Poet - Yesterday at 5:13 PM
Welcome back. @Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:14 PM
I'm sorry everyone
Oh, Kathy's blocked me now
Fuck her too
"for context, lili was pissed at génesis for taking care of her suicidal friend"(edited)
That's bullshit and she knows it
Poet - Yesterday at 5:16 PM
Calm down, we just got you back.
Take it easy.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:16 PM
She can go fuck herself
kathy [e, em] left the group.Yesterday at 5:16 PM
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:21 PM
Instead of just getting upset at someone, can you try and understand why they felt that way?
Génesis - Yesterday at 5:21 PM
I hate everything
Génesis left the group.Yesterday at 5:21 PM
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea added Génesis to the group.Yesterday at 5:21 PM
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:21 PM
@Génesis please don't leave, I need you
Poet - Yesterday at 5:23 PM
Ashley has a point, Lili.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:24 PM
She obviously didn't like me to begin with if she could even think that's what happened
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:24 PM
Stop making assumptions
And breathe
Your acting in anger rather than rational, empathetic thought
Poet - Yesterday at 5:27 PM
^
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:28 PM
Oh wow she blocked all of my Twitter accounts too
How can I be empathetic towards someone who hates me?
Maxxie☭ - Yesterday at 5:31 PM
I don't think she hates you
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:32 PM
I blocked on discord and all of my Twitter accounts and either she was lying to get more people to hate me or she just already hated me if she thought that's what happened
Poet - Yesterday at 5:33 PM
She's just upset.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:33 PM
Lili
Remember how you said you wanted to fix things?
Lashing out in anger against people who are frustrated with you is not how you do that
That's how you make things worse
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:34 PM
She's the one that started this shit, she should apologize to me
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:34 PM
She didn't start any shit
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:34 PM
What she said was complete bullshit
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:34 PM
Can you try and understand why she felt that way?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:34 PM
No
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:35 PM
Because, in practice, that's kind of what happened.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:35 PM
I'd find it very hard to believe one of my friends would do something like that, she must've already not liked me
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:35 PM
Not taking into account your motivations, what she said is kind of what happened
Why does it fucking matter if she likes you or not?
You're just dodging criticism by saying "they don't like me"
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:36 PM
I thought she was a friend but she fucking betrayed me
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:36 PM
No shit she doesn't like you right now
But that's not on her
Poet - Yesterday at 5:36 PM
Lili, if you're unable to put yourself in other people's shoes then you're going to have trouble socially. You should try to be more open about other people's feelings.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:36 PM
"for context, lili was pissed at génesis for taking care of her suicidal friend"
You think I can just forgive her saying this shit?
Poet - Yesterday at 5:37 PM
Otherwise this is only going to keep escalating until you might end up with nobody, and that is the opposite of what we want.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:37 PM
It's not a matter of forgiveness or anything
You're missing the entire point of what we're saying
Someone is upset at you for a reason and you're refusing to try and see what that reason is
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:38 PM
I don't see how anyone could think that's what someone else did if they didn't already hate them
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:38 PM
Doesn't matter
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:38 PM
Sorry if my wording is bad
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:38 PM
Someone can hate you and still have legit criticism that you need to listen to
How she feels about you is an entirely irrelevant point that you're using to dodge facing your issues
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:41 PM
Explain?
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:42 PM
Kathy: gives criticism
Lili: Kathy hates me
Poet - Yesterday at 5:42 PM
You messed, and instead of listening to people's opinions you blocked them.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:42 PM
She fucking slandered me of course she does
Poet - Yesterday at 5:43 PM
Lili that's not how hating works.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:43 PM
Where is the part where you listened to her criticism and tried to understand how she felt?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:43 PM
I blocked her before because she was being an asshole
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:43 PM
So?
