Family Obligations (2019)

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Subtitles by explosiveskull

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David Steele was my father.

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Peter.

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I'm so sorry, Peter.

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So sudden like this.

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Thank you, Mr. Hearst.

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They said it was a
drunk driving accident.

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Unfortunately.

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I hope they catch the guy.

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Just terrible these days.

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There was no other driver.

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It was a one-car accident.

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It was a tree.

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Oh.

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Oh.

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Oh, well.

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I should probably go.

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What's this?

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Your dead father's ashes.

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I know what it is.

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Why do I have it?

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It's normal for the remains
to travel with the family

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for the final resting place.

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Oh.

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Can you hold that?

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Good morning, Peter.

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Did we get a callback from Westchester?

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How are you?

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Remember, like we've been working on.

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Good morning, Stephanie.

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Did we get a callback from Westchester?

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Eye contact.

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I just wanna know you're trying.

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That phone is hilarious.

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You're looking mighty fancy today.

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What's the occasion?

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My father's funeral.

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So I'm expecting to get a
callback from Westchester today.

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Stephanie?

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Stephanie, no.

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No, Stephanie.

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Please, please, please,
please, please, please.

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Do you remember when you cry,

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I get a call from Paul in Human Resources,

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and then I have all that
paperwork to fill out.

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I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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You know, I'm not good at this.

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I know.

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It's okay.

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Don't you wanna take the
rest of the day or anything?

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No, I'm fine.

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I just need to leave in a
few to check his house out

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and figure out what to do with it.

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I will be able to be reached on my cell.

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You mean your house.

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No, I haven't lived there for years.

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So what?

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You're gonna go pack up

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old childhood memories,

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and look at old family photos.

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Westchester let me know if they call.

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You have 12 new messages.

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This is a
message for David Steele.

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Message deleted.

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Mr. Steele
this is Leonard Wolfing

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at the county assessor's office.

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- We have important.
- Message deleted.

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Well, I'm sure you got a
lot to think about right now.

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- I'm sorry to bother you.
- There's nothing

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we can do about that.

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I'm afraid not.

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As such, none of this is really in order.

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But the good news is it's
all pretty straightforward.

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Your father kept things pretty simple.

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He had a small equity line

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which you'll cover easily if
you choose to sell the house.

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I'd like to just sell it

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as soon as possible if I can.

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I understand that you
probable wanna get back to...

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I'm sorry where is it you live?

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Queens.

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Sunnyside.

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That close, huh.

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Why did I think it was Chicago
or someplace like that?

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Have you been around recently?

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No.

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Alright, excellent.

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Well, as I said, you have a house to sell.

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He had a few small assets,

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retirement savings, checking,

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but really no other major assets.

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He had a small line of credit
card debt and a car loan.

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But little things here and there.

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But all and all the
market value of the house

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you should be able to
clear a comfortable sum

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after fees etcetera, so.

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Did he have a will?

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- Excuse me?
- Is there something

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I have to sign?

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No, I'm afraid not.

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You have to forgive me
this is not my area of law.

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I'm not really doing this
in any official capacity.

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Essentially, as the only child
with your mother predeceased,

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you're the only person
with a claim to the assets.

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Hey, Peter.

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When's the last time you saw him?

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Has he paid you?

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What is your fee in all of this?

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Oh, no, I'm doing this as a friend.

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No charge.

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Is there anything else
I can help you with?

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Actually if you know anyone

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in real estate to show the house.

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I'll have my assistant
give you a list of agents.

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Thank you.

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He was proud of you Peter.

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Did he mention me?

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Well, sometimes words don't...

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Thank you, Mr. Hearst.

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You wouldn't
happen to know the latest

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tax assessment on the property, would you?

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No.

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And the plumbing and
electric are they the original?

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I don't know.

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Did he do any measure of work recently?

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Any work orders or permits?

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No idea.

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Alright, I see.

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Well, based on comparables,

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you could probably see high fours

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or maybe just over 500,000.

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Good news for you is that
you're entering a hot season.

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Come spring and summer
families are looking to move.

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They wanna get their
kids into better schools,

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and this neighborhood is great for that.

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So if you rip out the carpets

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maybe a fresh coat of paint on the walls,

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you could probably list
it at 525 maybe even 550.

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What are we looking at as is

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with furniture and everything?

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Uh, well.

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I would list it at 475.

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You'll get some people in the door.

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Let's do 450.

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Are you sure?

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You'd be leaving a lot
of money on the table.

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I'd just like to get this over with.

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Would you be open to rentals...

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- No.
- To get it occupied?

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I understand the memories
must be difficult.

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Very difficult.

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- Mr. Steele I'm calling from
- Have a nice day.

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Northshore University
Hospital Outpatient Services.

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We just wanted to confirm with you

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the date and time of your appointment.

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Please be sure to arrive 15 minutes prior

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to the scheduled time to update paperwork.

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- Hello.
- Mr. Steele?

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Yes, can I give you a different

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address and phone number.

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I'm not gonna be checking
my father's house regularly.

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Excuse me?

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I figure you have
insurance forms and bills

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from the hospital from the accident.

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I was looking for David Steele.

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That's my father.

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Is this not about his accident?

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Right, David Steele is
listed as the family contact

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for Francis Steele.

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Mr. Steele, are you there?

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This is Peter, Peter Steele.

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David Steele is my father.

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He's deceased.

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I'm sorry for
your loss, Mr. Steele.

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Francis Steele, Frank.

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Are you calling about my Uncle Frank?

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Yeah, that sounds correct.

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Mr. Steele your Uncle Francis Steele

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receives outpatient
treatment on a regular basis.

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Your father would routinely
bring him in for his sessions

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and take him home.

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He's unable to drive himself.

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I didn't know Uncle Frank was alive.

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Be that as it may, Mr. Steele,

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Francis Steele is scheduled
for his outpatient procedure

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tomorrow at 11:00 a.m.

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Is there some other member of the family

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I should be having this conversation with?

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No.

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No.

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Just me.

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Will you be
able to bring Mr. Steele

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in for his procedure tomorrow?

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Yes, I can.

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Okay, thank you.

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Please remind him that he
should not have anything

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to eat or drink after midnight.

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I'm gonna need an address.

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We're located at 1000
Plaza Drive, Building Four.

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I'm gonna need my uncle's address.

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Don't you usually wear shorts?

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Excuse me?

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Where's the package?

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Mia, hey, you have to ask.

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You have to ask who's at the door.

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Sorry, sorry about that.

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How can I help you?

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I'm looking for Frank Steele.

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Yeah, two floors up, 4P.

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I buzzed this apartment, right?

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Yeah, yeah.

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No, people have to buzz here

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'cause he broke his buzzer three times.

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- Thank you.
- Mm-hmm.

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- Congratulations.
- What?

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Your shirt you're pregnant.

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No, this.

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No, it's laundry day.

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Oh.

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It's fine.

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It's totally fine.

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No, it's totally fine.

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How come you're here to see Frank?

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I'm taking him to the doctor.

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Doesn't someone normally
come by and take him?

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They're kind of loud, sort of mean?

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That's my father.

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Oh, I'm sorry.

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I'm sure you just have to get
to know him then it's great.

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No, actually you don't
need to get to know him.

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He's dead.

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- Jesus.
- No, it's all right.

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- I'm so sorry.
- It's all right.

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- It's all right.
- Okay.

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This is one of the most
awkward conversations

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I've had in a very long time.

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It is not the most
awkward one I've had this week.

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Really?

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My father died.

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Yeah.

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Bye.

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Yeah, I'm coming.

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Frank?

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- Uncle Frank?
- Yeah.

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Peter it's David's son.

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I know who you are,

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and I don't like the beard.

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The hospital called.

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Yeah, where's your father?

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Where's your father?

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I'm sorry we didn't reach you.

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- Who's we?
- Me.

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Me, I'm sorry I didn't reach you.

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I didn't know how to reach you.

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Reach me?

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Yeah, I didn't have a current address.

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I've lived
here in this apartment

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since you were 12-years-old.

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Yeah, right, sorry.

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Besides, I
wouldn't have been any

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use to you anyhow.

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You could've been at the funeral.

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Oh, God no.

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Don't get me wrong.

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But when you get to where
I am you go to a funeral,

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feels like the barbershop.

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You hang around long enough
and you're a mess with a cut.

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That's funny.

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No, it's not.

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Right.

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About the only
privilege to being old and sick

274
00:18:12,790 --> 00:18:15,248
you get to do whatever the hell you want.

275
00:18:15,250 --> 00:18:17,148
People stopped telling me what to do.

276
00:18:17,150 --> 00:18:18,658
Sounds pretty good.

277
00:18:18,660 --> 00:18:20,966
You want something to drink, anything?

278
00:18:20,968 --> 00:18:22,208
I'm fine.

279
00:18:22,210 --> 00:18:25,218
Good, 'cause I'm pretty
sure this is my last one.

280
00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:29,791
The hospital said you shouldn't have

281
00:18:29,793 --> 00:18:30,958
anything to eat or drink.

282
00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:32,460
What's it gonna do, kill me?

283
00:18:33,420 --> 00:18:34,253
Maybe.

284
00:18:37,930 --> 00:18:39,480
Let's go, on your feet.

285
00:18:42,247 --> 00:18:43,088
You know where the hell you're going?

286
00:18:43,090 --> 00:18:43,923
Yeah.

287
00:18:49,684 --> 00:18:50,517
What?

288
00:18:51,873 --> 00:18:52,706
Nothing.

289
00:18:54,026 --> 00:18:54,859
Nothing.

290
00:19:00,837 --> 00:19:01,670
Mr. Steele.

291
00:19:03,990 --> 00:19:06,888
Whoa, what are you doing?

292
00:19:06,890 --> 00:19:09,391
You getting a shot back there
today I don't know about.

293
00:19:09,393 --> 00:19:10,628
Sit down, kid.

294
00:19:10,630 --> 00:19:12,830
I don't need you to
hold my hand back there.

295
00:19:39,842 --> 00:19:41,428
So where are you taking me for lunch?

296
00:19:41,430 --> 00:19:42,598
Lunch?

297
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:44,338
Yeah, lunch what'd you think
you were gonna just drop me

298
00:19:44,340 --> 00:19:46,388
unceremoniously back at the house?

299
00:19:46,390 --> 00:19:47,263
Yeah, right.

300
00:19:48,420 --> 00:19:49,901
Lunch.

301
00:19:49,903 --> 00:19:51,658
I don't really know
any places around here.

302
00:19:51,660 --> 00:19:54,308
There was only one place your
father and I could agree on,

303
00:19:54,310 --> 00:19:57,963
a Chinese joint up by my
house not far from me.

304
00:19:58,888 --> 00:20:01,498
What, you got a problem with Chinese?

305
00:20:01,500 --> 00:20:04,258
You afraid to get a little
rice stuck in your beard there.

306
00:20:04,260 --> 00:20:05,093
Sounds great.

307
00:20:12,770 --> 00:20:13,603
Hi.

308
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:21,658
What's this?

309
00:20:21,660 --> 00:20:22,528
That's his.

310
00:20:22,530 --> 00:20:24,358
He gets the paper here?

311
00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:27,548
The guy from the newsstand
next door banned him.

312
00:20:27,550 --> 00:20:29,298
Do you know why he was banned?

313
00:20:29,300 --> 00:20:32,278
Shoplifting couple of times.

314
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,653
If that ain't anti-Semite.

315
00:20:35,605 --> 00:20:37,272
You're not Jewish.

316
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:39,680
So what can I get you?

317
00:20:41,420 --> 00:20:42,888
Listen, kid.

318
00:20:42,890 --> 00:20:45,868
You think you can run to the
OTB place a few bets for me?

319
00:20:45,870 --> 00:20:47,848
Why, you get banned from there too?

320
00:20:47,850 --> 00:20:49,453
That one was complete BS.

