@create Job 852=10
&OPENED_BY Job 852=#14036
&OPENED_ON Job 852=1424690613
&MODIFIED_ON Job 852=1425830768
&STATUS Job 852=1
&TITLE Job 852=thaw
&NUM_COMMENT Job 852=51
&PRIORITY Job 852=2
&COMMENT_1 Job 852=CRE|1424690613|#14036|Tim|because i am stupid and irrational when i am hurt.
&LIST_JOBSN Job 852=#10258|48 #10446|44 #12467|37 #13611|31 #14036|49 #5588|48 #5885|50 #8873|48
&DUE_ON Job 852=1425295413
&LIST_READERS Job 852=#10258|48 #10446|44 #12467|37 #13611|31 #14036|48 #5588|48 #5885|49 #8873|48
&LIST_STATS Job 852=ADD|40 APR|1 MAI|8
&COMMENT_2 Job 852=ADD|1424704495|#8873|HoneyBadger|I am cold and calculating when I am hurt. She is stupid and irrational, but also highly manipulative, whether she means it or not. Her coming back means the death of another PC. Mine. Because there's really no way for me to just stop playing with her and after what happened last night, even if she begs and pleads, it just ain't happening. So, that said, I'm fine with it, but if she is reapproved, I would like to request a large XP transfer for Bryan since I can't play him.
&MODIFIED_BY Job 852=#5885
&COMMENT_3 Job 852=ADD|1424704834|#8873|HoneyBadger|Also... this might seem a little petty.. but the scene for the Kinfolk hasn't been done yet. It might be on her sheet, but it hasn't been done. I'd like that removed as well. She can figure things out on her own.
@wait 0={&COMMENT_4 Job 852=MAI|1424712089|#5885|WhoopingCrane|%xhMail sent to Tim:%xn%r%r1%) Remember how I said I can only cut you so much slack? I can only cut you so much slack. I don't want you to be hurt, but I don't want other players to be hurt when you lash out way out of proportion, either. For a long time, this was better %(I figured you finally found some meds that worked or whatever%), but lately there was Justine, Chris, Asher and then HB %(I don't count Cory because he flipped out and you didn't%). Is there anything that can be done to make this stop happening?%r%r2%) HB doesn't want to be caught up in this any more, to the point that she intends to kill Bryan off if Tim returns. I'm also told that Tim's kinfolk-ness should be retconned, as the rite was rolled out OOCly but not yet RPed out ICly. Under these circumstances, do you still want to bring Tim back?}
@set Job 852/COMMENT_4 = no_inherit
@wait 0={&COMMENT_5 Job 852=ADD|1424712304|#14036|Tim|Cory? I never rp'd with him. Was just told to /stay away from him/ and pre-emptively CoR him because: jerkface. Justine and I apologized. Chris was a 'no touchy' from a while ago that was reaffirmed. Asher? SAME THING. We had a mutual 'do not want' agreement after he went douchy on me when I moved Tim on without Colt. %r%rYeah I freaked. You know why? Cause he was going to /take hb's rp away from me/ by driving me out at any chance he got. HB can do whatever she wants, I guess. Yeah, I fflipped out. Cause he is going to ruin it all.}
@wait 0={&COMMENT_6 Job 852=MAI|1424712574|#8873|HoneyBadger|%xhMail sent to Tim:%xn%r%rHe wasn't going to ruin it. You might think he's the biggest douche on the planet, but he isn't. First, he isn't a troll. Second, he has more respect for ME than that. Even if he did hate you as much as you seem to think, he wouldn't do that because that would upset ME. When have I ever, EVER chosen someone else's RP over yours? Never, so far as I can tell. Chris was part of the PrP that you were in. I asked him to back out and I would break it off into another chain. And I sure as fuck don't have a preference about Chris one way or another. So this is you jumping to conclusions, once again. YOU ruined your RP, sweetheart. Not me. Not Asher. You ruined YOUR Rp.. and you ruined MY rp. Again.}
@set Job 852/COMMENT_6 = no_inherit
&COMMENT_7 Job 852=ADD|1424712780|#14036|Tim|He pagelocked me. unlocked. antogonized me. Locked me. Said he would rp with you NO MATTER WHAT, and I couldn't stop him. You know what that means? That to GET AWAY FROM HIM... I can't have ANYTHING to do with YOU. Because he'll just fucking shoulder his way into rp, no matter what. Because he can. Just to make a fucking point.
&COMMENT_8 Job 852=ADD|1424712996|#14036|Tim|And since he's your rl lover, guess what? I get screwed out of /all/ the fucking story I have for Tim. So yeah, I am and was pissed as hell. Because I /LOSE/. I LOSE fucking -everything- to a douchebag. AGAIN. Just like with fucking Zoe.
