<Atma> i would take this as a not good sign, personally, i'm going to be blunt but i don;t know how else to word concerns here but did this relationship between them start after a particularly stressful life incident or illness or something and they're using the relationship as a coping mecanism? i was thinking without that itd sound like somoene asking for help/was perhaps suicidal at worst but it's something i'd k
<Atma> eep an eye out on if i were you
<Atma> just in a general their needs kind of thing
<Atma> and if they change for the worse then, ugh, damn this is a hard situation since im against stuff like contacting health or law agencies to get someone need like that given as ive only ever seen it result in harm
<Atma> and medical bills
<Atma> im not saying i dont believe them on this, just the way its being phrased sounds like this is all tied to something else strong
<Atma> its not my business to know specifically what if there was
<Anthy> Well, I do know she's had uh, Bad Stuff happen to here at least yeah
<Atma> just that in general people wind up in pacts like this with stuff like this or in a more physical or secular sense, stuff like gangs when something p bad occurs or out of a dire need
<Anthy> i'll talk w her about this once available again
<Anthy> oh
<Atma> yeah because perhaps working on resolving whatever bad feelings she has about it could loosen this grip
<Atma> it's not an uncommon at all coping mechanism to look to that kind of thing over tragic events or out of desperate need to escape poverty or something and it's not something i tend to hold against people
<Atma> but a co-dependant relationship of any kind, this would fall under that pretty well, it's just not in a way easier to deal with like, i can't sadly go shake them down like i might be able to someone's shady neighbor
<Atma> not in physical form anyways but if they'd like a genuine patron of  asun goddess to like, metaphysically help somehow, i'm here
<Atma> like i said if it's someone or something important to you i can try what i can as a seconday audience