android:background="@drawable/my_background"

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?>
<layer-list xmlns:android="http://schemas.android.com/apk/res/android">
<item>
<shape android:shape="rectangle">
    <solid android:color="#BDBDBD"/>
    <corners android:radius="5dp"/>
</shape>
</item>
<item
android:left="0dp"
android:right="0dp"
android:top="0dp"
android:bottom="2dp">
<shape android:shape="rectangle">
    <solid android:color="#ffffff"/>
    <corners android:radius="5dp"/>
</shape>
</item>
</layer-list>

android:background="@android:drawable/dialog_holo_light_frame"