321
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,253
Yeah, the food here is terrible.

322
00:20:57,330 --> 00:20:58,980
Best to just stick with the soup.

323
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,588
So let me know when
the next appointment is...

324
00:21:06,590 --> 00:21:07,740
Don't worry about it.

325
00:21:09,250 --> 00:21:10,081
You sure?

326
00:21:10,083 --> 00:21:11,128
I said don't worry about it.

327
00:21:11,130 --> 00:21:12,038
I'm a big boy.

328
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,288
If I need to get there,
I'll figure it out.

329
00:21:14,290 --> 00:21:15,123
Okay, but.

330
00:21:34,870 --> 00:21:37,678
Do you wanna know what this is?

331
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,868
Yeah, you?

332
00:21:38,870 --> 00:21:41,863
It's a G.

333
00:21:41,865 --> 00:21:43,913
At least I think it's a G.

334
00:21:44,810 --> 00:21:47,473
I've only had two lessons.

335
00:21:47,475 --> 00:21:49,458
Mia, don't be terrorizing the building.

336
00:21:49,460 --> 00:21:51,608
Go practice in your room.

337
00:21:51,610 --> 00:21:52,948
- Hi.
- Hi.

338
00:21:52,950 --> 00:21:55,223
Hi, hey, how was the doctor?

339
00:21:56,090 --> 00:21:57,008
Weird.

340
00:21:57,010 --> 00:21:57,841
Yeah.

341
00:21:57,843 --> 00:22:01,413
Well, I mean, it's so kind
that you're taking him.

342
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,720
I don't think he needs me.

343
00:22:04,648 --> 00:22:08,018
Well, everyone needs someone, right?

344
00:22:08,020 --> 00:22:12,163
I mean to say I don't
think that he wants me.

345
00:22:12,165 --> 00:22:15,915
Probably means that
he needs you even more.

346
00:22:24,460 --> 00:22:26,608
When is your next appointment?

347
00:22:26,610 --> 00:22:27,443
Thursday.

348
00:22:28,350 --> 00:22:29,398
We're eating someplace else.

349
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:30,233
No we're not!

350
00:23:09,582 --> 00:23:11,195
Are you with Mr. Steele?

351
00:23:11,197 --> 00:23:12,697
- Yes.
- Come on back please.

352
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,850
Is he almost ready?

353
00:23:21,710 --> 00:23:22,875
Yes, they're finishing
up with him right now.

354
00:23:22,877 --> 00:23:24,688
He should be out shortly.

355
00:23:24,690 --> 00:23:27,198
I just wanted to address a few

356
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,578
concerns we have regarding his treatment.

357
00:23:29,580 --> 00:23:32,588
Do you know if he's been taking
his medication on a regular?

358
00:23:32,590 --> 00:23:33,578
No.

359
00:23:33,580 --> 00:23:36,062
No, he hasn't, or no you don't know?

360
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,148
What about his diet?

361
00:23:40,150 --> 00:23:41,827
How about that how's that been?

362
00:23:44,710 --> 00:23:45,728
Mister?

363
00:23:45,730 --> 00:23:48,238
Steele, you can call me Peter please.

364
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,408
Mr. Steele how long has it been

365
00:23:50,410 --> 00:23:52,528
since you last saw your uncle?

366
00:23:52,530 --> 00:23:53,857
Years.

367
00:23:53,859 --> 00:23:55,748
Are you familiar with
Acute Myeloid Leukemia?

368
00:23:55,750 --> 00:23:57,958
Just from the pamphlet in the lobby.

369
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,498
Well, I'm afraid we're past

370
00:23:59,500 --> 00:24:00,538
the point of treating his disease,

371
00:24:00,540 --> 00:24:03,378
and now we're in a course of
pain and symptom management.

372
00:24:03,380 --> 00:24:04,213
He's terminal?

373
00:24:05,540 --> 00:24:06,398
I like to put it this way.

374
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,138
We're reshaping what
time he does have left.

375
00:24:09,140 --> 00:24:10,608
How much time is that?

376
00:24:10,610 --> 00:24:12,138
Well, that's where it gets tricky.

377
00:24:12,140 --> 00:24:13,938
If he takes his medication,
comes to his treatments,

378
00:24:13,940 --> 00:24:15,498
and stays relatively healthy,

379
00:24:15,500 --> 00:24:17,068
he might have a year or more.

380
00:24:17,070 --> 00:24:19,548
But if he's not taking
his treatment seriously,

381
00:24:19,550 --> 00:24:21,698
there's simply no one of
telling what he's in for.

382
00:24:21,700 --> 00:24:23,543
I appreciate that.

383
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,968
But I don't know how to
communicate with my uncle.

384
00:24:27,970 --> 00:24:30,038
I don't know how to talk to him,

385
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,948
and even if I did, I'm
pretty sure he wouldn't talk.

386
00:24:32,950 --> 00:24:34,678
Mr. Steele, I'm not here to judge.

387
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:35,828
I'm certainly not in a position to have

388
00:24:35,830 --> 00:24:38,628
a philosophical debate
about how he lives his life.

389
00:24:38,630 --> 00:24:41,398
I just thought I'd try to
enlist your help on our side.

390
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,228
I mean no disrespect,
but how do you know

391
00:24:43,230 --> 00:24:45,080
how he should approach his treatment?

392
00:24:46,210 --> 00:24:48,068
I understand, Mr. Steele.

393
00:24:48,070 --> 00:24:49,428
I just thought it
warranted your attention.

394
00:24:49,430 --> 00:24:52,293
How about bone marrow?

395
00:24:53,260 --> 00:24:54,468
Bone marrow?

396
00:24:54,470 --> 00:24:57,358
I read in the pamphlet
that there is treatments.

397
00:24:57,360 --> 00:24:59,138
I'm afraid we're past that option.

398
00:24:59,140 --> 00:25:02,413
Could I have been a
donor as a relative of his?

399
00:25:03,460 --> 00:25:04,948
We would've started there.

400
00:25:04,950 --> 00:25:06,478
You know, I have some
information in the lobby that

401
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:07,588
explains all that to you, you
want me to grab it for you?

402
00:25:07,590 --> 00:25:09,533
No, there's no point.

403
00:25:17,786 --> 00:25:20,369
You always breathe like that?

404
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,148
You know, you can talk.

405
00:25:33,150 --> 00:25:34,383
You can talk to me.

406
00:25:37,203 --> 00:25:39,138
Do you really think you're dying?

407
00:25:39,140 --> 00:25:41,040
Okay, we don't need to talk.

408
00:25:44,149 --> 00:25:47,688
I mean, does it feel like you're dying?

409
00:25:47,690 --> 00:25:50,538
That's what I've been told many times.

410
00:25:50,540 --> 00:25:52,238
Do you believe it?

411
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,753
I feel like shit everyday.

412
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,478
Some days worse than others.

413
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,663
I realized one thing.

414
00:25:59,550 --> 00:26:02,373
I am going to die sooner
rather than later.

415
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,808
You talk to anybody other it?

416
00:26:08,810 --> 00:26:09,643
Your father.

417
00:26:11,530 --> 00:26:12,798
Did he say anything?

418
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,668
Your father had qualities.

419
00:26:15,670 --> 00:26:17,763
Emotional support wasn't one of them.

420
00:26:20,420 --> 00:26:22,453
I think, we all have those moments.

421
00:26:23,580 --> 00:26:25,238
What do you mean?

422
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,750
When you're lying there
staring at the ceiling

423
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,628
wondering how it's gonna end.

424
00:26:31,630 --> 00:26:33,068
Is this it?

425
00:26:33,070 --> 00:26:34,720
Is this the beginning of the end?

426
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,493
Or am I thinking that because
I don't know what's next?

427
00:26:42,162 --> 00:26:44,518
Maybe you're the one that
needs to get checked out.

428
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,363
When the end comes, I'll know it.

429
00:26:47,340 --> 00:26:49,038
You seem very sure of yourself.

430
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,590
And I hate it when I'm right.

431
00:26:52,170 --> 00:26:53,568
Is there anything I could do?

432
00:26:53,570 --> 00:26:55,235
- No.
- Can I do anything for you?

433
00:26:55,237 --> 00:26:57,888
No, I'm pretty wiped
out after these things,

434
00:26:57,890 --> 00:26:59,190
and I just wanna lay down.

435
00:27:02,290 --> 00:27:03,123
Can you?

436
00:27:04,110 --> 00:27:06,298
Can you?

437
00:27:06,300 --> 00:27:07,133
What?

438
00:27:08,001 --> 00:27:10,178
The medicine they give me.

439
00:27:10,180 --> 00:27:13,453
I hate it, and they want me
to take it like every night.

440
00:27:14,450 --> 00:27:15,848
It's supposed to help with the bruising

441
00:27:15,850 --> 00:27:18,978
and the clotting and
staving off infection.

442
00:27:18,980 --> 00:27:19,811
That's good.

443
00:27:19,813 --> 00:27:22,130
No, it makes me sweat
like a whore in church.

444
00:27:23,900 --> 00:27:25,238
My sheets.

445
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,123
Say no more.

446
00:27:27,350 --> 00:27:28,848
Please.

447
00:27:28,850 --> 00:27:30,858
It'll just be a few more days.

448
00:27:30,860 --> 00:27:33,008
I will text you the house number,

449
00:27:33,010 --> 00:27:35,403
and you could forward all calls there.

450
00:27:37,450 --> 00:27:38,500
Thank you, Stephanie.

451
00:27:39,670 --> 00:27:40,828
- Hi.
- Hi.

452
00:27:40,830 --> 00:27:41,898
Hi, again.

453
00:27:41,900 --> 00:27:42,868
You're still at it.

454
00:27:42,870 --> 00:27:44,913
Well, yeah.

455
00:27:46,030 --> 00:27:48,798
She has this lucky pair of socks now,

456
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,468
and she has to wear them every
time she has a math test.

457
00:27:51,470 --> 00:27:53,513
She has a math test tomorrow, so.

458
00:27:54,670 --> 00:27:57,418
I use to have an owl shirt that I loved.

459
00:27:57,420 --> 00:27:58,970
First thing I wore out
of the wash every time.

460
00:27:58,972 --> 00:28:01,028
So you understand the gravity

461
00:28:01,030 --> 00:28:02,928
of this situation.

462
00:28:02,930 --> 00:28:04,978
Kids are so weird.

463
00:28:04,980 --> 00:28:06,083
I was 27.

464
00:28:16,990 --> 00:28:18,063
Mrs. Sloan?

465
00:28:18,970 --> 00:28:22,218
Mrs. Sloan, this man
was using that machine.

466
00:28:22,220 --> 00:28:23,808
Doesn't look like it.

467
00:28:23,810 --> 00:28:26,258
He's standing in front
of it with laundry.

468
00:28:26,260 --> 00:28:27,660
What else would he be doing?

469
00:28:28,730 --> 00:28:30,788
Maybe he was taking his
clothes out of the machine?

470
00:28:30,790 --> 00:28:31,623
He's not.

471
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:34,688
Do you even live here?

472
00:28:34,690 --> 00:28:36,208
He's helping Frank.

473
00:28:36,210 --> 00:28:37,051
Do you know Frank?

474
00:28:37,053 --> 00:28:38,108
He's on the fourth floor.

475
00:28:38,110 --> 00:28:40,258
He's really, really sick.

476
00:28:40,260 --> 00:28:41,708
He's helping him out
he's doing his laundry.

477
00:28:41,710 --> 00:28:44,098
Isn't that so nice, you know,

478
00:28:44,100 --> 00:28:47,453
people helping people, love thy neighbor?

479
00:28:48,730 --> 00:28:53,063
Community building that's
what it's all about, right?

480
00:28:58,350 --> 00:28:59,198
We are the world.

481
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,048
We are the children.

482
00:29:00,050 --> 00:29:01,863
Bye, Mrs. Sloan, have a great day.

