Ok as for the questions she asked you to ask me . Yes she and Helga did take me on my first ever RP as the sisters after i got a speed course in the rules with typing and stuff . The were friendly to me when i first started on the server and helped me , i was in Motumbo's clan at the start and they still helped me get on my feet and into RP as i never done that before . Motumbo could not help me as he did not realy knew what he was playing him self . After a few RP's Helga asked if i would like to join them and fight the benevolent fight with them . This was a reaction about the event that took place at there base just before the bloodstorm . Wich i believe was a few buffed players running around the world destroying stuff (correct me if i am wrong i missed that event i was redoing a garden somewere at the time) . We started playing and building together and were being pulled into the OOC hate , but we are dutch and sober in things so we did not realy pay attention to that . And told them multiple times it is just a game . Then the ban hapend wich in my eyes was a valid ban as me and Lagertha told them as wel , you should have just reached out to an admin instead of publicly trying to destroy someone and specialy an member of the staff and mod creator . Then it started to hapen the first day of the ban we had Cirice at the base and then a week later they raided us . They wanted them to relog and they wanted to do that , as i was in RP with the sisters at that time . I told them no don't as this wil be Meta gaming if you would now relog but mainly it was just a way for me to not let things escelate as i can take more in a game then they do . They listened to me and let me in the base alone . At that time i became the target of there OOC hate (pathos and a few others ) and they realy hate them for a number of reasons wich i heard all . The even went in an OOC argument with Meav and Deirdre that came to check on me (wich i still apriciate ) . I was taken to prison after i showed them the base while in bounds (wich i was burned for right after for a few days ) . I had an OOC at the end with them and told them again i think you and them take all this way to serious it is RP not real life and you need to keep those seperate . But the hate towards them is just to strong for them to do that . But the hate the other way around is just as strong i am afraid , it is like they are keeping it alive between them atm . After that raid everything started to go south in the clan . At some point i was called a lier beceause they were sure i shared her build , wich to this day i still not have done . But that was it for me and Lagertha we discussed it as we are real life friends for like 10 years now, we needed a change beceause we had enough of this OOC hate from both sides . Then we found Deirdre and Maev who were cautious about us but lucky for us did not judge with the OOC information like O and H said everyone would towards us sinds we were in the clan with them . We cut ties with them completly and now i am on the OOC hate list to wich is fine as i don't hate them . I am having fun now and that is what matters , but there friendship goes into hate in a few seconds like i said before and that wories me. I have had a gaming community of 300 people also a lot of minors and we had a small group like that bring it all down as i did not see it evolve . I am not saying it wil hapen here , and i think or hope she took your advice yesterday and tones down but i sometimes get the feeling they want to be hated as it gives them more private RP session .