[12:41] <T0ast3R__> I am going to college in august, but what if there are no nice girls there?
[12:42] <spacefeline> you are going to meet nice girls in college.
[12:43] <spacefeline> rule #1:  never use the b-word, even in jest.
[12:43] <pomifera> Girls aren't nice
[12:43] <pomifera> Just accept that
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[12:43] <T0ast3R__> Bastard?
[12:43] <T0ast3R__> Bullshit?
[12:43] <spacefeline> there are nice people and not nice ppl, this is not governed by gender
[12:44] <pomifera> It's not their fault
[12:44] <pomifera> And not inherent
[12:44] <pomifera> It's their culture
[12:44] <pomifera> The culture that made them into women
[12:44] <spacefeline> -alt, T0ast3R__
[12:44] <T0ast3R__> spacefeline: just ignore him
[12:44] <pomifera> Patriarchally driven superficiality
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[12:45] <pomifera> Go up to a guy with a weird interest and he'll be like oh okay what's this
[12:45] <pomifera> Go up to a girl and she'll be like wow so lame
[12:45] <pomifera> Because they care too much about keeping up appearances
[12:45] <outrageous> Men are controlled by women, to a great extent.  So blaming everything on the "patriarchy" is fairly short-sighted.
[12:46] <pomifera> Wat
[12:47] <pomifera> Women's culture consists of like how to look attractive to men
[12:47] <pomifera> How to be a good wife
[12:47] <pomifera> A homemaker
[12:47] <outrageous> It is complex
[12:47] <T0ast3R__> outrageous: just ignore him
[12:47] <pomifera> There are more men in science and careers where they have to use physical labor etc
[12:47] <outrageous> Not as simple as "Patriarchy!"
[12:47] <luckybunny> I remember the old days when if you died, you had to start the whole level again from scratch
[12:48] <pomifera> Because it's not "feminine"
[12:48] <pomifera> Women are told to be cute and polite etc
[12:48] <luckybunny> And even further back, when the concept of saving the game was writing down a long code that appeared upon level completion
[12:48] <pomifera> Men are allowed to actually explore their interests and experiment
[12:49] <luckybunny> Or before that, when there was no save at all, you either completed it from the beginning to the end or you didn't
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[12:49] <T0ast3R__> I saw a post today saying "women are naturally attracted to women and heterosexuality in women is a societal construct" lol
[12:49] <pomifera> If it's not patriarchy that caused that distinction then what did...?
[12:49] <pomifera> Only other option I can think is that its inherent
[12:49] <b00zi> luckybunny i remember that also but obviously that won't be happening IRL
[12:49] <outrageous> pomifera: I suppose it depends on which culture you live in, but where I live women have been able to do anything they wanted for quite some time yet they keep demanding more.
[12:49] <pomifera> And I find that offensive as a woman...
[12:50] <outrageous> pomifera: Well, as a woman you may not understand that what men do to live up to the expectations of women is quite a lot.
[12:51] <T0ast3R__> outrageous: people love being victims
[12:51] <luckybunny> that's a little bit laughable
[12:51] <luckybunny> men get size shamed a bit, but don't have to shave their whole bodies in order to not be an outcast
[12:52] <T0ast3R__> luckybunny: waaaaaaah
[12:52] <luckybunny> hell they don't even have to shave their faces