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- Is that still us?
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- No, you know why?
- 3
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- Surprise me.
- 4
- 00:00:37,787 --> 00:00:39,205
- Because my wife is even
- more beautiful than she
- 5
- 00:00:39,206 --> 00:00:40,606
- was the day I met her.
- 6
- 00:00:50,351 --> 00:00:52,685
- And you are still crazy.
- 7
- 00:00:54,155 --> 00:00:56,555
- Maybe, but that doesn't
- mean I'm not right.
- 8
- 00:01:07,101 --> 00:01:08,667
- You ready to see the world?
- 9
- 00:01:10,237 --> 00:01:12,371
- I thought I was looking at it.
- 10
- 00:01:17,178 --> 00:01:19,178
- I had a miracle
- happen to me once.
- 11
- 00:01:20,247 --> 00:01:22,448
- I think everyone
- gets to have one,
- 12
- 00:01:23,818 --> 00:01:26,251
- and I wouldn't trade
- mine for anything.
- 13
- 00:01:29,657 --> 00:01:31,690
- Sure you want to do this?
- 14
- 00:01:32,526 --> 00:01:34,394
- Plenty of other ways to
- spend our retirement.
- 15
- 00:01:34,395 --> 00:01:36,629
- No, of course I'm sure.
- 16
- 00:01:36,630 --> 00:01:40,165
- I mean, it's not practical.
- We have no plan.
- 17
- 00:01:40,434 --> 00:01:42,534
- I don't even know
- where I'm going.
- 18
- 00:01:43,137 --> 00:01:44,703
- That's not us.
- 19
- 00:01:44,839 --> 00:01:48,108
- Well, we can just have fun.
- 20
- 00:01:48,109 --> 00:01:49,442
- Remember fun?
- 21
- 00:01:49,443 --> 00:01:50,776
- I might.
- 22
- 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,346
- What do you want to do?
- 23
- 00:01:55,850 --> 00:01:57,750
- I don't know.
- 24
- 00:01:57,751 --> 00:01:59,551
- I guess we could
- do whatever we want.
- 25
- 00:04:23,631 --> 00:04:24,863
- Hi.
- 26
- 00:04:26,367 --> 00:04:27,467
- You're new here?
- 27
- 00:04:27,468 --> 00:04:29,369
- I'm new here too.
- 28
- 00:04:29,370 --> 00:04:30,769
- Do you want potatoes?
- 29
- 00:04:31,705 --> 00:04:33,772
- Yes yes.
- I definitely want potatoes.
- 30
- 00:04:34,975 --> 00:04:36,743
- You should keep moving.
- 31
- 00:04:36,744 --> 00:04:38,977
- Hey, move it along.
- 32
- 00:04:39,713 --> 00:04:42,381
- You wanna hear
- the story or what, Steve?
- 33
- 00:04:44,318 --> 00:04:46,551
- I'll-I'll see you tomorrow.
- 34
- 00:04:49,423 --> 00:04:51,423
- Why were
- you so mean to him?
- 35
- 00:05:08,075 --> 00:05:09,541
- Hey.
- 36
- 00:05:10,077 --> 00:05:11,343
- Hi.
- 37
- 00:05:11,779 --> 00:05:13,712
- How was your shift today?
- 38
- 00:05:14,415 --> 00:05:15,580
- It was fine.
- 39
- 00:05:15,916 --> 00:05:16,983
- Fine.
- 40
- 00:05:17,918 --> 00:05:19,719
- Is that the age we're at now?
- 41
- 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,486
- It's just a regular day.
- 42
- 00:05:22,323 --> 00:05:23,856
- Hungry people.
- 43
- 00:05:23,857 --> 00:05:24,956
- Food.
- 44
- 00:05:25,693 --> 00:05:27,426
- Just a job.
- 45
- 00:05:27,928 --> 00:05:29,961
- Well, if you're doing it,
- I want to hear about it.
- 46
- 00:05:30,998 --> 00:05:32,965
- I serve potatoes.
- 47
- 00:05:32,966 --> 00:05:34,767
- Hours of potatoes.
- 48
- 00:05:34,768 --> 00:05:36,501
- It's crushingly boring.
- 49
- 00:05:37,004 --> 00:05:38,538
- Still happy you asked?
- 50
- 00:05:38,539 --> 00:05:40,906
- Absolutely.
- How they treat you over there?
- 51
- 00:05:41,809 --> 00:05:42,941
- Fine.
- 52
- 00:05:44,478 --> 00:05:46,345
- Just been a couple months.
- 53
- 00:05:47,748 --> 00:05:50,782
- Any of the GIs getting
- too friendly with you?
- 54
- 00:05:51,452 --> 00:05:53,353
- Nothing I can't handle.
- 55
- 00:05:53,354 --> 00:05:54,854
- Oh, so they are?
- 56
- 00:05:54,855 --> 00:05:56,922
- You know how I feel
- about you dating.
- 57
- 00:05:57,758 --> 00:05:59,459
- Who said I'm dating anyone?
- 58
- 00:05:59,460 --> 00:06:00,592
- Really?
- 59
- 00:06:01,061 --> 00:06:02,494
- Really.
- 60
- 00:06:02,763 --> 00:06:05,831
- Or are you just too
- shy to tell me about it?
- 61
- 00:06:06,066 --> 00:06:07,532
- Really.
- 62
- 00:06:09,636 --> 00:06:10,970
- Look.
- 63
- 00:06:10,971 --> 00:06:13,773
- You're beautiful, and I know
- that you're gonna date.
- 64
- 00:06:13,774 --> 00:06:16,708
- I'm totally,
- totally fine with it.
- 65
- 00:06:19,113 --> 00:06:22,615
- All I'm asking is that
- you don't date GIs.
- 66
- 00:06:22,616 --> 00:06:23,383
- That's all.
- 67
- 00:06:23,384 --> 00:06:24,549
- Who said I am?
- 68
- 00:06:25,386 --> 00:06:26,753
- Are you?
- 69
- 00:06:26,754 --> 00:06:27,920
- No.
- 70
- 00:06:27,921 --> 00:06:29,121
- Great.
- 71
- 00:06:29,723 --> 00:06:32,024
- Mom dated you didn't she?
- 72
- 00:06:32,025 --> 00:06:34,960
- Look, sweetie, I'm only saying
- this because I care about you.
- 73
- 00:06:35,963 --> 00:06:40,900
- All those GIs I trained at
- Lachland, spending so much time
- 74
- 00:06:40,901 --> 00:06:43,669
- with other young men or
- getting yelled at by me,
- 75
- 00:06:43,670 --> 00:06:46,738
- months without even seeing a
- woman, it's got to change him.
- 76
- 00:06:47,641 --> 00:06:49,709
- They forget about their
- mothers and their sisters.
- 77
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- They forget how
- to treat a woman.
- 78
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- They're never gonna commit.
- 79
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- They don't know how to handle a
- relationship, and I know that
- 80
- 00:06:57,050 --> 00:06:59,951
- sounds harsh, but this is
- exactly why I have to tell you.
- 81
- 00:07:03,123 --> 00:07:05,924
- I don't want anyone
- hurting my little girl.
- 82
- 00:07:07,928 --> 00:07:09,494
- You understand?
- 83
- 00:07:10,798 --> 00:07:11,930
- Okay.
- 84
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- You promise?
- 85
- 00:07:14,568 --> 00:07:15,701
- Promise.
- 86
- 00:07:15,702 --> 00:07:17,437
- Promise me what.
- 87
- 00:07:17,438 --> 00:07:20,038
- Promise I won't date
- anyone in the military.
- 88
- 00:07:23,043 --> 00:07:24,476
- Thank you.
- 89
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- Go on.
- 90
- 00:07:41,094 --> 00:07:42,995
- Thank you for
- bringing me these.
- 91
- 00:07:42,996 --> 00:07:43,996
- You're welcome.
- 92
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- Other than your sprained
- shoulder, you're alright.
- 93
- 00:07:50,571 --> 00:07:53,639
- You're very very fortunate,
- this conversation could easily
- 94
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- have not been happening.
- 95
- 00:07:55,642 --> 00:07:56,742
- You're very lucky.
- 96
- 00:07:56,743 --> 00:07:58,144
- When can I
- see my husband?
- 97
- 00:07:58,145 --> 00:07:59,745
- Your husband's still in surgery.
- 98
- 00:07:59,746 --> 00:08:01,147
- Surgery.
- 99
- 00:08:01,148 --> 00:08:02,848
- Is he gonna be okay?
- 100
- 00:08:04,651 --> 00:08:06,918
- He has a complete
- spinal cord injury.
- 101
- 00:08:12,793 --> 00:08:14,125
- What does that mean?
- 102
- 00:08:14,995 --> 00:08:16,095
- Is-
- 103
- 00:08:16,096 --> 00:08:17,530
- Is he paralyzed?
- 104
- 00:08:17,531 --> 00:08:18,964
- Yes.
- 105
- 00:08:21,568 --> 00:08:23,168
- But we'll know
- more after surgery.
- 106
- 00:08:27,975 --> 00:08:29,876
- Do you have any family
- you want me to contact?
- 107
- 00:08:32,613 --> 00:08:34,714
- My daughters.
- 108
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- I can do that.
- 109
- 00:08:35,916 --> 00:08:37,516
- Okay.
- 110
- 00:08:51,098 --> 00:08:52,998
- I'm in the
- reception room.
- 111
- 00:08:55,068 --> 00:08:56,835
- Jan Hurst.
- 112
- 00:09:00,140 --> 00:09:01,774
- Okay. I found her.
- 113
- 00:09:01,775 --> 00:09:03,041
- I'll call you back.
- 114
- 00:09:03,744 --> 00:09:04,910
- Mom.
- 115
- 00:09:06,914 --> 00:09:08,246
- Oohh!
- 116
- 00:09:10,150 --> 00:09:11,917
- Are you alright?
- 117
- 00:09:12,853 --> 00:09:14,286
- I'm fine.
- 118
- 00:09:33,006 --> 00:09:34,940
- What's going on with dad?
- 119
- 00:09:35,976 --> 00:09:37,576
- It's not good.
- 120
- 00:09:40,347 --> 00:09:42,247
- Is he alive?
- 121
- 00:09:42,883 --> 00:09:44,683
- Yeah.
- 122
- 00:09:45,586 --> 00:09:47,586
- But he's in really bad shape.
- 123
- 00:09:48,989 --> 00:09:51,323
- They're gonna tell me more
- after he gets out of surgery.
- 124
- 00:09:52,092 --> 00:09:53,358
- Okay.
- 125
- 00:09:55,195 --> 00:09:56,796
- Pray with me.
- 126
- 00:09:56,797 --> 00:09:58,630
- Of course.
- 127
- 00:10:02,069 --> 00:10:03,301
- Lord.
- 128
- 00:10:04,805 --> 00:10:09,674
- We beg you please place your
- healing hands on Steve,
- 129
- 00:10:11,211 --> 00:10:13,345
- and keep him here with us.
- 130
- 00:10:15,849 --> 00:10:19,085
- We beg you guide the doctors
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- 00:10:19,086 --> 00:10:23,288
- that they may best care
- for him and restore him.
- 132
- 00:10:25,258 --> 00:10:28,260
- Father Jesus we ask that you
- would be able to release our
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- 00:10:28,261 --> 00:10:34,166
- father into your hands and
- that you would drive out all
- 134
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- injury out of his body.
- 135
- 00:10:36,403 --> 00:10:40,071
- Lord, that you would send
- your word to heal him.
- 136
- 00:10:42,676 --> 00:10:44,909
- We ask this in your name Jesus.
- 137
- 00:10:46,013 --> 00:10:47,647
- Amen.
- 138
- 00:10:47,648 --> 00:10:48,913
- Amen.
- 139
- 00:10:54,855 --> 00:10:56,187
- Hey mom.
- 140
- 00:11:01,094 --> 00:11:03,929
- Hey I...
- I talked to the EMTs.
- 141
- 00:11:03,930 --> 00:11:06,298
- You were extremely lucky.
- 142
- 00:11:06,299 --> 00:11:08,667
- You know that.
- It could've been much worse.
- 143
- 00:11:09,770 --> 00:11:11,703
- That's not luck, sweetheart.
- That's God.
- 144
- 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,240
- Okay.
- 145
- 00:11:14,241 --> 00:11:17,910
- Did they happen to give you
- the name of dad's surgeon.
- 146
- 00:11:17,911 --> 00:11:21,914
- Oh you know I-with everything,
- and it happened so fast,
- 147
- 00:11:21,915 --> 00:11:24,417
- I don't think I got that.
- 148
- 00:11:24,418 --> 00:11:26,018
- You know, they just
- rushed him into surgery.
- 149
- 00:11:26,019 --> 00:11:28,219
- It's fine, It's fine.
- I can find out.
- 150
- 00:11:29,322 --> 00:11:32,825
- Did they give you any
- like, discharge papers.
- 151
- 00:11:32,826 --> 00:11:34,060
- Or did they give
- you any paperwork?
- 152
- 00:11:34,061 --> 00:11:34,460
- Mh-mm.
- 153
- 00:11:34,461 --> 00:11:35,827
- Okay.
- 154
- 00:11:38,065 --> 00:11:38,998
- Yep.
- 155
- 00:11:38,999 --> 00:11:40,699
- Good.
- That's what I need.
- 156
- 00:11:41,802 --> 00:11:43,202
- Okay.
- 157
- 00:11:43,203 --> 00:11:44,403
- Right, I'm gonna go make
- sure they take care of dad.
- 158
- 00:11:44,404 --> 00:11:45,771
- Hang on.
- 159
- 00:11:45,772 --> 00:11:48,874
- Sweetie.
- This isn't your hospital.
- 160
- 00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,309
- I'm sure the doctors
- know what they're doing.
- 161
- 00:11:50,310 --> 00:11:53,779
- Mom, the problem is that
- because I work in a hospital,
- 162
- 00:11:53,780 --> 00:11:57,183
- unfortunately I know that some
- doctors don't know what they're
- 163
- 00:11:57,184 --> 00:11:59,885
- doing, so I'm just
- gonna go talk to them.
- 164
- 00:11:59,886 --> 00:12:01,954
- That's all, just get
- some information.
- 165
- 00:12:01,955 --> 00:12:04,924
- I will be nice and I
- will be right back.
- 166
- 00:12:04,925 --> 00:12:06,157
- It's okay.
- 167
- 00:12:13,100 --> 00:12:15,300
- I just want to see dad.
- 168
- 00:12:16,970 --> 00:12:18,870
- Me too, sweetheart.
- 169
- 00:12:33,887 --> 00:12:35,221
- Hi.
- 170
- 00:12:35,222 --> 00:12:36,222
- Corn?
- 171
- 00:12:38,058 --> 00:12:39,258
- I like your hair.
- 172
- 00:12:39,259 --> 00:12:40,960
- Very funny.
- 173
- 00:12:40,961 --> 00:12:43,128
- I can just tell
- you have nice hair.
- 174
- 00:12:44,931 --> 00:12:46,932
- Move on up, man.
- 175
- 00:12:46,933 --> 00:12:47,999
- She's not buying it.
- 176
- 00:12:49,336 --> 00:12:50,970
- I don't date GIs.
- 177
- 00:12:50,971 --> 00:12:51,837
- Yet.
- 178
- 00:12:51,838 --> 00:12:52,471
- Ever.
- 179
- 00:12:52,472 --> 00:12:53,305
- Until.
- 180
- 00:12:53,306 --> 00:12:54,240
- It's not gonna happen.
- 181
- 00:12:54,241 --> 00:12:55,841
- You say that now.
- 182
- 00:12:55,842 --> 00:12:58,276
- Do you want the corn or not.
