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| 1 | - | Deep Relationships. Notes on the ?????? |
| 1 | + | Deep Relationships. Notes on the article |
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| 3 | Secrets to deep relationships: | |
| 4 | -> asking deep questions | |
| 5 | -> talking about deep relationships | |
| 6 | with the person. | |
| 7 | -> going camping with the person. | |
| 8 | -> make the person a part of your | |
| 9 | life (this may not work, though think about | |
| 10 | it, we live with a mom and dad for many | |
| 11 | many years, or we may not know anything deep | |
| 12 | about them - might want to ask that person | |
| 13 | a deep question to get things going) | |
| 14 | -> make up something deep about the | |
| 15 | person and then ask "is this true?" | |
| 16 | ("i heard you have a whole other
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| 17 | side to you that is very interesting | |
| 18 | and i want to ask if this is true") | |
| 19 | -> avoid using pseudonyms, use your | |
| 20 | proper first and last name and avoid | |
| 21 | other kinds of lying. (although you might | |
| 22 | want to prepare a short | |
| 23 | pseudonym that's just for deep relationships - | |
| 24 | these special names are code for "i know you | |
| 25 | deeper" and don't take pictures of yourself | |
| 26 | with the person because pictures make the relation | |
| 27 | ship not as deep - unless its a very old picture) | |
| 28 | -> touch the person on the arm just once and | |
| 29 | no more | |
| 30 | -> promise to meet the person one hour from | |
| 31 | now in the same spot (secret rendezvous technique, | |
| 32 | good for when you're pressed | |
| 33 | for time and need a deep relationship.) | |
| 34 | -> joke and laugh - these seemingly light things | |
| 35 | are surprisingly deep |