Austin - Today at 6:36 PM
hold on again i started another game ;__;
also i'm still thinking about what i want to communicate
yes
hi
Jake - Today at 6:48 PM
hi
Austin - Today at 6:48 PM
hi
i genuinely believe this is not good for my health right now
is there not a way for me to stay in contact with karen and overcome problems as they arise
or are you two adamant that i should go
Jake - Today at 6:49 PM
it feels like you're warping all of this to sound like we just don't want you around
a therapist even said that this would be good for your mental health
from what i understand, a lot of people also said it
Austin - Today at 6:50 PM
i wish karen didnt tell you personal things like that lol
Jake - Today at 6:50 PM
the thing with this is, it is going to be tough at first
Austin - Today at 6:51 PM
jake i know my mental limits
a clean break is not healthy for me right now
Jake - Today at 6:51 PM
nor is what you're doing right now with karen
the big difference is
a clean break will eventually be healthy for you
what you're doing right now will never be healthy for you
and the fact that it's gone on for so long is part of why it's so bad right now
and that's why it's so hard to separate
it should not be this hard to separate
you have never given yourself the time to heal from the breakup
you've never given yourself the time away from her that you needed after the breakup
when you are broken up with but you remain in constant contact with the person that broke up with you, you will never get over it
because you never give yourself a chance to
the longer you wait to do this, the harder it's going to be.
Austin - Today at 6:55 PM
i wish you guys didnt care
Jake - Today at 6:55 PM
you would rather continue to live in this hell?
because i know you're not happy
Austin - Today at 6:56 PM
a clean break will really harm me
at this point in time
Jake - Today at 6:56 PM
no, austin
it wont
and continuing to think that you cant do it is why you keep breaking apart
there's no reason you can't
Austin - Today at 6:57 PM
i feel like i should be allowed to work towards being just friends with karen over time
Jake - Today at 6:57 PM
you have tried already
Austin - Today at 6:57 PM
and not just starting over
Jake - Today at 6:57 PM
you have been trying for 5 months
and it's gotten worse
Austin - Today at 6:57 PM
has it
Jake - Today at 6:57 PM
yes
Austin - Today at 6:58 PM
can we at least consider the possibility of fixing things over practice
Jake - Today at 6:59 PM
again
you've been trying
it's gotten worse
Austin - Today at 6:59 PM
so you're saying you've lost all faith in me
for that method
Jake - Today at 6:59 PM
and i don't blame you one bit for it
i've also done the same
Austin - Today at 7:01 PM
i don't know what else to say then
it sounds like this is what you've decided for me
Jake - Today at 7:03 PM
you're making this so hard on yourself
and also karen
this isn't love, austin
this is obsession
and you might not even realize how much of a toll this is taking on your mental health
Austin - Today at 7:06 PM
i'm trying to think of something rational to say
please dont psychoanalyze me
Jake - Today at 7:06 PM
that's not what i'm doing :GWchadThonkery:
you are obsessed. i don't think there's much analysis that needs to be done on that
you've never had your time to deal with the breakup
she's been a big part of your life for a long time
and i really do get it
also to turn things around a bit
how do you expect to find someone else, someone new, when you're still in love with your ex?
and even if you do, how is that fair to them?
There isn't a single good thing that can come from you continuing to talk to her.
Austin - Today at 7:10 PM
ow
Jake - Today at 7:11 PM
i'm sorry if im being too blunt about things
Austin - Today at 7:12 PM
do you or karen want me gone more
Jake - Today at 7:12 PM
as i said before
it seems like you're twisting this
i noticed you do that a lot with karen too
Austin - Today at 7:13 PM
i'm sorry
Jake - Today at 7:13 PM
we do not want you gone, but you need to for your mental health
Austin - Today at 7:14 PM
why does nobody let me deal with my own mental health ;__;
Jake - Today at 7:14 PM
even if it's going to suck today
stop trying to be prideful about it and accept the advice of others :stuck_out_tongue:
you cant fight all of this alone