- 183
- 00:12:59,412 --> 00:13:00,513
- Yes.
- 184
- 00:13:00,514 --> 00:13:02,080
- Yes I do.
- 185
- 00:13:09,523 --> 00:13:11,157
- What?
- 186
- 00:13:11,158 --> 00:13:13,525
- Oh, he wants a hair net.
- 187
- 00:13:23,570 --> 00:13:25,203
- We're breaking for lunch.
- 188
- 00:13:27,474 --> 00:13:30,141
- So I'm going out with
- that guy Robbie on Friday.
- 189
- 00:13:30,377 --> 00:13:32,011
- The tall one?
- The air man?
- 190
- 00:13:32,012 --> 00:13:33,278
- Yes.
- 191
- 00:13:33,580 --> 00:13:35,514
- Speaking of airmen.
- 192
- 00:13:35,515 --> 00:13:37,249
- Don't start with that.
- 193
- 00:13:37,250 --> 00:13:39,185
- He's so cute,
- and Robbie knows him.
- 194
- 00:13:39,186 --> 00:13:40,853
- He says he's a good guy.
- 195
- 00:13:40,854 --> 00:13:42,988
- Seriously, what's your problem.
- 196
- 00:13:42,989 --> 00:13:44,857
- My father won't approve.
- 197
- 00:13:44,858 --> 00:13:46,926
- I'm not asking
- you to marry him.
- 198
- 00:13:46,927 --> 00:13:48,393
- Do you think he's cute.
- 199
- 00:13:49,129 --> 00:13:50,429
- I think he's trouble.
- 200
- 00:13:50,430 --> 00:13:51,597
- Yes or no.
- 201
- 00:13:51,598 --> 00:13:57,236
- Some people might say he's
- handsome in the right light
- 202
- 00:13:57,237 --> 00:13:58,838
- when he's in uniform.
- 203
- 00:13:58,839 --> 00:14:00,206
- So you do
- think he's cute.
- 204
- 00:14:00,207 --> 00:14:03,909
- Okay, fine yes, I think
- he's somewhat cute, Okay?
- 205
- 00:14:03,910 --> 00:14:05,945
- So then your father
- doesn't have to know.
- 206
- 00:14:05,946 --> 00:14:07,179
- You don't get it.
- 207
- 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:08,948
- He said if he
- catches me dating a GI,
- 208
- 00:14:08,949 --> 00:14:11,150
- he'll send me to live
- with my grandma in Nebraska.
- 209
- 00:14:11,151 --> 00:14:13,918
- Well, do you want
- to go to Nebraska?
- 210
- 00:14:14,354 --> 00:14:15,621
- No.
- 211
- 00:14:15,622 --> 00:14:18,023
- Then I guess we'll
- have to keep it a secret.
- 212
- 00:14:18,024 --> 00:14:20,458
- I guess I can
- always meet another boy.
- 213
- 00:14:23,430 --> 00:14:25,230
- Hey, I found your doctor.
- 214
- 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,066
- And?
- 215
- 00:14:29,135 --> 00:14:32,438
- And, dad's still in surgery.
- 216
- 00:14:32,439 --> 00:14:34,106
- Still.
- 217
- 00:14:34,107 --> 00:14:36,008
- Is that a bad thing?
- 218
- 00:14:36,009 --> 00:14:38,042
- It's not a good thing.
- 219
- 00:14:51,524 --> 00:14:53,391
- I heard you wanted
- to go out with me.
- 220
- 00:14:59,266 --> 00:15:01,133
- Oh look at that.
- 221
- 00:15:01,134 --> 00:15:03,268
- We need more baked beans.
- 222
- 00:15:07,641 --> 00:15:09,073
- I really
- like your hair.
- 223
- 00:15:11,444 --> 00:15:13,044
- Will you go out with me?
- 224
- 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:14,546
- Squash?
- 225
- 00:15:14,547 --> 00:15:16,080
- Sure.
- 226
- 00:15:16,683 --> 00:15:18,050
- Apple sauce?
- 227
- 00:15:18,051 --> 00:15:20,119
- Can I serve you some food?
- 228
- 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:21,253
- No.
- 229
- 00:15:21,254 --> 00:15:24,355
- Okay then,
- I'll see you Monday.
- 230
- 00:15:33,333 --> 00:15:34,999
- You can see him now.
- 231
- 00:15:35,502 --> 00:15:38,369
- He's still sedated from surgery.
- 232
- 00:15:39,139 --> 00:15:40,271
- Just...
- 233
- 00:15:41,408 --> 00:15:42,941
- Just what?
- 234
- 00:15:43,476 --> 00:15:45,277
- Just be prepared.
- 235
- 00:15:59,159 --> 00:16:01,392
- You know, it's very likely
- that he can hear you.
- 236
- 00:16:02,295 --> 00:16:05,029
- Is he okay?
- What's gonna happen?
- 237
- 00:16:05,398 --> 00:16:07,399
- I'll give you
- a few more moments,
- 238
- 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,000
- then we should
- just let him rest.
- 239
- 00:16:17,344 --> 00:16:19,143
- You're gonna be okay.
- 240
- 00:16:36,296 --> 00:16:38,096
- Can I take
- you to the movies?
- 241
- 00:16:38,365 --> 00:16:39,597
- No.
- 242
- 00:16:45,405 --> 00:16:46,739
- What are you doing Monday?
- 243
- 00:16:46,740 --> 00:16:48,006
- Washing my hair.
- 244
- 00:16:52,145 --> 00:16:52,745
- Go for a walk?
- 245
- 00:16:52,746 --> 00:16:53,778
- No.
- 246
- 00:16:55,448 --> 00:16:56,548
- Your eyes are beautiful.
- 247
- 00:16:56,549 --> 00:16:57,715
- Not a chance.
- 248
- 00:16:59,686 --> 00:17:00,586
- Thursday?
- 249
- 00:17:00,587 --> 00:17:02,286
- Washing my hair again.
- 250
- 00:17:03,590 --> 00:17:04,423
- Friday?
- 251
- 00:17:04,424 --> 00:17:05,723
- Doing laundry.
- 252
- 00:17:11,798 --> 00:17:12,798
- Do you like me?
- 253
- 00:17:12,799 --> 00:17:13,799
- Nope.
- 254
- 00:17:17,037 --> 00:17:18,669
- Sunday.
- 255
- 00:17:20,673 --> 00:17:21,706
- Maybe.
- 256
- 00:17:22,542 --> 00:17:24,575
- Maybe is better than a no.
- 257
- 00:17:29,416 --> 00:17:32,117
- So where are
- we at post-surgery?
- 258
- 00:17:32,118 --> 00:17:35,120
- Well, the medication is
- keeping his heart going.
- 259
- 00:17:35,121 --> 00:17:37,121
- Breathing on a respirator.
- 260
- 00:17:38,391 --> 00:17:40,359
- I mean, his mind is still there.
- 261
- 00:17:40,360 --> 00:17:41,760
- He's conscious.
- 262
- 00:17:41,761 --> 00:17:47,732
- But he's paralyzed, and his
- body's failing him everywhere.
- 263
- 00:17:49,769 --> 00:17:52,303
- So, what happens next?
- 264
- 00:17:54,307 --> 00:17:56,575
- We have some
- tough decisions to make
- 265
- 00:17:56,576 --> 00:17:58,743
- and he's only getting worse.
- 266
- 00:18:02,148 --> 00:18:04,450
- Could you just give
- us a few minutes to talk
- 267
- 00:18:04,451 --> 00:18:05,751
- about it privately?
- 268
- 00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:07,618
- Of course, of course.
- 269
- 00:18:13,827 --> 00:18:15,828
- So he's gonna be
- in a wheelchair, right?
- 270
- 00:18:15,829 --> 00:18:17,612
- Mom.
- 271
- 00:18:17,613 --> 00:18:19,396
- I'll learn to
- take care of him.
- 272
- 00:18:20,433 --> 00:18:22,334
- We have a one-story house.
- 273
- 00:18:22,335 --> 00:18:24,870
- There are no stairs, we have a
- walk-in shower already, we can
- 274
- 00:18:24,871 --> 00:18:27,639
- make the whole place wheelchair
- accessible, we can put a ramp.
- 275
- 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,341
- Thought I'd just-
- 276
- 00:18:29,342 --> 00:18:30,475
- Mom.
- Mom.
- 277
- 00:18:30,844 --> 00:18:32,211
- What?
- 278
- 00:18:32,212 --> 00:18:34,580
- I don't think you're
- understanding.
- 279
- 00:18:34,581 --> 00:18:36,414
- What am I not
- understanding?
- 280
- 00:18:38,218 --> 00:18:39,817
- You're scaring her.
- 281
- 00:18:40,854 --> 00:18:44,389
- Okay, I just don't
- think that you're hearing
- 282
- 00:18:44,390 --> 00:18:47,492
- maybe what's actually happening.
- 283
- 00:18:49,696 --> 00:18:51,829
- Dad isn't breathing on his own.
- 284
- 00:18:54,167 --> 00:18:57,269
- His heart isn't
- beating on its own, Okay?
- 285
- 00:18:57,270 --> 00:19:01,673
- And so this is not just take
- him home and buy a wheelchair.
- 286
- 00:19:01,674 --> 00:19:04,375
- This is much more
- serious than that.
- 287
- 00:19:05,178 --> 00:19:07,712
- I heard what the doctor
- said, I was listening.
- 288
- 00:19:08,448 --> 00:19:10,149
- But he could improve.
- 289
- 00:19:10,150 --> 00:19:12,450
- It's just not likely.
- 290
- 00:19:14,154 --> 00:19:16,755
- Miracles can happen.
- I should be in a hospital
- 291
- 00:19:16,756 --> 00:19:19,891
- bed myself right now,
- I should be, and I'm not.
- 292
- 00:19:20,894 --> 00:19:23,529
- God kept me alive for a reason.
- 293
- 00:19:23,530 --> 00:19:26,197
- We need to be praying for
- your father right now.
- 294
- 00:19:27,433 --> 00:19:28,567
- Mom, I'll pray with you.
- 295
- 00:19:28,568 --> 00:19:30,301
- Okay, you're not helping her.
- 296
- 00:19:31,504 --> 00:19:34,605
- I'm sorry, but a miracle
- is not going to happen.
- 297
- 00:19:35,175 --> 00:19:36,375
- Okay?
- 298
- 00:19:36,376 --> 00:19:39,311
- He's just, he's not
- going to get better.
- 299
- 00:19:39,312 --> 00:19:40,846
- What happened to you?
- 300
- 00:19:40,847 --> 00:19:45,517
- I'm just-I'm just trying to
- be the grown-up at the table.
- 301
- 00:19:45,518 --> 00:19:47,419
- Okay?
- 302
- 00:19:47,420 --> 00:19:51,590
- Look, you can pray, and you
- should, but all I want you to
- 303
- 00:19:51,591 --> 00:19:54,193
- know is that praying
- is not going to change a
- 304
- 00:19:54,194 --> 00:19:56,862
- medical diagnosis, Okay?
- 305
- 00:19:56,863 --> 00:19:59,198
- And I'd think a lawyer
- should understand that!
- 306
- 00:19:59,199 --> 00:20:01,866
- And I would expect you to
- remember where we came from.
- 307
- 00:20:02,702 --> 00:20:04,735
- Okay, girls.
- 308
- 00:20:09,542 --> 00:20:10,776
- Sweetie.
- 309
- 00:20:10,777 --> 00:20:12,544
- I know you're scared.
- 310
- 00:20:12,545 --> 00:20:13,878
- It's okay.
- 311
- 00:20:15,748 --> 00:20:19,250
- We have to place our faith in
- God to watch over your father.
- 312
- 00:20:21,988 --> 00:20:23,554
- You know that.
- 313
- 00:20:36,569 --> 00:20:38,470
- Where are you going, young lady?
- 314
- 00:20:38,471 --> 00:20:40,339
- I'm going to the
- movies with Julie.
- 315
- 00:20:40,340 --> 00:20:41,373
- I told mom.
- 316
- 00:20:41,374 --> 00:20:42,374
- Mm-hmm.
- 317
- 00:20:43,243 --> 00:20:45,243
- Alright, back before 10:00.
- 318
- 00:20:46,312 --> 00:20:47,379
- I will.
- 319
- 00:20:47,380 --> 00:20:48,714
- Just you and Julie, hm?
- 320
- 00:20:48,715 --> 00:20:49,915
- Yes.
- 321
- 00:20:49,916 --> 00:20:52,317
- You don't have to
- interrogate her, honey.
- 322
- 00:20:52,318 --> 00:20:53,652
- You sure?
- 323
- 00:20:53,653 --> 00:20:55,853
- She wouldn't lie to us.
- 324
- 00:20:57,357 --> 00:20:58,956
- I'll be back before 10:00.
- 325
- 00:21:00,326 --> 00:21:01,559
- Alright.
- 326
- 00:21:04,664 --> 00:21:06,030
- Relax.
- 327
- 00:21:09,736 --> 00:21:11,436
- What if he
- tries to kiss you?
- 328
- 00:21:11,437 --> 00:21:12,904
- I'm not gonna let him.
- 329
- 00:21:12,905 --> 00:21:15,340
- Robbie kissed me
- on our first date.
- 330
- 00:21:15,341 --> 00:21:16,741
- That's because you're easy.
- 331
- 00:21:18,811 --> 00:21:21,446
- I'm only doing this because
- you pushed me into it.
- 332
- 00:21:21,447 --> 00:21:23,982
- That's what you
- need to tell yourself.
- 333
- 00:21:23,983 --> 00:21:26,652
- By the end of the night I'm
- gonna have to pull you off him.
- 334
- 00:21:26,653 --> 00:21:27,653
- Not a chance.
- 335
- 00:21:31,491 --> 00:21:32,590
- Hi boys.
- 336
- 00:21:32,825 --> 00:21:34,058
- Hey, girls.
- 337
- 00:21:48,841 --> 00:21:50,041
- Should we go?
- 338
- 00:21:51,811 --> 00:21:53,979
- I actually really
- don't wanna see a movie.
- 339
- 00:21:53,980 --> 00:21:56,447
- I'd rather just hang and talk.
- 340
- 00:21:57,950 --> 00:21:59,483
- If that's okay.
- 341
- 00:22:00,053 --> 00:22:02,086
- I'd love to
- just sit and talk.
- 342
- 00:22:03,790 --> 00:22:05,390
- Okay then.
- 343
- 00:22:05,391 --> 00:22:06,590
- You two coming?
- 344
- 00:22:08,528 --> 00:22:09,795
- You go ahead.
- 345
- 00:22:09,796 --> 00:22:11,763
- Alright, you two have fun.
- 346
- 00:22:17,003 --> 00:22:18,903
- There's a little
- park down this way.
- 347
- 00:22:28,681 --> 00:22:29,715
- So.
- You...
- 348
- 00:22:29,716 --> 00:22:31,382
- I'm not making out with you.
- 349
- 00:22:33,453 --> 00:22:35,487
- Who said you were?
- 350
- 00:22:35,488 --> 00:22:37,756
- I know what "just sit
- and talk," means to boys.
- 351
- 00:22:37,757 --> 00:22:39,791
- No, not me.
- 352
- 00:22:39,792 --> 00:22:41,926
- I just wanna get to know you.
- 353
- 00:22:45,098 --> 00:22:46,898
- I hope you don't get into
- trouble for sneaking
- 354
- 00:22:46,899 --> 00:22:48,733
- out to see me like this.
- 355
- 00:22:49,102 --> 00:22:50,635
- Robbie told me.
- 356
- 00:22:50,636 --> 00:22:52,036
- It'll be fine.
