Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:07 AM
OMFG
RODGER
OMFG
RODGER
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:10 AM
What?
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:10 AM
OMG
remember when that girl didn't like me anymore but I briefly mention another girl I liked?
Well today I finally did it and I asked her to talk and she said yes
We are walking out of school today. Wish me luck, coach
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:13 AM
Asked her to talk? Wdym
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:15 AM
Walking together
After school
Like I did with the other grill
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:23 AM
Why not just ask her out my guy
You gonna repeat the process?
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:44 AM
Out to where?
Shouldn't it go slower?
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:47 AM
That’s what dating is for. You’re getting to know them on these dates
And probably grab some food at a sit down restaurants for preferably.
Some place you two can talk and get closer
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:52 AM
What would be a good first date?
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:53 AM
Do you have anything to sightsee or experience? Like museums or events?
If you can’t find anything to go actively do, a sit down date with food is always a safe bet
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:54 AM
Ok
Food always sounds fun too
I wish I could drive tho
I can't until next September :(
KnacksLast Thursday at 9:55 AM
Yea that makes it a little harder
You’ll figure it out
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 9:58 AM
K
Ok
I'll just see how today goes
Day by day
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 10:10 AM
But holy crap I'll be honest that I'm so glad I said I wanted to talk because I would have felt stupid otherwise in putting in that much effort to just walk away
I went out of my comfort zone for that shit man lol
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 11:49 AM
RIP
Was waiting 7min
She wasn't there
Forget about her unless it's a damn good reason(edited)
KnacksLast Thursday at 1:23 PM
Yea she might of forgot but you should probably just ask them out lol
Asking them to talk is kind of random
Kolo SupremoLast Thursday at 2:22 PM
eh I don't know
If she liked me then I don't think she'd forget
Whatever. I'll just see what happens
Thanks tho
KnacksLast Thursday at 3:01 PM
How do you know you like someone unless you get to know them
Basing interest on physical attraction is pretty iffy
December 14, 2018
Kolo SupremoYesterday at 4:15 AM
Bro she wasn't there tho
Yeah I know what you're saying but if she does that a lot then I don't want to bother
But I can't be sure if it was a mistake
Kolo SupremoYesterday at 9:12 AM
Bro I'm done with this shit. Imma forget about this to save me from the 8months of hard depression like the first time
I'm good tho ty for the help
KnacksYesterday at 10:03 AM
Which is valid but generally it’s a good idea to just get to the point so they understand the situation
And what happened?
Kolo SupremoYesterday at 10:21 AM
Nothing
I didn't say anything
Yeah I'm sort of retarded but I accept it
KnacksYesterday at 1:03 PM
Gotta make stuff happen. If you’re done then learn from this lol
Kolo SupremoYesterday at 2:05 PM
Idk bro. Is it not a too late to say anything now?
I can't handle being in a relationship but I like her tho
That's my problem right there
I can't keep up with the expectation with a relationship
Unless you have advice
KnacksYesterday at 3:07 PM
Have you ever been in a relationship? What do you mean the expectation
December 15, 2018
Kolo SupremoToday at 1:40 AM
Nope never been in one
By expectation, I thought that you actually have to try to keep her interested
I'm sort of seeing what you're getting at now tho
Honestly, I just don't want it interfering with the life I have now. I don't want to get into something and that all has to change
(I know this doesn't have to do with anything but I think a great date idea would be the mall plus there's food places there)
Do you personally not have to put in effort to keep someone happy? What's your goal in your relationship?
For me, it doesn't just happen. With the first girl, I felt under pressure every. single. time I spoke
Maybe this thing is not for me.(edited)
KnacksToday at 1:51 AM
If you have to actively keep someone interested in you that's not a healthy relationship. That's generally not how they are. You should want to be with that person. You should want to talk to them, want to hang around them, want to make time.
You obviously have to keep them happy but that doesn't mean you have to jump through hoops and go out of your way. Spending time with them, showing affection, etc. If that's too much then you might be right, being in a relationship right now isn't for you..
As for the feeling pressure? That's just inexperience. That wasn't a relationship either.
(side note the mall would be a good venue to talk and get food)