483
00:29:05,090 --> 00:29:07,918
Thank you for saving me
from the sweet looking lady.

484
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,298
Oh, no problem.

485
00:29:09,300 --> 00:29:12,228
Mrs. Sloan has just
approved of my existence

486
00:29:12,230 --> 00:29:13,591
ever since the single mother moved in

487
00:29:13,593 --> 00:29:16,598
with a slightly loud little girl.

488
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,178
I kind of feel like if you can't play

489
00:29:18,180 --> 00:29:20,101
off the level of contempt she has for me,

490
00:29:20,103 --> 00:29:22,623
then I'm sort of missing
a comedic opportunity.

491
00:29:26,910 --> 00:29:28,541
I'm trying to be nice to Frank

492
00:29:28,543 --> 00:29:31,298
because I'm straying from my usual path.

493
00:29:31,300 --> 00:29:33,463
Oh, what's your usual path?

494
00:29:35,130 --> 00:29:36,808
You ever do anyone else's laundry?

495
00:29:36,810 --> 00:29:39,553
Are you kidding me, like
one T-shirt in here is mine.

496
00:29:43,340 --> 00:29:44,548
What's he doing now?

497
00:29:44,550 --> 00:29:45,766
Frank?

498
00:29:45,768 --> 00:29:47,118
- Mm-hmm.
- He's sleeping.

499
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,048
You have somewhere to
be while you're waiting?

500
00:29:51,050 --> 00:29:51,883
No.

501
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,418
Well, do you wanna
come up while you wait?

502
00:29:56,420 --> 00:29:58,808
I don't wanna be a bother.

503
00:29:58,810 --> 00:29:59,660
Okay.

504
00:30:02,192 --> 00:30:03,786
It's not trouble?

505
00:30:03,788 --> 00:30:04,619
No.

506
00:30:04,621 --> 00:30:05,452
No, it's really no trouble at all.

507
00:30:05,454 --> 00:30:08,428
I mean, I don't know how much
stuff I have in the house.

508
00:30:08,430 --> 00:30:11,100
But I have coffee, a nice
collection of herbal teas.

509
00:30:12,074 --> 00:30:14,747
I don't have anything stronger, I'm sorry.

510
00:30:14,749 --> 00:30:17,028
I don't really drink anything stronger.

511
00:30:17,030 --> 00:30:18,538
Oh, you know what though.

512
00:30:18,540 --> 00:30:21,551
I have just the thing to
soothe the weary soul.

513
00:30:21,553 --> 00:30:23,899
I can't get it to.

514
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,298
You are very good at this.

515
00:30:31,300 --> 00:30:34,068
Yeah, well, there's a
real learning curve here.

516
00:30:34,070 --> 00:30:36,988
I mean, I think, that if
you stopped Donkey Kong,

517
00:30:36,990 --> 00:30:38,990
you could be a very formidable opponent.

518
00:30:41,090 --> 00:30:42,718
I like the snack table.

519
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,668
I haven't seen one of those in ages.

520
00:30:44,670 --> 00:30:46,448
We haven't eaten dinner
in our actual kitchen table

521
00:30:46,450 --> 00:30:49,713
in like 10 days.

522
00:30:50,676 --> 00:30:51,808
Do you wanna go again?

523
00:30:51,810 --> 00:30:52,723
Sure.

524
00:30:57,130 --> 00:30:58,168
Why is that?

525
00:30:58,170 --> 00:30:59,081
What?

526
00:30:59,083 --> 00:31:01,458
Why don't you eat at the table?

527
00:31:01,460 --> 00:31:03,538
She's gotten really
into Monopoly recently,

528
00:31:03,540 --> 00:31:08,540
so the table is covered in
this huge sprawling game

529
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,793
that we started a week and a half ago.

530
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:13,848
I admire the commitment.

531
00:31:13,850 --> 00:31:15,528
No, no, no.

532
00:31:15,530 --> 00:31:16,888
It's gotten really out of hand.

533
00:31:16,890 --> 00:31:18,478
We don't know whose money is who's.

534
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,408
We don't even know
whose property is who's.

535
00:31:21,410 --> 00:31:24,038
It's really more about
keeping the game alive

536
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,439
at this point than pursuing victory.

537
00:31:27,441 --> 00:31:28,538
That seems to run counter to the whole

538
00:31:28,540 --> 00:31:30,148
capitalist spirit of the thing.

539
00:31:30,150 --> 00:31:32,178
Yeah, well, she's seven.

540
00:31:32,180 --> 00:31:34,358
She likes the different
colors of the money.

541
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,193
Right, right.

542
00:31:40,020 --> 00:31:41,768
So do you live around here?

543
00:31:41,770 --> 00:31:43,418
Not far.

544
00:31:43,420 --> 00:31:46,328
How come I've never
seen you around before?

545
00:31:46,330 --> 00:31:47,880
I haven't been around before.

546
00:31:49,290 --> 00:31:50,123
Oh.

547
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:52,378
- Actually...
- No, no it's fine.

548
00:31:52,380 --> 00:31:54,648
I really didn't wanna pry.

549
00:31:54,650 --> 00:31:57,618
Doesn't feel like prying
if we don't make eye contact.

550
00:31:57,620 --> 00:31:59,098
Okay.

551
00:31:59,100 --> 00:32:01,750
It's kind of like confession,
like a kid in church.

552
00:32:03,170 --> 00:32:06,983
Not quite comfortable with
where that puts me, but okay.

553
00:32:10,460 --> 00:32:11,753
So you're around now.

554
00:32:13,940 --> 00:32:17,339
I haven't seen my family in years.

555
00:32:17,341 --> 00:32:20,241
Then I got the call that my
father died, and now I'm here.

556
00:32:21,490 --> 00:32:23,221
Helping your uncle.

557
00:32:23,223 --> 00:32:25,398
Well, my father was the
only one there for him,

558
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,458
and I don't think there's any other names

559
00:32:28,460 --> 00:32:30,335
on that list after mine.

560
00:32:36,260 --> 00:32:39,513
How long had it been
since you were last around?

561
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:42,013
Seven years.

562
00:32:43,110 --> 00:32:45,423
No, eight years.

563
00:32:47,970 --> 00:32:48,803
I'm sorry.

564
00:32:51,270 --> 00:32:52,403
We were not close.

565
00:32:53,890 --> 00:32:56,783
Well, fathers can be challenging.

566
00:32:59,590 --> 00:33:02,440
I hear some fathers are nice
to watch a ball game with.

567
00:33:03,550 --> 00:33:04,888
Or go fishing.

568
00:33:04,890 --> 00:33:07,088
Sometimes I like to think that he and I

569
00:33:07,090 --> 00:33:11,113
didn't have enough time to
find the thing, our thing.

570
00:33:13,450 --> 00:33:14,988
Definitely didn't know
the last time I saw him

571
00:33:14,990 --> 00:33:16,623
would be the last time I'd see him.

572
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,007
I thought you guys
didn't play this without me.

573
00:33:21,009 --> 00:33:22,568
I'm sorry.

574
00:33:22,570 --> 00:33:23,401
I know.

575
00:33:23,403 --> 00:33:26,063
I know, I promise this was
just the one exception.

576
00:33:27,410 --> 00:33:28,348
Hi.

577
00:33:28,350 --> 00:33:29,181
- Hi.
- I heard

578
00:33:29,183 --> 00:33:31,108
you play violin the other day.

579
00:33:31,110 --> 00:33:32,463
Can I take your picture?

580
00:33:33,470 --> 00:33:34,303
Sure.

581
00:33:36,288 --> 00:33:37,537
My parents got her this camera

582
00:33:37,539 --> 00:33:39,258
for her birthday last
month and she's obsessed.

583
00:33:39,260 --> 00:33:41,688
She wants to take everyone's picture.

584
00:33:41,690 --> 00:33:44,008
My mom got me a telescope
when I was her age.

585
00:33:44,010 --> 00:33:45,671
I used to ask all the
adults to look through it

586
00:33:45,673 --> 00:33:47,138
and tell me what they saw.

587
00:33:47,140 --> 00:33:48,048
- Really?
- Yeah, it turns out

588
00:33:48,050 --> 00:33:50,888
adults don't really know
anything about constellations.

589
00:33:50,890 --> 00:33:53,090
So there was a lot of
awkward conversations.

590
00:33:54,050 --> 00:33:55,868
Did the telescope eventually go away?

591
00:33:55,870 --> 00:33:56,701
Tell me it went away.

592
00:33:56,703 --> 00:33:58,378
I'm like really on the brink of

593
00:33:58,380 --> 00:34:01,228
needing this camera to go away.

594
00:34:01,230 --> 00:34:03,748
I used the telescope
every day for years.

595
00:34:03,750 --> 00:34:04,583
Great.

596
00:34:05,530 --> 00:34:07,028
There she is.

597
00:34:07,030 --> 00:34:09,753
Do I say cheese?

598
00:34:11,570 --> 00:34:12,583
Act natural.

599
00:34:13,420 --> 00:34:14,678
How?

600
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,513
So.

601
00:34:17,679 --> 00:34:19,353
Just like act natural.

602
00:34:21,820 --> 00:34:24,138
Act like you normally would every day.

603
00:34:24,140 --> 00:34:24,973
I'm trying.

604
00:34:29,540 --> 00:34:30,640
This is nerve-racking.

605
00:34:33,390 --> 00:34:34,508
Is that it?

606
00:34:34,510 --> 00:34:36,078
No, that was just her turning it on.

607
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:36,913
Did you do it?

608
00:34:46,290 --> 00:34:47,668
Thank you for inviting me in.

609
00:34:47,670 --> 00:34:48,888
Yeah, of course.

610
00:34:48,890 --> 00:34:50,343
Hey, how's he doing?

611
00:34:51,660 --> 00:34:52,510
I have no idea.

612
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,148
Okay, well, anytime you
ever need to kill time,

613
00:34:56,150 --> 00:34:57,338
just knock on the door.

614
00:34:57,340 --> 00:34:58,948
We're usually here.

615
00:34:58,950 --> 00:34:59,783
Thank you.

616
00:35:00,910 --> 00:35:03,058
I'm Peter by the way.

617
00:35:03,060 --> 00:35:04,458
I'm Melanie, hi.

618
00:35:04,460 --> 00:35:05,790
Hi, Melanie.

619
00:35:05,792 --> 00:35:07,861
- And that is?
- That's Mia.

620
00:35:07,863 --> 00:35:08,978
- Mia.
- Mm-hmm.

621
00:35:08,980 --> 00:35:11,381
It was nice to meet both of you.

622
00:35:11,383 --> 00:35:12,216
You too.

623
00:35:25,100 --> 00:35:26,028
Hey, did they
call that prescription in

624
00:35:26,030 --> 00:35:27,533
for me from the office?

625
00:35:28,950 --> 00:35:29,781
I think so.

626
00:35:29,783 --> 00:35:31,273
You think so.

627
00:35:32,159 --> 00:35:34,173
You know what thought did?

628
00:35:34,175 --> 00:35:35,048
What?

629
00:35:35,050 --> 00:35:37,768
He shot his pants but
only thought he did.

630
00:35:37,770 --> 00:35:39,097
I don't know what that means.

631
00:35:39,099 --> 00:35:41,999
My mother used to
say that to me all the time.

632
00:35:42,850 --> 00:35:44,668
You never met her, did you?

633
00:35:44,670 --> 00:35:45,732
No.

634
00:35:45,734 --> 00:35:47,988
I was probably for the best.

635
00:35:47,990 --> 00:35:48,950
What is that?

636
00:35:50,593 --> 00:35:52,243
That is a picture of me.

637
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:57,618
- What?
- I was about to ask you

638
00:35:57,620 --> 00:35:58,698
a question then I realized

639
00:35:58,700 --> 00:36:00,848
I should probably know the answer already.

640
00:36:00,850 --> 00:36:02,298
What do you mean?