- 357
- 00:22:54,507 --> 00:22:55,741
- Look.
- 358
- 00:22:55,742 --> 00:22:58,410
- I just think you're
- beautiful, and cute.
- 359
- 00:22:58,411 --> 00:23:00,779
- And I just wanna
- spend time with you.
- 360
- 00:23:00,780 --> 00:23:02,012
- Is that so awful?
- 361
- 00:23:03,116 --> 00:23:04,615
- No, it's not.
- 362
- 00:23:08,988 --> 00:23:11,005
- Good.
- 363
- 00:23:11,006 --> 00:23:13,023
- It's just that my dad
- used to train recruits.
- 364
- 00:23:14,127 --> 00:23:17,094
- He told me what GIs were like.
- 365
- 00:23:17,797 --> 00:23:20,114
- He's not wrong.
- 366
- 00:23:20,115 --> 00:23:22,435
- There are a lot of guys who
- don't know how to treat a lady.
- 367
- 00:23:23,736 --> 00:23:26,670
- But I'm not one of those guys.
- 368
- 00:23:35,782 --> 00:23:37,716
- So, Jan.
- 369
- 00:23:37,717 --> 00:23:39,150
- What's your story?
- 370
- 00:23:39,886 --> 00:23:41,887
- Unless you plan on being
- a career lunch lady.
- 371
- 00:23:41,888 --> 00:23:43,655
- No.
- 372
- 00:23:43,656 --> 00:23:45,824
- I wanna go to college.
- 373
- 00:23:45,825 --> 00:23:47,758
- I want a real career.
- 374
- 00:23:48,561 --> 00:23:50,828
- But my parents always
- say I'm just a girl.
- 375
- 00:23:51,731 --> 00:23:53,497
- They actually say that?
- 376
- 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:55,534
- Yeah.
- 377
- 00:23:55,535 --> 00:23:56,901
- My mom says it a lot.
- 378
- 00:23:58,037 --> 00:24:00,938
- Well, you're
- not just a girl to me.
- 379
- 00:24:05,812 --> 00:24:09,079
- My mom, we have some
- things we disagree on, too.
- 380
- 00:24:10,550 --> 00:24:12,784
- That's sort of why I
- joined the Air Force.
- 381
- 00:24:12,785 --> 00:24:14,151
- To get away?
- 382
- 00:24:15,021 --> 00:24:16,620
- Maybe.
- 383
- 00:24:17,757 --> 00:24:19,124
- Do you like it?
- 384
- 00:24:19,125 --> 00:24:20,992
- I do.
- 385
- 00:24:20,993 --> 00:24:22,994
- It's not like back home.
- 386
- 00:24:22,995 --> 00:24:25,831
- If you say you're gonna
- do something, you do it.
- 387
- 00:24:25,832 --> 00:24:29,034
- People are responsible for
- their actions, no accountable.
- 388
- 00:24:29,035 --> 00:24:31,202
- That's why I like it.
- 389
- 00:24:32,171 --> 00:24:33,838
- You sound like my dad.
- 390
- 00:24:35,208 --> 00:24:36,608
- Sorry?
- 391
- 00:24:36,609 --> 00:24:38,242
- That's not always a bad thing.
- 392
- 00:24:40,646 --> 00:24:41,947
- Oh, shoot, what time is it?
- 393
- 00:24:41,948 --> 00:24:43,548
- Why?
- 394
- 00:24:43,549 --> 00:24:46,951
- I promised my
- dad I'd be home early.
- 395
- 00:24:49,188 --> 00:24:50,855
- I have a question.
- 396
- 00:24:51,991 --> 00:24:53,724
- Please don't lie to me.
- 397
- 00:24:54,494 --> 00:24:55,759
- Okay.
- 398
- 00:24:57,797 --> 00:24:59,231
- Do you have a girlfriend?
- 399
- 00:24:59,232 --> 00:25:00,799
- What?
- 400
- 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,201
- Where did that come from?
- 401
- 00:25:03,202 --> 00:25:05,837
- Some guys think it's okay
- to talk to more than one girl
- 402
- 00:25:05,838 --> 00:25:07,104
- at a time.
- 403
- 00:25:08,274 --> 00:25:10,174
- I'm not one of those guys.
- 404
- 00:25:11,878 --> 00:25:14,812
- You are the only girl
- I wanna be talking to.
- 405
- 00:25:19,952 --> 00:25:21,653
- Last call, Romeo.
- 406
- 00:25:21,654 --> 00:25:23,021
- Robbie!
- 407
- 00:25:25,191 --> 00:25:26,658
- Sorry.
- 408
- 00:25:26,659 --> 00:25:28,894
- We really do have
- to go though, Jan.
- 409
- 00:25:28,895 --> 00:25:30,962
- We're already late, my mom
- will be waiting up for me.
- 410
- 00:25:30,963 --> 00:25:33,031
- Why didn't you
- come get me sooner?
- 411
- 00:25:33,032 --> 00:25:36,034
- Robbie and I-talked-a
- little in the theater after
- 412
- 00:25:36,035 --> 00:25:37,568
- the movie finished.
- 413
- 00:25:39,605 --> 00:25:41,705
- Yeah, we had a really
- nice-talk in there.
- 414
- 00:25:42,975 --> 00:25:45,776
- Seems like you two were
- about to talk, too.
- 415
- 00:25:46,312 --> 00:25:47,645
- Bye.
- 416
- 00:25:48,314 --> 00:25:49,847
- Can I call you sometime?
- 417
- 00:25:50,983 --> 00:25:52,116
- Okay.
- 418
- 00:25:52,852 --> 00:25:54,051
- Later, babe.
- 419
- 00:25:59,025 --> 00:26:00,324
- Come on.
- 420
- 00:26:01,861 --> 00:26:04,061
- Sorry man, I tried
- to stall her for you.
- 421
- 00:26:05,565 --> 00:26:07,331
- Jan, wait a second.
- Wait a second.
- 422
- 00:26:16,342 --> 00:26:17,841
- Bye.
- 423
- 00:26:18,010 --> 00:26:19,076
- Bye.
- 424
- 00:26:23,049 --> 00:26:24,950
- Yeah! Good one.
- 425
- 00:26:24,951 --> 00:26:26,318
- Yeah.
- 426
- 00:26:26,319 --> 00:26:27,785
- Come on.
- 427
- 00:26:29,589 --> 00:26:31,689
- Nice one, dude! You did it!
- 428
- 00:26:32,224 --> 00:26:33,791
- Get out of here.
- 429
- 00:26:40,766 --> 00:26:43,134
- He's awake,
- and responsive.
- 430
- 00:26:43,135 --> 00:26:44,703
- That's great!
- 431
- 00:26:44,704 --> 00:26:47,038
- I told you God
- was watching after him.
- 432
- 00:26:47,039 --> 00:26:49,074
- The sedative wore off, mom.
- 433
- 00:26:49,075 --> 00:26:51,910
- Can you please just try
- to be a little upbeat?
- 434
- 00:26:51,911 --> 00:26:53,677
- I'm just saying,
- that's why he's awake.
- 435
- 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,114
- Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey,
- what are you doing?
- 436
- 00:26:56,115 --> 00:26:57,882
- No, no, no.
- 437
- 00:26:57,883 --> 00:26:59,767
- You have a strained shoulder,
- you have to put that back on.
- 438
- 00:26:59,768 --> 00:27:01,653
- I don't want your
- father worrying about me.
- 439
- 00:27:01,654 --> 00:27:03,755
- There's a reason they told you
- to wear it in the first place,
- 440
- 00:27:03,756 --> 00:27:05,623
- I mean he's not...
- Okay.
- 441
- 00:27:06,692 --> 00:27:08,412
- Come on, let's go see
- him. Here, I got this.
- 442
- 00:27:14,900 --> 00:27:16,166
- Hey there.
- 443
- 00:27:21,107 --> 00:27:22,272
- Dad.
- 444
- 00:27:25,778 --> 00:27:27,044
- Daddy.
- 445
- 00:27:30,716 --> 00:27:32,850
- Mom, he
- can't feel his arms.
- 446
- 00:27:34,253 --> 00:27:37,655
- But if you wanted
- to touch him on his face,
- 447
- 00:27:39,058 --> 00:27:41,258
- above his chin,
- he can feel there.
- 448
- 00:27:48,034 --> 00:27:49,233
- I'm here.
- 449
- 00:27:53,205 --> 00:27:54,371
- You look good.
- 450
- 00:27:55,708 --> 00:27:58,109
- We have been
- praying for you non-stop.
- 451
- 00:27:58,110 --> 00:28:00,244
- God is protecting you.
- 452
- 00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:10,120
- Sweetheart, I love you.
- 453
- 00:28:16,128 --> 00:28:17,395
- Now who's easy?
- 454
- 00:28:17,396 --> 00:28:19,164
- Stop it.
- 455
- 00:28:19,165 --> 00:28:20,605
- I thought you
- weren't gonna kiss him.
- 456
- 00:28:21,367 --> 00:28:23,001
- He's not like the others.
- 457
- 00:28:23,002 --> 00:28:24,936
- Why, because
- he told you so?
- 458
- 00:28:24,937 --> 00:28:27,205
- It's not that he told me,
- 459
- 00:28:27,206 --> 00:28:29,473
- it's how he looked
- at me when he said it.
- 460
- 00:28:31,444 --> 00:28:33,410
- I don't know, I
- can't explain it.
- 461
- 00:28:34,413 --> 00:28:39,016
- Something about the way he
- looks at me, I understand him.
- 462
- 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,353
- I think you're
- gonna see him again.
- 463
- 00:28:44,056 --> 00:28:45,789
- I might.
- 464
- 00:28:57,303 --> 00:28:59,170
- We had a really good
- time at the movies.
- 465
- 00:28:59,171 --> 00:29:01,172
- We got ice cream after.
- 466
- 00:29:01,173 --> 00:29:02,907
- Well it's almost 11:00.
- 467
- 00:29:02,908 --> 00:29:04,908
- It was really
- good ice cream.
- 468
- 00:29:05,277 --> 00:29:06,477
- Really good.
- 469
- 00:29:07,012 --> 00:29:08,146
- Okay.
- 470
- 00:29:08,147 --> 00:29:09,480
- Good night.
- 471
- 00:29:13,319 --> 00:29:15,920
- I looked like that
- after our first date.
- 472
- 00:29:15,921 --> 00:29:17,054
- Yeah.
- 473
- 00:29:17,456 --> 00:29:19,256
- That's what worries me.
- 474
- 00:29:22,261 --> 00:29:23,994
- Relax.
- 475
- 00:29:31,871 --> 00:29:33,170
- Delicious.
- 476
- 00:29:33,539 --> 00:29:34,938
- Thank you, darling.
- 477
- 00:29:36,976 --> 00:29:39,977
- I wanna have a friend
- come eat with us sometime.
- 478
- 00:29:40,513 --> 00:29:41,780
- Of course.
- 479
- 00:29:41,781 --> 00:29:42,980
- Which friend?
- 480
- 00:29:44,283 --> 00:29:45,849
- He's a college student.
- 481
- 00:29:48,053 --> 00:29:49,820
- A college student you're dating?
- 482
- 00:29:49,989 --> 00:29:51,022
- No.
- 483
- 00:29:51,023 --> 00:29:53,090
- No, he's just a good friend.
- 484
- 00:29:55,027 --> 00:29:57,044
- Right.
- 485
- 00:29:57,045 --> 00:29:59,063
- We think it's great you want
- your friends to come meet us
- 486
- 00:29:59,064 --> 00:30:01,465
- honey, he's welcome anytime.
- 487
- 00:30:04,069 --> 00:30:05,202
- Great.
- 488
- 00:30:07,473 --> 00:30:08,539
- Great.
- 489
- 00:30:12,845 --> 00:30:15,847
- Thank you Lord for these
- gifts we are about to receive
- 490
- 00:30:15,848 --> 00:30:17,081
- from your bounty.
- 491
- 00:30:17,082 --> 00:30:19,383
- In Jesus' name, amen.
- 492
- 00:30:19,552 --> 00:30:20,185
- Amen.
- 493
- 00:30:20,186 --> 00:30:20,885
- Amen.
- 494
- 00:30:20,886 --> 00:30:22,019
- Amen.
- 495
- 00:30:23,189 --> 00:30:25,289
- Alright, Steve.
- 496
- 00:30:26,425 --> 00:30:29,026
- Couldn't help but
- notice your haircut.
- 497
- 00:30:29,829 --> 00:30:31,094
- High and tight.
- 498
- 00:30:31,463 --> 00:30:32,896
- I like keeping it short.
- 499
- 00:30:34,099 --> 00:30:35,199
- Right.
- 500
- 00:30:38,304 --> 00:30:40,470
- So, Steve,
- where are you from?
- 501
- 00:30:40,940 --> 00:30:41,940
- Los Angeles.
- 502
- 00:30:42,141 --> 00:30:43,942
- Oh, we know lots
- of people there.
- 503
- 00:30:43,943 --> 00:30:45,175
- Where did you live?
- 504
- 00:30:45,911 --> 00:30:46,944
- Brentwood.
- 505
- 00:30:47,379 --> 00:30:49,180
- Mm-hmm. You a rich kid?
- 506
- 00:30:49,181 --> 00:30:51,148
- No, uhm,
- 507
- 00:30:51,550 --> 00:30:53,450
- everything there
- was my dad's, not mine.
- 508
- 00:30:54,553 --> 00:30:56,386
- It's all gone now anyway.
- 509
- 00:30:57,423 --> 00:30:59,122
- What, he blow it all?
- 510
- 00:31:00,192 --> 00:31:01,525
- It's a long story.
- 511
- 00:31:03,462 --> 00:31:05,096
- What about you?
- 512
- 00:31:05,097 --> 00:31:06,364
- You have a job?
- 513
- 00:31:06,365 --> 00:31:07,899
- Uhh...
- 514
- 00:31:07,900 --> 00:31:09,267
- He's a college student.
- 515
- 00:31:09,268 --> 00:31:10,535
- I told you that.
- 516
- 00:31:10,536 --> 00:31:12,035
- Yes you did.
- 517
- 00:31:13,138 --> 00:31:15,173
- And how did you two meet?
- 518
- 00:31:15,174 --> 00:31:16,307
- Well, we...
- 519
- 00:31:16,308 --> 00:31:18,208
- He hangs out at
- the ice cream parlor.
- 520
- 00:31:19,144 --> 00:31:21,045
- Well, Steve,
- I guess you can go home.
- 521
- 00:31:21,046 --> 00:31:23,146
- Seems like Jan has all
- the answers for you.
- 522
- 00:31:24,550 --> 00:31:26,016
- She's a good listener.
- 523
- 00:31:30,322 --> 00:31:32,122
- Steve might
- tutor me in math.
- 524
- 00:31:33,325 --> 00:31:35,126
- Why would he do that?
- 525
- 00:31:35,127 --> 00:31:37,095
- So I can be
- ready for college math.
- 526
- 00:31:37,096 --> 00:31:38,563
- Oh, honey.
- 527
- 00:31:38,564 --> 00:31:40,564
- Secretaries don't need math.
- 528
- 00:31:41,667 --> 00:31:45,035
- Well maybe I don't
- wanna be just a secretary.
- 529
- 00:31:45,604 --> 00:31:47,005
- I see.
- 530
- 00:31:47,006 --> 00:31:50,575
- So your mommy's job isn't
- good enough for you,
- 531
- 00:31:50,576 --> 00:31:52,175
- is that what you're saying?
- 532
- 00:31:52,444 --> 00:31:53,611
- Never mind.
- 533
- 00:31:53,612 --> 00:31:55,646
- This pot roast is
- excellent, Mrs. Nichols.
