I have a serious question. Is it still a crush if I told the guy I like him and he says no?
7:31 PM
me: what happened?
7:32 PM
Mina: Hm, nothing yet.

me: did you tell him?
7:33 PM
Mina: Not yet, I just don't know what to do. I'm easily frustrated by love.
7:34 PM
me: you can't call it love unless it's mutual

Mina: I feel like telling him but at the same time I don't want to lose our friendship, I guess.
7:36 PM
I when I said love I meant as in the concept behind it.
7:38 PM
me: even so you can't really call it love

you're only attracted to him
7:39 PM
Mina: Hm, I guess.

me: love is mutual

attraction isn't necessarily
7:41 PM
Mina: Okay, being attracted to someone isn't... I really don't know how to describe it.
7:42 PM
It makes me feel vulnerable. It's weird.
7:43 PM
me: i'm just saying though, unless the other person returns the feelings

it's not love
7:44 PM
Mina: I can see what you mean.

7:47 PM
Mina: Could I still have a crush on him when he knows that I like him?

me: yeah

you always have a crush

until it goes away
7:50 PM
Mina: I just don't want it to get awkward after I tell him. I have a feeling it will.