@wait 0={&COMMENT_9 Job 852=MAI|1424713173|#8873|HoneyBadger|%xhMail sent to Tim:%xn%r%rNo. That isn't what he said. He said that you couldn't stop him from RPing with me. That does NOT mean 'I will push my way into every scene that she's in. That was YOUR interpretation. And he actually took COLT out so that he wouldn't have to deal with drama. He brought Asher in because he wanted to RP. I'm not going to argue this anymore. I'm sorry that you feel that you need to go to such extremes, that the world is so against you. I was on your side. I really was. Maybe not on this specific subject, since it came out of NOWHERE.. but I am sitting RIGHT HERE BESIDE Asher player and I can tell you that that isn't at ALL what he meant. You made your bed here. You made your choices. And you turned on me. I might have very well been the only one in your corner still. My issue isn't about Asher. He's a big boy. He can fight his own battles. YOU turned on ME. I don't have an opinion either way on whether you're allowed to have Tim back. I don't care. I can honestly say that I have zero interest in whether you're allowed to return or not. If you come back, I'll kill Bryan because nothing else would make sense. If you aren't allowed to bring her back, then I'm sure some sort of story can be made up as to why she isn't here. I'm fine either way. Anyway. I'm done with the conversation. Have fun. Have a good life. I'm sorry to lose you as a friend as well as a RP partner}
@set Job 852/COMMENT_9 = no_inherit
&COMMENT_10 Job 852=ADD|1424713282|#14036|Tim|Your missing it. I don't have a /choice/. If i want away from HIM, I can't be around you. His alts are all unfindable. So are yours. Guess who can't go on grid anymore without worrying about stumbling across that shit? Me. Guess who gets to lose out on everything - including my best friend! He took that away. He /took that/. And you don't even see it.
&COMMENT_11 Job 852=ADD|1424713298|#14036|Tim|I don't have a -choice-. You don't understand
&COMMENT_12 Job 852=ADD|1424713435|#14036|Tim|You think I /WANT/ to ditch bryan and my best fucking friend? You think I -want- that?
&COMMENT_13 Job 852=ADD|1424713486|#8873|HoneyBadger|Did you ask that maybe his alts be put findable? It's the default for both of us, but neither of us have any objections to being !unfindable. YOU took it away. YOU shit all over your friend. You said some really nasty things TO ME. TO ME. You didn't say those things to Asher. You attacked ME. You TOLD ME what I was GOING TO DO. You told me that I would choose him over you. That.. just isn't true. There was no choice to make. Asher doesn't play with Bryan. They've MET. There's no reason for them to RP together.
&COMMENT_14 Job 852=ADD|1424713554|#14036|Tim|But what the hell else am I supposed to do?
&COMMENT_15 Job 852=ADD|1424713742|#14036|Tim|And I'm glad he gets to read all of this. That's so comforting -_- And I'm glad he is sitting RIGHT THERE to explain it to you, cause he sure as shit came across like a fucking bully about to run me out of shit.
&COMMENT_16 Job 852=ADD|1424714010|#14036|Tim|ESPECIALLY with the stupid lock/unlock/taunt/lock bullshit he pulled.
@wait 0={&COMMENT_17 Job 852=ADD|1424716483|#12467|RaccoonDog|%r%r%tWhile I have only had positive *IC* experiences personally with this character, I have observed quite a bit more than that and my opinion is as follows: %r%r%tThis player should not be allowed to unfreeze. This is not isolated, it is a pattern. If Asher-s player blocked her when she was paging him and un-blocked her to give her the fair warning of 'Asher pages: You will not keep me from RP. I like to play with Typhanie and there were other people in that scene that liked to play with me as well. If you do not like ICC for ICA then that is your beef. I'm going to pageblock you now though because frankly I want nothing to do with you anymore. Goodbye."' then it was obviously because, if you look at the patter IN THIS JOB the player fires off rapid-fire rants in 2-4 minute intervals with the obvious intent of trying to get a response that favors her rather than accepting what has been said like a mature adult.%r%t I remember personally observing a similar pattern, some of it on channels as I recall, about Eugene, and Eugene dropping off the channel when an IC relationship went poorly with him. I was there on an alt when Eugene decided to date someone besides Tim ICly which led to her making statements about her being something along the lines of a sex toy and nothing more, and being sick of it, making statements that sounded like she took it very personal oocly. I know she has a history of similar behavior with other player-Characters in IC relationships.%r%tIt is my opinion that RP, especially relationship RP, is something that she takes into OOC and cannot help but to allow to blur the line between OOC and IC. If she stays here, this cycle will just repeat with another player, with more drama. She turned in Freeze notices on current PCs tantamount to retirement from the game. That original request should be the one honored not this secondary attempt to come back and repeat her cycle once again.%r%tIf this %(dissenting opinion%) needs to be published or mailed as a dissenting opinion that is fine, I have no problem with it being known. However, given the player's obvious volatility I thought it best for staff eyes only first. Above statements, Q.E.D.%r%r}
@wait 0={&COMMENT_18 Job 852=MAI|1424721409|#5885|WhoopingCrane|%xhMail sent to Tim:%xn%r%rThis job is itself a classic example of why you're staying in the freezer. You're irrationally paranoid %(interpreting things the worst possible way%) and you immediately act on it %(lashing out at the other player quickly, viciously, and incoherently%). There were like /nine/ other cases that I'd forgotten about. And while the other players have indeed been various levels of inappropriate, or at least undiplomatic? The only one with a history as problematic as yours was Amy Kerry.%r%rIf and only if you reliably fix either of these two points, then you can come back. This is not "oh it's all in your head", I fully understand that fixing this is probably hugely difficult for legitimate reasons, however I cannot just let you continue to wander around the game being a potential powderkeg because these things are unfixed. I sincerely hope that you get whatever RL help you need. Unfortunately, our ability to help is limited to offering advice and/or a venting target %(both in moderation, especially the latter%).}
@set Job 852/COMMENT_18 = no_inherit