- 534
- 00:31:58,183 --> 00:31:59,684
- Thank you Steve.
- 535
- 00:31:59,685 --> 00:32:01,084
- You're welcome.
- 536
- 00:32:11,196 --> 00:32:12,563
- Thank you so much.
- 537
- 00:32:12,564 --> 00:32:13,965
- I'd be happy to clean up.
- 538
- 00:32:13,966 --> 00:32:15,233
- Oh, don't be silly.
- 539
- 00:32:15,234 --> 00:32:17,068
- No, that's
- very kind of him.
- 540
- 00:32:17,069 --> 00:32:17,702
- Go on, then.
- 541
- 00:32:17,703 --> 00:32:19,537
- Jim!
- 542
- 00:32:19,538 --> 00:32:22,018
- Well boy just got a free meal,
- least he could do is the dishes.
- 543
- 00:32:23,075 --> 00:32:24,441
- I'd be happy to.
- 544
- 00:32:25,010 --> 00:32:26,410
- Hop on it son.
- Here you go.
- 545
- 00:32:29,381 --> 00:32:32,349
- Hey, while you're at it, you
- wanna give her a fill up there?
- 546
- 00:32:33,052 --> 00:32:34,052
- Dad.
- 547
- 00:32:35,054 --> 00:32:35,954
- Sure.
- 548
- 00:32:35,955 --> 00:32:37,120
- Thank you.
- 549
- 00:32:41,427 --> 00:32:42,592
- Too much.
- 550
- 00:32:48,233 --> 00:32:50,601
- He seemed in
- good spirits today.
- 551
- 00:32:50,602 --> 00:32:54,304
- That's great, but unfortunately
- medically, he's not improving.
- 552
- 00:32:56,375 --> 00:32:58,275
- Does Steve have a living will?
- 553
- 00:33:01,347 --> 00:33:04,015
- Why do they call it living
- when it's only about dying?
- 554
- 00:33:04,016 --> 00:33:05,083
- But does he have one?
- 555
- 00:33:05,084 --> 00:33:06,184
- Yeah.
- 556
- 00:33:06,185 --> 00:33:07,651
- Who has power of attorney?
- 557
- 00:33:08,454 --> 00:33:09,987
- I do.
- 558
- 00:33:10,422 --> 00:33:12,289
- What would he want you to do?
- 559
- 00:33:13,425 --> 00:33:16,560
- He'd wanna be given
- every chance to live.
- 560
- 00:33:18,697 --> 00:33:20,731
- To be here for his girls.
- 561
- 00:33:22,267 --> 00:33:24,769
- He can react to us, I mean
- that has to mean something,
- 562
- 00:33:24,770 --> 00:33:26,137
- surely, doesn't it?
- 563
- 00:33:26,138 --> 00:33:27,771
- Unfortunately it doesn't.
- 564
- 00:33:28,374 --> 00:33:31,274
- But what if
- there is any chance?
- 565
- 00:33:35,547 --> 00:33:37,331
- And if there's not?
- 566
- 00:33:37,332 --> 00:33:39,417
- The hospital would recommend
- moving him to hospice.
- 567
- 00:33:39,418 --> 00:33:40,752
- Why do we have to move him?
- 568
- 00:33:40,753 --> 00:33:42,473
- He's been through enough
- already, hasn't he?
- 569
- 00:33:43,188 --> 00:33:45,256
- Ma'am, hospice is for...
- 570
- 00:33:45,257 --> 00:33:46,424
- I know.
- I know.
- 571
- 00:33:46,425 --> 00:33:48,059
- I know what hospice is.
- 572
- 00:33:48,060 --> 00:33:49,694
- My husband is not a
- piece of furniture.
- 573
- 00:33:49,695 --> 00:33:51,229
- Of course not.
- 574
- 00:33:51,230 --> 00:33:53,264
- I feel like you
- just want me to kill him...
- 575
- 00:33:53,265 --> 00:33:54,565
- No, mom, no.
- 576
- 00:33:54,566 --> 00:33:55,533
- Like you want me to
- shut off the machines
- 577
- 00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:56,467
- and the medicine.
- 578
- 00:33:56,468 --> 00:33:58,236
- Mom.
- 579
- 00:33:58,237 --> 00:34:00,304
- I don't want you to
- do anything you don't want to.
- 580
- 00:34:00,305 --> 00:34:02,373
- But the fact of the matter is no
- matter how well we take care of
- 581
- 00:34:02,374 --> 00:34:05,609
- him, he'll never be able
- to function on his own.
- 582
- 00:34:06,678 --> 00:34:08,478
- He hates hospitals.
- 583
- 00:34:09,381 --> 00:34:11,048
- He always has.
- 584
- 00:34:12,785 --> 00:34:15,520
- We don't have to
- discuss this now,
- 585
- 00:34:15,521 --> 00:34:18,089
- but we do have to
- make a decision.
- 586
- 00:34:18,090 --> 00:34:19,557
- You can talk to me doctor.
- 587
- 00:34:19,558 --> 00:34:22,293
- As I said, I have power of
- attorney, and I will decide
- 588
- 00:34:22,294 --> 00:34:23,795
- what happens to my husband.
- 589
- 00:34:23,796 --> 00:34:24,828
- Of course.
- 590
- 00:34:26,198 --> 00:34:27,798
- I think we
- need to be alone.
- 591
- 00:34:28,534 --> 00:34:31,234
- You know about a
- year ago, I lost my wife.
- 592
- 00:34:33,172 --> 00:34:36,773
- And I didn't listen when the
- hospital recommended hospice.
- 593
- 00:34:38,410 --> 00:34:42,813
- But if I could do it all over
- again, I know what I would do.
- 594
- 00:34:49,721 --> 00:34:52,657
- Look, we can explore a lot
- of different options on
- 595
- 00:34:52,658 --> 00:34:54,792
- how to do this transition.
- 596
- 00:34:54,793 --> 00:34:57,494
- I think maybe you
- were right, sweetheart.
- 597
- 00:35:00,232 --> 00:35:01,732
- I've been fooling myself.
- 598
- 00:35:01,733 --> 00:35:03,800
- God's not helping
- us on this one.
- 599
- 00:35:05,404 --> 00:35:07,370
- Good job, Michele.
- 600
- 00:35:08,707 --> 00:35:10,674
- Well-I-Mom.
- 601
- 00:35:11,510 --> 00:35:14,277
- Hey, I didn't mean to-
- 602
- 00:35:15,247 --> 00:35:16,513
- I'm sorry.
- 603
- 00:35:23,255 --> 00:35:26,124
- He's taking
- one night class,
- 604
- 00:35:26,125 --> 00:35:27,724
- so technically I'm not lying.
- 605
- 00:35:29,595 --> 00:35:32,363
- You don't see the way
- that he looks at him.
- 606
- 00:35:32,364 --> 00:35:34,198
- It's like he hates him.
- 607
- 00:35:34,199 --> 00:35:35,366
- But you love him.
- 608
- 00:35:35,367 --> 00:35:39,270
- I... Well, we've only
- been dating for six months.
- 609
- 00:35:39,271 --> 00:35:41,505
- Why, did I say that I love him?
- 610
- 00:35:41,907 --> 00:35:43,340
- You didn't have to.
- 611
- 00:35:45,611 --> 00:35:47,244
- I just-
- 612
- 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,648
- I just want my
- father to see him.
- 613
- 00:35:50,649 --> 00:35:54,618
- Not the way that he thinks he
- is, but the way that I see him.
- 614
- 00:35:57,923 --> 00:36:00,390
- How long are you willing
- to wait for that to happen?
- 615
- 00:36:01,293 --> 00:36:03,193
- For as long as it takes.
- 616
- 00:36:05,764 --> 00:36:06,864
- Then it will.
- 617
- 00:36:06,865 --> 00:36:10,600
- But you'll struggle,
- and you'll doubt it.
- 618
- 00:36:12,404 --> 00:36:15,205
- Stay patient and eventually
- you'll get there.
- 619
- 00:36:16,441 --> 00:36:17,707
- How do you know that?
- 620
- 00:36:19,311 --> 00:36:20,711
- I don't.
- 621
- 00:36:20,712 --> 00:36:22,746
- I just have faith that it will.
- 622
- 00:36:27,853 --> 00:36:29,352
- Let's pray.
- 623
- 00:36:32,624 --> 00:36:36,326
- Heavenly Father, please be with
- Jan in her time of trouble.
- 624
- 00:36:41,967 --> 00:36:43,501
- Ehm-Mom?
- 625
- 00:36:43,502 --> 00:36:44,801
- Someone's here to see you.
- 626
- 00:36:46,505 --> 00:36:49,206
- Well I guess I'll
- just go back to California then.
- 627
- 00:36:50,475 --> 00:36:51,742
- Who told you?
- 628
- 00:36:51,743 --> 00:36:52,877
- Your daughter.
- 629
- 00:36:52,878 --> 00:36:53,945
- Terri?
- 630
- 00:36:53,946 --> 00:36:54,978
- No.
- 631
- 00:36:56,415 --> 00:36:58,216
- Don't give
- me too much credit,
- 632
- 00:36:58,217 --> 00:36:59,716
- it was Terri's idea.
- 633
- 00:37:00,452 --> 00:37:02,586
- I'm here to pray with you.
- 634
- 00:37:03,589 --> 00:37:06,289
- I am sorry you traveled
- so far to be with us.
- 635
- 00:37:06,658 --> 00:37:08,259
- But God's not listening.
- 636
- 00:37:08,260 --> 00:37:09,793
- God is always listening.
- 637
- 00:37:10,429 --> 00:37:11,796
- No, He isn't.
- 638
- 00:37:11,797 --> 00:37:13,331
- He isn't.
- 639
- 00:37:13,332 --> 00:37:14,932
- I thought He did.
- 640
- 00:37:14,933 --> 00:37:17,634
- But right now when we need
- Him the most, He's not here.
- 641
- 00:37:18,270 --> 00:37:19,937
- He's not listening to
- what I have to say,
- 642
- 00:37:19,938 --> 00:37:21,504
- He's stopped listening.
- 643
- 00:37:34,653 --> 00:37:36,519
- Sorry I wasted your time.
- 644
- 00:37:36,989 --> 00:37:39,422
- It's not a waste
- for me to be here.
- 645
- 00:37:41,526 --> 00:37:43,960
- Is there any reason you
- chose to come in here?
- 646
- 00:37:48,367 --> 00:37:50,835
- Just wanted to be
- alone, I guess.
- 647
- 00:37:50,836 --> 00:37:53,004
- Oh, well, I'll leave
- you to it then.
- 648
- 00:37:53,939 --> 00:37:56,406
- No, sorry.
- 649
- 00:37:58,377 --> 00:37:59,743
- Please stay.
- 650
- 00:38:00,345 --> 00:38:02,647
- I got the feeling you're
- not spending much time in
- 651
- 00:38:02,648 --> 00:38:03,847
- chapels these days.
- 652
- 00:38:05,350 --> 00:38:07,384
- No, I guess not.
- 653
- 00:38:07,753 --> 00:38:10,954
- I'm not preaching to you,
- it's just an observation.
- 654
- 00:38:13,325 --> 00:38:15,559
- But it is a bit funny
- though, you called me
- 655
- 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,360
- and you coming here.
- 656
- 00:38:17,929 --> 00:38:20,330
- There are other places
- you could go to be alone.
- 657
- 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,600
- It's just a
- coincidence I suppose.
- 658
- 00:38:25,671 --> 00:38:27,070
- Yeah, it is.
- 659
- 00:38:27,773 --> 00:38:30,308
- You know, your mother's
- been praying with me
- 660
- 00:38:30,309 --> 00:38:31,876
- since she was young.
- 661
- 00:38:31,877 --> 00:38:34,344
- I saw you when you were
- just a little girl.
- 662
- 00:38:34,913 --> 00:38:36,946
- I know you were
- raised in church.
- 663
- 00:38:37,883 --> 00:38:41,452
- And I also know you seem
- to have a mind of your own,
- 664
- 00:38:41,453 --> 00:38:42,652
- and that's a good thing.
- 665
- 00:38:44,656 --> 00:38:45,589
- Yeah?
- 666
- 00:38:45,590 --> 00:38:46,857
- Definitely.
- 667
- 00:38:46,858 --> 00:38:48,526
- She does, too.
- 668
- 00:38:48,527 --> 00:38:50,461
- Always did.
- 669
- 00:38:50,462 --> 00:38:52,429
- You got that from her.
- 670
- 00:38:54,933 --> 00:38:58,469
- But sometimes you get
- preached something so much
- 671
- 00:38:58,470 --> 00:39:02,372
- it feels good to make your
- own decisions, and you should.
- 672
- 00:39:04,976 --> 00:39:06,776
- I have.
- 673
- 00:39:07,913 --> 00:39:10,647
- And it just feels safer to shut
- out what you can't control.
- 674
- 00:39:11,483 --> 00:39:13,616
- But that makes for a cold world.
- 675
- 00:39:14,820 --> 00:39:17,821
- And I think the world is
- warm, and full of love.
- 676
- 00:39:18,857 --> 00:39:21,691
- If we just open
- ourselves up to it.
- 677
- 00:39:22,861 --> 00:39:25,529
- I'm gonna pray for
- your father now.
- 678
- 00:39:25,530 --> 00:39:27,965
- You can just listen if you like.
- 679
- 00:39:27,966 --> 00:39:31,502
- Father God, we ask
- you in the name of Jesus,
- 680
- 00:39:31,503 --> 00:39:33,937
- we ask you right now
- Father, for a miracle.
- 681
- 00:39:35,407 --> 00:39:38,676
- The Bible says that where two or
- more are gathered in agreement
- 682
- 00:39:38,677 --> 00:39:41,111
- on a thing, that thing
- shall take place.
- 683
- 00:39:41,980 --> 00:39:44,582
- So we ask you Father
- right now for a miracle for
- 684
- 00:39:44,583 --> 00:39:46,549
- our brother Steve.
- 685
- 00:39:47,052 --> 00:39:49,487
- We ask that you bring comfort to
- this family, to the hearts of
- 686
- 00:39:49,488 --> 00:39:51,689
- those that love him.
- 687
- 00:39:51,690 --> 00:39:55,626
- We ask, God, that you reveal
- yourself to be God to those who
- 688
- 00:39:55,627 --> 00:39:59,463
- doubt, and give strength
- to those who feel weak.
- 689
- 00:39:59,464 --> 00:40:02,066
- We know you are able, God.
- 690
- 00:40:02,067 --> 00:40:04,702
- We know that you've made us
- those promises, and God you are
- 691
- 00:40:04,703 --> 00:40:07,671
- good at keeping your promises.
- 692
- 00:40:07,672 --> 00:40:10,975
- I ask you God to put a
- special hand of a blessing
- 693
- 00:40:10,976 --> 00:40:12,476
- on this family.
- 694
- 00:40:12,477 --> 00:40:14,545
- Give them comfort today, God.
- 695
- 00:40:14,546 --> 00:40:17,515
- Give them freedom today, God.
- 696
- 00:40:17,516 --> 00:40:21,185
- Give them the joy of knowing
- that you have your hands around
- 697
- 00:40:21,186 --> 00:40:25,156
- them dear Father, and that
- you will not let them sink
- 698
- 00:40:25,157 --> 00:40:27,090
- into despair.
- 699
- 00:40:27,793 --> 00:40:31,095
- Today, God, we rejoice because
- we will see a miracle.
- 700
- 00:40:31,096 --> 00:40:35,833
- Today we rejoice because you
- will manifest yourself as God.
- 701
- 00:40:35,834 --> 00:40:38,836
- I thank you God for
- leading me here.