641
00:36:02,300 --> 00:36:06,788
Did you ever have a family, kids, wife?

642
00:36:06,790 --> 00:36:07,623
Nah.

643
00:36:09,100 --> 00:36:11,368
No kids, thank God.

644
00:36:11,370 --> 00:36:12,283
Could you imagine?

645
00:36:14,010 --> 00:36:15,148
I was married once?

646
00:36:15,150 --> 00:36:15,981
Really?

647
00:36:15,983 --> 00:36:17,323
Yeah, two years.

648
00:36:18,990 --> 00:36:22,483
I met her overseas and
brought her back here.

649
00:36:23,740 --> 00:36:25,518
God she hated it here.

650
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,578
Never should've happened.

651
00:36:26,580 --> 00:36:28,413
I was a kid it was stupid.

652
00:36:29,730 --> 00:36:34,178
This was years and years ago

653
00:36:34,180 --> 00:36:36,478
right after your mother
and father got married

654
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,578
before you were born.

655
00:36:37,580 --> 00:36:39,448
But nothing after that?

656
00:36:39,450 --> 00:36:40,283
Nah.

657
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,698
I make the most sense alone.

658
00:36:43,700 --> 00:36:45,443
Your father did too, to be honest.

659
00:36:46,810 --> 00:36:49,610
What do you expect we were
practically raised by wolves.

660
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,428
I don't remember our old
man saying two words to us.

661
00:36:53,430 --> 00:36:54,930
That's the God's honest truth.

662
00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:01,623
Nah, alone, kid, just the way I came in.

663
00:38:06,940 --> 00:38:08,213
- Hi.
- Hey, Melanie.

664
00:38:10,070 --> 00:38:11,429
Are you free for dinner tonight?

665
00:38:11,431 --> 00:38:13,348
Is it a sinner?

666
00:38:13,350 --> 00:38:14,348
Yes.

667
00:38:14,350 --> 00:38:15,638
- I'm sorry.
- No, no, no.

668
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:16,471
Don't be sorry.

669
00:38:16,473 --> 00:38:18,368
Alright, I got five more questions.

670
00:38:18,370 --> 00:38:20,218
She's making her communion
so she has all these

671
00:38:20,220 --> 00:38:22,168
little assignments it's like a whole.

672
00:38:22,170 --> 00:38:25,143
Hold on M-O-R-T-A-L.

673
00:38:28,650 --> 00:38:30,000
I just have to make a call.

674
00:38:30,890 --> 00:38:33,558
Can you wait until I put
her to bed, like 8:15?

675
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:34,758
- Yeah.
- Cool.

676
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,088
So I'll meet you out front at 8:15.

677
00:38:37,090 --> 00:38:37,921
- M-O-R.
- Yeah.

678
00:38:37,923 --> 00:38:40,188
- Wait.
- T-A-L.

679
00:38:40,190 --> 00:38:42,218
You have serious work to do.

680
00:38:42,220 --> 00:38:44,058
- Thanks.
- What's purgatory?

681
00:38:44,060 --> 00:38:44,893
Good luck.

682
00:39:02,350 --> 00:39:03,438
- Oh, hi.
- Hey.

683
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,263
- Hi, sorry I'm late.
- No trouble.

684
00:39:06,780 --> 00:39:07,698
You okay?

685
00:39:07,700 --> 00:39:10,238
Yeah, you look great.

686
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:11,898
Thanks.

687
00:39:11,900 --> 00:39:13,578
So where are we going?

688
00:39:13,580 --> 00:39:15,868
What if I told you that I
don't know any restaurants

689
00:39:15,870 --> 00:39:18,718
in the area except for horrible Chinese?

690
00:39:18,720 --> 00:39:20,588
I would say that I don't
go to any restaurants

691
00:39:20,590 --> 00:39:23,258
that don't have crayons on the table.

692
00:39:23,260 --> 00:39:26,113
What can go wrong?

693
00:39:26,115 --> 00:39:28,148
Alright, we'll figure it out.

694
00:39:28,150 --> 00:39:28,983
Thank you.

695
00:39:38,372 --> 00:39:39,288
Is your chair okay?

696
00:39:39,290 --> 00:39:41,013
Yeah, it's just.

697
00:39:42,263 --> 00:39:43,643
- It's okay.
- Wobbly?

698
00:39:44,620 --> 00:39:46,638
No, they didn't put it.

699
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,368
The table's at a weird.

700
00:39:48,370 --> 00:39:49,203
It's okay.

701
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:04,472
So, what do you do when
you're not doing laundry?

702
00:40:07,430 --> 00:40:08,788
This is always a crowd pleaser.

703
00:40:08,790 --> 00:40:09,863
Alright, here we go.

704
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,628
I do telemarketing for
web and SEO services.

705
00:40:14,630 --> 00:40:17,808
You call strangers and
sell them web services?

706
00:40:17,810 --> 00:40:21,333
Yes, is the only accurate
answer to that question.

707
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,288
How would you get interested in that?

708
00:40:24,290 --> 00:40:25,148
I'm not.

709
00:40:25,150 --> 00:40:26,865
I'm really not interested in that.

710
00:40:26,867 --> 00:40:30,368
I mean I don't think anyone who
does it is interested in it.

711
00:40:30,370 --> 00:40:31,998
Basically, it's just a job.

712
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,913
I needed a job when Mia was born.

713
00:40:35,936 --> 00:40:37,278
I wanted to work from home.

714
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,408
I couldn't really bear
the thought of leaving

715
00:40:40,410 --> 00:40:43,168
and leaving her with someone
and getting a regular job.

716
00:40:43,170 --> 00:40:47,748
So, I got this one and then
I was there for a year.

717
00:40:47,750 --> 00:40:49,943
And then that became two years.

718
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,188
Yeah, they do let me pick my own hours.

719
00:40:56,190 --> 00:40:57,940
They pay for my phone and internet.

720
00:40:59,140 --> 00:41:01,308
Basically, I sold myself
to a huge corporation

721
00:41:01,310 --> 00:41:04,103
for the price of a laptop
and a phone to plug in.

722
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:07,808
Everyone does that.

723
00:41:07,810 --> 00:41:08,908
Yeah.

724
00:41:08,910 --> 00:41:10,558
You're making it work.

725
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:11,393
Yeah.

726
00:41:12,620 --> 00:41:13,481
Yeah, I don't know.

727
00:41:13,483 --> 00:41:15,773
I mean, hope I end up somewhere better.

728
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,508
I keep thinking it'll get
easier as she gets older.

729
00:41:21,510 --> 00:41:23,693
But, she's seven.

730
00:41:25,500 --> 00:41:26,858
What'd you do before her?

731
00:41:26,860 --> 00:41:27,868
Nothing.

732
00:41:27,870 --> 00:41:28,808
Nothing, I didn't do anything.

733
00:41:28,810 --> 00:41:30,168
Well, I was in school.

734
00:41:30,170 --> 00:41:31,143
I was a student.

735
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,148
I did have a part-time job
folding sweaters at the Gap.

736
00:41:35,150 --> 00:41:36,908
- Ooh.
- Yeah, wow.

737
00:41:36,910 --> 00:41:38,848
This was not the plan.

738
00:41:38,850 --> 00:41:39,850
What was the plan?

739
00:41:40,780 --> 00:41:43,308
I wanted to be an art teacher.

740
00:41:43,310 --> 00:41:45,118
I always thought that seemed cool.

741
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,770
You could still do that, right?

742
00:41:47,610 --> 00:41:48,618
Yeah.

743
00:41:48,620 --> 00:41:51,508
Technically, yeah, I would
need a lot more credits.

744
00:41:51,510 --> 00:41:53,758
So the idea of going back to school,

745
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,908
but also having a job
so I can pay the rent

746
00:41:55,910 --> 00:42:00,148
and keep the lights on
it doesn't seem possible

747
00:42:00,150 --> 00:42:01,400
at this point in my life.

748
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,688
She seems awesome?

749
00:42:04,690 --> 00:42:05,978
Mia, yeah?

750
00:42:05,980 --> 00:42:06,811
Yeah.

751
00:42:06,813 --> 00:42:08,808
She is a lot.

752
00:42:08,810 --> 00:42:10,051
She's a lot all the time.

753
00:42:10,053 --> 00:42:14,028
She kind of just like throws
everything at you all at once.

754
00:42:14,030 --> 00:42:15,508
I mean, she asks me.

755
00:42:15,510 --> 00:42:18,143
The questions that she asks me.

756
00:42:22,590 --> 00:42:26,518
I would actually not like
to talk about Mia tonight

757
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,278
if that's okay?

758
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,648
I just spend basically all
my time thinking about her

759
00:42:31,650 --> 00:42:33,078
and making decisions for her

760
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,518
and then questioning the decision

761
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,248
and beating myself up
over every little thing

762
00:42:37,250 --> 00:42:39,473
- about her, so.
- No, Mia.

763
00:42:39,475 --> 00:42:41,007
- Understood.
- Yeah, thank you.

764
00:42:41,009 --> 00:42:41,840
Thanks.

765
00:42:46,004 --> 00:42:47,188
You already had a question about her.

766
00:42:47,190 --> 00:42:48,838
- Right?
- No, it's okay.

767
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,148
Go ahead.

768
00:42:50,150 --> 00:42:52,598
- You wanna know if...
- She has a father?

769
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:53,808
Yeah.

770
00:42:53,810 --> 00:42:54,915
Is that always the question?

771
00:42:54,917 --> 00:42:56,750
Always the question.

772
00:42:58,420 --> 00:42:59,828
So, yes.

773
00:42:59,830 --> 00:43:02,573
Obviously, Mia has a father, right.

774
00:43:03,810 --> 00:43:05,788
She wouldn't like recognize him.

775
00:43:05,790 --> 00:43:07,168
If she ran into him on the street,

776
00:43:07,170 --> 00:43:08,268
he would not recognize her.

777
00:43:08,270 --> 00:43:09,568
They've never met.

778
00:43:09,570 --> 00:43:13,028
He left before she was
born, which sounds awful.

779
00:43:13,030 --> 00:43:15,168
But really, I mean, it's not like he said

780
00:43:15,170 --> 00:43:17,718
he was going out for milk
and then never came back.

781
00:43:17,720 --> 00:43:19,248
He ended it face to face.

782
00:43:19,250 --> 00:43:21,283
He was as humane as you can be.

783
00:43:22,580 --> 00:43:24,178
It was rough at the time.

784
00:43:24,180 --> 00:43:25,638
But it's been seven years,

785
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,538
and I've lived every
single day without him.

786
00:43:27,540 --> 00:43:31,808
And I can very safely say
that he made the right call.

787
00:43:31,810 --> 00:43:34,008
For him, yes, probably.

788
00:43:34,010 --> 00:43:36,118
For us, definitely.

789
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:37,948
I mean, I don't think
it would've made sense

790
00:43:37,950 --> 00:43:40,608
or been good for Mia if
we had just kind of like

791
00:43:40,610 --> 00:43:43,953
stayed together and pretended
like that was the plan.

792
00:43:46,950 --> 00:43:48,578
I'm sorry, this is a lot.

793
00:43:48,580 --> 00:43:49,928
No, it's okay.

794
00:43:49,930 --> 00:43:52,338
I just wanted
to at least get to desert

795
00:43:52,340 --> 00:43:54,328
before giving you my sob story.

796
00:43:54,330 --> 00:43:55,930
I don't mind listening to you.

797
00:43:56,790 --> 00:43:59,563
I'm glad you don't mind listening to me.

798
00:44:08,690 --> 00:44:12,148
Listen, I'm feeling a little
exposed to be honest with you.

799
00:44:12,150 --> 00:44:15,788
I feel like I just gave you
all my emotional baggage

800
00:44:15,790 --> 00:44:18,768
all that once and I don't
know anything about you.

801
00:44:18,770 --> 00:44:21,005
Can you just even if it out.

