Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:08 AM
Hello
WickertopYesterday at 12:16 AM
Heyhey
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:24 AM
I get my internet back on the 28th
Did you still want to rp
WickertopYesterday at 12:27 AM
Oh nice! If you want to, sure.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:30 AM
Did you want to
I don't want you to rp with me if you don't want to
I've had enough of that in the past
WickertopYesterday at 12:38 AM
Do you want to RP?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:39 AM
Yes
But do you
WickertopYesterday at 12:39 AM
Yes I do, but i want to quash some of the animosity.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:40 AM
What do you mean
WickertopYesterday at 12:41 AM
There's a disconnect I feel between what we want IC and what we want OOC.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:41 AM
Like what?
WickertopYesterday at 12:43 AM
Like going quiet for multiple days in a row, not really seeming all that engaged with me OOC. I RP To make friends and connect with people, not just tell stories, and it feels like we just bicker a lot OOC and only convene in a positive sense when we're talking about RP.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:44 AM
The last time we spoke, you told me goodnight
WickertopYesterday at 12:44 AM
That worries me for the long-term health of our RP because Iron is my main squeeze, but it feels your interest/commitment to building a closeness with me isn't there, so it kind of feels like he's cordoned off for... a bootycall when you aren't on one of your multiple other characters doing other things.
None of which I get to know much about or even hear about as idle chitchat or discussion.
Well yeah.
You were being paranoid and hostile.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:46 AM
That is a very mean thing to say
I was upset about my privacy being invaded
WickertopYesterday at 12:47 AM
Offhanded mention of something in passing isn't an invasion of privacy. It's a slip-up, and you still seem to think otherwise...
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:47 AM
As do you
It can be both is my point
Just because it doesn't bother you doesn't mean that it won't bother me
Words can hurt off handed or not
WickertopYesterday at 12:49 AM
Do you really not see the issue at hand here?
Val was willing to say 'oops I goof'd it, sorry'
you made it so much larger
And you're still arguing
rather than healing and trying to make things better.
Did your entire RP existence implode since the slip-up?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:51 AM
It who she told
WickertopYesterday at 12:51 AM
Did your entire RP existence implode?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:52 AM
It's not my rp existence I'm worried about
WickertopYesterday at 12:52 AM
Did what you worry about come to pass?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:53 AM
Harmony and Becky were my friends for almost 6 years, and they cast me out and talked shit behind my back, even Katie admitted to it
WickertopYesterday at 12:53 AM
Okay, but
Again
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:53 AM
Let me finish
WickertopYesterday at 12:53 AM
you're not seeing what the point of this is.
Sure, go ahead.
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:55 AM
They know where and how to hurt me and while Becky isn't the type to do thing harmony is
Becky tells Harmony everything
I don't want them harassing people I care about
So yes it was a slip up and if Katie had told anyone else I wouldn't have been that upset. But she knows them and was witness to their shit talking about me
WickertopYesterday at 12:59 AM
Can I speak?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 12:59 AM
Yes
WickertopYesterday at 1:00 AM
What is this accomplishing?
Tonberry<3Yesterday at 1:00 AM
I just thought you were my friend