- 702
- 00:40:38,837 --> 00:40:41,105
- I thank you for this family.
- 703
- 00:40:41,106 --> 00:40:45,708
- I thank you for faith, but most
- of all, I thank you for you.
- 704
- 00:40:46,645 --> 00:40:50,014
- In the name of our Lord
- and Savior Jesus Christ,
- 705
- 00:40:50,015 --> 00:40:53,451
- I receive it,
- and I rejoice in it.
- 706
- 00:40:53,452 --> 00:40:54,819
- Amen.
- 707
- 00:40:54,820 --> 00:40:56,586
- And amen.
- 708
- 00:40:59,591 --> 00:41:01,090
- Thanks.
- 709
- 00:41:04,529 --> 00:41:06,864
- Okay, well, thank
- you for another great meal,
- 710
- 00:41:06,865 --> 00:41:07,832
- Mrs. Nichols.
- 711
- 00:41:07,833 --> 00:41:08,799
- You're welcome.
- 712
- 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,869
- And I'll see you for a
- tutoring session at the
- 713
- 00:41:11,870 --> 00:41:12,969
- library on Thursday.
- 714
- 00:41:13,638 --> 00:41:15,072
- Sir?
- 715
- 00:41:15,073 --> 00:41:17,741
- Yeah. Hey, thanks for
- doing the dishes again, Steve.
- 716
- 00:41:17,742 --> 00:41:18,776
- I appreciate it.
- 717
- 00:41:18,777 --> 00:41:19,844
- Pleasure.
- 718
- 00:41:19,845 --> 00:41:21,045
- You know, while
- you're still here,
- 719
- 00:41:21,046 --> 00:41:22,713
- I could use some
- help out in the garage.
- 720
- 00:41:22,714 --> 00:41:24,482
- No, he can't.
- 721
- 00:41:24,483 --> 00:41:26,116
- I could use a pair
- of second, strong hands.
- 722
- 00:41:26,117 --> 00:41:28,853
- Being in the military like I am,
- we tend to move around a lot,
- 723
- 00:41:28,854 --> 00:41:30,554
- and basically I just throw
- everything in my truck and dump
- 724
- 00:41:30,555 --> 00:41:31,789
- it in the garage.
- 725
- 00:41:31,790 --> 00:41:33,557
- I could use some
- help sorting it out.
- 726
- 00:41:33,558 --> 00:41:35,693
- Jim.
- He's not your employee.
- 727
- 00:41:35,694 --> 00:41:38,963
- I'm sure Steve has his
- own life to get back to.
- 728
- 00:41:38,964 --> 00:41:42,032
- I'm sure he does, but two
- of us working together,
- 729
- 00:41:42,033 --> 00:41:44,168
- get it done in
- less than an hour.
- 730
- 00:41:44,169 --> 00:41:46,503
- Besides, I don't think
- Steve minds, do you Steve?
- 731
- 00:41:47,672 --> 00:41:50,206
- Okay. Sure.
- Yeah, of course, no problem.
- 732
- 00:41:50,976 --> 00:41:51,775
- Yeah.
- 733
- 00:41:51,776 --> 00:41:52,809
- I'll meet you out there.
- 734
- 00:41:53,512 --> 00:41:54,512
- Sure.
- 735
- 00:41:59,050 --> 00:42:00,884
- Don't you have
- some homework to do?
- 736
- 00:42:17,002 --> 00:42:18,936
- My wife's the
- sentimental type.
- 737
- 00:42:18,937 --> 00:42:20,804
- She likes to keep things.
- 738
- 00:42:20,805 --> 00:42:23,007
- This is all the stuff she's
- kept over all our moves.
- 739
- 00:42:23,008 --> 00:42:25,109
- Looks like we've been
- here for 30 years.
- 740
- 00:42:25,110 --> 00:42:26,777
- Fact is, it's only
- been a couple.
- 741
- 00:42:26,778 --> 00:42:29,547
- Yeah, I'd like to see
- the garage floor again.
- 742
- 00:42:29,548 --> 00:42:32,683
- Far as I'm concerned,
- you can junk all of this.
- 743
- 00:42:32,684 --> 00:42:36,020
- I'll get you some trash bags,
- you can put it all together,
- 744
- 00:42:36,021 --> 00:42:38,789
- take it out front, and I'll haul
- it off to the dump in my truck.
- 745
- 00:42:38,790 --> 00:42:41,091
- This is a lot of stuff.
- 746
- 00:42:41,092 --> 00:42:42,859
- Well you're a strong boy.
- 747
- 00:42:43,628 --> 00:42:45,161
- You got some place
- you need to be?
- 748
- 00:42:47,566 --> 00:42:50,233
- Uhm-I have an
- early morning class.
- 749
- 00:42:51,770 --> 00:42:52,836
- Oh.
- 750
- 00:42:52,837 --> 00:42:54,737
- Well, then you better get to it.
- 751
- 00:42:55,140 --> 00:42:56,839
- Mr. Smartypants.
- 752
- 00:43:22,167 --> 00:43:24,300
- You have roll call at 06:00.
- 753
- 00:43:25,937 --> 00:43:27,237
- I know that.
- 754
- 00:43:27,238 --> 00:43:29,740
- Just leave.
- You don't owe him anything.
- 755
- 00:43:29,741 --> 00:43:31,208
- He's testing me.
- 756
- 00:43:31,209 --> 00:43:33,776
- He's crazy, you don't
- have to put up with this.
- 757
- 00:43:34,245 --> 00:43:35,946
- You're worth it.
- 758
- 00:43:35,947 --> 00:43:38,181
- Please, go home.
- 759
- 00:43:38,984 --> 00:43:40,283
- I'm not done yet.
- 760
- 00:43:40,819 --> 00:43:41,986
- Hey!
- 761
- 00:43:41,987 --> 00:43:43,821
- You're not properly
- dressed, young lady!
- 762
- 00:43:43,822 --> 00:43:46,790
- And you, you better
- pick up the pace.
- 763
- 00:43:46,791 --> 00:43:48,691
- Sun's gonna be up soon!
- 764
- 00:43:55,300 --> 00:43:56,967
- You wanna help him?
- 765
- 00:43:56,968 --> 00:43:58,936
- You put on some proper clothes.
- 766
- 00:44:11,282 --> 00:44:13,817
- I know he's just
- trying to break me.
- 767
- 00:44:13,818 --> 00:44:17,855
- Ephesians tells us, "Husbands
- should love their wives as
- 768
- 00:44:17,856 --> 00:44:20,724
- Christ loved the Church and
- gave himself up for her."
- 769
- 00:44:20,725 --> 00:44:22,359
- So what, I
- should just take it?
- 770
- 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:23,427
- Whatever he throws at me?
- 771
- 00:44:23,428 --> 00:44:25,095
- Yes.
- 772
- 00:44:25,096 --> 00:44:28,164
- It'll be painful, you'll
- wanna scream at him.
- 773
- 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:30,867
- To stand up for yourself.
- 774
- 00:44:31,369 --> 00:44:33,871
- But if you take it,
- eventually you will overcome.
- 775
- 00:44:33,872 --> 00:44:35,672
- He's just trying to
- test you to make sure your
- 776
- 00:44:38,443 --> 00:44:39,559
- intentions are pure.
- 777
- 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,760
- What do you think would happen
- if you lashed out at him?
- 778
- 00:44:43,715 --> 00:44:45,448
- I'd be proving him right?
- 779
- 00:44:46,217 --> 00:44:48,017
- Exactly.
- 780
- 00:44:48,453 --> 00:44:51,088
- Okay, it's a six.
- But this is a Y, it's an N,
- 781
- 00:44:51,089 --> 00:44:55,191
- close bracket, plus open bracket
- Y, plus three, equals what?
- 782
- 00:44:55,727 --> 00:44:56,894
- Four.
- 783
- 00:44:56,895 --> 00:44:58,762
- No, you
- actually wrote three.
- 784
- 00:44:58,763 --> 00:44:59,862
- Negative four.
- 785
- 00:45:00,699 --> 00:45:03,266
- It's a great try,
- but it's wrong.
- 786
- 00:45:04,402 --> 00:45:05,703
- I don't think it's wrong.
- 787
- 00:45:05,704 --> 00:45:07,270
- It's wrong.
- I don't think so.
- 788
- 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,007
- So here,
- ten questions right.
- 789
- 00:45:12,811 --> 00:45:13,876
- You got them.
- 790
- 00:45:14,245 --> 00:45:15,411
- Steve.
- 791
- 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,114
- Great, you're here.
- 792
- 00:45:17,115 --> 00:45:18,981
- Nice to see you, sir.
- 793
- 00:45:19,317 --> 00:45:21,251
- I got a serious weed
- problem out in the garden,
- 794
- 00:45:21,252 --> 00:45:22,418
- wanna give me a hand?
- 795
- 00:45:23,121 --> 00:45:24,888
- Weeds?
- 796
- 00:45:24,889 --> 00:45:27,056
- Out of control,
- like they do.
- 797
- 00:45:30,261 --> 00:45:31,394
- Sure.
- 798
- 00:45:58,156 --> 00:45:59,389
- Can I get some water?
- 799
- 00:45:59,390 --> 00:46:01,357
- You're almost done,
- just push on through.
- 800
- 00:46:06,898 --> 00:46:07,898
- Argh!
- 801
- 00:46:08,933 --> 00:46:10,868
- I think these gloves
- have holes in them.
- 802
- 00:46:10,869 --> 00:46:12,836
- It's the only ones we have.
- 803
- 00:46:12,837 --> 00:46:15,539
- I- I-actually,
- there are some in the garage.
- 804
- 00:46:15,540 --> 00:46:17,173
- No, I got rid of those.
- 805
- 00:46:24,315 --> 00:46:25,381
- Aargh!!
- 806
- 00:46:25,984 --> 00:46:26,984
- All right.
- 807
- 00:46:28,887 --> 00:46:31,354
- That's gonna hurt a whole
- lot worse without them.
- 808
- 00:46:32,157 --> 00:46:34,057
- What do I have to do?
- 809
- 00:46:34,058 --> 00:46:35,459
- I don't know, what can you do?
- 810
- 00:46:35,460 --> 00:46:36,993
- What is your
- problem with me?
- 811
- 00:46:37,829 --> 00:46:39,929
- I don't know, I just
- don't trust you.
- 812
- 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,267
- Something not right about you.
- 813
- 00:46:43,268 --> 00:46:44,935
- I don't even
- know what I've done.
- 814
- 00:46:44,936 --> 00:46:46,970
- You don't think I see the way
- you two look at each other?
- 815
- 00:46:46,971 --> 00:46:48,405
- And would
- that be so bad?
- 816
- 00:46:48,406 --> 00:46:50,107
- Must be, or you two
- wouldn't keep telling me
- 817
- 00:46:50,108 --> 00:46:52,074
- that you're just friends.
- 818
- 00:46:54,279 --> 00:46:55,845
- I'm not one
- of your recruits.
- 819
- 00:46:57,415 --> 00:46:59,583
- I knew what you were
- the moment I saw you.
- 820
- 00:46:59,584 --> 00:47:00,584
- And what's that?
- 821
- 00:47:00,585 --> 00:47:01,851
- Soft.
- 822
- 00:47:02,854 --> 00:47:03,953
- What's going on?
- 823
- 00:47:05,590 --> 00:47:07,256
- Oh, nothing.
- 824
- 00:47:07,892 --> 00:47:09,926
- Me and Steve were just
- joking around, huh?
- 825
- 00:47:16,234 --> 00:47:17,500
- You okay?
- 826
- 00:47:37,355 --> 00:47:39,223
- I can't believe him.
- 827
- 00:47:39,224 --> 00:47:41,525
- I shouldn't of lost
- it at him like that.
- 828
- 00:47:41,526 --> 00:47:44,528
- Pastor Roberts was right, I
- gave him exactly what he wanted.
- 829
- 00:47:44,529 --> 00:47:45,995
- This isn't your fault.
- 830
- 00:47:47,098 --> 00:47:48,865
- He knows something's up.
- 831
- 00:47:49,234 --> 00:47:52,603
- We'll tell him eventually,
- when he comes around to it.
- 832
- 00:47:52,604 --> 00:47:56,039
- I'm in the Air Police,
- he's a Chief Master Sargent.
- 833
- 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,574
- We work on the same base,
- 834
- 00:47:57,575 --> 00:47:59,376
- we're just lucky
- he hasn't seen me yet.
- 835
- 00:47:59,377 --> 00:48:01,378
- But he's never here,
- he's always off on temp duty
- 836
- 00:48:01,379 --> 00:48:04,014
- at some other base.
- He's got another trip coming up.
- 837
- 00:48:04,015 --> 00:48:05,581
- We're fine.
- 838
- 00:48:10,154 --> 00:48:11,454
- I don't know.
- 839
- 00:48:17,929 --> 00:48:20,063
- Just cover for me on guard duty.
- 840
- 00:48:20,064 --> 00:48:21,431
- I covered
- for you last time,
- 841
- 00:48:21,432 --> 00:48:23,100
- the watch commander caught me.
- 842
- 00:48:23,101 --> 00:48:25,968
- I spent hours,
- hours cleaning toilets.
- 843
- 00:48:26,671 --> 00:48:28,631
- You know I can't pee in a
- public bathroom anymore?
- 844
- 00:48:29,340 --> 00:48:32,109
- You know how long it
- takes to scrub a toilet
- 845
- 00:48:32,110 --> 00:48:33,210
- with a toothbrush?
- 846
- 00:48:33,211 --> 00:48:35,646
- You know how long it
- takes to scrub fifteen?
- 847
- 00:48:35,647 --> 00:48:37,381
- Fifteen of them.
- 848
- 00:48:37,382 --> 00:48:39,622
- Yeah, because I did it when
- I covered for you with Julie.
- 849
- 00:48:40,285 --> 00:48:41,952
- You mean my wife?
- 850
- 00:48:41,953 --> 00:48:43,519
- You haven't proposed yet.
- 851
- 00:48:44,222 --> 00:48:47,023
- Not yet, but I might do, maybe.
- 852
- 00:48:47,659 --> 00:48:48,959
- Maybe not.
- 853
- 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:50,426
- She keeps me on my toes.
- 854
- 00:48:51,129 --> 00:48:52,262
- And she's cute.
- 855
- 00:48:52,263 --> 00:48:53,329
- Are you done yet?
- 856
- 00:48:54,065 --> 00:48:55,231
- Maybe.
- 857
- 00:48:56,267 --> 00:48:57,667
- Maybe not.
- 858
- 00:48:59,203 --> 00:49:00,570
- You owe me.
- 859
- 00:49:00,571 --> 00:49:01,939
- I don't owe you.
- 860
- 00:49:01,940 --> 00:49:03,572
- I paid you back, we're square.
- 861
- 00:49:05,176 --> 00:49:06,976
- Look, they haven't
- seen this guy in weeks.
- 862
- 00:49:07,278 --> 00:49:08,711
- Or the-
- 863
- 00:49:13,618 --> 00:49:14,717
- At ease.
- 864
- 00:49:17,288 --> 00:49:18,487
- Whoops.
- 865
- 00:49:22,260 --> 00:49:23,592
- Your friend here-
- 866
- 00:49:24,729 --> 00:49:26,128
- liar.
- 867
- 00:49:36,307 --> 00:49:37,506
- Are you okay?
- 868
- 00:49:39,644 --> 00:49:41,644
- I won't be soon.
- 869
- 00:49:47,986 --> 00:49:49,452
- Marion?
- 870
- 00:49:49,654 --> 00:49:51,387
- Jan?
- Jan?