802
00:44:21,007 --> 00:44:22,148
I don't really have anything.

803
00:44:22,150 --> 00:44:22,981
Just something weird,

804
00:44:22,983 --> 00:44:25,588
something weird about you
or something embarrassing.

805
00:44:25,590 --> 00:44:27,173
- Anything.
- Yeah, yeah.

806
00:44:27,175 --> 00:44:28,046
- Okay.
- Okay.

807
00:44:28,048 --> 00:44:28,881
Great.

808
00:44:36,621 --> 00:44:38,448
When I take a shower,

809
00:44:38,450 --> 00:44:40,323
I usually wash my face last.

810
00:44:41,670 --> 00:44:45,028
Sometimes I get so caught
up in my train of thought,

811
00:44:45,030 --> 00:44:47,328
whatever I'm thinking
about, that I don't remember

812
00:44:47,330 --> 00:44:49,668
if I washed my face yet or not.

813
00:44:49,670 --> 00:44:53,058
So I'll stand there,
water beading down on me

814
00:44:53,060 --> 00:44:57,868
for five whole minutes,
debating with myself

815
00:44:57,870 --> 00:45:01,408
whether or not I should wash my face again

816
00:45:01,410 --> 00:45:03,998
if I hadn't, in fact, washed it before

817
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,788
or if I should get out of the shower

818
00:45:06,790 --> 00:45:08,597
not having washed my face at all.

819
00:45:12,746 --> 00:45:14,999
That was the worst.

820
00:45:15,001 --> 00:45:18,496
That was the worst.

821
00:45:18,498 --> 00:45:19,329
That was the worst.

822
00:45:19,331 --> 00:45:22,518
Yeah, I just bared my soul to you.

823
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,208
I just told you about
raising a kid on my own

824
00:45:25,210 --> 00:45:30,210
and about my thwarted dreams
of being an art teacher.

825
00:45:31,970 --> 00:45:35,068
You are telling me about washing your face

826
00:45:35,070 --> 00:45:37,543
or not washing your face in the shower.

827
00:45:39,270 --> 00:45:41,263
It's not my fault you went first.

828
00:45:44,086 --> 00:45:46,998
How did you know that's so weird.

829
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,918
So, when do you sleep usually?

830
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,573
I don't usually.

831
00:45:53,230 --> 00:45:54,658
Do you wanna hear the routine?

832
00:45:54,660 --> 00:45:55,573
- Yes.
- Okay.

833
00:45:57,460 --> 00:46:00,686
I get Mia off to school at 7:45.

834
00:46:00,688 --> 00:46:02,288
I get a couple of hours in then.

835
00:46:03,500 --> 00:46:06,758
Then I do the phone for a couple hours.

836
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,338
Then I'll do some housework or whatever

837
00:46:09,340 --> 00:46:10,758
until she gets back, and then she's back.

838
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,598
So we do her homework.

839
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:13,648
We watch a TV show together.

840
00:46:13,650 --> 00:46:17,628
We eat dinner, bath,
story, bedtime routine.

841
00:46:17,630 --> 00:46:18,668
Get her off to bed.

842
00:46:18,670 --> 00:46:21,768
Put my little headset
on that's for dialing.

843
00:46:21,770 --> 00:46:23,501
I'll try to squeeze in a
couple more hours of sleep then

844
00:46:23,503 --> 00:46:27,023
because she wakes up for
breakfast hit or mess.

845
00:46:27,878 --> 00:46:28,723
- Wow.
- Yeah.

846
00:46:29,730 --> 00:46:32,498
I know, I've moved
further and further away

847
00:46:32,500 --> 00:46:35,548
from any kind of normal routine
the longer I've done this.

848
00:46:35,550 --> 00:46:36,728
You're doing it.

849
00:46:36,730 --> 00:46:38,373
You're on your terms together.

850
00:46:40,180 --> 00:46:41,780
Yeah, I don't know.

851
00:46:44,170 --> 00:46:48,208
I wish I could say that this
was all some conscience act

852
00:46:48,210 --> 00:46:53,118
of defiance to choose to live
outside the mainstream thing.

853
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:56,443
Whatever, but this is just the job I have.

854
00:46:57,337 --> 00:46:59,037
Most of the time I'm on autopilot.

855
00:47:00,220 --> 00:47:01,738
You're on a different level.

856
00:47:01,740 --> 00:47:03,828
You're making decisions
for another person.

857
00:47:03,830 --> 00:47:05,128
I don't even make decisions.

858
00:47:05,130 --> 00:47:07,468
I'm just carrying out actions,

859
00:47:07,470 --> 00:47:10,238
muscle memory: eat, sleep, work,

860
00:47:10,240 --> 00:47:13,263
that shower thing I told you about.

861
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,158
No one tells me to do anything.

862
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,783
But, what am I doing?

863
00:47:20,420 --> 00:47:21,273
I'm impressed.

864
00:47:22,835 --> 00:47:24,933
Believe me, I make it look very hard.

865
00:47:27,860 --> 00:47:32,238
I make enough to pay
rent to keep our place,

866
00:47:32,240 --> 00:47:34,668
and then my parents pay her
tuition at Catholic school.

867
00:47:34,670 --> 00:47:38,116
And once a year they'll take
us on a little vacation.

868
00:47:38,118 --> 00:47:39,458
That sounds nice.

869
00:47:39,460 --> 00:47:40,698
Yeah.

870
00:47:40,700 --> 00:47:42,000
Yeah, it actually is nice.

871
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,658
Most of the time I'm able to look past how

872
00:47:45,660 --> 00:47:48,443
disappointing the state of
affairs is for all of us.

873
00:47:49,723 --> 00:47:52,478
We did not envision this as our set up.

874
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,688
Your daughter has people who love her.

875
00:47:54,690 --> 00:47:56,240
Someone's always there for her.

876
00:47:57,310 --> 00:47:58,143
Yeah.

877
00:47:59,300 --> 00:48:00,648
A lot of nights though I end up

878
00:48:00,650 --> 00:48:04,328
just wide awake watching shitty TV

879
00:48:04,330 --> 00:48:09,330
or staring at my computer
screen or whatever.

880
00:48:09,580 --> 00:48:14,493
I find 3:00 to 5:00 a.m.
to be a difficult time.

881
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,240
I'm back at my father's house.

882
00:48:19,420 --> 00:48:21,868
I'm sleeping in my childhood bedroom.

883
00:48:21,870 --> 00:48:22,703
It's creepy.

884
00:48:24,490 --> 00:48:25,940
I can't seem to get to sleep.

885
00:48:26,850 --> 00:48:28,750
But for some reason I keep going back.

886
00:48:30,540 --> 00:48:32,088
You grew up here?

887
00:48:32,090 --> 00:48:33,363
- Yeah.
- Hmm.

888
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:35,983
And I moved.

889
00:48:37,946 --> 00:48:39,748
And?

890
00:48:39,750 --> 00:48:43,843
And, my mother died when I was nine.

891
00:48:45,020 --> 00:48:46,570
So it was just my father and I.

892
00:48:48,020 --> 00:48:50,048
We'd see Uncle Frank
on holidays sometimes,

893
00:48:50,050 --> 00:48:52,750
but for the most part it was
just me and David Steele.

894
00:48:53,980 --> 00:48:55,678
He pretended to keep
it together pretty well

895
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:56,963
until I was about 11.

896
00:48:58,787 --> 00:49:01,168
It wasn't happy, but it wasn't bad.

897
00:49:01,170 --> 00:49:02,908
We greeted each other.

898
00:49:02,910 --> 00:49:04,913
We exchanged pleasantries.

899
00:49:06,780 --> 00:49:08,058
When I think about it now,

900
00:49:08,060 --> 00:49:09,568
I shouldn't have taken it personally

901
00:49:09,570 --> 00:49:13,678
because he was just
dealing with everything,

902
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,853
this new world without
her, as best that he could.

903
00:49:18,150 --> 00:49:18,983
But I did.

904
00:49:20,247 --> 00:49:21,297
I took it personally.

905
00:49:22,300 --> 00:49:25,658
When I was 13, we openly
acknowledged the fact that

906
00:49:25,660 --> 00:49:27,128
the house was a miserable place to be

907
00:49:27,130 --> 00:49:28,568
especially when we were both there,

908
00:49:28,570 --> 00:49:31,208
and so he instituted a new rule.

909
00:49:31,210 --> 00:49:33,295
You don't have to come home on Fridays.

910
00:49:33,297 --> 00:49:36,578
"In fact, don't come home on Fridays"

911
00:49:36,580 --> 00:49:37,588
that's how he said it.

912
00:49:37,590 --> 00:49:41,813
And it seemed like a
good idea at the time.

913
00:49:42,792 --> 00:49:45,023
You know, we both were looking
for something like that.

914
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,858
So, I had this one friend,
this one good friend,

915
00:49:48,860 --> 00:49:52,758
this one friend, Matt Rockcamp.

916
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,858
We were the tech guys in the school play.

917
00:49:55,860 --> 00:49:57,388
We'd do the soundboard and the line board

918
00:49:57,390 --> 00:49:58,540
and all those switches.

919
00:49:59,690 --> 00:50:03,738
And we had play rehearsals
on Saturday mornings.

920
00:50:03,740 --> 00:50:05,863
So Friday like clockwork,

921
00:50:07,020 --> 00:50:08,870
we'd go to Matt's house after school.

922
00:50:09,720 --> 00:50:14,720
We'd watch Monty Python
movies and order pizza

923
00:50:14,790 --> 00:50:17,698
and sometimes we'd sleep
on the screened in porch

924
00:50:17,700 --> 00:50:18,533
that he had.

925
00:50:19,370 --> 00:50:22,088
In the morning, Mrs. R
would wake up and make us

926
00:50:22,090 --> 00:50:26,073
bacon and eggs and these
homemade cinnamon rolls,

927
00:50:26,940 --> 00:50:28,898
not even from the can.

928
00:50:28,900 --> 00:50:31,433
You could put on all the icing you wanted.

929
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,728
When I have any fun inkling of that age,

930
00:50:35,730 --> 00:50:36,880
that's what I think of.

931
00:50:38,153 --> 00:50:40,608
But, of course, the
worse is when I went home

932
00:50:40,610 --> 00:50:42,013
after play practice.

933
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,740
My father would smoke these cigars

934
00:50:47,650 --> 00:50:51,143
and always have the TV glaring
like four bars too loud.

935
00:50:52,660 --> 00:50:54,418
I remember getting in the front door

936
00:50:54,420 --> 00:50:57,218
and catching that smell and hearing the TV

937
00:50:57,220 --> 00:50:59,423
and just being so sad
that I was back home.

938
00:51:01,456 --> 00:51:03,118
Then the only thing
that was actually worse

939
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,220
was when I'd get home and he wasn't there.

940
00:51:06,240 --> 00:51:07,808
And then Saturdays turn into Sundays.

941
00:51:07,810 --> 00:51:09,798
And Sundays turned into Wednesdays.

942
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,083
And he was gone more and more.

943
00:51:16,810 --> 00:51:20,203
Now Frank is dying of cancer.

944
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:26,683
And Matt Rockcamp I heard
that he moved to Seattle,

945
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:28,980
and he's an architect now.

946
00:51:34,466 --> 00:51:35,668
I think, you're doing a really good job

947
00:51:35,670 --> 00:51:36,770
with that little girl.

948
00:51:43,260 --> 00:51:44,845
I can't believe you
told me that shower story

949
00:51:44,847 --> 00:51:49,847
while you were sitting on that.

950
00:51:52,483 --> 00:51:53,988
This was fun.

951
00:51:53,990 --> 00:51:55,298
Yeah, thank you for coming out.

952
00:51:55,300 --> 00:51:57,608
Oh, my god, thank
you are you kidding me.

953
00:51:57,610 --> 00:52:00,588
I never have a reason to actually leave

954
00:52:00,590 --> 00:52:01,790
this apartment building.

