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11:06 PM - renhet: http://steamcommunity.com/id/ggglygy
11:07 PM - renhet: the about section
11:15 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: yeah idk ahaha, i dont really care anymore
11:15 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: realistically it should bother me but meh
11:16 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i made it for fun with a friend and now they're trying to use it against me i guess?
11:19 PM - Whisker Biscuit :> is now Online.
11:19 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: honestly i'd rather get shit for that than be a weeaboo anyawys
11:19 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: anyways**
11:22 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: hmm honest question
11:23 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: we disagree on each other a lot and personally i don't know why we're friends because nowadays anytime you message me i expect it to be about this but WHAT DO YOU PERSONALLY THINK of this shit as a whole
11:25 PM - renhet: I honestly think making that list and putting it online was a mistake. People have preferences for partner's aesthetics, whatever, that's normal. But phrasing short hair like "lesbian hair" and shit like that actually comes off as extremely judgemental and prejudice, which is more reason not to share things like that
11:26 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: hah
11:26 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i wouldn't say that
11:26 PM - renhet: wouldn't say what specifically
11:26 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: you catch on to the weirdest things
11:26 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: about lesbian hair
11:27 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: hint: prejudice is not the correct word
11:27 PM - renhet: well you basically say that hair shorter than shoulder length is "lesbian hair." Which isn't true, many heterosexual women wear their hair short. But you paint it as a negative entirely, and by effect of calling it lesbian hair, imply that gay women are bad.
11:27 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i've "experienced" people with this sort of short hair and simply and not attracted to it
11:27 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: your issue is you try to know-it-all everything
11:27 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: this is actually why i stopped talking to you, i forgot this
11:27 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: those are some large assumptions on your end though
11:27 PM - renhet: You asked what I thought, and that's how it comes off to me. I can almost guarantee nobody would make as big a deal out of it as they are if the list didn't come off as prejudiced/offensive.
11:28 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: nah
11:28 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: believe me
11:28 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: these guys don't care about your gay women interpretation
11:28 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: not one bit
11:28 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: no one cares about such intricacies as much as you do
11:29 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: making the assumption that, because a person has an opinion that short hair is bad and they refer to it as lesbian hair = gay woman are bad
11:29 PM - renhet: That is a large assumption on your part. Some men do care about social justice/proper wording of things.
11:29 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: is so painfully doltish it hurts
11:29 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: sometimes i feel you think you know what you're talking about when you don't, honestly
11:30 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: also worth noting, it's not that it was public -- the person i had trust in simply decided to use it against me
11:30 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: because they risked losing their boyfriend who was over-protective and assumed I was hitting on them
11:30 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: so, not really much you can do in that respect
11:30 PM - renhet: All right, well, if you're going to ask for my input and brush me off without any consideration, I can't pretend to try to help you. The short of it is that you come off as homophobic, misogynistic and narcissistic. Sorry.
11:30 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: my god, you truly are a dolt
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i'm none of those things
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: not even close
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i literally
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: cannot even be mad
11:31 PM - renhet: Came off as =/= are
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: it's so funny to me that you could think that
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: sorry professor ren
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: came off as
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: reminds me of the comma incident
11:31 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: lmaooo
11:31 PM - renhet: You're acting like I'm calling you names. I'm actually trying to answer the question you posed to me and you're getting mad and calling me a dolt.
11:32 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i'm not mad, i'm just disappointed someone who i used to consider a good friend could even think at all that i was coming off as those things
11:32 PM - renhet: You asked what I thought, I gave you an honest opinion of that checlist. And you're punishing me for being honest. I don't know what you wanted, a lie?
11:32 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i'm not punishing you for anything
11:33 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i'm just defending myself because i think you are markedly wrong about your opinion of me
11:33 PM - renhet: I repeat for the third time, I did not call you narcissistic, misogynistic or prejudiced. I said that that is how your checklist read.
11:34 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: checklist, as in one line?
11:34 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: hold up i have someone who's even more respecting of these sorts of scenarios than you, let me ask them what they think
11:35 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: wait shit they're snoozing
11:35 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: one sec
11:35 PM - renhet: I don't really care what some person I don't know/care about thinks. I gave you my opinion, which you solicited and then got upset about.
11:35 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: again, i'm not upset
11:36 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: you would truly know if i was upset because i would point out every single one of the recurring flaws you have in my eyes that i've even seen in the conversations between you/your bf
11:36 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: but that would be a low blow
11:37 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKPnqlpgs_g&feature=youtu.be
11:37 PM - renhet: You're not upset, but you're blatantly insulting me when you asked for my input. Lol.
11:37 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: god, i love the proper typing that comes out of you when you get serious
11:37 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: but no um
11:37 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: i'm not insulting
11:37 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: consider it criticism
11:37 PM - renhet: Yeah proper typing, good thing to be upset over and comment on, relevant
11:38 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: it was an asiiiiiide don't make a big deal out of it
11:38 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: it's not like i'm being a grammar nazi to try and find a way to win an argument
11:38 PM - renhet: It isn't criticism. That is not what criticism means. Criticism is what I actually just fucking described as being wrong with your stupid fucking checklist. But you're actually like making an effort to ignore reality or something when someone isn't agreeing with you? idk i'm not trying any more
11:38 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: don't get upset now
11:38 PM - Whisker Biscuit :>: gee willikers