- 871
- 00:49:53,224 --> 00:49:55,292
- You know that young man
- who comes into our house,
- 872
- 00:49:55,293 --> 00:49:57,094
- eats our food, your friend.
- 873
- 00:49:57,095 --> 00:49:58,762
- The one you insulted?
- 874
- 00:49:58,763 --> 00:50:01,031
- Didn't think I knew
- about that, did you?
- 875
- 00:50:01,032 --> 00:50:04,101
- I should've done worse
- considering the-student
- 876
- 00:50:04,102 --> 00:50:06,602
- just waved me through
- the gate on base.
- 877
- 00:50:07,705 --> 00:50:08,739
- Well?
- 878
- 00:50:08,740 --> 00:50:10,640
- I wasn't lying.
- 879
- 00:50:10,641 --> 00:50:14,344
- He is a student, he's just
- also in the Air Force.
- 880
- 00:50:14,345 --> 00:50:16,580
- You don't think that was
- important for me to know?
- 881
- 00:50:16,581 --> 00:50:18,548
- I knew that you wouldn't
- like it, and I like him,
- 882
- 00:50:18,549 --> 00:50:20,050
- so I didn't tell you.
- 883
- 00:50:20,051 --> 00:50:21,584
- You're dating a GI?
- 884
- 00:50:22,487 --> 00:50:24,020
- I guess I am.
- 885
- 00:50:26,457 --> 00:50:27,758
- Not anymore you're not.
- 886
- 00:50:27,759 --> 00:50:30,093
- You can't stop me
- from seeing him.
- 887
- 00:50:30,094 --> 00:50:31,595
- What? You don't
- think I can find a way to get
- 888
- 00:50:31,596 --> 00:50:33,330
- him dishonorably discharged?
- 889
- 00:50:33,331 --> 00:50:35,432
- I got a half a dozen officers
- on that base who would find a
- 890
- 00:50:35,433 --> 00:50:36,733
- reason for me in a heartbeat.
- 891
- 00:50:36,734 --> 00:50:38,068
- You wouldn't do that.
- 892
- 00:50:38,069 --> 00:50:38,668
- Of course I would.
- 893
- 00:50:38,669 --> 00:50:40,237
- No, he's a good man.
- 894
- 00:50:40,238 --> 00:50:42,072
- He's a liar.
- 895
- 00:50:42,073 --> 00:50:47,277
- He came in to my house and lied
- to my face night after night.
- 896
- 00:50:47,278 --> 00:50:48,711
- I asked him to.
- 897
- 00:50:49,714 --> 00:50:52,549
- Sweetheart, he's not
- good enough for you.
- 898
- 00:50:52,550 --> 00:50:54,583
- Well shouldn't I
- get to decide that?
- 899
- 00:50:55,586 --> 00:50:57,653
- This is for the best.
- 900
- 00:50:58,656 --> 00:50:59,556
- No.
- 901
- 00:50:59,557 --> 00:51:01,123
- No!
- 902
- 00:51:01,659 --> 00:51:02,826
- That's it.
- 903
- 00:51:02,827 --> 00:51:04,561
- It's done.
- 904
- 00:51:12,203 --> 00:51:13,803
- I'll talk to him.
- 905
- 00:51:23,448 --> 00:51:25,081
- Sweetheart.
- 906
- 00:51:26,250 --> 00:51:28,617
- Steve, blink if you can hear me.
- 907
- 00:51:33,658 --> 00:51:35,724
- Give us a little blink, dad.
- 908
- 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,526
- Please.
- 909
- 00:52:00,384 --> 00:52:01,784
- Are we being punished?
- 910
- 00:52:04,422 --> 00:52:05,488
- No.
- 911
- 00:52:08,292 --> 00:52:09,525
- Hey mom,
- 912
- 00:52:11,762 --> 00:52:13,562
- I know you
- don't wanna move dad.
- 913
- 00:52:14,599 --> 00:52:15,698
- Okay?
- 914
- 00:52:17,435 --> 00:52:21,670
- But I do think we probably have
- some decisions to make though.
- 915
- 00:52:22,707 --> 00:52:24,607
- What should we do?
- 916
- 00:52:25,510 --> 00:52:30,147
- I talked to the staff here
- and they have an end-of-life
- 917
- 00:52:30,148 --> 00:52:36,519
- physician, and maybe just
- tomorrow we go talk to him,
- 918
- 00:52:37,688 --> 00:52:39,855
- figure out what our options are.
- 919
- 00:52:41,392 --> 00:52:44,326
- Can we just
- hold on a little longer?
- 920
- 00:52:45,196 --> 00:52:46,695
- It's just to get information.
- 921
- 00:52:47,331 --> 00:52:49,498
- Okay?
- That's all it is.
- 922
- 00:52:50,268 --> 00:52:51,734
- I understand.
- 923
- 00:52:55,439 --> 00:52:57,641
- Your daughter
- has brought me up to speed
- 924
- 00:52:57,642 --> 00:53:00,293
- on your situation,
- 925
- 00:53:00,294 --> 00:53:02,946
- and obviously there's no problem
- leaving Steve right where he is.
- 926
- 00:53:02,947 --> 00:53:05,581
- Our trauma center staff can
- handle everything you need.
- 927
- 00:53:05,917 --> 00:53:07,383
- Thank you.
- 928
- 00:53:08,586 --> 00:53:10,387
- I have a question.
- 929
- 00:53:10,388 --> 00:53:12,522
- Absolutely, that's
- what I'm here for.
- 930
- 00:53:12,523 --> 00:53:16,959
- Everyone keeps telling
- me that there's no hope.
- 931
- 00:53:17,695 --> 00:53:18,762
- Why?
- 932
- 00:53:18,763 --> 00:53:23,299
- I am useless to you if I
- don't tell you the truth.
- 933
- 00:53:23,901 --> 00:53:27,437
- The reason that everyone is
- telling you there's no hope
- 934
- 00:53:27,438 --> 00:53:29,705
- is because there is none.
- 935
- 00:53:30,942 --> 00:53:32,976
- Steve's lungs started to
- collapse before he arrived at
- 936
- 00:53:32,977 --> 00:53:34,543
- the hospital.
- 937
- 00:53:35,379 --> 00:53:38,747
- Along with that and the
- paralysis as one thing,
- 938
- 00:53:39,684 --> 00:53:42,352
- there's just too many
- things to deal with.
- 939
- 00:53:42,353 --> 00:53:45,722
- But people just don't die
- because they're paralyzed.
- 940
- 00:53:45,723 --> 00:53:47,591
- It's more than that.
- 941
- 00:53:47,592 --> 00:53:49,326
- You're right.
- 942
- 00:53:49,327 --> 00:53:52,662
- In Steve's case, if he recovered
- the ability to breathe on his
- 943
- 00:53:52,663 --> 00:53:57,234
- own, or if his heart could beat
- without the extreme medical
- 944
- 00:53:57,235 --> 00:54:02,272
- interventions he's currently on,
- then yes he would have some sort
- 945
- 00:54:02,273 --> 00:54:06,476
- of opportunity for a functional
- life outside of the hospital
- 946
- 00:54:06,477 --> 00:54:08,245
- as a quadriplegic.
- 947
- 00:54:08,246 --> 00:54:09,613
- Okay.
- 948
- 00:54:09,614 --> 00:54:12,249
- Some people in these
- situations have recovered.
- 949
- 00:54:12,250 --> 00:54:14,017
- We researched it.
- 950
- 00:54:14,018 --> 00:54:16,419
- I understand.
- 951
- 00:54:16,420 --> 00:54:18,822
- But, if that were going to
- happen we would've seen some
- 952
- 00:54:18,823 --> 00:54:21,023
- sign of it by now.
- 953
- 00:54:22,526 --> 00:54:24,394
- Your accident was
- Friday morning?
- 954
- 00:54:24,395 --> 00:54:25,996
- Mm-hmm.
- 955
- 00:54:25,997 --> 00:54:28,665
- By Sunday evening
- Steve's heart still showed no
- 956
- 00:54:28,666 --> 00:54:31,600
- ability to
- tolerate reduced drugs.
- 957
- 00:54:32,570 --> 00:54:37,406
- His lungs clearly still showed
- no ability to work on their own.
- 958
- 00:54:38,776 --> 00:54:43,980
- And since then, every test
- consistently shows that he's not
- 959
- 00:54:43,981 --> 00:54:47,316
- only not improving,
- he's getting worse.
- 960
- 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:53,622
- Today is Tuesday, soon he won't
- be responsive in any way.
- 961
- 00:54:55,926 --> 00:54:59,929
- I'm sure we can prolong
- his life artificially but
- 962
- 00:54:59,930 --> 00:55:01,930
- would he want that?
- 963
- 00:55:03,501 --> 00:55:05,734
- I can't answer that for you.
- 964
- 00:55:06,771 --> 00:55:10,306
- You have to decide that
- together as a family.
- 965
- 00:55:12,410 --> 00:55:14,711
- I have prayed and prayed.
- 966
- 00:55:14,712 --> 00:55:17,012
- How does God decide
- when to make a miracle?
- 967
- 00:55:19,317 --> 00:55:20,883
- And why your dad?
- 968
- 00:55:21,786 --> 00:55:23,320
- We've had faith.
- 969
- 00:55:23,321 --> 00:55:26,088
- Mom, it's in His hands.
- 970
- 00:55:27,558 --> 00:55:31,527
- We don't know when
- God does what he does.
- 971
- 00:55:32,897 --> 00:55:34,963
- But we have to keep our faith.
- 972
- 00:55:36,434 --> 00:55:38,801
- I don't think that's
- possible for me right now.
- 973
- 00:55:39,403 --> 00:55:43,772
- Bad things happen to
- good people all the time.
- 974
- 00:55:46,510 --> 00:55:48,677
- Mom, we have got
- to keep believing.
- 975
- 00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,980
- Do you think he knows?
- 976
- 00:55:54,051 --> 00:55:55,585
- What?
- 977
- 00:55:55,586 --> 00:55:57,086
- That's he's dying?
- 978
- 00:56:00,758 --> 00:56:03,827
- He was always the careful
- one, he was always careful.
- 979
- 00:56:03,828 --> 00:56:05,895
- I am the one who
- should not be here.
- 980
- 00:56:05,896 --> 00:56:07,364
- Hey.
- 981
- 00:56:07,365 --> 00:56:10,132
- Mom hey, you cannot feel
- guilty for surviving.
- 982
- 00:56:11,402 --> 00:56:13,702
- If I could trade places
- with him I would.
- 983
- 00:57:03,954 --> 00:57:06,155
- Your dad's
- gonna go nuclear.
- 984
- 00:57:06,590 --> 00:57:09,559
- That won't change
- if we go back now.
- 985
- 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:10,960
- Something's happened.
- 986
- 00:57:10,961 --> 00:57:12,161
- What?
- 987
- 00:57:13,063 --> 00:57:14,630
- They're transferring me.
- 988
- 00:57:15,766 --> 00:57:16,999
- To where?
- 989
- 00:57:17,701 --> 00:57:19,669
- Omaha, Nebraska.
- 990
- 00:57:19,670 --> 00:57:21,004
- Nebraska?
- 991
- 00:57:21,005 --> 00:57:22,705
- Why?
- 992
- 00:57:22,706 --> 00:57:26,041
- I'll be part of the Elite
- Guard at Strategic Air Command.
- 993
- 00:57:28,045 --> 00:57:29,645
- I'll be guarding generals.
- 994
- 00:57:31,949 --> 00:57:33,483
- I'm proud of you.
- 995
- 00:57:33,484 --> 00:57:34,817
- Thanks.
- 996
- 00:57:40,458 --> 00:57:42,925
- But what does it mean for us?
- 997
- 00:57:43,694 --> 00:57:46,028
- I might be gone
- for a long time.
- 998
- 00:57:46,630 --> 00:57:48,198
- That's why I wanted
- to talk to you.
- 999
- 00:57:48,199 --> 00:57:50,098
- Are you really gonna
- do this right now?
- 1000
- 00:57:51,502 --> 00:57:52,836
- How did you know?
- 1001
- 00:57:52,837 --> 00:57:54,771
- I'm not stupid, Steve.
- 1002
- 00:57:54,772 --> 00:57:56,573
- Well then, do you want to?
- 1003
- 00:57:56,574 --> 00:57:57,807
- No.
- 1004
- 00:57:57,808 --> 00:57:59,876
- But I'll be gone,
- don't you think we should?
- 1005
- 00:57:59,877 --> 00:58:01,845
- Why, I love you.
- 1006
- 00:58:01,846 --> 00:58:03,713
- Yes that's exactly why.
- 1007
- 00:58:03,714 --> 00:58:05,548
- You want to break up
- with me because I love you?
- 1008
- 00:58:05,549 --> 00:58:06,716
- Break up?
- 1009
- 00:58:08,252 --> 00:58:10,819
- No, no, hey-
- 1010
- 00:58:13,724 --> 00:58:15,491
- I want to marry you.
- 1011
- 00:58:17,094 --> 00:58:18,495
- What?
- 1012
- 00:58:18,496 --> 00:58:20,128
- Before I get transferred.
- 1013
- 00:58:24,802 --> 00:58:29,171
- Don't people usually get a ring
- in these kind of situation?
- 1014
- 00:58:31,909 --> 00:58:34,277
- You know-I-
- 1015
- 00:58:34,278 --> 00:58:40,148
- I make like $250 a month, I
- can't afford what you deserve.
- 1016
- 00:58:42,620 --> 00:58:45,889
- That's okay, you'd probably
- pick the wrong one anyway,
- 1017
- 00:58:45,890 --> 00:58:47,856
- I can pick my own.
- 1018
- 00:58:49,093 --> 00:58:50,759
- I've been saving up from work.
- 1019
- 00:58:54,231 --> 00:58:57,266
- That's why I want
- to marry you, you know.
- 1020
- 00:59:00,070 --> 00:59:01,970
- Don't get used to it.
- 1021
- 00:59:03,173 --> 00:59:04,740
- What?
- 1022
- 00:59:05,643 --> 00:59:07,076
- What?
- 1023
- 00:59:07,077 --> 00:59:09,879
- My dad always said that
- if he caught me dating a GI
- 1024
- 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:12,015
- he'd ship me off to Nebraska.
- 1025
- 00:59:14,885 --> 00:59:17,553
- I want you to get my
- father's blessing.
- 1026
- 00:59:18,055 --> 00:59:20,789
- I know what he's been like,
- but he's still my dad.
- 1027
- 00:59:24,161 --> 00:59:26,795
- What if he
- doesn't give it to me?
- 1028
- 00:59:28,198 --> 00:59:30,767
- I don't see how we can
- be married if he doesn't.
- 1029
- 00:59:30,768 --> 00:59:32,301
- He'll always be my father.
- 1030
- 00:59:33,070 --> 00:59:34,804
- I don't want us to
- spend the rest of our
- 1031
- 00:59:34,805 --> 00:59:36,039
- lives sneaking around.
- 1032
- 00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:38,840
- So you won't
- marry me if he doesn't?
- 1033
- 00:59:40,744 --> 00:59:42,645
- It's important to me.
- 1034
- 00:59:42,646 --> 00:59:44,112
- Okay.
- 1035
- 00:59:45,683 --> 00:59:48,183
- I'll do whatever I
- have to do to get it.
- 1036
- 00:59:51,221 --> 00:59:52,321
- I love you.
- 1037
- 00:59:53,190 --> 00:59:55,023
- I love you too.
- 1038
- 01:00:05,603 --> 01:00:06,269
- You think that's...
- 1039
- 01:00:06,270 --> 01:00:08,670
- That's definitely him.
- 1040
- 01:00:09,974 --> 01:00:11,841
- Get over here, young lady.
