11:15 PM] dean: How is that info even relevant to what we're talking about right now?
[11:15 PM] dean: Did someone tell you something??
[11:16 PM] anna: no it's just something that's been eating away at me
[11:16 PM] dean: And what do you gain
[11:16 PM] dean: from knowing what I said about you?
[11:17 PM] dean: Like I don't get it
[11:17 PM] dean: What do you gain
[11:17 PM] dean: Are you worried about what the people I said it to think about you?
[11:18 PM] anna: no I want to know what you said about me
[11:18 PM] dean: No I am not telling you what I said about you because the things I said are meant to be hurtful at a time where you left me for all those reasons
[11:18 PM] dean: So no I 'm not going to say
[11:18 PM] dean: and I feel liek you're bugging me about it because you heard something from somebody
[11:19 PM] dean: Like I don't understand why you'd want to know something like that
[11:19 PM] dean: If your only reason is "I want to know because I want to know" I'm not telling you beacuse it's pointless and you're just going to get hurt hearing what I said
[11:19 PM] dean: so no
[11:19 PM] anna: I just want to know before I hear what you said from someone else if they bring it up for some reason
[11:19 PM] dean: ??????
[11:19 PM] dean: Why is that a worry now
[11:20 PM] dean: Like you said some shit about me
[11:20 PM] dean: and the whole
[11:20 PM] anna: but I told you everything I've said
[11:20 PM] dean: debacle was told to Treehouse literally in a version that I'm the fucking villain
[11:20 PM] dean: but I don't care anymore
[11:20 PM] anna: It's been on my mind ever since I brought it up last time
[11:21 PM] dean: You heard something from somebody?
[11:21 PM] dean: Central?
[11:21 PM] dean: Nick?
[11:21 PM] anna: no
[11:21 PM] dean: Sen?
[11:21 PM] anna: I want to know before I'd ever hear anything from them
[11:23 PM] dean: No. End of fucking discussion about this.
1.) It is not production.
2.) You will just get hurt hearing it
3.) You told me you want to move past things, so move past it. All this is telling me is you care about what people think of you. Yet you never clarified the whole situation to Treehouse. And it doesn't matter because it's in the past
[11:23 PM] dean: You're literally the one
[11:23 PM] dean: telling me to move past things
[11:23 PM] dean: so we can get better
[11:23 PM] anna: I did clarify
[11:23 PM] dean: But you're digging up
[11:23 PM] anna: to them
[11:23 PM] dean: Okay but regardless
[11:23 PM] dean: You're literally being contradictory right now
[11:23 PM] dean: Like why are you digging this up
[11:23 PM] anna: I want to know because it's eating away at me
[11:23 PM] anna: and then i can
[11:23 PM] anna: move past it
[11:24 PM] dean: You care about what other people think of you?
[11:24 PM] anna: I care about
[11:24 PM] anna: what you said about me
[11:24 PM] dean: IT'S
[11:24 PM] dean: WHEN
[11:24 PM] dean: WE BROKE UP
[11:24 PM] dean: AND YOU
[11:24 PM] anna: yes
[11:24 PM] dean: FUCKED ME OVER
[11:24 PM] dean: WHY
[11:24 PM] dean: WOULD YOU WANT
[11:24 PM] dean: TO HEAR WHAT I AHVE TO SAY
[11:25 PM] anna: but why do you not want to tell me
[11:26 PM] anna: when I'm asking you
[11:26 PM] dean: 1.) It is not productiVE
2.) You will just get hurt hearing it
3.) You told me you want to move past things, so move past it. All this is telling me is you care about what people think of you.. And it doesn't matter because it's in the past
[11:27 PM] anna: I want to move past it, but I'd like to know so I can do that instead of wondering what kinds of things you've said. I will get hurt maybe, I know when and why you said this, but It'd be more hurtful to hear this from someone else. I don't think it's fair you're deciding whether it's productive or not when I'm saying this is important for me.