955
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,551
I like invent reasons
to leave the building.

956
00:52:06,553 --> 00:52:10,148
I go to the store, get
something I already have,

957
00:52:10,150 --> 00:52:13,143
or go to the Post Office for new stamps.

958
00:52:15,744 --> 00:52:17,128
I don't know I take Mia to the park.

959
00:52:17,130 --> 00:52:19,373
She doesn't even like
going to the park anymore.

960
00:52:20,290 --> 00:52:22,470
I'd go to the park.

961
00:52:22,472 --> 00:52:24,188
It's a little late,
but maybe another time.

962
00:52:24,190 --> 00:52:25,023
Yeah.

963
00:52:34,426 --> 00:52:36,288
So I can't invite you up.

964
00:52:36,290 --> 00:52:37,690
I'm not gonna invite you up.

965
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:40,518
- No.
- Sorry to just say that.

966
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,958
I just wanted to be direct

967
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,248
because I feel like Mia's upstairs,

968
00:52:45,250 --> 00:52:48,751
and if she were to hear us come in.

969
00:52:48,753 --> 00:52:50,734
She'd get the wrong idea.

970
00:52:50,736 --> 00:52:52,168
You don't want her to bring

971
00:52:52,170 --> 00:52:53,308
strange men into the apartment.

972
00:52:53,310 --> 00:52:56,048
Questions, I don't wanna
deal with her questions.

973
00:52:56,050 --> 00:52:57,628
Yeah.

974
00:52:57,630 --> 00:52:58,463
Okay.

975
00:53:00,010 --> 00:53:02,578
I'm gonna head home and get some sleep

976
00:53:02,580 --> 00:53:05,758
before I have to drive
Frank in the morning.

977
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:06,873
Okay, rest up.

978
00:53:07,819 --> 00:53:08,918
I will.

979
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,728
Stop by tomorrow if you
want after the doctor.

980
00:53:11,730 --> 00:53:13,597
- Goodnight.
- Thank you.

981
00:53:13,599 --> 00:53:14,432
Goodnight.

982
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,688
So was how was treatment today?

983
00:53:41,690 --> 00:53:43,497
What did they tell you about me?

984
00:53:43,499 --> 00:53:44,588
Nothing.

985
00:53:44,590 --> 00:53:45,788
Don't play dumb with me.

986
00:53:45,790 --> 00:53:47,508
What did they tell you about me?

987
00:53:47,510 --> 00:53:49,288
They asked me again if you
were taking your medication

988
00:53:49,290 --> 00:53:50,198
and how you diet went.

989
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:51,788
What are you gonna
want a stool sample next?

990
00:53:51,790 --> 00:53:53,228
I didn't say anything.

991
00:53:53,230 --> 00:53:54,835
You know, I've lived
my life on my terms,

992
00:53:54,837 --> 00:53:56,968
and I'll see it end on my term.

993
00:53:56,970 --> 00:53:57,998
Okay.

994
00:53:58,000 --> 00:53:58,833
It is okay.

995
00:54:01,250 --> 00:54:02,968
Why won't you at least try?

996
00:54:02,970 --> 00:54:05,958
You know, your father never
gave me shit about this.

997
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,368
He did it the right way.

998
00:54:07,370 --> 00:54:10,248
No pain, no suffering, no
lingering in the hospital.

999
00:54:10,250 --> 00:54:11,878
Just enough Scotch to
make the lines blurry.

1000
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,114
The tree does the rest.

1001
00:54:13,116 --> 00:54:14,202
What?

1002
00:54:14,204 --> 00:54:15,348
Nothing.

1003
00:54:15,350 --> 00:54:17,208
You don't know how long
I've been doing this?

1004
00:54:17,210 --> 00:54:19,438
How many doctors, how many treatments.

1005
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:21,778
I get bent out of shape
over every instruction,

1006
00:54:21,780 --> 00:54:24,438
and then what the hell
am I supposed to do.

1007
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,068
I listened.

1008
00:54:26,070 --> 00:54:28,988
For a long time I listened.

1009
00:54:28,990 --> 00:54:30,868
I just can't.

1010
00:54:30,870 --> 00:54:33,273
I just can't listen anymore,

1011
00:54:35,130 --> 00:54:37,488
and I would kindly ask
you to respect that.

1012
00:54:37,490 --> 00:54:40,403
When I don't even care enough
at this point to do that.

1013
00:54:56,550 --> 00:54:57,748
- Hi.
- Hi.

1014
00:54:57,750 --> 00:54:59,448
I didn't know you were here.

1015
00:54:59,450 --> 00:55:00,283
Come in.

1016
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:02,818
What's up?

1017
00:55:02,820 --> 00:55:04,248
My father's house?

1018
00:55:04,250 --> 00:55:05,150
Would you want it?

1019
00:55:07,020 --> 00:55:08,378
Are you kidding?

1020
00:55:08,380 --> 00:55:10,618
No, maybe it would help.

1021
00:55:10,620 --> 00:55:12,224
Peter, I can't afford a house.

1022
00:55:12,226 --> 00:55:14,023
What if you didn't
have to worry about that?

1023
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,108
Okay, there's a light
switch outside my bathroom.

1024
00:55:20,110 --> 00:55:22,458
It's like one of those
pull light switches,

1025
00:55:22,460 --> 00:55:23,658
and it broke months ago.

1026
00:55:23,660 --> 00:55:25,488
And I just leave the light on.

1027
00:55:25,490 --> 00:55:26,903
All the time it's always on.

1028
00:55:29,031 --> 00:55:31,988
So I can't take care of a whole house.

1029
00:55:31,990 --> 00:55:33,488
And also Mia's in school,

1030
00:55:33,490 --> 00:55:35,183
so we can't just like move.

1031
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:37,998
Of course.

1032
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,941
Of course, you're right I'm sorry.

1033
00:55:39,943 --> 00:55:41,468
Are you okay?

1034
00:55:41,470 --> 00:55:43,268
I should probably go.

1035
00:55:43,270 --> 00:55:44,880
I'm sorry to bother you.

1036
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:30,978
I was knocking for like 15 minutes.

1037
00:56:30,980 --> 00:56:31,878
I was wondering where you were.

1038
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,688
I thought maybe, huh?

1039
00:56:33,690 --> 00:56:34,523
I was dead?

1040
00:56:35,410 --> 00:56:37,343
Getting ready to turn
it over with this, kid.

1041
00:56:38,810 --> 00:56:40,153
Come on we gotta get going.

1042
00:56:40,990 --> 00:56:41,872
- Pass.
- What the hell do

1043
00:56:41,874 --> 00:56:43,081
did you do in here, Frank?

1044
00:56:43,083 --> 00:56:44,588
It smells like you took a dump in here.

1045
00:56:44,590 --> 00:56:46,093
But you'll never find it.

1046
00:56:48,810 --> 00:56:50,238
Hurry up, come on.

1047
00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:51,188
Or what?

1048
00:56:51,190 --> 00:56:52,828
You're not listening.

1049
00:56:52,830 --> 00:56:54,398
I'm not going anywhere today

1050
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:55,808
or any other day for that matter.

1051
00:56:55,810 --> 00:56:56,798
You're doing really well, Frank.

1052
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,328
No, no you're doing really well.

1053
00:56:59,330 --> 00:57:01,638
You got a nice little record
of on-time deliveries,

1054
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:04,661
and I'm sure the doctors are
all so very proud of you.

1055
00:57:04,663 --> 00:57:05,788
It's a game.

1056
00:57:05,790 --> 00:57:07,498
It's just a game.

1057
00:57:07,500 --> 00:57:08,948
I'm not even a player.

1058
00:57:08,950 --> 00:57:10,748
I'm a piece, I'm a pawn.

1059
00:57:10,750 --> 00:57:12,418
Move him there, move him here.

1060
00:57:12,420 --> 00:57:14,508
Give him this, try that.

1061
00:57:14,510 --> 00:57:17,641
And I realize I have one move left,

1062
00:57:17,643 --> 00:57:19,868
and I choose not to play.

1063
00:57:19,870 --> 00:57:21,398
I'm sorry you're not
feeling well, Frank.

1064
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,368
Don't you dare.

1065
00:57:23,370 --> 00:57:25,428
Don't you dare pity me.

1066
00:57:25,430 --> 00:57:27,498
I was dying before you
walked in this house,

1067
00:57:27,500 --> 00:57:29,258
and I'll be dying when you walk out.

1068
00:57:29,260 --> 00:57:30,998
On your feet we're going, Frank!

1069
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:32,298
Or maybe I'll get lucky.

1070
00:57:32,300 --> 00:57:34,523
Or maybe I'll just be dead.

1071
00:57:36,610 --> 00:57:38,648
I'm not just gonna sit
here and watch you die.

1072
00:57:38,650 --> 00:57:39,788
Then go!

1073
00:57:39,790 --> 00:57:40,698
I didn't ask you to come here.

1074
00:57:40,700 --> 00:57:43,028
I didn't ask you to take care of me,

1075
00:57:43,030 --> 00:57:45,930
and I'm sure as hell not going
to ask for your permission.

1076
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:48,170
Why are you doing this?

1077
00:57:49,150 --> 00:57:50,700
I'm not doing it to you, kid.

1078
00:58:01,313 --> 00:58:02,258
Peter.

1079
00:58:02,260 --> 00:58:04,308
Peter, this is Kevin and Renee.

1080
00:58:04,310 --> 00:58:05,798
This is their second look,

1081
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:07,728
and, I think, I'm pretty confident to say

1082
00:58:07,730 --> 00:58:10,158
you got serious buyers here.

1083
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:10,993
That's great.

1084
00:58:12,020 --> 00:58:14,408
I'm so glad
you popped in, Peter.

1085
00:58:14,410 --> 00:58:17,258
They were asking me, but
I'm sure you know better.

1086
00:58:17,260 --> 00:58:19,110
How are the schools in this district?

1087
00:58:21,479 --> 00:58:23,328
I don't really know.

1088
00:58:23,330 --> 00:58:24,513
I have to I'm sorry.

1089
00:58:36,340 --> 00:58:38,368
You know what kid you're
really starting to piss me off.

1090
00:58:38,370 --> 00:58:39,320
I was at my desk.

1091
00:58:40,500 --> 00:58:43,078
I was at the office working on an email

1092
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:45,478
when the phone rings.

1093
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,153
The call came in that he had died.

1094
00:58:48,230 --> 00:58:51,048
I didn't have an answer to
what it's gonna be again?

1095
00:58:51,050 --> 00:58:52,418
One afternoon the phone rings

1096
00:58:52,420 --> 00:58:54,683
and that's how I find out it's over.

1097
00:58:56,314 --> 00:58:57,508
Come on what you
think that by being here

1098
00:58:57,510 --> 00:58:59,108
it's not gonna happen.

1099
00:58:59,110 --> 00:59:01,138
You're getting that call, kid.

1100
00:59:01,140 --> 00:59:03,308
One way or another
you're getting that call.

1101
00:59:03,310 --> 00:59:04,948
I don't want that.

1102
00:59:04,950 --> 00:59:06,668
So what are you gonna do
put a mirror under my nose

1103
00:59:06,670 --> 00:59:07,920
every time I go to sleep?

1104
00:59:14,190 --> 00:59:15,290
Where are you going?

1105
00:59:16,170 --> 00:59:17,001
Well, you're here, right?

1106
00:59:17,003 --> 00:59:18,663
Take me to the store I need stuff.

1107
00:59:26,350 --> 00:59:28,318
Oh, hey, where are boys going?

1108
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:29,153
To the beach.

1109
00:59:30,093 --> 00:59:31,331
You wanna come?

1110
00:59:31,333 --> 00:59:33,055
Please, mommy, please.

1111
00:59:33,057 --> 00:59:36,540
We're gonna eat clams,
french fries, milkshakes.