- 1041
- 01:00:11,842 --> 01:00:14,843
- I'll deal with him, but you
- have to talk to him some time.
- 1042
- 01:00:16,947 --> 01:00:19,382
- You'd tell me if
- he murdered one of your
- 1043
- 01:00:19,383 --> 01:00:21,083
- ex-boyfriends, right?
- 1044
- 01:00:22,252 --> 01:00:23,785
- Right?
- 1045
- 01:00:26,390 --> 01:00:27,723
- Right?
- 1046
- 01:00:28,158 --> 01:00:29,691
- Let's go.
- 1047
- 01:00:31,729 --> 01:00:33,662
- I will not forget this.
- 1048
- 01:00:45,909 --> 01:00:47,042
- Chief?
- 1049
- 01:00:56,754 --> 01:00:59,188
- Liar who takes my
- daughter to make out in
- 1050
- 01:00:59,189 --> 01:01:00,656
- the middle of the night.
- 1051
- 01:01:02,359 --> 01:01:05,127
- There is something
- I want to ask you.
- 1052
- 01:01:05,996 --> 01:01:09,931
- Well I'm going to do a
- little target practice later on,
- 1053
- 01:01:11,035 --> 01:01:13,101
- we can talk then.
- 1054
- 01:01:13,671 --> 01:01:14,903
- Okay.
- 1055
- 01:01:31,889 --> 01:01:33,690
- So tell me something
- Steve, you a shooter?
- 1056
- 01:01:33,691 --> 01:01:34,691
- Yes sir.
- 1057
- 01:01:34,692 --> 01:01:35,692
- You any good?
- 1058
- 01:01:35,693 --> 01:01:36,993
- I'm okay.
- 1059
- 01:01:36,994 --> 01:01:39,328
- Have some pride son,
- come on let's go.
- 1060
- 01:01:39,329 --> 01:01:40,362
- This way.
- 1061
- 01:01:47,838 --> 01:01:49,371
- Shouldn't
- you lead the way?
- 1062
- 01:01:50,174 --> 01:01:53,109
- You're doing just fine,
- it's about 100 yards up here.
- 1063
- 01:01:53,110 --> 01:01:54,376
- We'll be good.
- 1064
- 01:02:04,388 --> 01:02:05,487
- Keep going?
- 1065
- 01:02:06,356 --> 01:02:08,190
- 50 yards.
- 1066
- 01:02:11,195 --> 01:02:12,462
- Good shot, chief.
- 1067
- 01:02:12,463 --> 01:02:14,463
- Nobody likes a
- suck-up Steve, your turn.
- 1068
- 01:02:23,307 --> 01:02:25,007
- You sure you qualified
- on the range?
- 1069
- 01:02:25,008 --> 01:02:26,375
- I did.
- 1070
- 01:02:26,376 --> 01:02:27,943
- You say so.
- 1071
- 01:02:29,847 --> 01:02:33,449
- Set me up a bottle, I'm going to
- move back here about 30 feet,
- 1072
- 01:02:33,450 --> 01:02:35,250
- challenge myself.
- 1073
- 01:02:47,498 --> 01:02:49,832
- Are you insane?
- 1074
- 01:02:49,833 --> 01:02:52,168
- Oh man calm down I could
- shoot a pimple off your face.
- 1075
- 01:02:52,169 --> 01:02:54,002
- You're crazy.
- 1076
- 01:02:54,003 --> 01:02:55,838
- Don't be so touchy
- Steve, you're fine.
- 1077
- 01:02:55,839 --> 01:02:56,539
- Chief Nichols.
- 1078
- 01:02:56,540 --> 01:02:58,241
- What?
- 1079
- 01:02:58,242 --> 01:03:00,523
- I am here to ask for your
- blessing to marry your daughter.
- 1080
- 01:03:02,279 --> 01:03:03,913
- Oh.
- Is that right?
- 1081
- 01:03:03,914 --> 01:03:04,947
- Yes sir.
- 1082
- 01:03:04,948 --> 01:03:08,417
- Well I'll tell you what.
- You see that brown bottle
- 1083
- 01:03:08,418 --> 01:03:10,920
- back there,
- that's about 15 metres away.
- 1084
- 01:03:10,921 --> 01:03:13,422
- That's far less than you
- need to qualify on the range.
- 1085
- 01:03:13,423 --> 01:03:16,559
- I'm going to give you two shots.
- You hit one of them,
- 1086
- 01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,795
- you'll have my blessing
- to marry my daughter.
- 1087
- 01:03:21,198 --> 01:03:22,330
- You're on.
- 1088
- 01:03:23,333 --> 01:03:24,967
- Why do you want
- to marry her now anyway?
- 1089
- 01:03:24,968 --> 01:03:26,035
- What's the hurry?
- 1090
- 01:03:26,036 --> 01:03:27,804
- I'm being transferred.
- 1091
- 01:03:27,805 --> 01:03:28,938
- Is that right?
- 1092
- 01:03:28,939 --> 01:03:29,906
- Out of state?
- 1093
- 01:03:29,907 --> 01:03:31,474
- Yes, can
- you stop talking.
- 1094
- 01:03:31,475 --> 01:03:32,475
- Where to?
- 1095
- 01:03:33,110 --> 01:03:35,310
- Omaha.
- Can I shoot now?
- 1096
- 01:03:35,512 --> 01:03:37,279
- Yeah, sure.
- Go ahead.
- 1097
- 01:03:40,851 --> 01:03:44,253
- Steve, it's a lot easier to fall
- in love with a girl that you can
- 1098
- 01:03:44,254 --> 01:03:48,257
- see, but you're going to be on
- a new base and your air force
- 1099
- 01:03:48,258 --> 01:03:51,027
- buddies, they're going to be
- telling you that she's already
- 1100
- 01:03:51,028 --> 01:03:52,962
- forgotten about you and you're
- going to be sitting there
- 1101
- 01:03:52,963 --> 01:03:54,530
- waiting for your
- Dear John letter.
- 1102
- 01:03:54,531 --> 01:03:56,399
- It won't be
- like that for us.
- 1103
- 01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,368
- You're going to be out on leave,
- out in the world socializing.
- 1104
- 01:03:59,369 --> 01:04:01,436
- There's going to be all
- sorts of other women.
- 1105
- 01:04:01,437 --> 01:04:03,506
- Women that you can see and you
- can smell that are a lot more
- 1106
- 01:04:03,507 --> 01:04:05,474
- real than anything you can write
- down on a piece of paper or
- 1107
- 01:04:05,475 --> 01:04:07,243
- what's in a photograph.
- 1108
- 01:04:07,244 --> 01:04:08,244
- That's not true.
- 1109
- 01:04:08,912 --> 01:04:10,879
- You're still human, Steve.
- 1110
- 01:04:11,915 --> 01:04:15,383
- Everything you're about to do
- is to push you away from her.
- 1111
- 01:04:16,353 --> 01:04:18,621
- The only thing pushing
- me away from your daughter
- 1112
- 01:04:18,622 --> 01:04:21,022
- is you, Mr. Nichols.
- 1113
- 01:04:22,359 --> 01:04:25,260
- But guess what, I qualified
- as an expert marksman too.
- 1114
- 01:04:26,396 --> 01:04:27,430
- Go on.
- 1115
- 01:04:47,451 --> 01:04:49,384
- Yeah well that was close.
- 1116
- 01:04:50,254 --> 01:04:52,654
- Go ahead and do me a favour
- son, let her down easy.
- 1117
- 01:05:08,572 --> 01:05:10,472
- If you're ready to leave-
- 1118
- 01:05:12,509 --> 01:05:14,910
- I need you to say goodbye.
- 1119
- 01:05:17,247 --> 01:05:20,148
- They think I
- should let you go,
- 1120
- 01:05:22,352 --> 01:05:24,319
- but it still feels wrong.
- 1121
- 01:05:26,290 --> 01:05:28,990
- I need you to tell
- me what to do.
- 1122
- 01:05:33,130 --> 01:05:36,498
- Please, please
- tell me what to do.
- 1123
- 01:05:38,035 --> 01:05:39,401
- Please.
- 1124
- 01:05:56,119 --> 01:05:57,185
- Okay.
- 1125
- 01:06:01,124 --> 01:06:02,223
- Okay.
- 1126
- 01:06:05,095 --> 01:06:06,294
- I love you.
- 1127
- 01:06:17,140 --> 01:06:18,707
- Your dad told me what he wants.
- 1128
- 01:06:24,614 --> 01:06:26,114
- How?
- 1129
- 01:06:28,418 --> 01:06:30,552
- We've been together 46 years.
- 1130
- 01:06:32,456 --> 01:06:37,025
- I asked and God let
- him tell me in his way.
- 1131
- 01:06:39,596 --> 01:06:41,463
- What did he say?
- 1132
- 01:06:42,699 --> 01:06:44,199
- He's ready to go.
- 1133
- 01:06:50,140 --> 01:06:53,742
- If God's up there he's ready
- to welcome Dad in to Heaven.
- 1134
- 01:06:57,414 --> 01:06:59,247
- Look at you.
- 1135
- 01:07:02,085 --> 01:07:03,485
- I said if.
- 1136
- 01:07:04,721 --> 01:07:06,221
- He is-
- 1137
- 01:07:08,792 --> 01:07:10,759
- and he will.
- 1138
- 01:07:12,362 --> 01:07:14,629
- You think Pastor Roberts
- is still in town?
- 1139
- 01:07:17,300 --> 01:07:19,467
- Another half hour and
- I'd have been on my flight.
- 1140
- 01:07:21,772 --> 01:07:23,538
- I didn't think I
- would see you again.
- 1141
- 01:07:24,441 --> 01:07:26,508
- You're no more
- surprised than me.
- 1142
- 01:07:39,489 --> 01:07:40,922
- How does it happen?
- 1143
- 01:07:40,923 --> 01:07:42,358
- Without medication his heart
- rate will drop to critical
- 1144
- 01:07:42,359 --> 01:07:45,594
- levels, and he won't
- be able to breathe.
- 1145
- 01:07:45,595 --> 01:07:47,196
- Will he be in pain?
- 1146
- 01:07:47,197 --> 01:07:49,331
- No, he'll be sedated.
- 1147
- 01:07:49,332 --> 01:07:51,300
- He'll be comfortable.
- 1148
- 01:07:51,301 --> 01:07:55,603
- And then he'll pass peacefully
- when we turn off support.
- 1149
- 01:07:57,441 --> 01:08:00,275
- Is there a time you prefer?
- 1150
- 01:08:04,381 --> 01:08:07,615
- You-you want me to choose
- what time my husband dies?
- 1151
- 01:08:09,820 --> 01:08:11,152
- Yes.
- 1152
- 01:08:12,522 --> 01:08:15,191
- I'd suggest 11 a.m.
- 1153
- 01:08:15,192 --> 01:08:18,760
- It's between visiting
- hours and it'll be quiet.
- 1154
- 01:08:19,329 --> 01:08:20,729
- Can they stay with him?
- 1155
- 01:08:20,730 --> 01:08:22,798
- Absolutely.
- 1156
- 01:08:22,799 --> 01:08:24,866
- You can stay as
- long as you need.
- 1157
- 01:08:27,404 --> 01:08:29,872
- Heavenly Father,
- we come to you at a time
- 1158
- 01:08:29,873 --> 01:08:33,241
- of sadness,
- asking you for peace.
- 1159
- 01:08:34,611 --> 01:08:40,416
- Almighty God, we are here today
- because Steve is ready to depart
- 1160
- 01:08:40,417 --> 01:08:45,221
- this world and we ask you, oh
- Lord that you allow him to pass
- 1161
- 01:08:45,222 --> 01:08:47,422
- as he desired to live.
- 1162
- 01:08:48,558 --> 01:08:52,827
- In your church, in your
- faith, and in your love.
- 1163
- 01:08:54,297 --> 01:08:56,832
- We ask you oh Lord that
- you take him into eternity
- 1164
- 01:08:56,833 --> 01:08:58,666
- to go home with you.
- 1165
- 01:09:02,172 --> 01:09:03,371
- Can I say something?
- 1166
- 01:09:05,475 --> 01:09:06,875
- Of course.
- 1167
- 01:09:10,714 --> 01:09:15,350
- God, my dad
- devoted his entire life to you.
- 1168
- 01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:20,355
- So I just ask that you
- please take care of him
- 1169
- 01:09:22,225 --> 01:09:23,925
- on the other side.
- 1170
- 01:09:25,896 --> 01:09:28,663
- Will you please tell him
- that he will always be-
- 1171
- 01:09:29,566 --> 01:09:31,499
- so loved-
- 1172
- 01:09:34,171 --> 01:09:35,503
- and remembered.
- 1173
- 01:09:44,548 --> 01:09:46,214
- And that we love him.
- 1174
- 01:09:47,584 --> 01:09:50,219
- And that he's in Jesus' hands.
- 1175
- 01:09:50,220 --> 01:09:51,787
- Lord we-
- 1176
- 01:09:51,788 --> 01:09:54,422
- we let him go in
- to your hands now.
- 1177
- 01:09:59,262 --> 01:10:01,196
- In Jesus' name,
- 1178
- 01:10:04,434 --> 01:10:05,434
- amen.
- 1179
- 01:10:05,969 --> 01:10:07,603
- And amen.
- 1180
- 01:10:09,055 --> 01:10:10,506
- No that's it then.
- 1181
- 01:10:10,507 --> 01:10:12,575
- We're never getting married.
- 1182
- 01:10:12,576 --> 01:10:15,511
- You can try again, he'll
- warm up to you eventually.
- 1183
- 01:10:15,512 --> 01:10:17,780
- No he won't,
- okay you weren't there.
- 1184
- 01:10:17,781 --> 01:10:19,515
- You didn't see his face.
- 1185
- 01:10:19,516 --> 01:10:21,683
- And we don't have
- time for eventually.
- 1186
- 01:10:22,752 --> 01:10:25,521
- We-we just,
- we can't give up.
- 1187
- 01:10:25,522 --> 01:10:28,957
- He'll never accept
- me, okay you're right.
- 1188
- 01:10:29,693 --> 01:10:31,627
- It's not going to be any kind
- of life if we're sneaking
- 1189
- 01:10:31,628 --> 01:10:34,930
- around forever, Okay?
- That's your family.
- 1190
- 01:10:34,931 --> 01:10:36,765
- I'm not going to come
- between him and you.
- 1191
- 01:10:36,766 --> 01:10:38,000
- Well you shouldn't have to.
- 1192
- 01:10:38,001 --> 01:10:39,567
- You're not listening to me.
- 1193
- 01:10:40,003 --> 01:10:41,402
- Hey!
- 1194
- 01:10:42,405 --> 01:10:43,972
- I'm saying I won't.
- 1195
- 01:10:46,376 --> 01:10:47,942
- You're saying that this is over?
- 1196
- 01:10:49,012 --> 01:10:50,478
- It has to be.
- 1197
- 01:11:01,258 --> 01:11:03,491
- Now we couldn't have discussed
- this in the morning?
- 1198
- 01:11:04,527 --> 01:11:06,528
- I'm sorry, I just
- didn't know where to go,
- 1199
- 01:11:06,529 --> 01:11:08,496
- and Steve's going to
- get transferred soon.
- 1200
- 01:11:09,266 --> 01:11:10,398
- It's alright.
- 1201
- 01:11:13,603 --> 01:11:17,739
- Love is patient and kind,
- it does not envy or boast.
- 1202
- 01:11:19,609 --> 01:11:22,310
- It is not arrogant or rude.
- 1203
- 01:11:23,313 --> 01:11:25,647
- It does not insist
- on its own way.
