[23:38] <Premislyd> So yeah, I'll apologize for my post in your thread (which, honestly given it being religious based you should've expected it) even though it was purely IC
[23:38] <Premislyd> But I don't recall "undermining your authority" so I'll pass on that
[23:39] <New_Edom> Sure you do Prem, you keep making digs about me wanting 'my way or the highway' which is untrue and accusatory. I'd like you to stop doing it.
[23:39] <New_Edom> And the religious stuff didn't offend me.
[23:42] <Premislyd> So you want blind loyalty, okay
[23:42] <Premislyd> And according to Cornellia, it did
[23:43] <New_Edom> I don't want blind loyalty. Would you like to know what I'd like?
[23:43] <Premislyd> No, I enjoy guessing
[23:44] <Premislyd> You understand the problem is conflicting personallities, right
[23:44] <New_Edom> explain
[23:45] <Premislyd> You seem like a person that enjoys structure, rules, orders, etc.
[23:45] <Premislyd> I don't like being told what to do
[23:45] <Premislyd> Therefore conflicting personalities
[23:46] <New_Edom> I do like that.
[23:48] <Premislyd> Exactly
[23:48] <Premislyd> I don't like that
[23:49] <New_Edom> Well, what I'd like then is this: either we compromise in some way or you accept leaving the region with no hard feelings.
[23:49] <Premislyd> lol
[23:49] <New_Edom> So what would you find an acceptable compromise?
[23:49] <Premislyd> Don't try to pull the same thing you pulled on Oss, hun
[23:49] <Premislyd> It's not going to work
[23:49] <New_Edom> Okay then you'll have to leave.
[23:49] <Premislyd> And if I refuse?
[23:50] <New_Edom> then I'll ban you from this channel and the region, Prem.
[23:50] <Premislyd> Seems rather drastic over such a simple thing
[23:50] <Premislyd> You nede to learn to not take things so personal
[23:50] <Premislyd> need*
[23:50] <Premislyd> Relax a little
[23:51] <Premislyd> Have fun
[23:51] <New_Edom> I am relaxed.
[23:51] <New_Edom> However you're clearly not interested in cooperating with me.
[23:51] <Premislyd> Because I've seen how you act when you don't get your way
[23:51] <New_Edom> Then why would you even want to be around? I have no time for people who've already judgeed me and won't cooperate. Make a choice and make it now.
[23:53] <Premislyd> Do you really want to know why?
[23:53] <New_Edom> Go ahead.
[23:54] <Premislyd> Because, unlike the majority of Pardes2 who can't stand you and Rie, I still quite enjoy hanging around
[23:55] <New_Edom> Well, you can do that without sniping at my very reasonable authority. So you still need to make a choice.
[23:55] <Premislyd> See, that's where we have a problem
[23:56] <Premislyd> You seem to think that since you're the founder that everybody needs to follow you without asking any questions
[23:56] <Premislyd> As founder do you have some weight as leader? Yes
[23:56] <New_Edom> What exactly do I ask of people?
[23:56] <Premislyd> But not as much as you think
[23:56] <New_Edom> Actually Prem, I can throw you out of the region, ban you, take you out of the IRC chat.
[23:57] <Premislyd> Which, to be frank, would be rather dickish to do over a little thing like this
[23:57] <Premislyd> You really need to stop taking things so personally
[23:57] <New_Edom> What exactly do I ask of you as regional founder?
[23:57] <New_Edom> Like what onerous tasks do I ask of you?
[23:57] <Premislyd> None yet
[23:58] <Premislyd> But you have this superior, arrogant attitude
[23:58] <New_Edom> So basically you're calling me a tyrant for--asking nothing of you.
[23:59] <New_Edom> Basically Prem, what I do is arbitrate, mostly. I have yet to simply force people to accept decisions they didn't want as a group. I constantly seek consensus.
[23:59] <Premislyd> But even then
[23:59] <New_Edom> Even then what?
[23:59] <Premislyd> You rant and essentially throw a temper tanrum when your way isn't chosen
[23:59] <Premislyd> tantrum*
[23:59] <New_Edom> hey if you don't like hanging out with me, then don't.
[23:59] <Premislyd> Now Idk if it's from the stress of  your grandmother
[00:00] <Premislyd> Or something else
[00:00] <Premislyd> But you've changed a /lot/ since Xanadou bro
[00:00] <New_Edom> I don't believe I have been ranting at all in Cornellia. My intent is to have a region that works, and is worth the time spent on it.
[00:01] <Premislyd> And that works by having /everybody/ contribute instead of you "arbitrating"
[00:01] <New_Edom> what do you think arbitration is?
[00:01] <New_Edom> arbitration is where everyone has their say, and one person contributes by helping them reach consensus. That is what I am doing.
[00:02] <Premislyd> Yes, but by forcing your own way as opposed to one chosen by the group
[00:02] <New_Edom> I in fact constantly encourage everyone to contribute to decision making.
[00:02] <New_Edom> You know what--if you have this terrible opinion of me nothing I say will make the slightest difference.
[00:02] <Premislyd> Yes, but tbh, it doesn't even faintly seem like you pay any attention to them
[00:02] <New_Edom> why don't we have a poll?
[00:02] <New_Edom> See how everyone else feels about it?
[00:03] <New_Edom> Because to be honest, it seems like you're just stirring up trouble.
[00:03] <Premislyd> You said the same thing about Oss
[00:03] <New_Edom> Why don't we ask the others in the channel right now?
[00:03] <New_Edom> And frankly I feel that he was, whether that was his intention or not.
[00:03] <Premislyd> See
[00:03] <Premislyd> You need to get out of that attitude
[00:03] <New_Edom> Let's have this out in the channel.
[00:04] <Premislyd> Why?
[00:04] <Premislyd> This doesn't involve any of the other people?
[00:04] <New_Edom> Because you say that it is what I generally do.
[00:04] <New_Edom> That it affects other people. You are attacking my reputation.
[00:04] <New_Edom> I will not tolerate it.
[00:04] <Premislyd> lrn2read pl0x
[00:05] <Premislyd> I never said anything about your reputation
[00:05] <New_Edom> Channel time.
[00:05] <Premislyd> You're making accusations