That doesn't make her criticism less valid or existent
You're just dodging criticism
Poet - Yesterday at 5:44 PM
Just because you don't like what she had to say doesn't mean she was trying to be an asshole.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:44 PM
Tell me what good criticism she actually made
Poet - Yesterday at 5:44 PM
Idk I didn't see.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:45 PM
You got upset at Génesis and tried to pull her away from her suicidal friend
Regardless of your motivations
That haopened
Kathy didn't word it nicely
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:45 PM
I didn't try to pull her away, asshole, I just wanted to cut myself off from everyone else
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:45 PM
There you are again
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:45 PM
I honestly didn't expect her to message me, I've told you this
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:46 PM
Ashley: gives criticism
Lili: doesn't listen and calls Ashley an asshole
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:46 PM
Fuck you too
You ignored literally everything else I said
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:46 PM
You're not helping
I didn't
You need to understand that your actions were perceived in a certain way for a reason
And whether I listened to you or not doesn't change you completely deflecting my point
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:47 PM
What reason did everyone have to think I'm such a bad person I would pull someone else away from helping their suicidal friend?
Poet - Yesterday at 5:48 PM
Lili.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:48 PM
Who said you were a bad person?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:48 PM
Only a bad person would do that and that's what everyone thought I did
Poet - Yesterday at 5:48 PM
Did you really just say that Ashley ignores what you said?
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:48 PM
Nobody said you're a bad person
Stop acting like you can read our thoughts
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:49 PM
@Poet she literally only focused on the word "asshole"
Poet - Yesterday at 5:49 PM
Because that is one of your big problems.
Your inability to accept criticism.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:50 PM
@Ashley ?(edited)
Poet - Yesterday at 5:50 PM
Worded nicely or badly, you don't accept it either way.
Ashley - Yesterday at 5:51 PM
I'm gonna stop doing this for a bit because I'm frustrated and need to help Génesis clean
Poet - Yesterday at 5:51 PM
Alright.
@Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea Somehow you manage to translate any criticism thrown at you into "omg they hate me", And you HAVE to stop doing that.(edited)
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:53 PM
Maybe I'll stop if they aren't being an asshole and making completely wrong assumptions that make me look like an awful person
Poet - Yesterday at 5:54 PM
Then instead of throwing a fit you can point out that they're wrong.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:54 PM
I've told her before
But she still went with the completely wrong assumptions that Kathy made and said "that's what happened"
Poet - Yesterday at 5:55 PM
Maybe there's a reason she keeps going there? Have you thought of that?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:55 PM
?
Poet - Yesterday at 5:55 PM
Are we talking about Kathy or Ashley?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:56 PM
Ashley
Poet - Yesterday at 5:56 PM
Because Ashley is trying break through the walls you build up.
I think everyone here is.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:57 PM
?
Poet - Yesterday at 5:57 PM
Youvwrite off any criticism as "asshole comments"
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:58 PM
I don't
Poet - Yesterday at 5:58 PM
You act as if we want to hurt you, but you should know damn well that that's not true.(edited)
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:58 PM
They're saying shit that makes me look like an awful person
Poet - Yesterday at 5:58 PM
Then prove them wrong.
Listen to what they say and use it to improve.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 5:59 PM
I already told her before but then she repeated the shit that didn't happen anyways
Poet - Yesterday at 5:59 PM
I also want to ask you.
What is your honest opinion of what you did?
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 6:00 PM
I hadn't talked to Génesis all day and I knew I couldn't talk to her because she was helping her friend and I didn't want to talk to anyone else so I left groups and blocked other people but then Génesis messaged me by surprise
Poet - Yesterday at 6:01 PM
You couldn't have patience for 1 day?(edited)
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 6:02 PM
How can I spend an entire day without having one conversation with her? How the hell could anyone do that with the person they're dating?
Poet - Yesterday at 6:02 PM
Lili, you need to have patience.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 6:03 PM
I feel awful whenever I'm not with Génesis and over time without speaking to her I just feel worse and worse
Poet - Yesterday at 6:04 PM
But do you know why?(edited)
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 6:05 PM
Idfk
Ashley thinks I could have dependent personality disorder
Poet - Yesterday at 6:06 PM
It could have other roots but I'm not gonna go there, too personal to ask.
Liliana, Bitch of the Black Sea - Yesterday at 6:06 PM
Just DM me