- 1204
- 01:11:26,816 --> 01:11:29,717
- It is not irritable
- 1205
- 01:11:32,922 --> 01:11:35,824
- and it never
- rejoices at wrongdoing.
- 1206
- 01:11:35,825 --> 01:11:38,559
- It rejoices with truth.
- 1207
- 01:11:39,663 --> 01:11:41,529
- That's Corinthians.
- 1208
- 01:11:44,834 --> 01:11:47,903
- That's Steve, he's taken
- everything my dad's thrown at
- 1209
- 01:11:47,904 --> 01:11:50,471
- him and he's done it with
- patience and kindness.
- 1210
- 01:11:53,310 --> 01:11:58,447
- Imagine that Steve did leave
- and never returned and you never
- 1211
- 01:11:58,448 --> 01:12:02,718
- got back together, imagine
- yourself two years from now.
- 1212
- 01:12:02,719 --> 01:12:03,851
- What do you see?
- 1213
- 01:12:04,988 --> 01:12:06,554
- Nothing.
- 1214
- 01:12:07,924 --> 01:12:10,425
- How does that make you
- feel to think about it?
- 1215
- 01:12:12,796 --> 01:12:15,763
- Like trying to imagine
- walking on the moon.
- 1216
- 01:12:19,669 --> 01:12:20,802
- Alright.
- 1217
- 01:12:21,604 --> 01:12:22,970
- Well?
- 1218
- 01:12:24,741 --> 01:12:26,709
- You know what you have to do.
- 1219
- 01:12:26,710 --> 01:12:29,078
- Now let me get some sleep,
- I still have to conduct
- 1220
- 01:12:29,079 --> 01:12:30,646
- morning services.
- 1221
- 01:12:30,647 --> 01:12:32,648
- But I don't know what to
- do, that's why I came here.
- 1222
- 01:12:32,649 --> 01:12:34,982
- I... tell me what to do?
- 1223
- 01:12:35,385 --> 01:12:36,851
- You need to me say it for you?
- 1224
- 01:12:37,921 --> 01:12:41,723
- You obviously love him,
- if you want him,
- 1225
- 01:12:42,792 --> 01:12:44,359
- then go fight for him.
- 1226
- 01:13:08,017 --> 01:13:09,450
- I love him.
- 1227
- 01:13:10,453 --> 01:13:12,721
- You're still a teenager,
- you think you love him.
- 1228
- 01:13:12,722 --> 01:13:14,689
- Once he's gone,
- you'll forget about him.
- 1229
- 01:13:15,058 --> 01:13:17,058
- I will never forget him.
- 1230
- 01:13:19,929 --> 01:13:21,796
- Jan, I've said my piece.
- 1231
- 01:13:23,166 --> 01:13:24,533
- You can't do this.
- 1232
- 01:13:24,534 --> 01:13:25,800
- Oh yeah? Try me!
- 1233
- 01:13:26,503 --> 01:13:27,903
- You can't do this.
- 1234
- 01:13:27,904 --> 01:13:30,506
- Dad, you can't...
- 1235
- 01:13:30,507 --> 01:13:32,841
- This conversation
- is over, young lady.
- 1236
- 01:13:32,842 --> 01:13:34,643
- It will never be over.
- 1237
- 01:13:34,644 --> 01:13:37,078
- He left me, he's gone.
- 1238
- 01:13:37,947 --> 01:13:40,182
- Because of you, you won.
- 1239
- 01:13:40,183 --> 01:13:41,817
- Does that make you happy?
- 1240
- 01:13:41,818 --> 01:13:42,985
- Does that bring you joy?
- 1241
- 01:13:42,986 --> 01:13:46,554
- I hope so, I hope so.
- 1242
- 01:13:47,157 --> 01:13:50,993
- I hope so because you
- did lose one thing.
- 1243
- 01:13:50,994 --> 01:13:52,994
- Do you know what that is?
- 1244
- 01:13:54,531 --> 01:13:55,696
- You lost me.
- 1245
- 01:13:57,066 --> 01:14:01,169
- I will never forgive you,
- I'm never going to forget this,
- 1246
- 01:14:02,105 --> 01:14:03,605
- ever.
- 1247
- 01:14:03,606 --> 01:14:06,608
- Well then there's no point in
- talking about this anymore,
- 1248
- 01:14:06,609 --> 01:14:07,775
- is there?
- 1249
- 01:14:08,578 --> 01:14:09,677
- We're done.
- 1250
- 01:14:37,607 --> 01:14:39,640
- You're just like him, you know.
- 1251
- 01:14:40,977 --> 01:14:42,910
- That why you're so scared?
- 1252
- 01:14:45,682 --> 01:14:48,583
- We were younger than they
- are when we got married.
- 1253
- 01:14:49,886 --> 01:14:52,753
- You think my friends didn't
- try to warn me about you?
- 1254
- 01:14:53,957 --> 01:14:56,124
- You think they didn't
- say exactly what you're
- 1255
- 01:14:56,125 --> 01:14:57,792
- saying about Steve?
- 1256
- 01:14:59,996 --> 01:15:03,732
- But I didn't judge
- you on what other people
- 1257
- 01:15:03,733 --> 01:15:05,500
- thought you might be.
- 1258
- 01:15:06,803 --> 01:15:08,769
- I judged you on your actions.
- 1259
- 01:15:09,873 --> 01:15:11,072
- He lied to us.
- 1260
- 01:15:12,175 --> 01:15:14,208
- Because he was afraid.
- 1261
- 01:15:15,578 --> 01:15:16,979
- You do know that they've
- been seeing each other
- 1262
- 01:15:16,980 --> 01:15:18,146
- behind our backs?
- 1263
- 01:15:18,147 --> 01:15:20,214
- You hear her creeping
- out late at night.
- 1264
- 01:15:20,750 --> 01:15:23,685
- Is that how you want our
- future son-in-law to behave?
- 1265
- 01:15:23,686 --> 01:15:25,720
- What other choice
- did you give them?
- 1266
- 01:15:26,089 --> 01:15:28,856
- Well he's transferring.
- 1267
- 01:15:30,026 --> 01:15:33,595
- And if he wasn't serious about
- our daughter it would be a
- 1268
- 01:15:33,596 --> 01:15:36,598
- perfect opportunity
- for him to end it.
- 1269
- 01:15:36,599 --> 01:15:37,865
- It is.
- 1270
- 01:15:46,075 --> 01:15:49,243
- You remember when I was nine
- months pregnant with Jan
- 1271
- 01:15:50,213 --> 01:15:53,581
- and we thought I would go
- in to labor at any moment?
- 1272
- 01:15:57,820 --> 01:15:59,954
- You would do this all night.
- 1273
- 01:16:01,190 --> 01:16:03,324
- I have a meeting with
- General Robinson tomorrow.
- 1274
- 01:16:10,567 --> 01:16:12,333
- Your shoes are clean, honey,
- 1275
- 01:16:12,702 --> 01:16:14,702
- it's your conscience
- that isn't.
- 1276
- 01:16:24,847 --> 01:16:25,948
- You're right.
- 1277
- 01:16:25,949 --> 01:16:27,115
- I am.
- 1278
- 01:16:27,116 --> 01:16:28,683
- Yes you are.
- 1279
- 01:16:29,919 --> 01:16:32,186
- I need to make the
- choice for them.
- 1280
- 01:16:42,365 --> 01:16:43,998
- What are you going to do?
- 1281
- 01:16:44,300 --> 01:16:45,634
- What can I do?
- 1282
- 01:16:45,635 --> 01:16:47,268
- I don't have a choice.
- 1283
- 01:16:49,205 --> 01:16:50,338
- It's over.
- 1284
- 01:16:52,709 --> 01:16:53,774
- Might want to take a walk.
- 1285
- 01:17:01,851 --> 01:17:03,084
- What do you want?
- 1286
- 01:17:03,753 --> 01:17:05,786
- You'll address me as Chief, son.
- 1287
- 01:17:06,656 --> 01:17:08,824
- Okay, what do
- you want-Chief?
- 1288
- 01:17:08,825 --> 01:17:10,926
- I can have you written
- up for insubordination.
- 1289
- 01:17:10,927 --> 01:17:12,060
- Yes sir,
- if that's all sir.
- 1290
- 01:17:12,061 --> 01:17:13,227
- I have nothing to say to you.
- 1291
- 01:17:15,031 --> 01:17:17,132
- I just have one
- question for you.
- 1292
- 01:17:17,133 --> 01:17:18,834
- What's that?
- 1293
- 01:17:18,835 --> 01:17:20,135
- Why are you in the service?
- 1294
- 01:17:20,136 --> 01:17:21,969
- I am here to
- serve my country, sir.
- 1295
- 01:17:22,372 --> 01:17:23,838
- No, no.
- 1296
- 01:17:25,074 --> 01:17:27,643
- I want to know what
- it means to you.
- 1297
- 01:17:27,644 --> 01:17:30,745
- What does it mean to you
- to be in the military?
- 1298
- 01:17:31,381 --> 01:17:32,713
- Everything.
- 1299
- 01:17:34,817 --> 01:17:36,851
- It hasn't just
- given my life purpose-
- 1300
- 01:17:39,055 --> 01:17:40,921
- it's given me a family.
- 1301
- 01:17:53,403 --> 01:17:56,371
- I've never seen
- anything like this happen,
- 1302
- 01:17:56,372 --> 01:17:58,739
- this bottle should
- have broke but it didn't.
- 1303
- 01:17:59,409 --> 01:18:04,445
- It got me thinking, maybe
- God is leaving this to me.
- 1304
- 01:18:05,415 --> 01:18:07,816
- Now, I didn't have
- to tell you about that,
- 1305
- 01:18:07,817 --> 01:18:09,818
- but I would have always known.
- 1306
- 01:18:09,819 --> 01:18:11,118
- And I'm a man of my word.
- 1307
- 01:18:13,756 --> 01:18:16,091
- So I think you're going
- to marry my daughter,
- 1308
- 01:18:16,092 --> 01:18:18,926
- unless you've changed
- your mind of course.
- 1309
- 01:18:21,431 --> 01:18:22,831
- Are you serious?
- 1310
- 01:18:22,832 --> 01:18:24,099
- Yes sir.
- 1311
- 01:18:24,100 --> 01:18:25,267
- Thank you.
- 1312
- 01:18:25,268 --> 01:18:27,369
- Hey, hey, hey show some dignity.
- 1313
- 01:18:27,370 --> 01:18:29,337
- You're still on duty.
- 1314
- 01:18:29,338 --> 01:18:30,472
- Sorry sir.
- 1315
- 01:18:30,473 --> 01:18:32,239
- As you were.
- 1316
- 01:18:33,209 --> 01:18:36,945
- Now it's my understanding that
- you don't have a lot of time to
- 1317
- 01:18:36,946 --> 01:18:39,147
- marry her before you
- transfer, is that right?
- 1318
- 01:18:39,148 --> 01:18:40,414
- Mm-hmm.
- 1319
- 01:18:41,217 --> 01:18:44,485
- Well then, we better get to it.
- 1320
- 01:18:49,158 --> 01:18:50,792
- God bless you, son.
- 1321
- 01:19:20,189 --> 01:19:23,191
- You, somebody
- could have told me.
- 1322
- 01:19:34,270 --> 01:19:37,239
- Repeat after me, I Steve Hearst.
- 1323
- 01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:39,040
- I Steve Hearst.
- 1324
- 01:19:39,041 --> 01:19:40,274
- Take you Jan Nichols.
- 1325
- 01:19:40,476 --> 01:19:42,210
- Take you Jan Nichols.
- 1326
- 01:19:42,211 --> 01:19:43,178
- To be my wife.
- 1327
- 01:19:43,179 --> 01:19:44,545
- To be my wife.
- 1328
- 01:19:48,951 --> 01:19:50,819
- To have and to hold
- from this day forward.
- 1329
- 01:19:50,820 --> 01:19:53,088
- To have and to
- hold from this day forward.
- 1330
- 01:19:53,089 --> 01:19:55,524
- For better, for
- worse, for richer, for poorer.
- 1331
- 01:19:55,525 --> 01:19:57,793
- In sickness and in health.
- 1332
- 01:19:57,794 --> 01:20:00,428
- For better or worse,
- for richer or poorer,
- 1333
- 01:20:00,429 --> 01:20:02,797
- in sickness and health.
- 1334
- 01:20:03,065 --> 01:20:04,625
- To love and to cherish.
- 1335
- 01:20:04,834 --> 01:20:06,401
- To love and to cherish.
- 1336
- 01:20:06,402 --> 01:20:08,270
- Until we are parted by death.
- 1337
- 01:20:08,271 --> 01:20:10,171
- Until we
- are parted by death.
- 1338
- 01:20:10,506 --> 01:20:11,940
- Repeat after me, Jan.
- 1339
- 01:20:11,941 --> 01:20:13,475
- I Jan Nichols.
- 1340
- 01:20:13,476 --> 01:20:15,443
- I, Jan Nichols.
- 1341
- 01:20:15,444 --> 01:20:16,978
- Take you Steve Hearst.
- 1342
- 01:20:16,979 --> 01:20:18,947
- Take you, Steve Hearst.
- 1343
- 01:20:18,948 --> 01:20:19,981
- To be my husband.
- 1344
- 01:20:19,982 --> 01:20:21,817
- To be my husband.
- 1345
- 01:20:21,818 --> 01:20:23,985
- To have and
- to hold from this day forward.
- 1346
- 01:20:23,986 --> 01:20:26,988
- To have and to hold
- from this day forward.
- 1347
- 01:20:26,989 --> 01:20:29,858
- For better, for
- worse, for richer, for poorer.
- 1348
- 01:20:29,859 --> 01:20:31,960
- In sickness and in health.
- 1349
- 01:20:31,961 --> 01:20:35,297
- For better, for worse,
- for richer, for poorer.
- 1350
- 01:20:35,298 --> 01:20:37,566
- In sickness and in health.
- 1351
- 01:20:37,567 --> 01:20:39,100
- To love and to cherish.
- 1352
- 01:20:39,101 --> 01:20:41,102
- To love and to cherish.
- 1353
- 01:20:41,103 --> 01:20:42,604
- Until we are parted by death.
- 1354
- 01:20:42,605 --> 01:20:44,272
- Until we are
- parted by death.
- 1355
- 01:20:48,978 --> 01:20:50,511
- You may kiss the bride.
- 1356
- 01:21:00,556 --> 01:21:02,590
- Woo!
- 1357
- 01:21:12,501 --> 01:21:16,204
- It is my honor to introduce
- Jan and Steven Hearst.
- 1358
- 01:21:42,932 --> 01:21:44,532
- What's happening?
- 1359
- 01:21:44,533 --> 01:21:47,067
- I don't know, doctor,
- he's still breathing.
- 1360
- 01:21:48,437 --> 01:21:50,205
- This is not unusual,
- 1361
- 01:21:50,206 --> 01:21:52,139
- he still has
- some air in his lungs.
- 1362
- 01:21:53,175 --> 01:21:55,342
- He can't really breathe
- without the machine.
- 1363
- 01:21:56,112 --> 01:21:57,945
- He'll stop soon.
- 1364
- 01:21:58,948 --> 01:22:00,948
- He wants to stay a
- little longer with you.
- 1365
- 01:22:04,453 --> 01:22:06,054
- I love you.
- 1366
- 01:22:08,257 --> 01:22:10,224
- It's okay to go.
- 1367
- 01:22:12,295 --> 01:22:13,961
- He's with God now.
- 1368
- 01:22:16,265 --> 01:22:17,431
- Okay.
- 1369
- 01:23:00,609 --> 01:23:02,576
- Are you okay, mom?
- 1370
- 01:23:04,513 --> 01:23:06,413
- I think I will be.
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