will piss her off''
Salbae: You did  not ask me if you could show anger about others flirting on general
Salbae: and get backlash on me and you for it
Salbae: So when you start to think about how things affect us both then I wont have to ask Deb
KinVanity: That is NOT the same fucking thing
Salbae: Okay. No cussing either.
KinVanity: You seriously do not get to compare as you wish to angle this to your benefit
Salbae: You can be a lot kinder as I am now.
KinVanity: Oh i curse all i fucking feel like
KinVanity: Oh '' I am so kind im salbae i drag kins friends in to things and then kid myself shes wrong to express''
Salbae: And there's your reason....
KinVanity: You know that you could easily
Salbae: You cuss... You scream.... You get angry...
Salbae: I cant do one on one....
KinVanity: have just ignored it if i was upset in general
KinVanity: and we would not even be fighting
Salbae: You did this actually, not me...
KinVanity: But you choose the high road 1-up over getting along
Salbae: You left me alone for hours
Salbae: Now you come back angry as a bee
KinVanity: Nope
KinVanity: lies
KinVanity: I tried to talk
KinVanity: you told me to go
KinVanity: dont fucking try me
Salbae: That game was supposed to help get you destressed
Salbae: So then you come back upset again
KinVanity: dont try me
KinVanity: You did tell me to go play games
KinVanity: when I came back
Salbae: I havent had a break since last night, your 100% stressed out
KinVanity: THere is no ''but'' in it
Salbae: And yet you dont care how that affects me, I dont even get normal you
Salbae: I get 100% stressed out Kin that scares me
KinVanity: right now you're putting up an act of ''im scared'' so Deb will think im a badguy
KinVanity: And you think I wont call you out on it
Salbae: My hands literally are numb and I need you be kinder and consider I have a body response to how you are speaking
Salbae: If you care about me you will listen to this
KinVanity: not qwhen you talk shit
KinVanity: not when you completely ignore that YOU told ME to go away
KinVanity: then you complain i was gone for hours
Salbae: I did not say for you to go away
KinVanity: THAT is on you 100%
Salbae: Actually, I would have liked to see you
KinVanity: No
Salbae: Even Thayne pushed me just now
KinVanity: ''go have fun playing games''
Salbae: I address it
Salbae: And I get brushed off
Salbae: I am getting stressed
Salbae: I cant do this aggression bullshit like you
Salbae: I cant
KinVanity: I have seen you do it
Salbae: I'm already 100% uncomfortable
Salbae: Not with touching, not with improper comments
Salbae: If you are so good at  it
Salbae: why dont you
Salbae: I am the one who is out the comfort zone
Salbae: and if I say 'stop' like Deb says
Salbae: They will say I am overreacting
Salbae: I cant do this
Salbae: thanks a lot Kin
Salbae: If you are going to bring up an issue, at least offer to help if I needed it
Salbae: but no
Salbae: on my own
KinVanity: I will say what I think
Salbae: Good bye
KinVanity: Its more economi than drugs or a drink
QnDebShadow: -blinks- if someone is flirting while i am there and you  ask them to stop, i will back you
Salbae: Kin is blaming me
Salbae: for all it
Salbae: You keep  blaming me for people doing this to me
Salbae: Its not even fair
Salbae: I am so uncomfortable
KinVanity: Oh so you choose to do nothing
KinVanity: and then blame me
KinVanity: for being upset
Salbae: My whole two arms are numb
KinVanity: because you dont have the guts to stand up for yourself
Salbae: When are you going to actually help
Salbae: guts? Okay and I have survived all kinds of bodily threats including from my ex
Salbae: very recentnly
KinVanity: Im not here to help you right now because you choose to do your little attacks and then IGNORE THEM
KinVanity: like telling me to not talk to you
Salbae: *sigh*
KinVanity: then you whine i didnt
KinVanity: even right now
KinVanity: you dont admit to it
Salbae: I never said for you to leave
KinVanity: because hey, You cant be wrong right
KinVanity: because that would make no sense :3
Salbae: It'd be nice if you wernet putting me downf for others flirting
Salbae: I didnt ask for it
Salbae: If I am not comfortable with someone comments
Salbae: stop punishnig me
KinVanity: I am sick of YOUR lack of reactions to it ever happening
Salbae: I  need your help
KinVanity: no
Salbae: honestly my arms are numb
KinVanity: I am not doing that for you
KinVanity: I am not gonna tell people what they can and cant do to you
KinVanity: thats your job
KinVanity: not mine
KinVanity: I told you how it makes me feel
KinVanity: but obviously I will have to do everything
KinVanity: Oh hey Sai he is dragging a bunch of people into our lovelife, welcome
Saitoka: He didnt invite me.
KinVanity: xD
KinVanity: He got me here and made deb get me knowing I need to cool off but also knowing id never decline any invites from her.
KinVanity: so here we are