1112
00:59:36,542 --> 00:59:37,554
Please.

1113
00:59:37,556 --> 00:59:38,899
You have homework.

1114
00:59:38,901 --> 00:59:42,218
Just a little and I take pictures.

1115
00:59:42,220 --> 00:59:44,788
A little favor for a dying old man.

1116
00:59:44,790 --> 00:59:45,640
Works every time.

1117
00:59:47,060 --> 00:59:48,868
I thought you had to
get stuff from the store.

1118
00:59:48,870 --> 00:59:50,770
Better opportunity presented itself.

1119
00:59:52,970 --> 00:59:54,412
- Hi.
- Hi.

1120
00:59:54,414 --> 00:59:55,497
We're here.

1121
00:59:56,538 --> 00:59:57,371
You okay?

1122
00:59:59,108 --> 01:00:00,148
Yes.

1123
01:00:00,150 --> 01:00:02,858
Mommy, they don't have
my booster seater here.

1124
01:00:02,860 --> 01:00:04,263
Yeah, well.

1125
01:00:04,265 --> 01:00:05,878
You're gonna have to make
an exception this time.

1126
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,818
They keep these kids in their car seats

1127
01:00:07,820 --> 01:00:09,218
until their wedding night.

1128
01:00:09,220 --> 01:00:10,888
When I was kid, we didn't have car seats.

1129
01:00:10,890 --> 01:00:13,298
You sat in somebody's lap
with somebody who smoked,

1130
01:00:13,300 --> 01:00:15,308
and they blow that smoke in your face.

1131
01:00:15,310 --> 01:00:16,868
If the car hit a bump,
you banged your head.

1132
01:00:16,870 --> 01:00:17,991
You turned out just fine.

1133
01:00:17,993 --> 01:00:20,347
He's just mad at me 'cause I'm dying.

1134
01:00:20,349 --> 01:00:22,211
Mommy, is he really dying?

1135
01:00:22,213 --> 01:00:23,888
That's not such a good question to ask.

1136
01:00:23,890 --> 01:00:25,478
Because they don't want
you to hear the truth.

1137
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:26,311
Who's getting hungry?

1138
01:00:26,313 --> 01:00:27,753
- Me.
- Great.

1139
01:00:29,740 --> 01:00:31,000
Let's go.

1140
01:00:36,770 --> 01:00:37,603
What the heck?

1141
01:00:38,488 --> 01:00:40,275
I'm taking pictures of the ocean.

1142
01:00:40,277 --> 01:00:42,368
Yeah, but why are you taking so many.

1143
01:00:42,370 --> 01:00:43,978
It's all the same.

1144
01:00:43,980 --> 01:00:45,885
Because I wanna get all of it.

1145
01:00:45,887 --> 01:00:47,883
But you can't
get all of it, it's huge.

1146
01:00:49,390 --> 01:00:52,067
Well, maybe I can get most of it.

1147
01:00:53,468 --> 01:00:54,301
Okay.

1148
01:00:55,430 --> 01:00:56,388
What do you got there?

1149
01:00:56,390 --> 01:00:57,758
- My wallet.
- Oh, yeah.

1150
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:58,998
How much you got?

1151
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,628
11 bucks, one five and six ones.

1152
01:01:01,630 --> 01:01:03,888
Oh, yeah, let me show you something.

1153
01:01:03,890 --> 01:01:05,323
See, you take your money.

1154
01:01:06,484 --> 01:01:10,048
You take your big bill, your five.

1155
01:01:10,050 --> 01:01:12,448
Then you wrap the ones around it.

1156
01:01:12,450 --> 01:01:13,555
This way when people see it,

1157
01:01:13,557 --> 01:01:14,905
they think you only got a dollar.

1158
01:01:14,907 --> 01:01:16,728
Otherwise they see a big bill,

1159
01:01:16,730 --> 01:01:18,883
they'd knock you on the
head and they'd take it.

1160
01:01:19,850 --> 01:01:21,858
Mom, are they really gonna knock me

1161
01:01:21,860 --> 01:01:23,238
in the head for my money?

1162
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:24,337
Thanks, Frank.

1163
01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:32,873
Thank you.

1164
01:01:35,205 --> 01:01:37,156
Thank you.

1165
01:01:37,158 --> 01:01:38,241
Thank you.

1166
01:01:41,420 --> 01:01:42,253
Have a clam.

1167
01:01:44,330 --> 01:01:45,580
It's good, huh?

1168
01:01:46,503 --> 01:01:48,798
When I was a little boy,

1169
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,408
I use to come here with my brother

1170
01:01:50,410 --> 01:01:52,826
and we would dig them out of
the wet sand and eat 'em raw.

1171
01:01:52,828 --> 01:01:54,208
Ew, really?

1172
01:01:54,210 --> 01:01:56,238
Oh, yeah, it's the best way to eat 'em.

1173
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,118
One day couple of years ago I was digging,

1174
01:01:58,120 --> 01:01:59,868
and this bozo comes up to me.

1175
01:01:59,870 --> 01:02:02,795
He says, "The fishing rights
on this beach are protected,

1176
01:02:02,797 --> 01:02:04,788
"and you can't do that."

1177
01:02:04,790 --> 01:02:06,085
So I said, "Oh, yeah.

1178
01:02:06,087 --> 01:02:07,158
"I'm a veteran and I"

1179
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:08,571
Frank.

1180
01:02:08,573 --> 01:02:09,406
Child.

1181
01:02:12,532 --> 01:02:13,398
What did you do?

1182
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:14,233
I stopped.

1183
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:16,311
Well, that's good.

1184
01:02:16,313 --> 01:02:18,573
You wouldn't wanna get in trouble.

1185
01:02:28,256 --> 01:02:30,918
What's going on with him?

1186
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:32,768
He didn't go to treatment this morning.

1187
01:02:32,770 --> 01:02:34,570
He said he doesn't wanna go anymore.

1188
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:37,198
Sorry.

1189
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:38,550
Then he told me to leave.

1190
01:02:39,670 --> 01:02:41,588
So you grabbed him and
brought him to the beach?

1191
01:02:41,590 --> 01:02:43,158
No, I left.

1192
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:44,310
And then you came back.

1193
01:02:46,190 --> 01:02:47,668
Okay.

1194
01:02:47,670 --> 01:02:48,888
Okay, look, Peter, I know you're

1195
01:02:48,890 --> 01:02:50,628
trying to do something good here.

1196
01:02:50,630 --> 01:02:51,718
- I get that.
- Believe me,

1197
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:52,978
he's said that earlier.

1198
01:02:52,980 --> 01:02:54,630
You have to let him choose now,

1199
01:02:55,610 --> 01:02:57,158
whether you like it or not.

1200
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:58,435
Why?

1201
01:02:58,437 --> 01:02:59,558
Why does he get to choose?

1202
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:00,760
Because it's his life.

1203
01:03:02,849 --> 01:03:03,699
He's my family.

1204
01:03:04,671 --> 01:03:06,171
Can I stand idly by and watch?

1205
01:03:08,300 --> 01:03:11,643
I think, it's time maybe for
you to start saying goodbye.

1206
01:03:13,060 --> 01:03:14,488
No, no.

1207
01:03:14,490 --> 01:03:16,412
No one's asking you to save them.

1208
01:03:16,414 --> 01:03:18,958
Is this about what I
said about the house?

1209
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:20,283
I mean, sort of.

1210
01:03:21,970 --> 01:03:25,638
You come in here and you act
like you wanna save the day.

1211
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:28,378
I mean, to be honest with you
it's a pretty obnoxious idea

1212
01:03:28,380 --> 01:03:29,748
when you really think about it.

1213
01:03:29,750 --> 01:03:31,653
He is a human being.

1214
01:03:31,655 --> 01:03:32,908
We are human beings.

1215
01:03:32,910 --> 01:03:33,743
We have dignity.

1216
01:03:34,630 --> 01:03:36,258
We're trying to make the
best of what we have.

1217
01:03:36,260 --> 01:03:38,205
We don't need your judgment.

1218
01:03:38,207 --> 01:03:40,078
I never judged you.

1219
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:41,874
I don't judge him.

1220
01:03:41,876 --> 01:03:43,168
But you can't invite me into your lives

1221
01:03:43,170 --> 01:03:44,838
then ask me not to touch anything.

1222
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:45,948
I'm not a child.

1223
01:03:45,950 --> 01:03:48,433
I finally have some power, some ability.

1224
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:50,518
- Finally, I can do something.
- Jesus!

1225
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:51,968
- I could change things.
- Peter, no.

1226
01:03:51,970 --> 01:03:54,178
You are not that powerful.

1227
01:03:54,180 --> 01:03:55,588
You don't have a magic wand

1228
01:03:55,590 --> 01:03:57,238
that you can just wave in the air

1229
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,253
and make all the bad stuff go away.

1230
01:04:00,177 --> 01:04:02,489
So what do I do?

1231
01:04:02,491 --> 01:04:03,478
Nothing?

1232
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:05,248
Be careful, okay.

1233
01:04:05,250 --> 01:04:07,508
Be careful thinking that you
have the answer to something

1234
01:04:07,510 --> 01:04:09,460
that isn't your question to begin with.

1235
01:04:14,350 --> 01:04:15,600
Alright, it's time to go.

1236
01:04:22,390 --> 01:04:23,708
All right, bye guys.

1237
01:04:23,710 --> 01:04:25,160
Take care of yourself, Frank.

1238
01:04:44,580 --> 01:04:47,260
Yeah, that was good.

1239
01:04:48,443 --> 01:04:49,984
I had fun.

1240
01:04:49,986 --> 01:04:52,953
I haven't been to the beach
in God knows how long.

1241
01:04:54,300 --> 01:04:55,131
Glad you're happy.

1242
01:04:55,133 --> 01:04:57,983
Yeah, that's where I should go.

1243
01:04:59,050 --> 01:05:00,448
You just went.

1244
01:05:00,450 --> 01:05:04,578
No, no, that's where
they should bury me.

1245
01:05:04,580 --> 01:05:07,438
You know, not bury me.

1246
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,678
Scatter me, you know
like when they burn you?

1247
01:05:09,680 --> 01:05:10,703
Cremate?

1248
01:05:10,705 --> 01:05:12,813
Yeah, cremate me.

1249
01:05:13,870 --> 01:05:15,393
Cremate me.

1250
01:05:15,395 --> 01:05:17,343
But scatter my ashes on the beach.

1251
01:05:18,709 --> 01:05:21,500
Let old Frank
get lapped up by the ocean

1252
01:05:23,299 --> 01:05:24,799
I would like that.

1253
01:06:58,136 --> 01:07:00,636
Hey, kid, what's up?

1254
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,436
The house sold.

1255
01:07:04,438 --> 01:07:07,028
Mm, good, good for you.

1256
01:07:07,030 --> 01:07:08,578
You get that money.

1257
01:07:08,580 --> 01:07:11,348
After bills and such
it's really not that bad.

1258
01:07:11,350 --> 01:07:13,008
Well, good, you deserve it.

1259
01:07:13,010 --> 01:07:15,228
Now put it to good use.

1260
01:07:15,230 --> 01:07:16,363
I'll think something.

1261
01:07:17,820 --> 01:07:19,828
I should ask you if you wanted anything

1262
01:07:19,830 --> 01:07:22,088
anything of my father's from the house?

1263
01:07:22,090 --> 01:07:24,863
Nah, besides what
would I do with it now?

1264
01:07:29,662 --> 01:07:31,245
I'm sorry, Frank.

1265
01:07:32,113 --> 01:07:33,668
What are you
apologizing to me for?

1266
01:07:33,670 --> 01:07:36,263
Well, a lot of things.

1267
01:07:37,930 --> 01:07:39,723
Now you don't need to be sorry to me.

1268
01:07:41,060 --> 01:07:42,518
Thanks, Frank.

1269
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:43,903
You're a good kid.

