MERGE (targetTable) AS t
USING (sourceTable) AS s
ON t.ID = s.ID
WHEN MATCHED THEN
  (some statements)
WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN
  (some statements)
OUTPUT
  $action, inserted.ID 'inserted', deleted.ID 'deleted'
;

DECLARE @tableVar TABLE (MergeAction VARCHAR(20), InsertedID INT, DeletedID INT)

MERGE (targetTable) AS t
USING (sourceTable) AS s
ON t.ID = s.ID
WHEN MATCHED THEN
      (some statements)
WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN
      (some statements)
OUTPUT
      $action, inserted.ID 'inserted', deleted.ID 'deleted' INTO @tableVar
;

SELECT MergeAction, COUNT(*)
FROM @tableVar
GROUP BY MergeAction

declare
        @mergeResultsTable table (MergeAction VARCHAR(20));

    declare
        @insertCount int,
        @updateCount int,
        @deleteCount int;

    merge ...
    output $action into @mergeResultsTable;

    select @insertCount = [INSERT],
           @updateCount = [UPDATE],
           @deleteCount = [DELETE]
      from (select 'NOOP' MergeAction -- row for null merge into null
             union all
            select * from @mergeResultsTable) mergeResultsPlusEmptyRow
     pivot (count(MergeAction)
       for MergeAction in ([INSERT],[UPDATE],[DELETE]))
        as mergeResultsPivot;

INSERT YourResultsTable (action, cnt)
SELECT action, count(*)
FROM
(
    MERGE (targetTable) AS t
    USING (sourceTable) AS s
       ON t.ID = s.ID
    WHEN MATCHED THEN      (some statements)
    WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN      (some statements)
    OUTPUT $action as action, inserted.ID as ins, deleted.ID as del
) m
GROUP BY action;

INSERT YourResultsTable (action)
SELECT action
FROM
(
    MERGE (targetTable) AS t
    USING (sourceTable) AS s
       ON t.ID = s.ID
    WHEN MATCHED THEN      (some statements)
    WHEN NOT MATCHED THEN      (some statements)
    OUTPUT $action as action, inserted.ID as ins, deleted.ID as del
) m;