[spoiler]I do understand your hostility, but I feel like it's misdirected.  You say you recall the arguments being flipped in your disagreement with Olivia last round.  I feel like you are lumping together every other forum member into the same group.  I did not participate in that argument.  As this most recent post I made shows, I am certainly in favor of people PMing each other about each others' characters if they're making posts involving them doing something drastic.  If you were talking to Magneticplum instead of me, her stance would appear to be the same:

[quote author=MagneticPlum]
2: yeah that seems like a pretty serious for instance maybe we could all do a little better about making our characters plans more clear to other posters by use of spoilers or pms or maybe even starting an irc channel where we can discuss this sort of thing in real time[/quote]

That sounds to me like sympathy for the situation your character was in, though admittedly I can't speak for her.  I may be misinterpreting.

Again, I'm not asking that you change your post.  As I said, I am writing around it.  I feel like (but hope I am wrong) you are now framing the post more as a direct act of hostility towards me or towards other members of the forum.  I hope that is not the case and we can move along in a more collaborative manner in the future.[/spoiler]