1270
01:07:45,180 --> 01:07:46,680
You go home and get some rest.

1271
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:49,758
Take care of yourself.

1272
01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:51,131
You too.

1273
01:07:51,133 --> 01:07:53,216
I'll see you around, kid.

1274
01:08:36,860 --> 01:08:37,913
Hey, Peter.

1275
01:08:39,660 --> 01:08:41,639
We missed you around here.

1276
01:08:41,641 --> 01:08:42,841
It is good to be back.

1277
01:08:44,130 --> 01:08:46,028
We were all thinking about you.

1278
01:08:46,030 --> 01:08:47,030
Thank you.

1279
01:08:47,897 --> 01:08:51,608
You know, it's times like
these you need family the most.

1280
01:08:51,610 --> 01:08:52,777
Definitely.

1281
01:08:54,100 --> 01:08:54,933
Stephanie.

1282
01:08:56,710 --> 01:08:58,003
How are things?

1283
01:08:58,870 --> 01:08:59,873
Are things okay?

1284
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:02,473
Yeah.

1285
01:09:03,310 --> 01:09:04,473
Thanks for asking.

1286
01:09:30,850 --> 01:09:32,000
Hello, Peter.

1287
01:09:38,300 --> 01:09:39,948
Hey, Kid.

1288
01:09:39,950 --> 01:09:41,368
What's up?

1289
01:09:41,370 --> 01:09:43,343
I got a call from the hospital.

1290
01:09:44,260 --> 01:09:45,968
They said you made an appointment,

1291
01:09:45,970 --> 01:09:48,728
but you needed your kid to pick you up.

1292
01:09:48,730 --> 01:09:51,268
Yeah, I didn't know
how to get a hold of you,

1293
01:09:51,270 --> 01:09:54,318
so I figured the hospital
could track you down.

1294
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:55,223
Your kid?

1295
01:09:56,170 --> 01:09:59,393
I actually said that
kid with the dirty beard.

1296
01:10:00,316 --> 01:10:01,566
You must have changed it.

1297
01:10:11,650 --> 01:10:13,624
I don't wanna go just yet.

1298
01:10:13,626 --> 01:10:14,459
Okay, we can just hang out and then.

1299
01:10:17,343 --> 01:10:18,980
Yeah, that's good.

1300
01:10:18,982 --> 01:10:20,623
You okay?

1301
01:10:20,625 --> 01:10:21,723
Yeah, I'm fine.

1302
01:10:23,213 --> 01:10:25,163
Starting to think I did this all wrong.

1303
01:10:26,070 --> 01:10:27,624
What do you mean?

1304
01:10:27,626 --> 01:10:28,543
All this.

1305
01:10:29,403 --> 01:10:30,395
I thought I could do this my way.

1306
01:10:30,397 --> 01:10:33,868
You know, when they find my
body in a couple of week,

1307
01:10:33,870 --> 01:10:37,123
when the mail piled up and the
stench reached the hallway.

1308
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:41,068
Now I'm thinking that
wasn't such a good idea.

1309
01:10:41,070 --> 01:10:42,558
Take a deep breath, Frank.

1310
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:43,475
It's gonna be okay.

1311
01:10:43,477 --> 01:10:44,703
Listen I'm trying.

1312
01:10:45,730 --> 01:10:46,561
It's hard.

1313
01:10:46,563 --> 01:10:48,923
I know, I'm here.

1314
01:10:50,030 --> 01:10:50,863
Thanks, kid.

1315
01:10:55,790 --> 01:11:00,790
Remember what I told you about
how when the end is coming,

1316
01:11:02,726 --> 01:11:03,826
I think, I'll know it?

1317
01:11:07,328 --> 01:11:08,373
And what did I say?

1318
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:11,178
I hate being right.

1319
01:11:11,180 --> 01:11:12,013
Frank.

1320
01:11:15,620 --> 01:11:16,453
I don't know.

1321
01:11:18,334 --> 01:11:19,784
It just hit me the other day.

1322
01:11:22,230 --> 01:11:24,780
I didn't know what to do,
so I called the hospital.

1323
01:11:26,206 --> 01:11:27,903
I couldn't think of anything else.

1324
01:11:35,230 --> 01:11:36,063
Hey.

1325
01:11:36,910 --> 01:11:37,743
Frank.

1326
01:11:39,333 --> 01:11:40,233
Frank, look at me.

1327
01:11:41,590 --> 01:11:42,423
Frank.

1328
01:11:45,900 --> 01:11:46,950
I'm glad they got me.

1329
01:11:49,430 --> 01:11:50,263
Thanks, kid.

1330
01:11:56,510 --> 01:11:57,560
Frank Steele.

1331
01:12:20,660 --> 01:12:21,788
Want me to go to the
store and get you something?

1332
01:12:21,790 --> 01:12:24,246
No, I just need to.

1333
01:12:24,248 --> 01:12:26,248
I just need to sit down.

1334
01:12:33,761 --> 01:12:36,468
You know what help me up.

1335
01:12:36,470 --> 01:12:37,301
I need to go to bed.

1336
01:12:37,303 --> 01:12:38,783
Okay, I got it.

1337
01:12:42,030 --> 01:12:44,278
Can you get me some of that soup

1338
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:46,043
I like from the place?

1339
01:12:47,020 --> 01:12:48,703
Yeah, I can go and get that.

1340
01:12:50,087 --> 01:12:51,087
But not right now.

1341
01:12:53,150 --> 01:12:56,076
I'll wait until you fall asleep.

1342
01:12:56,078 --> 01:12:56,911
Thanks.

1343
01:13:00,832 --> 01:13:03,308
What do you know, kid.

1344
01:13:03,310 --> 01:13:04,463
I guess, I was wrong.

1345
01:13:05,924 --> 01:13:07,928
You just gotta
get some rest, Frank.

1346
01:13:07,930 --> 01:13:09,430
I gotta hand it to you, kid.

1347
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,733
Your old man was a rat bastard.

1348
01:13:15,344 --> 01:13:17,173
But you are all right.

1349
01:13:18,270 --> 01:13:19,493
You turned out okay.

1350
01:13:21,161 --> 01:13:23,278
You said it yourself.

1351
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:24,480
He should've been alone.

1352
01:13:25,330 --> 01:13:27,093
Nah, screw that.

1353
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:30,273
Nobody should be alone.

1354
01:13:32,250 --> 01:13:34,050
Anyone who says that it's a cop out.

1355
01:13:36,168 --> 01:13:38,018
It's easier just pushing people away.

1356
01:13:43,950 --> 01:13:47,388
Sounds like you're getting
soft in your old age, Frank.

1357
01:13:47,390 --> 01:13:48,283
Maybe.

1358
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:02,448
- Hi.
- Hi.

1359
01:14:02,450 --> 01:14:03,283
Can I come in?

1360
01:14:12,670 --> 01:14:13,503
I'm sorry.

1361
01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:18,116
I should've said that
sooner, but I didn't.

1362
01:14:18,118 --> 01:14:19,898
And it was just because I...

1363
01:14:19,900 --> 01:14:21,098
You were trying to help.

1364
01:14:21,100 --> 01:14:23,375
Yes, I don't know the
first thing about helping.

1365
01:14:23,377 --> 01:14:25,158
I don't know the first
thing helping someone

1366
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:26,233
especially like you.

1367
01:14:27,130 --> 01:14:30,338
To be truthful, I don't
know how you do what you do.

1368
01:14:30,340 --> 01:14:32,748
I wouldn't know a normal family dynamic

1369
01:14:32,750 --> 01:14:34,753
if it hit me in the face.

1370
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:38,518
And I came in here and just.

1371
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:41,123
Hey, you were trying to help.

1372
01:14:42,420 --> 01:14:43,820
I'm not very good at that.

1373
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:49,153
How's Frank?

1374
01:14:50,980 --> 01:14:52,213
Frank is.

1375
01:14:55,330 --> 01:14:56,958
I'm sorry.

1376
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,260
He is full of surprises.

1377
01:15:01,524 --> 01:15:04,608
I never thought there
was a difference between

1378
01:15:04,610 --> 01:15:05,788
wanting together be someone

1379
01:15:05,790 --> 01:15:08,588
and just not wanting to be alone.

1380
01:15:08,590 --> 01:15:10,198
I've been alone,

1381
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:13,213
and I don't know if it's
because I've wanted it

1382
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:18,563
or just because I just haven't
done anything about it.

1383
01:15:21,990 --> 01:15:23,978
Yeah, I know what you mean.

1384
01:15:23,980 --> 01:15:25,118
Mom.

1385
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:26,948
Oh, hi, Peter.

1386
01:15:26,950 --> 01:15:27,783
Hi.

1387
01:15:29,230 --> 01:15:30,980
Thanks for all the great stuff.

1388
01:15:30,982 --> 01:15:32,908
I'm glad you liked it.

1389
01:15:32,910 --> 01:15:34,513
I hope you put it to good use.

1390
01:15:35,890 --> 01:15:38,263
Come on I have the telescope all set up.

1391
01:15:39,480 --> 01:15:40,973
It's too bright out now.

1392
01:15:41,930 --> 01:15:44,353
But later we'll see lots of stars.

1393
01:15:45,464 --> 01:15:49,438
Do you know any of them,
any of the constellations?

1394
01:15:49,440 --> 01:15:50,668
I had a book when I was a kid

1395
01:15:50,670 --> 01:15:52,128
that had all the constellations in it.

1396
01:15:52,130 --> 01:15:54,428
And there was a list that
I'd cross them off with

1397
01:15:54,430 --> 01:15:55,680
whenever I identify them.

1398
01:15:56,570 --> 01:15:58,048
That's sounds awesome.

1399
01:15:58,050 --> 01:15:59,828
Okay, we'll get you the book.

1400
01:15:59,830 --> 01:16:01,438
I told you we'll take care of it.

1401
01:16:01,440 --> 01:16:02,937
I'll go get my camera.

1402
01:16:02,939 --> 01:16:04,558
Okay.

1403
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:06,238
Thank God she has not stopped bugging me

1404
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:08,288
about this telescope since she set it up.

1405
01:16:08,290 --> 01:16:10,108
She wants this chart.

1406
01:16:10,110 --> 01:16:11,998
She wants this book thanks to you.

1407
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:15,038
I mean, she basically wants
to survey the entire universe.

1408
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:16,093
Hobbies die hard.

1409
01:16:17,603 --> 01:16:19,068
You know a lot of people
think that you can't see

1410
01:16:19,070 --> 01:16:21,278
anything through a telescope
during the daytime.

1411
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:22,918
But that's not true.

1412
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:24,820
Even where we were in the time of day.

1413
01:16:27,088 --> 01:16:28,253
There you are, hello.

1414
01:16:29,950 --> 01:16:31,156
That's Venus.

1415
01:16:31,158 --> 01:16:32,488
What?

1416
01:16:32,490 --> 01:16:34,338
- No way?
- Yeah.

1417
01:16:34,340 --> 01:16:35,173
I can show you.

1418
01:16:36,500 --> 01:16:37,333
Okay.

1419
01:16:40,050 --> 01:16:41,568
Now do you see that little crescent

1420
01:16:41,570 --> 01:16:43,003
to the left of those clouds?

1421
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:45,351
Yeah.

1422
01:16:45,353 --> 01:16:46,184
Yes.

1423
01:16:46,186 --> 01:16:47,458
Yeah.

1424
01:16:47,460 --> 01:16:48,453
That is Venus.

1425
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:50,698
That looks like the moon.

1426
01:16:50,700 --> 01:16:52,228
No, no.

1427
01:16:52,230 --> 01:16:54,833
That to the right much
bigger that is the moon.

1428
01:16:56,228 --> 01:16:57,061
Huh?

1429
01:16:58,173 --> 01:16:59,870
- Really?
- Yeah, really.

1430
01:19:42,490 --> 01:19:47,490
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