<RelativeLayout
        android:layout_width="match_parent"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:layout_margin="10dp"
        android:background="@drawable/foodvitebackground">

    <TextView
         android:id="@+id/invitename"
         android:layout_width="wrap_content"
         android:layout_height="wrap_content"
         android:textSize="18dp"
         android:textColor="@color/adsd"
         android:text="fasf"
         android:layout_marginTop="10dp"
         android:layout_marginLeft="15dp"/>

    <TextView
         android:id="@+id/name"
         android:layout_width="match_parent"
         android:layout_height="wrap_content"
         android:layout_below="@+id/invitename"
         android:layout_marginTop="8dp"
         android:layout_marginLeft="15dp"
         android:layout_toLeftOf="@+id/profileimage"
         android:gravity="left"
         android:textColor="@color/foodvite_invitename"
         android:textSize="20dp"
         android:text="Fill-a Pita"/>

    <TextView
         android:id="@+id/jJoinTime"
         android:layout_width="wrap_content"
         android:layout_height="wrap_content"
         android:layout_below="@+id/name"
         android:layout_marginTop="8dp"
         android:layout_marginLeft="15dp"
         android:textSize="12dp"
         android:text="Today,8:30PM"
         android:textColor="@color/joinTime"/>

    <com.mikhaellopez.circularimageview.CircularImageView
         android:id="@+id/profileimage"
         android:layout_width="@dimen/hundred_dp"
         android:layout_height="@dimen/hundred_dp"
         android:layout_alignParentRight="true"
         android:layout_centerVertical="true"
         android:layout_marginRight="15dp"
        android:scaleType="fitCenter"/>

    <TextView
        android:id="@+id/invitescount"
        android:layout_width="wrap_content"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:text="20"
        android:textColor="@color/white"
        android:paddingLeft="3dp"
        android:paddingRight="3dp"
        android:background="@drawable/ret"
        android:layout_marginBottom="15dp"
        android:layout_marginRight="15dp"
        android:layout_alignBottom="@+id/message"
        android:layout_alignRight="@+id/profileimage"
        android:layout_alignEnd="@+id/profileimage"/>

    <View
        android:id="@+id/leftbar"
        android:layout_width="6dp"
        android:layout_height="match_parent"
        android:layout_alignParentLeft="true"
        android:background="@drawable/foodviterespoded"/>

</RelativeLayout>

<View
        android:id="@+id/leftbar"
        android:layout_width="6dp"
        android:layout_height="wrap_content"
        android:layout_alignParentLeft="true"
        android:layout_alignTop="@+id/invitename"
        android:layout_alignBottom="@+id/jJoinTime"
        android:background="@drawable/foodviterespoded"/>

itemView.measure(View.MeasureSpec.UNSPECIFIED, View.MeasureSpec.UNSPECIFIED);
height = itemView.getMeasuredHeight();

RelativeLayout.LayoutParams divParams = (RelativeLayout.LayoutParams)
divider.getLayoutParams();
divParams.height = height;//Add any top or bottom margin(in pixel) specified
divider.setLayoutParams(divParams);