Hi Caitlin,

Here is a number of the screenshots/evidence about Coda/Asinine I have around and the multiple situations.
Please note alot of the harrassment in context is through FFXIV, the MMORPG I stream/play or through Twitch.

I've called him out numerous times for stalking me prior to now, but his stalking has now become quite predominant, to the point where I'm worried for my safety. Alot of his harrassment is often veiled, he sneaks around and follows my ingame character, buddies up to friends of mine to try and join communities that are involved with me again. If the pastebins are too long, there are screenshots in the puu.sh links that are there to shorten things.

Cutting ties & Boundaries being broken:

These are the messages I sent before I blocked him (can provide logs before this, but I was clear about how uncomfortable I was about how he had been making me upset about his drinking on purpose for attention, following me and my friends, etc.):
Our last conversation: https://pastebin.com/gZAHhsD1
My last message to him prior to blocking him: https://puu.sh/DWyzp/21adc7c846.png


https://puu.sh/DWyDT/11ce2db6bc.png  (Proof of screenshot/he sent it after i blocked him in 7 places) https://pastebin.com/tB4FjNga (actual contents of this message). This pastebin is important.

Alot of this is probably hard to parse unless you play XIV, but to explain some things, "Balmung" is a server I made an extra character on to avoid him. He had made a character and followed me there too after a friend posted about her on twitter. This was the first problem I'd had with him, around the end of last year. However, I met a friend around March named "Felix", this was one of the largest reasons I had decided to cut contact with him and he's mentioned in this chat log. Felix and I are good friends, but as soon as we met Coda's behaviour that was already filled with red flags, began to ramp up. He began to show manipulative behaviours, following us and also guilting me into spending time with him alone, while simultaneously pressuring Felix to not talk to me.

Around May, while Felix was taking care of errands on my account, Coda sent a threat to him. Screenshot below. I was fully aware that Felix was on my account, and Coda was absolutely aware that he was on my account. He was not doing anything "malicious" as Coda had tried to imply.
https://i.imgur.com/Pu6gIQo.jpg

Below are two more screenshots of Coda following Felix and I at different times around May/June, prior to me blocking him.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/546227854447214593/603391518069489694/naKmYg0.png
https://i.imgur.com/xj2mcOy.jpg

To this day, Coda's continued to constantly be sneaky about following me and attempting to hide that he's checking up on me/getting under my skin.
This is the tab-target system in XIV, you can see who the selected character is clicking on/checking out.
He constantly comes to the same areas at the specifically same time I enter, tabs to see who i'm hanging out with and tries to hide it by standing on the opposite side of the area. Tab-targetting also makes your character lock onto another/face them.

These are screenshots a friend took of his Tab-Targets.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/579883544612962327/600887337014001714/unknown.png
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/579883544612962327/600887273512370176/unknown.png
https://i.imgur.com/z40Hkrt.png

Another instance of this:
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/579883544612962327/600957125262573568/unknown.png


Twitch/Community Situation:

Chatter is Asinine. I'm honk.
This happened a few days ago. We're about a month out now from him and I not speaking.
This is just one example of what we talked about on the phone of him following me and buddying up to people I'm friends with, that he has no business with.

https://www.twitch.tv/videos/455859131?t=01h20m35s ends at 1hr 54 min 30 secs.
https://www.twitch.tv/videos/456309407 54:30 he begins talking again while I'm there and buddying up to reidaraa. Ends at 56:31. He gets banned at 59 minutes when I tell one of the mods, jmp, about the situation.
The context of this situation is one of the most predominant-- Reid is a close friend of mine from a completely different game. She has no idea who coda is. We don't run in the same circles, but he knew I'm a regular in Reid's channel because I know her friend in real life.
I had a friend of ours ban him after explaining things. He sat in the chat/channel still for another 2+ hours.
Proof of this: (my conversation before/after with jmp: https://puu.sh/DWziJ/5bf1128f0f.png https://puu.sh/DWzf7/ae7dbe8d8c.png)  This is how I saw the chat and the screenshots I sent to jmp: https://puu.sh/DVvxk/4315b588de.png https://puu.sh/DVwJu/1a477429b0.jpg (I can't see him at all. He's blocked)

Gifts:
Whenever we'd fight or it was a special occasion, he'd send me something over the top or try to make up for things with gifts to distract me from stuff that'd gone wrong to my apartment.
Around May was the issue with Felix, he sent me this expensive bag for my birthday which I was uncomfortable with:
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/534083353763119154/603420994719318021/JPEG_20190502_114148.jpg
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/534083353763119154/603420993246986260/JPEG_20190611_002800.jpg
When we'd had a fight/I was also sick, he sent me this large over the top bouquet. He knew I wasn't great with flowers, but nonetheless it was a strange gift:
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/534083353763119154/603420994119663646/JPEG_20190513_211033.jpg
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/534083353763119154/603420996048781323/JPEG_20190512_125450.jpg


Since I blocked him, he'd attempted to send me art of my character through another friend to try and get me to talk to him again.
https://puu.sh/DWC0h/a7cab68039.png

He messaged this friend, Narles, very quickly/coincidentally within me asking for screenshot evidence for this email today.
As of this moment of me typing this message out (2:20pm, 24th July), he's attempted communication once again through this same friend. He will not stop persisting in attempting communication and trying to be a part of my life.
https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/224796574713118720/603412347452784641/DiscordPTB_2019-07-23_19-25-01.png
https://puu.sh/DWD5D/1d42dcbcce.png